Why not fucking right away fucks you

Just sort of realized this....

Bu one other reason why it's so important to fuck a girl as quickly as possible is because it seems spontaneous and fun. When you don't fuck her quickly, then a lot of the stuff you do together will be labelled as you trying to get into her pants. Then she'll feel like she's giving you sex as a gift, which is the worst fucking frame. 

As well, if you haven't fucked a girl quickly, then it might put a lot more pressure on the girl to hangout again becuase she's going to feel like you're going to expect sex at this point and then they'll probably use that power against you or avoid putting them in that position (aka not hanging out with you) 

So obviously it makes sense to have the girl invest as much as possible leading up to sex and hold the most favorable logistics so sex can just happen nautrally without any effort. This means spending very little money, having her come to you, letting her engage and pour into the conversation, remaining somewhat aloof and ambivalent. And allowing her to earn your validation and qualification.

As well, reminds me of a coaching call I had with MW but this is some next level shit that I just realized I need to start implementing. But I just fucked up sex tonight with this girl. It was the third time we were hanging out, I took her out on a little day date and some food (against my better judgement) and when we got back to my house, I pretty much just took her to my room and it was obvious that she felt like I was going to want to have sex with her. 

This would work on some girls. But I needed to visualize exactly how sex would go down with this particular chick, and I failed to do this.

She is the type of chick that wants to fuck me spontanously. She wants to seduce me. She wants to take control and she wants to push for sex. As soon as I show my hand and start instigating sex, she loses her sexaul interest. 

I should have just sit back, played some pool, teased her or had a drink and used a little sexual qualification.

Instead, she was sitting on top of my bed. And she told me she doesn't do that, that she's a good girl. I told her she's being crazy. She got offended and pulled away. Imposing my reality onto this chick actually backfired and was useless. I needed to allow her to keep her reality in place and allow sex to happen in a way that suits her. 

She ended up telling me that she wants to go home. I was upset and shut off from her and dropped her off at the subway without saying a word.