how to frame a relationship into a booty call
Mon, 05/21/2012 - 11:09
I hit it first time i met her at my party. Hung out with her once and got a blowie. She wasnt downzo and isnt really keen to the idea of being a late night booty call. Shes downzo to hang whenever, she just doesnt like being hit up at 2am. I figure i just need to out a little work in so she doesnt feel like a slut when i hit her up. Only probs is i wanna take the shortest avenue to making her my slampiece. She knows i dont want a relationship either.
Me: Hey whats up
sahrawrity - 28 mins later: Hii just going to get sushi! Youu
Me - 18 mins later: Gym with jeremy. Baked salmon rolls are so good.
sahrawrity - 10 mins later: Oh I've never had it
Me - 23 mins later: Def try it. Hey, jeremy and taylor are going to the jacuzzi later. We should go, ya?
sahrawrity - 15 mins later: Yaa I'm down what time?
Me - 3 mins later: K cool. 830 work?
sahrawrity - 4 mins later: Haha I mean I guess I could pencil you guys in
Me - 1 hr 13 mins later: Cool. Wanna pick us up from vdc?
sahrawrity - 10 mins later: Yeah I'll text you when I leave
Me - 1 week 1 day later: Hey whats up
sahrawrity - 1 min later: I like how you hit me up so late at night. Lol
Me - 2 mins later: Eh whatevs. Jeremy just called me and it reminded me of you
sahrawrity: Lawls.
Me: Just being honest.
sahrawrity: I don't appreciate it
Me - 1 min later: Ya i know. But i dont think you should be offended.
Me: Just saying hi.
Me: Hey whats up
sahrawrity - 28 mins later: Hii just going to get sushi! Youu
Me - 18 mins later: Gym with jeremy. Baked salmon rolls are so good.
sahrawrity - 10 mins later: Oh I've never had it
Me - 23 mins later: Def try it. Hey, jeremy and taylor are going to the jacuzzi later. We should go, ya?
sahrawrity - 15 mins later: Yaa I'm down what time?
Me - 3 mins later: K cool. 830 work?
sahrawrity - 4 mins later: Haha I mean I guess I could pencil you guys in
Me - 1 hr 13 mins later: Cool. Wanna pick us up from vdc?
sahrawrity - 10 mins later: Yeah I'll text you when I leave
Me - 1 week 1 day later: Hey whats up
sahrawrity - 1 min later: I like how you hit me up so late at night. Lol
Me - 2 mins later: Eh whatevs. Jeremy just called me and it reminded me of you
sahrawrity: Lawls.
Me: Just being honest.
sahrawrity: I don't appreciate it
Me - 1 min later: Ya i know. But i dont think you should be offended.
Me: Just saying hi.
Mon, 05/21/2012 - 11:42
#1
Just being honest?
Just being honest?
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Mon, 05/21/2012 - 11:57
#2
Was tryna down play that i
Was tryna down play that i was trying to hit it. So made it seem like i thought of her because my friend called me qfter he smashed her good friend at their sorority house.
Mon, 05/21/2012 - 11:59
#3
Ya it had what we call the
Ya it had what we call the "opposite" effect, lol. This is an issue that's come up repeatedly on our forum. Girls start throwing out super negative emotional momentum, e.g. an emotional path that SUCKS, and guys are just following right along with it. Got to steer it in a better direction next time.
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Mon, 05/21/2012 - 12:08
#4
Ya she knew i was full of
Ya she knew i was full of shit lol. Gotcha, maneveur it in a subtle way so where she knows whats going down implicitly. I woulda pushed for the meet up, but i had another bird. Now when i do push for the meet up late night how do i manage objections? Usually any fuck buddies i just say lets chill and were on the same page.
Mon, 05/21/2012 - 16:13
#5
This and your other thread
This and your other thread are very similar. You're letting the girl dictate what you say.
Idk if you read the thread I have up where I get that girl to pick me up an hour away from her house... but at one point she goes, "You live an hour away!" and it's like, I couldn't been like, "OMG I'm sorry, I had no clue" cause I had completely lied to her before about being a lot closer... but instead I just took that and made it a positive... you gotta do that type of thing man. Don't take their bate... stay in your frame
Idk if you read the thread I have up where I get that girl to pick me up an hour away from her house... but at one point she goes, "You live an hour away!" and it's like, I couldn't been like, "OMG I'm sorry, I had no clue" cause I had completely lied to her before about being a lot closer... but instead I just took that and made it a positive... you gotta do that type of thing man. Don't take their bate... stay in your frame
Mon, 05/21/2012 - 19:47
#6
Now I see that negative path
Now I see that negative path more clearly. You need to have te stronger frame and lead the conversation in the correct direction.
Mon, 05/21/2012 - 21:09
#7
K cool, ill check out your
K cool, ill check out your thread buddha. Id rather see it applied than in the abstract, makes it much easier to understand.
Mon, 05/21/2012 - 21:46
#8
Alright, got a feel for it
Alright, got a feel for it from your thread. Ill probably give it a shot thursday night. Ill keep you guys posted.