foreign student

This girl is wide open for hanging out. Whatever happened with her? She's easy pickens

Never closed. Things kinda fizzled out between her and i. But yea, shes always down to chill.
There was some hesitance from her when we kissed. Took like 10 tries while we were dancing
At a party. Like she'd pull back while giggling then we would dance some more before it
Went down. Mainly my fault for being unclear with intent.
Probs will hit her up tho, shes usually down to chill.

Hit her up. Keep trying. Persistence.

Me: Hey whats up
divagirl - 3 mins later: Heyy! Im up early getting some work done
Me: I feel ya. Im running on little sleep. Midterm in 10. You going tonight?
divagirl - 1 min later: Yea im doing my part for dg, playing sober sis loll
divagirl: Good luck on the midterm
Me: Sucks. Well now you can take care of me.... Definitely drinking after my midterm. Thanks!
divagirl - 1 min later: Ew no handle yourself
Me - 1 min later: Nope lpl
Me: Lol*
divagirl - 1 min later: Everyone better handle themselves today cause I realllllly didnt just sign up t get thrown up on
Me - 1 hr 33 mins later: Totally throwing up
Me: .... On you
divagirl - 3 mins later: Ill get revenge, thats all
Me - 4 mins later: You can try, but im eating maddd greasy food and hot cheetos before i drink... So gl!
divagirl - 3 mins later: Im not playing this game, I REFUSE
Me - 4 mins later: Hahahahahaha
divagirl - 1 min later: :/Iwantto drink
divagirl - 1 min later: Dude I havent been to a venue party since early/mid fall
Me - 7 mins later: Lets drink then. Fuckkkk it
Me: I drink when im on risk
divagirl - 1 min later: Ill drink in private dont tell hahaa
Me - 2 mins later: Binge drink early so the buzz fades away
divagirl - 1 min later: That doesnt make since, you want the buzz to start when there not be wearing down as you get off the bus
divagirl: Oh youre joking..
Me - 11 mins later: No no. Binge drink heavy so your buzz rises and by the time youre at the venue youre drunk
Me: Then sober by the time its over.
divagirl - 1 min later: Terrible advice Ruben, goodbye im studying for my middie in less than an hour!
Me - 13 mins later: You say terrible, i say intelligent. Gl!
Me - 4 hrs 1 min later: Im done with midterms! Howd yours go?
divagirl - 30 mins later: More stress in the last five mins than ive had in my whole uci career, I nearly forgot to do one of four problems.. going to go work it off now:)
Me - 2 hrs 52 mins later: Nice. Im drinking my problems away ;D
Me - 16 hrs 20 mins later: I have such a gnarley hangover
divagirl - 5 mins later: I cant figure out if im still drunk, good on the hangover front though
Me - 4 mins later: Youre def not drunk you diva. Least you arent hungover. Feels like someone is slamming a sledge hammer into my skull
divagirl: Take some pills
Me: I did. Waiting on them to kick in lol
divagirl - 1 min later: Then go back to sleep, wake up, and itll all be fine
Me: Yes mother
divagirl - 1 min later: Thats what I thought
Me - 1 min later: Im obvi the rebellious kid tho. Dont really follow directions well
Me - 3 days 8 hrs later: Hey whats up
divagirl - 2 mins later: Putting in some lib time
divagirl - 43 mins later: I dont like the way you text, its useless
Me: Hahaha i was just about to text you back. Nice.
Me: Do you have midterms still?
divagirl: Tues and weds yea
Me: Ouch. What classes
divagirl: Mgmt1, math4 :///
Me - 1 min later: Shiiiieet. That sucks.
Me: Are you done after that?
divagirl - 1 min later: Yea
Me: Sick. Rage thurss then.
divagirl: Im raging weds:), whats thurs?
Me - 2 mins later: 28th st. Party
divagirl - 1 min later: And is this the purpose of you texting me? loll
Me - 1 min later: Well really i wanted to have a good conversation.
divagirl: Oh. Ok then. I apologize im on edge and cant provide that now
Me - 1 min later: All good, understandable. I'm sure youll kill your midterms and wednesday will be here before you know it.
divagirl - 2 mins later: Thanks boo
Me - 20 hrs 56 mins later: Howd first midterm go
Me - 1 day 2 hrs later: Celebrating my lil bro being back in the country, you should come tonight!
divagirl - 11 mins later: Im alreay raginggg
Me: I figured as much
Me - 2 mins later: Have fun
divagirl - 15 hrs 25 mins later: Sorry im spotty with my phone, ill give you an update! First middie 97.5% second middie 52%..
Me - 3 hrs 4 mins later: All good, no worries. Congrats on 97.5. Hopefully second one has a good curve!
Me - 1 week later: Hey whats up
divagirl - 6 mins later: Hii not much
Me - 16 mins later: Come hang at the camino pool
divagirl - 6 mins later: I have class at 2!
Me - 7 mins later: Well that sucks.
divagirl - 1 day later: Hanging out
Me - 12 mins later: Fun. Im chilling with my lb. Im having a party tonight for my roommates bday, you should come.
divagirl - 1 min later: Lb? Ill see what I can do, didnt plan on going out tonight though
Me: Lil bro, duuh. Make it happen, fun times tonight.
