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hkmt
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I met this chick on the train got her number then

Me: Het its hkmt's number, save it he might change your life...

2 days after

Me: its always good to have some lunch from M&S, I guess Im kinda addicted to delicious things... :) Are you a good chef by the way?

3 days later

Me: Hey you!! Im partying in Richmond tonight. You should join...
Her: Heyyy! Sorry I have text back yet, I ve been so so busy with work and Im not the best with my phone! I will be also for st. patricks day! Where are you planning to heading?
ME: Hitting the pubs on the riverside around 8pm

after 4 hours

Me: Come to riverside at 9pm.
Her: Im staying in now! none of my girls are coming out, have a good one though!
Me: Come to Richmond we will party together.I will take you from the station (she lives somewhere outside the town)
Her: Im just gonna have a night in sorry hun! Definetely next time!
ME: So you can't party without your friends... Fair enough :) have a evening then.

1 week after

Me: Hey girl!! any plans for the weekend?

No response

I don't know why but I guess I am the worst person on text game. Just in the last 2 months nearly numbers have flaked... My main problem is to be initiating a convo and being playful. Please help...
Manwhore
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Yes your texting is rather
Yes your texting is rather unfortunate. Youre pursuing these girls too much and not showing your side of things. You need a basic texting grammar book its somewhat difficult to know where to begin here mate.

Its almost like your texting completely lacks a personality, and it definitely lacks a dick, e.g. maleness. That "I guess Im addicted to allergic things...:)" is pure flowerboy. There are tons of examples of text convos out there have you read any?
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Buddhagames
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Don't use so many exclamation points. It's annoying
I'm kidding, sort of.

Let's go through a couple of your texts.

Me: Het its hkmt's number, save it he might change your life...
I've seen you use this in a couple posts as your initial text. Use something else, this comes across super try-hard and gamey imo.
Even just, "Hey babe- hkmt" would probably be better

Me: its always good to have some lunch from M&S, I guess Im kinda addicted to delicious things... :) Are you a good chef by the way?
The part where you talk about being addicted to delivious things is weird man. Once again, it's just really obvious... Manwhore made a comment in a thread I had about "frames" in text game and how you don't want to make the frame obvious... like you want the frame to be established but for it to be sorta under the radar so that it's not combative or try-hard or anything like that. There are WAY better ways to establish a sexual undertone... A lot of examples on this forum actually.

Hey girl!!
I don't like this cause you come across like some kind of valley girl. Idk man, are you this hyper in person? Just express yourself, I doubt you were THIS stoked to say hey to her and if you were, well, that's a separate issue : )

Her: Im staying in now! none of my girls are coming out, have a good one though!
Me: Come to Richmond we will party together.I will take you from the station (she lives somewhere outside the town)
Horrible timing. She basically just told you that she's not hanging out with you. Like even on a high note this is a tough one to pull off without a lot of rapport beforehand but I mean, from your text this was just IMPOSSIBLE.

I know for me, I actually read through pretty much every text convo on this forum and read all of manwhore's advice that he gives to everyone. I critique other people's texts in order to gain insight into my own. I also read a lot of field reports (working my way through a lot of manwhore's right now)... The point of all of this is just to see how shit is done. Read enough of it and it slowly just starts to be internalzied. Recently, I actually came up with a text that saved an entire convo for me, directly as a result of reading manwhore's field reports.

Hope this helps man. Good luck, you're gonna be killing it in no time if you work at it.
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