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So this is something I've wanted to work on ever since seeing some of manwhore's text threads. I get this kinda of opening pretty commonly but I tend to not take advantage of it. Let me know where I should take this. Obviously, a date will be set up but I want to work on developing sexual undertones and I feel like this is a great opening for that.

She's in texas till the 27th so I have some time before we'll be able to meet up for a date, so I figured I would lay some sexual undertone shiz and then when it gets closer to her coming back set up a date.

Don't have my droid up and running yet, so here's the convo

Me: (10 minutes after meeting her)Answer your phone jerkface
(She calls me back and we talk for like 10 minutes)
Her: You're funny
Her: What's your last name
(Got hammered and went to a leperchaun bar crawl so I didn't respond until a couple days later)
Me: What are you up to
Her: Heading to dallas for a photoshoot, be back on the 27th
Her: Hey jerkface
Me: Hey, heading to the dominican for spring break
Her: WIthout me? I thought we had something jerkface
Me: Oh we do, I just needed some space babe. Don't worry, I won't do anything you wouldn't do
(cancelled my service so don't know if she texted me at all while I was there, these are from when I got back)
Her: How was the dominican
Me: It was awesome, I kept my promise I didn't do anything you wouldn't have done
Her: So, lots of booze and sex?
Me: Yeah, I like both of those but don't think that means you can just take advantage of me. I'm not that easy pumpkn
Her: Reall? Not that easy? What does a lady have to do then? (She sent me this text this morning, I've been busy so I haven't gotten around to responding)
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It depends, have you fucked
It depends, have you fucked this girl before?
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Nope
No I haven't. Met her during some daygame bout 2.5 weeks ago. Left for spring break a couple days after.
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Well if you came over in hot
Well if you came over in hot high heels and made me a sandwich well I guess I'd have to oblige you
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That. Is. Gold.

Love how it mantains the frame but doesn't do it in a super obnoxious way. Like it doesn't come across as like stupid cocky, even though it is. And it def. sets the groundwork for some serious sexual undertones ALL WHILE progressing the conversation towards a meetup. Love it man.

Just so I can kinda see what the difference is.... what would you have recommended if I had already fucked her?

Oh and I absolutely just texted her that word for fucking word.
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I say this everytime
I say this everytime but man, it's very cool that you give such personalized feedback on such a regular basis. I can tangibly see my text game getting better from when I first started using this thread like 1-2 months ago. I'm much more playful in my texts which was something I wanted to work on from the beginning and I'm starting to see frames a little more (something I need to also work on in my in-person game... I tend to just go with the flow, which obviously is just part of my personality but it can't hurt to see the angles a little more)

Appreciate your help man. Keep it up. I'm sure I'll run into you if I'm ever in vegas.
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Lol yes that's what I expect.
Lol yes that's what I expect. Actually for a coach it can be quite aggravating when you give someone specialized instructions and they just slightly tweak it and invariably end up ruining it without realizing. Text game is definitely an art, but I'd even say in some ways it's an exact science as well.

If you'd banged her already I probably would have started framing kinkier shit and maybe started framing a 3some.
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would you say
would you say that in-person game is also an exact science?

Is the super technical stuff something I should look into for in-person game or is it not as necessary, and if it is important, is it best to go about it in small doses... for example, take one small technical aspect and focus on that for like 6 months and then move to the next? Just because, for me, I feel like I don't have the science part of it down yet and one of my fears is that if I go into the super technical, science part of it, it will fuck with my head and for me, sorta be like "thinking about walking"...

I mean, that's part of why I critique other people's stuff on here, because it gives me a chane to work on that technical//sciency party of this stuff and to see if I'm hitting on the right points and really understanding what I need to be understanding.


I wanna make moves.
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haha funny- just read that
haha funny- just read that last post I made- Guess I got my answer : )

Anyway-She never responded, it's been like almost two weeks. lmao so yeah:

Me: I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won't let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?

I actually just remembered that I had this girl's numba. Solid. Really surprisd she didn't text me back. Guess she has a lot going on.

