Why It's Not Only Okay, but actually, important, to learn to be a dick to women: Accept Your Yin AND your Yang

So, this post is basically a recent epiphany I had, after going through the manwhore training. Basically, once you get to a certain point with the trianing, Manwhore, essentially forces you to start looking into the parts of yourself that are lacking... Because, those are the parts of you that are inhibiiting your growth in pickup.... For me, the training with manwhore has directly results in the following article:

All the white knights out there are missing the point of why it's necessary to be a dick, becuase they are so buthurt from how they've been treated by girls, that they project that same hurt onto girls and start to think/act/behave like girls are these super fragile china dishes that will shatter at the slightest hint of a tremor. The guys who are like weirdly against this and don't even see the reason I'm doing it, or the difference between what I'm doing and just a flat out sociopath or someone who does it unconsciously, the guys who are like that... They live in a world where they are still caught up in their own pain from being treated like shit etc. etc. so they are afraid to ever behave that way in front of girls because they project their pain and suffering onto the girl and think that she'll feel the same way they did and they don't want to do that to anyone. Which is bullshit.

Girls are not fragile little creatures that are easily broken. You gotta give them more credit than that.

It's funny too because less than 2 months ago, I was totally on the white knight bandwaggon and even wrote up a super long post basically calling Todd out for doing/saying something very similar to what I just said in this post. Funny how things change- I guess going out 70 nights in a row will do that to you ; )

I'm going to try and break this down in the way that makes the most sense to me, in an attempt to show why I am doing what I'm doing.

Okay, so yes- the point here is that I am experimenting. I am not attached to anything I am saying or doing. Like when I say something that's dick to a girl, there is no "negative" motion attached to it. It's almost like, when I am saying dick things to the girl, I am saying dick things but coming from an emotional standpoing of being very positive. So for example, last night I was talking to a girl and I went up to her and grabbed her by the waist, pulled her in and was like, "GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE. SERIOUSLY. LEAVE. RIGHT FUCKING NOW. JUST LEAVE" but the words did not have the "emotion" behind them that would normally accompany such words. In fact, when I said it, I was smiling and, at points, laughing. How did she respond? She just had no fucking clue what was going on lol.

Or I'll be like, "YOU NEED TO LEAVE RIGHT FUCKING NOW. SERIOUSLY YOUR A SACK OF SHIT, GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE. YOU'RE WAY TOO FUCKING HOT TO BE LOOKING AT ME RIGHT NOW. NO. STOP THAT. DON'T LOOK AT ME. YOU'RE WAY TOO HOT. JUST LEAVE" - all the while, I'll be holding her and not letting her leave.

Think about it this way- When you're talking to your dog, you can say the meanest shit but if you say it in that cute little, "doggy" voice, he'll think you're being super positive. Like if you say, "You are a fat piece of shit and i hate you" to your dog, but you say it in a really positive, cute, little doggy voice... he'll interpret it as if you were saying, "aww aren't you the cutest little thing, I love you so much"... So yeah, white knights will come on here and inevitably be like, "Oh, so now your comparing women to dogs, huh? Well fuck you man. WOMEN ARENT DOGS. YOU ARE AN EVIL SOCIOPATH" hahaha! the funniest part about this, is that I am going to further lengths than the white knight is, to get in touch with my full emotional spectrum, the difference is that he is scared of that side of himself becuase he's scared of hurting the girl, scared of breaking the fragile piece of china. So he tip-toes around her, so as not to disturb the pricelss piece of art.

So yes, let's clarify something- I am very aware that calling out random girls on the street for being ugly is not cool. I am aware that is completely unnecessary. So, why do I do it? I do it because I need to accept that I can do it. Also, I have to accept that there is a part of me, somewhere, that wants to do it. There is a part of me that wants to just fucking dominate women. There is a part of me that wants to just destroy them and make them feel like shit.

It's just the Yin/Yang in all of us, folks. If you deny that those thoughts/emotions exist within yourself, you are simply denying yourself a natural part of the spectrum of your persoanlity. There comes a point in a child's life, as they are becoming a man, that you have to consciously decide to be open to certain parts of yourself that you had previously suppressed or pushed aside because they scared the shit out of you. Normal people have empathy and feel bad about being dicks to women. In fact, if you are normal and have grown up as a pretty normal kid in America, this part of yourself might even, very likely, cause you to feel guilty, ashamed, or angry.

