Text Messaging Tips To Build Momentum AFTER Successful Date

Quick background: Graduated from college last year, broke up with ex in November, so I have been only dating in the "real world" since then. I meet girls both online and offline, but surprisingly have met the best girls online.

Back in college, I almost never got flaked on because I saw those girls everyday. No matter what came up in their lives or what other dudes they ran into, I could suck them back in with my presence.

Since dating in the real world, however, I have been flaked on a lot. The usual story is that I'll meet up with a girl on a date and things will go really well- it always ends with some hardcore escalation. She's always excited at the end and is genuinely enthusiastic about meeting up with me again.

But this is the real world in a big city (Austin). I can only communicate with her over text and have to schedule meetups, unlike college. I've been getting a lot of flake issues- less enthusiastic, eventually non-responsive text messages or flat out not showing up on meetups. What's really surprised me is when this happens with girls whom I have had sex with multiple times (performance is not the issue). It has been frustrating for me to meet these cool girls, hit it off with them great, and then suddenly get cut off.

I think my weakness is my text game. While I am really good at texting before the meetup, I seem to be doing something wrong afterwards where I am unable to sustain the momentum from the meetup that we had. This is where I am interested in your experience.

How to you use text messaging to sustain the momentum after a successful date? Do you text frequently or not-so-frequently? Do you keep the texts purely sexual? How do you respond when she becomes non-responsive (besides nexting)? Do you frame meeting up again in a certain way?

Thank you for your response.

-Caligula