Currently texting all stale numbers before I go out tonight. Oh gawwwwd
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When Girls Play It Real
Damn. This is a breath of fresh air compared to the bullshit I was dealing with this weekend. I don't know why she didn't respond to the last text, prob was just busy or something.

That being said- her simplicity did make me feel kinda dumb lmao

Me: I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won't let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?

Her: Then plan a date with me.... Duh!!!

lmao- I actually laughed when I saw this. Rare to find a good looking girl who is laid back. Finally got a confident one.
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Ok really think about this..
Ok really think about this.. everything seems to be good here except for what major issue..
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cherish?
cherish?
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LMFAO- I GOT IT! but i did
Didn't respond yet
Her: Yes?

LMFAO- I GOT IT! but i did have to think about it for like 1 minute. Lesson Learned: When responding to texts, take one second to pause and take an OBJECTIVE view of what's happening. God damn, manwhore, you're good. You know I wouldn't have caught that if you didn't say anything.

SHE WANTS A DATE!! sooo now the question is, yeah she's cool- is invested and wants to meet up, but how do I take her out of her socially constructed reality and into MINE, so that she shows up at the front door in a tshirt and thong wanting to fuck, instead of taking her to an expensive restaurant, buying her a bottle of dom perignon and getting a kiss on the cheek and a pat on the head.

LMAO- if I'm wrong than durrr

And fuck no this isn't my cherish- I have such a deep bond with my cherish it's stupid man. I can fuck that girl whenever the hell I want. Love her.
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I appreciate you respecting
I appreciate you respecting me enough to let me think this one through. It's how lessons are learned. Good shit.

lmao and seriously there's no way I'm wrong but if I am... DURRRRRRR
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The only thing that I could
The only thing that I could pick up was that she's been leading this whole convo. Except for when you started that part up about you not being that easy, however you didn't follow through on that. Doesn't really match the tone to the other text message exchanges that you have up, where your setting and managing the expectations of what's gonna happen.
Imo... tryna see if i'm reading this right
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POSSIBLY... although, you
POSSIBLY... although, you have to recognize there is a difference between "leading" and "pulling"... she's all pull for the msot part (except the last text was pretty solid on her part) but even after that she sends a "yeah?" I don't think she's leading... honestly, it's been more of me just not giving a fuck.

I think what I saw is the right answer. But maybe you're right. haha, we shall wait for the pro to answer.

Actually- I am pretty firm about her not being the one leading.... For the most part I've been the one leading and she's just reacting to the frame I'm constructing. The last text she sent was solid though. Maybe I'm not being objective here, but we'll see.
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You got it exactly right.
You got it exactly right.
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Lmao I love how you had
Lmao I love how you had natural doubts but still stuck with it fucking hilarious
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Word. Live and learn.
Word. Live and learn.
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SWAG baby. On the real
SWAG baby.

On the real though: Like how much of a fag would i have been if I had come on here just being like, "Oh Fuck you man, you don't know what you're talking about. It's obviously what I said blah blah blah stick a dildo up my ass and finger me". I hate that shit. Understand it but really am repulsed by it.

So anyway- regardless of all that I probably am gonna have to play catchup cause I was a dumbshit and got drunk tonight (lol still have to go meetup with a bunch of peeps in like an hour).

Sent her a response saying:

Me: This weekend. Your place. I'll bring the beer. You bring your giraffe, throw something sexy on and pick a good movie. I'll try and find my bear suit.

Didn't see this till I got back. Bleh- not sure if I was supposed to basically just ignore- cut threads and then come back to this later after some sexual tension was built... But didn't really consciously recognize the issue until I saw your post. Sent this about 30 mintues ago.

Thoughts?
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Id say thats quite the text
Id say thats quite the text message lol. See how she responds and go from there. That definitely cuts thru any rose covered walk thru the meadow nonsense
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And when you say this is,
And when you say this is, "Quite the text message"... was it a lil over the top? How would you have gone?
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