Woh- this is the first time I've ever texted ANYTHING like this- not even kidding this is kinda like... "Real Shit"- peak moment
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 16:08
Okay, honestly- the only reason I sent this was PURELY for me- like literally I did not care in the SLIGHTEST if she responded. I was completely done with this girl but there is a part of me that cares about other people and I sent this purely out of selfless love for this girl.
Warning: This is probably not "good" text game- this is purely coming from a man who knows himself, doesn't want to see a girl again but still cares about her- when I sent this, I just needed to express myself- I don't care about "game", I don't care about fucking her or seeing her again- I just had to express myself because the way she behaved last night was so unnaceptable and at the same time- came from a place of such deep insecurity, that I needed to tell her how I felt
lol do not use this as a "tactic": 1. You won't even get the kind of response I got and she'll prob think you're crazy 2. It's not meant to achieve anything except pure expression 3. It's just not good "game" - but like I said, I don't care.
So I sent this today, about 30 minutes ago and it was sent to the girl who I went on a date with last night:
Me: Hey pretty girl (I mean that) I had a good time with you, in moments, last night but it seemed like you were deeply conflicted about what you wanted and constantly searching for reasons not to believe that I cared about you. I care about you but it wasn't right for you to constantly project your emotional volatility at me and make me the target of it. It's entirely in your head and I actually really cared about you in the few moments we had where we"
Me: Were able to have a normal conversation
Me: I wish the best for you and I'm sure you'll find someone that doesn't constantly remind you of your own insecurities. Or, perhaps, you'll come to accept them and then a guy like me will make you feel content and whole."
Me: Best wishes and truly hope you are able to relax and enjoy each moment... because when they are gone they are gone. xoxo
Me: And I apologize for not remaining centered enough to embrace this part of you
Her: Buddha, you have an acute insight- I realize in hindsight, my behavior was unacceptable & showcased only the nerves of a pessimistic child. I'm embarrassed. And I'm undeserving of your sweetness
-One observation I have is that this seems to have achieved an equal level of submissiveness as texts I've sent from Manwhore, which were much more "Demanding and dominating"- although with this, I don't think I will respond.
Again- I could see some pooah's try to tweak this and make it a tactic, but I would hate to see that.
Warning: This is probably not "good" text game- this is purely coming from a man who knows himself, doesn't want to see a girl again but still cares about her- when I sent this, I just needed to express myself- I don't care about "game", I don't care about fucking her or seeing her again- I just had to express myself because the way she behaved last night was so unnaceptable and at the same time- came from a place of such deep insecurity, that I needed to tell her how I felt
lol do not use this as a "tactic": 1. You won't even get the kind of response I got and she'll prob think you're crazy 2. It's not meant to achieve anything except pure expression 3. It's just not good "game" - but like I said, I don't care.
So I sent this today, about 30 minutes ago and it was sent to the girl who I went on a date with last night:
Me: Hey pretty girl (I mean that) I had a good time with you, in moments, last night but it seemed like you were deeply conflicted about what you wanted and constantly searching for reasons not to believe that I cared about you. I care about you but it wasn't right for you to constantly project your emotional volatility at me and make me the target of it. It's entirely in your head and I actually really cared about you in the few moments we had where we"
Me: Were able to have a normal conversation
Me: I wish the best for you and I'm sure you'll find someone that doesn't constantly remind you of your own insecurities. Or, perhaps, you'll come to accept them and then a guy like me will make you feel content and whole."
Me: Best wishes and truly hope you are able to relax and enjoy each moment... because when they are gone they are gone. xoxo
Me: And I apologize for not remaining centered enough to embrace this part of you
Her: Buddha, you have an acute insight- I realize in hindsight, my behavior was unacceptable & showcased only the nerves of a pessimistic child. I'm embarrassed. And I'm undeserving of your sweetness
-One observation I have is that this seems to have achieved an equal level of submissiveness as texts I've sent from Manwhore, which were much more "Demanding and dominating"- although with this, I don't think I will respond.
Again- I could see some pooah's try to tweak this and make it a tactic, but I would hate to see that.
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 16:55
#1
Ya word you just kept it one
Ya word you just kept it one hundred with her. She knows shes batshit crazy. I'm sure this isn't the first time she's sabotaged herself and probably has a history of it. Though I'm sure you're probably one of the few that let her know with compassion, yet a firm steady hand that it was unacceptable. She probably fucks it up with every cool guy she meets and then just shits on chodes when they approach herlololol. How frustrating for her.
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 17:18
#2
Yup- but also, I'm in the
Yup- but also, I'm in the early stages of learning how to use my acute compassion with "Skillful Means"- so I'm sure there are ways of saying what I said here, in person, that would have made her had a great time and want to fuck me as well
This is a new quality that I'm exploring.
It comes from a COMPLETE understanding that I am enough and as a result, I have room in my head to see what's going on with other people because I no longer am creating my own pain as much
I am letting go of that "pain filled little boy" completely- not just letting go of the pain but letting go of that entire child and in the process... I'm becoming a man. But not just any man- I'm becoming the man IM supposed to be... everyone has their own personality- their own style and I'm slowly developing my own... whether it will be potent or not is yet to be determined but at the end of the day, all I can do is be me completely and see where it goes.
This is a new quality that I'm exploring.
It comes from a COMPLETE understanding that I am enough and as a result, I have room in my head to see what's going on with other people because I no longer am creating my own pain as much
I am letting go of that "pain filled little boy" completely- not just letting go of the pain but letting go of that entire child and in the process... I'm becoming a man. But not just any man- I'm becoming the man IM supposed to be... everyone has their own personality- their own style and I'm slowly developing my own... whether it will be potent or not is yet to be determined but at the end of the day, all I can do is be me completely and see where it goes.