divagirl - 3 weeks 4 days later: Taking finals my brother. What can I do you for?
Me - 7 hrs 19 mins later: Well that sucks. When you done?
divagirl - 2 mins later: Tmrw afternoon, so sad the lib closes at 11pm tonight
Me - 10 mins later: Damn. That sucks. Kill it so you can day rageee
divagirl - 1 min later: Gahh that sounds so fun, are you day raging? Im not done till 3.30
Me: Ya i am. Just gotta turn in some application at noon and then dayraging.
divagirl: Your place or newps
Me: Nups
divagirl - 2 weeks 1 day later: I'm still in bed hung over from past night, idk what to do/take/what food I'm actually able to eat
Me - 29 mins later: Poor widdle bwaby. Eat some pasta.
divagirl - 1 min later: I tried eating ramen type noodles an hour ago and I got through 2 bites and couldn't hang
Me - 2 mins later: Ouch. Last night mustve been a good night.
divagirl - 5 mins later: I'm trying popcorn
Me - 1 hr 21 mins later: Dunno if popcorn is good. Just force yourself to eat + gatorade.
divagirl - 18 mins later: Yea it came back up
Me - 4 mins later: Pobresita. What the hell did you drink to get you that hungover?
divagirl - 5 mins later: Max six shots of vodka that have been done easily before I don't know whats wrong with me
divagirl - 4 weeks later: Are you roommates with Prague
Me: Parag, ya.pr
Me: Parag, ya. *
divagirl: My apologies:)
Me: Yea, i forgive you.
divagirl - 1 week 3 days later: Thanks boo
Me - 4 mins later: Np pumpkin
divagirl - 1 day 1 hr later: Lib doing hw then night class at 7. What's up with you. I did the most amazing thing
divagirl: today!
Me - 5 mins later: Ouch. Night classes on thurs are a drag. You save a cat? Just killed my midterm, just smoking hookah with friends
divagirl - 5 mins later: Hellllsa fun. So I went to morning class, then my next class where I just sat and got done a bunch of work for other stuff. Then went to a conference with
divagirl: black men in suits--my fav! Also free food. Then I left early to see the John Wayne K9 bomb squad dog show for my friends counterterrorism class. Then bought a
divagirl: dress on ring road, went to work, again free food! Lib time, going to watch a movie at the Edwards cinema to class but I want to try and sign in and then leave
divagirl: to go to the Uci queer drag show!
divagirl: Fuck yea A+ don't you thing?
Me - 18 mins later: Busy day for you. Free food is the key to college students hearts. Thats pretty badass. Lol uci is becoming more liberal.
Me: Yea, i have 105% in that class. No big deal ;b
Me - 11 mins later: What you up to tonight after your drag show
divagirl - 17 mins later: Idk but I know you're having a party
Me - 22 mins later: Yeaa. Party in camino. I was goiiing to get to that eventually.
Me: You beat me to it.
divagirl - 2 mins later: Hehehe
Me - 3 mins later: But yes, you should come tonight. :D
divagirl: I'll see if any of my besties are down
Me - 1 hr 13 mins later: Sounds good. Its at 31506 in camino
divagirl - 17 hrs 30 mins later: Get lucky last night?
Me - 3 mins later: Huh whats that
divagirl: Wait....what?
Me - 1 min later: Dunno what getting lucky is :B
Me - 3 mins later: How was your night tho
divagirl - 32 mins later: Good good met new bros played bp
Me - 1 min later: Dope. I got hammered. Those beer bongs snuck up on me.
Me: Who'd you meet that you didnt know before
divagirl - 1 min later: Yea man two beers is tough..
divagirl: Kevin Rojean Parsam whos not a bro
Me: I'm glad youre thoroughly impressee ;B
Me: Kevins my roommate lol. How have you not met him
Me: Impressed*
divagirl - 1 min later: I know him more now he's cool. What is that face buck teeth?
Me - 9 mins later: Supposed to be lower case.
;b ... Tongue sticking out.
divagirl - 2 mins later: Hahaa oh
Me: Cheeky, like you
divagirl - 2 mins later: Youre a little feisty too you know
Me - 1 hr 48 mins later: Never said i wasnt. ;b
divagirl - 26 mins later: So how was the rest of your night;p
divagirl - 18 mins later: Or :{
divagirl - 9 mins later: Wait you're a virgin or no, you confused me
Me - 2 hrs 49 mins later: My bad, was playing back to back softball games. Rest of my night was well. Got tipsy with good company and no drama.
Me: Totally a virgin ;)
divagirl - 28 mins later: Not from what I hear!!
Me - 4 mins later: Haha and what is it that you hear
divagirl - 2 hrs 51 mins later: Hah I'm just playing, I really don't know if you are or not
Me - 35 mins later: I know. Just wanted to call your bluff. :)
Me - 1 day 14 hrs later: Hey whats up
divagirl - 3 mins later: I'm working on a project-- thinking of an a product/service and adjusting it to be environmentally friendly, with economic and social
divagirl: pluses
Me - 3 mins later: Nice. Maybe save the world with your project. Any ideas yet?
divagirl - 1 min later: Stupid ones like bringing back cloth diapers, I keep on falling aslee
divagirl: P
Me - 18 mins later: Haha you bum. What are your plans for next saturday?
divagirl - 1 hr later: Hah idk

