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Ghettoguru
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Ok so there's this cute redhead i approached on college campus Wednesday. She was sitting out in the beautiful open by herself and reading, how inviting.
Went up to her and commented on how beautiful her eyes are. The interaction went well, managed to have her neglecting her book. Left the set with a tight hug and a kiss on the cheek.

-The gal smokes (yuk),
-has a chinchilla (thought she meant enchilada),
-majors in english,
-works for security at a small casino (Osnap!) 6x a week i think. She works graveyard hours and if i remember right Sunday is generally her day off.
-Claims to be crazy, in a good way

Thursday text:
Me: Was great meeting you Miss with the hot green eyes
Liana: Yeah nice meeting you too
(was too lazy to continue texting/talking -.-)

Friday Afternoon Text:
Me: Winter or summer?
Liana: Winter
Me: That explains why you were wearing the tank top yesterday. It's ok when we go on strolls in this weather you can keep me warm
(No reply...FUCK.)
10PM, tried to call her. She texted me back saying she's at work, my dumbass forgot.

Saturday Text (this morning):
ME 11:07Am: Pssst!!
Liana 5:50Pm: Pssst what? I was snoozing just woke up a little bit ago
....TO Be continued
Ghettoguru
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My GOAL:
Set up a day 2 with her, maybe a pull back to her place?
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You didn't set a strong frame
That first text about the clothing or wtvr and her keeping you warm or something... that wasn't a good text. It's the kind of text that seems to obvious... idk how to expalin it. Not good.

I just had the best sex I've had in like a month.
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-.-...Yesterday i texted her
-.-...Yesterday i texted her around 1PM asking her what time she gets off class. She replied about 2 hours later saying "4pm".

Me: "Cool we're grabbing Chipotle at 4:32" (due to outside issues it's going to take me that long)
Her (3:58PM): "I'll hopefully be home by 4:32 because i have a mountain of homework to do"
My dumbass listened to my friend and sent this:
Me: "Well im already on my way and it's wet outside."

Epic fail, my text game is horrible...sounds like ill have to play some recovery.
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The issues you're facing are
The issues you're facing are all symptoms of a more general problem. You lack control of your own life in various areas and so your levels of self-trust, self-reliance, and therefore self-confidence are lower than they should be. This creates a dynamic where you don't have clear boundaries and friends and other outside forces at times step all over you, and you lack the general confidence in yourself to trust your OWN decisions on things.

I think you won't tell your friend to fuck off and not hit on girls you talk to because you probably rely on him to some degree for something. Is he your ride? Why don't you have your own ride. What life circumstances are holding you back.

Why don't you write down a few bullet points or give a quick summary in a separate thread your current life circumstances and we'll give you some tips on how to turn your shit around. Same thing I do for clients btw, so this isn't anything new or unusual. Cheers
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This is one of the best
This is one of the best pieces of general advice I have heard in a very, very long time. The combination of having your life in order + gonig out a lot is really powerful, in terms of being a natural.

Thanks for that.
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fuck that is good advice.
fuck that is good advice. deffo can relate as well
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Will do!
Will do!