Thu, 04/18/2013 - 06:04
#3
Yep good stuff, I've handled
Yep good stuff, I've handled some girls the same way. Hard to make a text game academy/ebook out of THIS though! ;)
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Thu, 04/18/2013 - 11:50
#4
Heh, yeah I know- this is the
Heh, yeah I know- this is the stuff that can't be "distilled" down into its 80/20 and part of the reason, to me, it's so special.
This is sorta just a different (maybe not "better" or "more potent") level of game.
This is sorta just a different (maybe not "better" or "more potent") level of game.
Sat, 04/20/2013 - 16:17
#5
This kinda inspired me... I
This kinda inspired me... I think its a new level of high value, taking responsibility for what you were lacking as a man. On this case you also called her out, but I like how you apologized for not being centered enough to keep her under control. I sent a similar message to a chick where things ended kinda bad, she borderline hates me. I apologized for not keeping things calm and under control, then I told her not to feel entitled to respond. I liked it because it spoke that things were about ME, and that I take responsibility for keeping things peaceful because It is my job as a man.
It felt good to show some authentic compassion for once
It felt good to show some authentic compassion for once
Sat, 04/20/2013 - 18:36
#6
Shit man, you wrote something
That's really cool that this inspired you man. This is the direction my game will be heading towards in the coming years, and honestly- maybe Manwhore will disagree but I actually doubt it- I believe that this style of game is more potent than pretty much anything that is currently being "taught" right now- as Manwhore mentioned though- you can't really write an "ebook" on THIS lol... Infact, Manwhore might be one of the few guys on this forum that understands JUST how ridiculous this shit was... I mena, when I wrote it I literally took a step back and was like "Holy monkey balls- that was some seriously INSPIRED shit" .... But it's also far more difficult to consistently stay within the headspace that allows for something like this to be written... I might even argue that it's impossible to "learn" this type of game in a short period of time... just can't be done. Also- this is the type of game that I would personally be VERY comfortable inspiring others to strive for, so I'm really happy that this kind of thing inspires you.
That being said- I would warn others not to try this without taking some caution with it, because if you missfire, even slightly, it's going to come across VERY haha and I mean VERY fucking weird. I mean, let's be real- I met this girl once and ended up sending her like a 6 page text message...
Very cool that you were able to write something similar to this, in highschool, no less-That's pretty impressive- haha when I was in highschool there is absolutely ZERO chance I would have had the self understanding to write anything even CLOSE to this... how did your girl take it? She curl up and become a submissive, sweet little ball of love?
That being said- I would warn others not to try this without taking some caution with it, because if you missfire, even slightly, it's going to come across VERY haha and I mean VERY fucking weird. I mean, let's be real- I met this girl once and ended up sending her like a 6 page text message...
Very cool that you were able to write something similar to this, in highschool, no less-That's pretty impressive- haha when I was in highschool there is absolutely ZERO chance I would have had the self understanding to write anything even CLOSE to this... how did your girl take it? She curl up and become a submissive, sweet little ball of love?
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 03:26
#7
I really more enjoyed texting
I really more enjoyed texting the girl, letting her know not to worry, and that whatever happens we don't have to live with tension. It didn't feel needy, I felt almost as if I had so much power I was willing to invest in her because she deserved it.
I don't have the message but it sounded somewhat like... " Hey "name" I hope your enjoying your vaca..I feel like I owe you an apology. Things didn't end well between us, and I should have managed the whole situation with far more care. I know we have both been through a lot lately, I'm sorry I couldn't make things workout between us. Things got confusing and fucked up, I should have kept things peaceful and easy going, I just felt like it's my responsibility. Have an awesome weekend, and don't feel entitled to respond in anyway."
Honestly man, no response. I told her not to feel entitled to respond, and that was truthful- no shame here. A bit after I texted her I was checking my twitter feed, and I noticed she retweeted some lovey dovey quote. I didn't really think about it much though, it might not have had any connection, I really was in an unreactive zone and didn't care about her response. I will follow up with her soon, and report back :)
I don't have the message but it sounded somewhat like... " Hey "name" I hope your enjoying your vaca..I feel like I owe you an apology. Things didn't end well between us, and I should have managed the whole situation with far more care. I know we have both been through a lot lately, I'm sorry I couldn't make things workout between us. Things got confusing and fucked up, I should have kept things peaceful and easy going, I just felt like it's my responsibility. Have an awesome weekend, and don't feel entitled to respond in anyway."
Honestly man, no response. I told her not to feel entitled to respond, and that was truthful- no shame here. A bit after I texted her I was checking my twitter feed, and I noticed she retweeted some lovey dovey quote. I didn't really think about it much though, it might not have had any connection, I really was in an unreactive zone and didn't care about her response. I will follow up with her soon, and report back :)
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 03:39
#8
Meow wrote:
I don't have the
Meow wrote:
I don't have the message but it sounded somewhat like... " Hey "name" I hope your enjoying your vaca..I feel like I owe you an apology. Things didn't end well between us, and I should have managed the whole situation with far more care. I know we have both been through a lot lately, I'm sorry I couldn't make things workout between us. Things got confusing and fucked up, I should have kept things peaceful and easy going, I just felt like it's my responsibility. Have an awesome weekend, and don't feel entitled to respond in anyway."
lolwut???
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 03:52
#9
yup
yup
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 13:08
#10
You started it, don't look at
You started it, don't look at me.
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Sun, 04/21/2013 - 13:09
#11
Pm'ing me lolwhut's and naked
Pm'ing me lolwhut's and naked pics
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Sun, 04/21/2013 - 13:09
#12
Pm'ing me lolwhut's and naked
Pm'ing me lolwhut's and naked pics
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