Was gonna invite her to a dodger game, but i got some other bird lined up. Much hotter. Ill get arohnd ti this one tho.

Oh wow bud, this is all fucked up. In so many ways. Damn, homy. You gotta work on your texting... a lot.


Me: I drink when im on risk

divagirl - 43 mins later: I dont like the way you text, its useless

Me - 1 min later: Well really i wanted to have a good conversation.
Me - 20 hrs 56 mins later: Howd first midterm go
Me: I figured as much
Me - 16 mins later: Come hang at the camino pool
Me: Lil bro, duuh. Make it happen, fun times tonight.
Me: Nups
Me - 11 mins later: What you up to tonight after your drag show (This wasn’t bad… just saying IS THIS A DRAG QUEEEN??! EWWW)
divagirl - 9 mins later: Wait you're a virgin or no, you confused me (hahahahhahha)

Those were all the moments where shit went wrong in one way or the other. Homy- you're sending the worst signals to this girl lmao... you literally are sending signals that make her think your a virgin boy who can't take car of himself and drinks to ease the pain...

Be a man and take charge of this. Also- you keep inviting her over to shit in the ExACT same way EVERY TIME. You don't deviate at all and she keeps saying no... she will never meet up with you unless you switch it up and turn it on man. This needs a lot of work.

ALSO- You back down at the slightest hint of resistence... like she throws some negative emotion shit at you and you just COMPLETELY take the bate and basically back down from what you were saying and you're like, "nonono i didn't mean that, im sorry.. I didn't mean to offend you"... You gotta take ownership of the shit you say, for better or worse.

If you continue to do what you've always done you'll continue to get what you always have.

(which is not fucking her)

I felt like I was reading the same conversation over and over. You didnt establish man to woman. Was more like two girlfriends talking. You keep inviting her to parties where if she does show up she will be sucking some other guy's dick infront of you instead of getting to see her 1 on 1.

But this is good man. keep doing this and keep posting shit. You're gonna learn, real fast.

Didn't mean to be harsh earlier... just tryna help you see what's up.

Shouldve provided a context for everything so it would make more sense. Dont really feel like
Providing one for everything but shes seen me do work and has seen me leave with girls.
She saw me leave with one thursday, hence why she texted me " how was the rest of your night ;p ". Since she had gotten
Butthurt that i wasnt paying her attention. " i see howit is.... No no its fine, your doing your thing.
I approve " mean while she would just be on it. Try to full on hug me, blow kisses att me, etc. Other girl was hotter, didnt want to make ak

Move on foreign at the time. My game revolves around sarcasm. I also like fucking around and
Saying shit to girls to see if theyre gullible enough to believe me. That being said, a lot of advice still
Applies. I have a lot of useless texts where its just fluff fluff fluff or the conversation just doesnt go anywhere.

I do lack patience with this birdy tho. Hahaha and no shes not a drag.