I mean, it's why so many people in this world suffer from depression and anxiety... we have these parts of the spectrum of who we are that we completely suppress whenever they come up. We all tend to overly suppress our negative emotions and overly express our positive emotions. Or, instead of overly expressing our positive emotions, we just internalize our negative emotions to such an extent that we become huge dicks but, instead of being a dick and coming from a positive place, we are huge dicks and coming from a really weird negative place where we just want other people to feel our own pain.

The point of what I'm doing is to take this part of myself that I have suppressed and make it conscious. To do all of the things that I am too scared to do. To just say, you know what, I can do this if I want to. I don't have to feel guilty or ashamed about thinking these thoughts or feeling these feelings, I can just accept them as part of who I am and understand that it's okay. And the beginning of this process, with pretty much any emotion or thought, like this, is to act out on it.

It's also important to note that I am not doing this unconsciously. Rather, I am very conscious about what I am doing and when I am doing it. None of this makes me really feel good. Although, sometimes it is hilarious. And the thing is that when you find it hilarious, generally speaking, you can be saying some pretty fucked up shit and the girl and all her friends will be cracking the fuck up. Like literally, they will be falling over with laughter.

So yeah, what I am doing right now is pretty uncalibrated and weird and not cool. But, over time, the hope is that, because I am normal, I will just naturally stop doing the weird shit... but in the process, I will have internalized the idea that it is okay to have strict boundaries with girls, that it is okay to call girls out on any random bullshit behavior they exhibit and that it is okay to occasionally just be a dick for no reason. And that none of this is cause to feel angry, ashamed or guilty.

Like you also have to come to the understanding that in the grand scheme of things you just don't matter that much. Like how narcissistic is it to tihnk that you have such an influence on a girl's life that simply by calling her ugly, in passing, you are going to singlehandidly cause her to mentally collapse and fall into some sort of deep, suicidal depression... Like that's just fucking rediculous. In fact, what's far more likely is that she'll look at you like you're crazy and move the fuck on. So yes, this doesn't like totally justify doing that shit, but it's just like... yo, it really doesn't matter that much, at the end of the day.

And the end result of all of this, is to be a more solid individual, a more whole individual. An individual who is more in touch with the full spectrum of who he is and, as a result, is naturally much more calibrated, less supplicating, less complient, more dominant, more grounded in intent and an individual who now understands that acting or behaving in a positive way is a choice and not an obligation. By opening yourself up to this other dimmension of who you are, you are, effectively, freeing that side of yourself and thus actually making your "positive' side, much more powerful. Because, now, instead of unconsciously being positive, coming from a place of simply fearing the alternative... You are now able to be positive as a proative choice, because you are no longer scared of the alternative.

If your natural response is to "judge" an action as "bad" or "sociopathic" or "evil"... all that means is that you have not freed yourself to act proatively in the other direction and instead you are acting a certain way out of fear. Do you guys get that? This is such a fucking huge point that needs to be made. By judging certain actions, we literally force ourselves to act in a certain way, out of a reactionary stance we have against the only other alterantive. But when we get to a point where we're lke, "yeah, I could act like a total sociopathic dickhead and nothing would really come of it"... then and only then can we actually start to proatively act in the other way. We can now begin to proactively choose to behave in the way that we see fit for the situation. We have now opened ourselves up and freed ourselves from the chains of our own unconscious judgments, fears and projections. And additionally, in doing this, we have also actually empowered women to a much greater extent. We have given them much more dignity and respect. Because we no longer are treating them like pieces of china, scared of hurting them... Now we have given them the respect they deserve and are proactively treating them in a way that will make them feel alive and in a way that shows that we actually "get them" in a way that most men do not.

It's the same thing with sex- like most dudes are so scared of hurting women that it even carries over into their sex lives... we think we're going to hurt the girl, so we fuck her gently... When in reality, all she wants is to get absolutely fucking smashed. Period.

Anyway- These are my thoughts, as I am just starting to really dealve into this side of myself. So this is by no means a "This is the truth and you must accept it" sorta post. But it is much more, me just throwing out my thoughts about what I'm doing and why I'm doing it.

That being said: White knights, I present to you my challenge. Now who shall choose to fight the good fight?