Me: Dj/freefood at camino pool. Cruise through
divagirl - 4 hrs 59 mins later: Thanks for that:)
Me - 7 mins later: Yea,was sick. You missed out. :)
divagirl - 1 min later: Don't say that:( I was working on campus making 100buttons with a hand held button
divagirl: press
Me - 11 hrs 33 mins later: Well, was the truth. What were the buttons for
divagirl - 3 mins later: My work is hosting a fair well dinner for the international students so we made them a bunch of Uci buttons and
divagirl: such
Me - 20 mins later: Thats chill. Hook me up with some free grub haha
divagirl - 9 mins later: Haha it's at Koba grill!
Me: Sneak me a plate ;)
divagirl: I'll try my best bio
divagirl: Boo*
Me - 1 min later: Thanks beb. :) what time is it?
divagirl - 17 mins later: 5.30 Thursday
divagirl - 2 days 5 hrs later: Yea Koba food was disgustingly interesting. You wouldn't have liked it of I brought it to
divagirl: you,truss
divagirl: *trust
Me - 33 mins later: Disgustingly interesting? ... Sounds like it was worth tasting - even if it was terrible.
divagirl - 1 min later: Hm I failed you then
Me - 2 mins later: You can make it up to me by making me a reuben sandwich.
divagirl - 1 min later: O I see what you did there;)
Me - 2 mins later: I dont know what youre talking about ;)
divagirl - 12 mins later: Any more camino food to pr
divagirl: Ovide
Me: No, but im going to camino pool to chill if wanna join us.
divagirl - 1 min later: Sure after my drag show ends in 20
Me - 1 min later: Coo, sounds good. Youre welcome to bring some of your sister if ya want.
divagirl: Maybs I'll talk to people
divagirl - 2 mins later: Who's all going of your bros
Me - 2 mins later: Me shelbs and alo
divagirl - 11 mins later: K I might now show up
divagirl: *not
Me: Why not? Lol
divagirl - 3 mins later: I asked my roommate, she said no. I don't care for alo. And I only want the jacuzzi but dirty things happened in there just last
divagirl: night
Me - 1 min later: You dont like alo? Lol.
divagirl: Hahaha i don't care for him no
Me - 1 hr 47 mins later: Lol. Damnit alo. What he do to tick you off
divagirl - 5 mins later: Um get drunk..
Me: Oh spring gala?
divagirl - 2 mins later: Yes
divagirl: How'd you guess lol
Me - 1 min later: You only hinted at it
divagirl - 6 mins later: No I didn't lol could have been songfest, could have been formal
Me - 13 mins later: Lol jeez be nice
divagirl - 11 mins later: You asked!
Me: Alo wont be there.
divagirl: Scoreeeee
divagirl: Hahaha I don't hate him or point him out, three guys was just a small enough group for him to be
divagirl: noticeable:P
Me - 14 mins later: Hahahaha
divagirl - 42 mins later: Are a lot of people there
Me - 3 mins later: Nah its just mellow. Ppl barely getting there.
divagirl - 1 min later: Text me when it's poppin:)
Me: Lol just come chill punk
divagirl - 1 min later: Alrighty getting dressed
Me: Kk sounds good

So long story short i hooked up with her last night. Spent night at her place, but didnt close :( ... Ill give a full report when im not hungover.

P.S. spending the night at a sorority house is badass.
Edit: mass text is missing that says " party in camino 315xx, you should cruise out :D " right before the alos not coming text. She comes to the party and her and i are just hanging out. She came with her roommate whose also pretty cute. Just shoot the shit with her with some light flirting. Eventually i start getting hammered drinking with her. She def isnt on my level in drunkenness - play couple games of kings cup, just really chilling with some light flirting. We get back in a convo one on one and she drops that she didnt go to some rival frats formal because she just broke up with her bf. I had heard she had a bf but she seemed way flirty with me still, so i knew it was on. It explains why she only pecked me that night months ago. Tell her lets go outside - she objects and says its cold. Ask a bro to let me borrow a sweater for her. Problem solved. Roll outside, chat, then begin hugging. Hugging turns to cuddling and cuddling turns to me trying to make out - get denied. Not phased i know shes down. Probably hesitant because she just broke up with her bf. She kisses my forehead, keep going for make out. She denies. She tells me shes not comfortable etc habdle objections with " nah its chill. Youre fine. Not gonna hurt you ... I dont bite " ... Finnaaaaally make out. Straddling me on chair, hooking up. Ppl start walking by lol. Awkward. Try to get her to come to my place - she says nah. Her roomie wants to leave, i go in for good bye hug. She says " arent you gonna walk us to the house? " maybe shes down after all. Walk her and then she says sorry my roommate needs sleep. Tell her we can chill in living room downstairs, she agrees. Kick it in living room, hook up some more. She wont let me finger or suck the tatas but will let me grope her ass. Shes also wearing like a gstring but a lil thicker so i was confused. Def was persistent as hell, but chill. Went to her room and crashed at 7am. Left house around noon.

Me - 1 day later: Hey what you up to
divagirl - 4 mins later: Newps:)
Me - 9 mins later: Party animal. I just woke up from a nap, ha.
Me - 3 hrs 23 mins later: 230am and still that much alcohol left undrank .... I thought you lived that rockstar lifestyle. ;) .. where are you??
divagirl - 2 mins later: Hahaha lame. Av
Me - 4 mins later: Just a little bit. ;b ... You up to hang out for a bit?
divagirl - 10 mins later: I'm hanging out with friend right now watching tv
Me - 8 mins later: All good. I know how you girls need to gossip a bit about the night out. ;)
divagirl - 2 mins later: Yea cause I'm sure that's what you sig nus are all about
Me - 3 mins later: Preferably when im sober. Much too difficult to gossip drunk.
divagirl - 2 mins later: Yea okay, I'm hungry:(
Me - 1 min later: Make some more of those dank tacos with salsa we had last night / this morning.
divagirl - 1 min later: Those tacos were terrible without meat!!
Me - 2 mins later: Oh.... Awkward. Lol. Late night trip to a fastfood spot.
divagirl - 5 mins later: I mean it's either that or go to sleep and ignore it
divagirl - 22 hrs 45 mins later: So eh you've really been trying to get with me since nu stock loll
Me - 4 mins later: Is it hard to believe? Lol.
divagirl - 1 min later: Hah well it's hard to believe you didn't try any harder
Me - 2 mins later: Yea, a lot of stuff came up in between. And ya, oops on me not making a move a lot sooner..
Me - 2 mins later: Our exchange was a poor choice in timing to make a move lol
divagirl - 1 min later: You didn't know that
Me - 1 min later: Yea, i know. I was just kinda puzzled. It didnt click ehy you denied me till i found out you had a bf months later. Lol.
Me - 1 min later: Why*
divagirl - 2 mins later: I didnt deny you just cause I had a bf. Dancing with didn't mean I was down to make out with you, things just lined up
divagirl: sat
Me - 3 mins later: It wasnt the dancing. Really? It never crossed your mind?
Me: When you were single
divagirl - 3 mins later: No, were friends
divagirl - 1 min later: I didn't really think any more of it, odd approach
Me: Oh lol. What you doing up this late anyway
divagirl - 1 min later: Had coffee earlier, watching multiple glee episodes
Me - 1 min later: Yea, was kindve a gung-ho drunken approach at exchange. Cant knock the hustle tho.
divagirl - 2 mins later: Yeayea this is interesting..
Me - 3 mins later: Just a bit ;) You going to reggaefest fri?
divagirl - 1 min later: Idk haven't decided
Me: Well go. Its heaps of fun.
divagirl - 2 mins later: Maybs!
divagirl: Wait is this the thing in aldrige
divagirl: All day
Me - 1 min later: Yeaaa. Huge reggae concert.


A littlr bit more texts that im too lazy to manually extract where shes tentatively agreeing to go to reggaefest. Theres so much value in this last post. Always trudt your instinct versus what girls tell you. She wont even admit that she was ever down before saturday. Just another reference point that your intuition doesnt lie to you. I was mainly probing her head just like i did the night of after the fact.

After she baited you with the "can't believe you didn't try harder" it was probably time to cut the shit and realize it was time to fuck.

Like text her, "Don't worry, i'm coming over now." Hmmm, lets get MW's opinion on this tho

Maybe. Nu stock was over a year ago. Not really sure tbh lol

Yep I do agree that would have worked splendidly. And even if she resisted meeting up at that particular opportunity, she would have met up within a couple days.

Lots of guys in the frat scene lack a killer instinct, because frankly they don't really need it. The amount of free vagina floating around is astounding. Plus, by throwing out such a strong statement of intent to a girl within the scene, he's thrown out signals he's locking in, which means either 1) girlfriend time.. and she can potentially hold him to that.. whatever "that" happens to be, but it IS something.. and her sisters (the real reason for this) will definitely back her up on it, which locks him out of a lot of other opportunities. OR, 2) he's a player, which is a rep a lot of guys in the college scene don't want to have because it locks them out of a lot of other opportunities.

There's pros and cons to the college scene. The pros obviously far outweighing the cons, lol

Manwhore knows whats up. Telegraphing too much intent can make you off limits. Ive barely achieved manwhore status this quarter. Helps/hurts you, depending on the sorority and girl. But im pretty low key about my shit so i dont get as much flack as my friends. Think so? I didnt even read into that. Missed opportunity. :o

@Aequitas:
Been hanging out with her a lot / texting a lot. Enjoy her company a lot. Still havent closed but that doesnt really bother me - its bound to happen as i always push the envelope. Lotta fun tho she is getting me behind on finals lol.

@Aequitas:Fuck dude I probably would have just kept being persistent and escalating by tickling or some shit until she got more comfortable.She's so down but you seems like your taking your time. I'm a fast moving fucker so I woulda pulled the trigger, but if that's your style keep doin what you do and you'll bang her in no time it seems

@Aequitas: lol nah bro, ive been trying / will keep trying. Im pretty persistent. I am very surprised that she hasnt let me even get the boobies yet. And weve hung out a couple times already. Might be cuz she just broke up with her ex bf a couple weeks ago. Dunno. Thinking this weekend will be when it goes down as i move to SD sat.

@Aequitas: seems to me she was shittesting you to see if you had the balls to push through.Chicks ain't stupid if she wasn't interested she wouldn't be giving you jack shit. Just a thought

Not to be a dick, but I don't think you know what you're talking about in this situation. And in your defense, I didn't give you a full outline of the situation so you do had very limited information to analyze the situation from. Like lol I've been in her bed twice, pushing for the lay. I'm not just twiddling my thumbs scared to make a move. Your comment imho may highlight the dogmatic views of the community and how a lot of people kind've follows what they say verbatim. Everything isn't a shit test nor does rsd hold the answers to everything. Use the theory as a guide, not a holy grail.

Like there's a difference between playful no's where she obviously wants it but is on the fence and firm no where all her subcoms point to I am NOT ok with this and you need to stop NOW. The former could be her battling her morals, expectations of the relationship, or being viewed as a slut and the latter is her having a resolute boundary to which she most likely is not budging from. One is malleable and "beatable" while the other is rigid though not necessarily "unbeatable".

Logistics might actually explain this one though. We're always at her place ( She lives in a sorority house ). I was trying to slay in the living room -- she could've been self conscious of someone walking in. Honestly though I've gotten head in sorority living rooms before so I never looked at it as an issue till now. I'm also typically hooking up with girls who are typically more 'liberal'. Second night I was in her bed and her roommate was gone but she wasn't sure if her roommate was coming back since she wasn't responding to her texts. Either way, I'm going to preempt this and try to handle logistics so she's at my place come this weekend so I can figure out what's really ticking in her head. Plus I think there will be some allure or "excuse" to her dropping her morals with me leaving to SD Saturday after graduation.

Edit: And sorry, I reread this and felt like a dick. I don't mean to be harsh, I know you're only trying to help. I might be also reading too much into your 'shittest' thing, but regardless I do think it's a real issue within the community

@Aequitas: Alright so her and i talk a lot. We hooked up a couple more times before i left but somehow i didnt get the close. Like man i was close yet so far lol. Most girls would cave in at this point. Anyway shes been divulging some interest in other girls. I was close to a threesome last yr with a former slampiece but no cigar. Heres a snippet of our convo. Advice VERY much appreciated. I definitely need to close thid the MOMENT i go to irvine, especially before i get illusions of a threesome.
I do however want to know how to approah this. I was thinking on just emphasizing on how hot it would be for her and i to share a girl. I def gotta close first and lay down the ground work before i get there.
Anyway heres the snippet.

divagirl: How you doing boobear
Me - 15 mins later: Hey. Just finished a pt, was grading stuff. Doing good, hows your day been?
divagirl - 1 min later: Good it was roommate bonding day loll, now have to start studying for my test tom
Me - 3 mins later: Haha thats cute. Did yall get into pillow fights and bond over the kardashian show? ;b ... Uh oh.. easy or tough exam?
divagirl - 3 mins later: Tough probs. ice cream, cookies, charming boys on tv, boy trash talking, pillow fights and
divagirl: underwear;)
Me - 9 mins later: Uh oh. Whens your test? Pillow fights in underwear? I always knew sorority girls did that ;)
divagirl - 9 mins later: Hahaha
divagirl: 5pm
Me - 8 mins later: Well you got time. Crank it out. Maybe get some addy haha
divagirl - 7 mins later: Well no I'm def sleeping tonight. Ever since I got this ikea mattress bedtime is all I look forward
divagirl: to
divagirl: Loveee
Me - 5 mins later: Haha. I bet. You ever use tempur pedic? Might be spelling it wrong but those mattresses feel like youre sleeping on a cloud.
divagirl - 1 min later: I dont like soft mattresses at all. I feel sucked in, no bueno for my clostrophibia
Me - 2 mins later: Ah. Which explains why you dont like me spooning you lol.
divagirl - 4 mins later: I was okay with it last time we were together but yea usually it's too much
divagirl: Space is good haha
divagirl: Im happy on the chest
Me: Hahaha youre cute
Me - 14 mins later: Im going to bed. Gl on your exam tom. Gnight :)
divagirl - 1 min later: Haha goodnight beb:)
divagirl - 18 hrs 9 mins later: What a waste of time studying, test was too easy
Me - 23 mins later: Never a waste of time when you kill your exams :)
divagirl - 3 mins later: Could have killed it in my sleep
Me - 3 mins later: Hahaha THAT easy? Junior colleges for inflated grades!
Me - 8 mins later: Or easy course, either way lol
divagirl - 1 min later: I want to like take the second series during fall at IVC too
divagirl - 20 mins later: Hookah to celebrate:)
Me - 6 mins later: Hookah is good. Do you lile shotgunning? ;b
Me: Like*
divagirl: Haha you're a hookaher
Me: Mhm. I owned my own for two years.
divagirl: We're shotgunning now
divagirl - 1 min later: I own two little guys but haven't taken them out of the box
Me: #tsm
divagirl: Whaaat
Me: Wait what do you think shotgunning a hookah means?
divagirl - 2 mins later: Where you pass the smoke
divagirl: No?
Me: Its kissing/exhaling smoke into someone lol
divagirl - 1 hr 38 mins later: I know
Me - 24 mins later: Sorority sisters are so free with each other
divagirl - 8 mins later: It's beautiful haha I feel like this whole house has a careless fuck it whatever let it happen
divagirl: attitude
Me - 2 mins later: Damn, that is hot beb. Have you ever made out with a girl?
divagirl - 5 mins later: Ok so there was this bi girl in highschool and I swear to god she had powers. More game than any boy you can imagine. She got with like half our senior class
divagirl: and she was two years younger. I still don't understand how. She's always randomly texting me to tell her when I'm in SF. I swear to god like it was the
divagirl: biggest mystery of my boarding school
Hold up imma pull a link up from her fb shes gorgeous. Well iono if gorgeous is the word bur youll see

@Aequitas:
Ahhkay yer gonna have to post the pic of bi high schooler girl, and obviously pm me her Facebook I need to have a chat with this girl.

I don't think you're projecting enough authority over this chick.

It's been my opinion that when a girl talks about someone having amazing game (in your case she's implying she's got more game than you), it means she's looking for something more from you before she puts out.

Does pt = ta?

Just so you know.. not trying to rub it in, but I would have fucked this girl by now. Just sayin'

@manwhore - you couldnt be more right. Ya shes a tough cookie man. Haha ya ill pm you the bi high schooler. Shes pretty cute, but hella young. ( 18 ). I def need to establish more authority. Like yo this chick slapped me cuz i was dogging on her sorority and we ended up play wrestling cuz shes feisty which led to real wrestling and me pinning her down and shit and being like nah, the fuck you doing slapping me. But yea i need to just be icey as fuck with this one. Like icey to a level im just not used to. Like i feel i need to get that killer instinct / dominance / authority where girls just KNOW they shouldnt fuck with me. Def gotta develop that side of me, i think im too chill / indifferent.

Practice tests for lsat. Taking it in oct.

What do you recommend? What does it seem like im missing? I honestly thought this girl just needed some TLC and id be hitting it.
I'm thinking some wall slam makeouts and rough her up a bit to let her know the deal. ( lmao )

P.s. fuck off ive been trying dude hahaha

@Aequitas: i made some other thread where we went over what happened. Well i got close, but i didnt fuck. Which is uber gay. Now, one area where i ALWAYS have failed with women is pulling myself out of the doghouse. I can do work if things are good, but the moment i do some dumb shit where she decides its 'done' i can never recover. Ill try to link the threads. Ive chalked this one up as a loss and thats fine. BUT for the sake of learning i think its important that i TRY to learn how to recover. Ill also update on another girl who i think ive actually recovered with on a diff thread( library girl is back on it ). Difference between the two is i actually like the girl in this thread. Anyyway heres what were working with. Shes gone cold cuz she thinks i want her as my gf, and in all fairness she was right at the time. I was on some dumb shit lol.

Me: Hey how goes it
Girl - 8 hrs 22 mins later: Hi good
Me - 4 hrs 38 mins later: What have you been up to
Girl - 48 mins later: Good the usual work school. Started a workout program- Insanity
Me - 10 hrs 45 mins later: Taing start? Get swoll. I just started hitting the arc as well. The arc is so much better than these shitty gyms around here.
Me - 1 week 4 days later: Supz
Girl: Hi there
Me - 3 mins later: Nm. Shooting spitballs at my coworker cuz he wont stop playing that laffy taffy. You?
Girl - 7 mins later: Haha ew. Watching desperate housewives
Me - 18 mins later: Iwarned him to stop , but he just wouldnt listen ... So i did a ninja drive by with the spit ball... I hear watching that show makes you smarter. ;b
Girl - 1 hr 26 mins later: That's really gross rubes. I don't know if you're being sarcastic but GREAT if you're
Girl: not

Shes super cold / unresponsive compared to before. I think that last comment was probs a jab back for teasing her for watching shit tv.

@Aequitas:

I think you over did it by explaining it in detail even when she wasn't into it and texted "ew".

Should've just changed the subject and been like, "yh hon, desperate housewives can be REAL kinky sometimes"

Yo man. This is how you get yo fuck on. You pinned her down after wrestling her?? That's playful dominance and doesn't matter what happened before or after but that's sexworthy status. Biology at work

^^ Gogo That's text game "rules" applied to a particular kind of scenario where funny enough it actually doesn't fit. Read below
This probably sounds weird to guys not familiar with this, but I think Aquitas already suspects the truth. This girl likes him, hates some of his previous behavior, and is finding it difficult to incorporate the two together. Teach him a "lesson" while still giving him a shot.

This is similar to how girls try to teach guys to be more manly by blowing them the fuck out harshly (which generally doesn't work, but this is their only inbred biological mechanism), except this girl actually does like him and is really trying hard to not be too harsh while still expressing that biological disgust she experienced, haha.

Take another read of my "Another 10 in da bag" lay report Aquitas. That's how you have to handle this lil hooker. Once you get your hands on her again...

I'd text her "That spitball taught him a great lesson. I won't let you take that away from him. Go back to the kitchen."

Explaining it in detail was actually the right move. They actually teach this in frat school.

@Aequitas: EXACTLY. I acted like a fag and it scared her. You dont chase someone on and off for 2 yrs, her cherish, and her not like - at least thats what my gut says. I'll def take a look at that LR before I send that text. Like frat school hahaha. I cant even tell if youre being serious or not. Yeah, at first i was uber chill like uh whyd you slap me. Like almost an incredulous look. Then she slapped me again so i grabbed her and was like NO. You might think thats cute but that shit doesnt fly with me. So she started wrestling with me, putting all her effort. I ended up having to try and we both fell off the bed, knocked Toher shit over and then pinned her down. Also, she explicitly said " i cant do this anymore ". Not sure if that changes the text, but i sent it anyway. I figure it doesnt. I like your text A LOT, It totally moves away from the pussy i was acting like. This is same girl from that potential gf thread. She'll be coming with some heat, and i think i have an idea of what youre shooting for - very dominant, id consider it douchey game where im almost like listen bitch, this is how its gonna be.

P.S. manwhore this girl is exotic too. ( 3/4 black, 1/4 creole. Real light skinned black. Not a ten, but DEF a looker. Much hotter than the girl i emailed you a pic of. )
Edit:

Me: That spitball taught him a great lesson. I won't let you take that away from him. Go back to the kitchen.
17 min later Her: Go back to the kitchen?

Alright i TOTALLY didnt see that coming. I thought she'd get feisty, not inquisitive. Imma let it sit for a couple hours. But i am stumped as to what my next move is.

Yep I know who this girl is

Yep I'm hungry and want a sandwich. Mayonnaise and mustard on wheat. Didn't think there'd be consequences to getting your ass pinned down in a wrestling match, did you? You are so wrong

@Manwhore: Holy shit. Talk about going 0-60. I like it. Sent verbatim. Lets see what she says.

Hm. No response yet. Shes sticking to the same thing where she'll just go cold.

Just a test. You fiddling with your peepee in worry is what she does NOT want to see. Leave it alone it's cooking

Bump this day after tomorrow if she hasn't responded to this by then, if she has obviously post it up as well, and we'll keep going.

@Manwhore:

haa, as soon as Aequitas described the nationality of this girl i KNEW what he was getting himself into.

Black light skinned girls try to be VERY testy, cold and rude in my experience. But it's always a worthwhile challenge

@manwhore - This is above my pay grade. But I'm down to learn and appreciate the advice. There's solid value from this thread. Still no response.

@gogo - oh ya, deffff dude. Esp this chick lived in saudi arabia. The neighboring country where they'd partied, she got spoonfed everything by guys. So shes used to just getting everything she wants. Shits super gay when youre in control, then all of a sudden she flips the script on you by not wanting to make out and shit. Like literally going for it a gangsta amount of times, and not making out until id ignore her. Only on her terms. I dont even get offended tho, i just look at it as challenge accepted. Lol.

Bump.

@Aequitas:
You got bigger problems than trying to girlfriend up some chick

@Manwhore: Yep. Goals to obtain. Honestly i think i ran shit fine till i graduated. Then i got all lovey dovey and then i started doubting the fairly decent abundant lifestyle i had from college since my bar game blows. Led to scarcity and neediness and acting lame versus fratstar lifestyle of there usually always being girl(s) ive hooked up with at all our parties. Shit snowballs in frat game and made it easy. You live and ya learn. I beat myself up over this specific one because i knew what to do for the most part. I mean she had been jocking for 2 yrs lol. Either way, failure helps point one's blind spots out.

@Aequitas:
... So i totally fucked her.



Syke. Im a pussy lol. Never texted this chick again but ran into her. Surprisingly still residual feelings there. She comes to say hi both times. First im just fairly dismissive. Second time at a party. She came cuz her gf likes my old roommate. We see each other. Im pretty dickish and hesitant to hug her. She calls me on it snd tells me to quit being weird. Eventually she busts out some arrogant lone like " so do you still think about me all day? " or some variation of that. Not gonna lie, that set me off. -.-; respond with a dead serious tone " you give yourself WAY too much credit ". Her: ........ I was just kidding Me: ya right im sure you actually believe tjat.The rest of the convo involves her and i judt being extremely sarcastic to each other. totally not in the zone, it was all bad lol.