Whoa..! Sadist letter from Rsdn
"Be glad that I left you some closure. Honestly I should have just left you without another thought but this was very much
for my own closure rather than yours. I want you to know that you meant zero to me and perhaps you can learn something from
this as well. Enjoy these tidbits of my precious attention now since this will be the last time you hear from me. Treasure the
fact that I even wrote you a letter. I am indeed a charitable man.
I was never the person you thought I was. In fact, I am much greater than that person. I just lowered myself down to your
misearble plane of existence because I felt like going "slumming" with the plebeians. I made believe to be your soulmate and
now I realize why you are alone. You suck as a person and only attract filth because you are filth so I became filth for a while
just to see what it's like to be filth. Those sophomoric fools who so dominate you and pass you on like a badly rolled joint are
so beneath me that you should consider Lady Luck to be on your side, since I am the rarest and most beautiful of specimens.
Your entire demenaor and approach to life is unsophisticated and crude. You have very little intelligence aside from conning
the weak and pathetic males of the world. Your other other talents rely on crying when those other men who aren't total bitches
kick you to the curb and make you jump through the hoop of fire to bring you back into the fold. This makes you utterly unremarkable
and not at all original or Interesting. You could afford to lose a few pounds and perhaps you should consider yourself lucky that males are so stupid, because otherwise you'd be even more of a pathetic site than you are now. You only respect punishment through pain
and are so weak that you depend on others to make your decisions. I became your father and I fucked you just like he did. I fucked you nice and slow like daddy did so you wouldn't hurt. But you are hurting now."
Was this posted recently? It says 'access denied' so it probably got the axe. This dude is a full blown wack job who's obviously bitter that he didn't the results promised.
This post is a good reason why I never visit rsdn. It's full of super negative chode losers with such fucked mindsets that it literally makes me nauseous to even read a lot of the posts on there.
I'd be curious what sort of interaction he has with this chick. She may be in on it too, writing him insulting letters back. Lol
Fucking hate RSDN lol
But yeah otherwise it's just completely fucked. I mean.. look at what this guy's teaching himself about life and women. Eww
I had to step so far away from RSD and all their teachings.
In the time I've spent away from RSD my game has skyrocketed. It was killing me trying to understand their teachings and follow their methods. Once I narrowed it down, things just took off. Not just saying this because this is clearly my preferred site for any sort of self-development at all, but as a genuine review and comparison of the two.
I understand what RSD is trying to offer.. I think, but it really ends up being more detrimental than helpful.
Yeah? What stuff you talking about?
I found a lot of their "highlights" or step-by-step sort of processes of the open to close to be so detailed to the point where it becomes so unnatural to do. Not sure if that quite makes sense but for me, it turned "game" or meeting chicks into a task. It wasn't fun. I was constantly concerned with my own actions, thoughts and what I was doing. Every couple seconds, I'd be like "Oh shit. Was I supposed to do that? What's the next step? Where are my notes...". It was fucking awful, man. I couldn't game and just be centered. It put me in my own head and made me stay there.
I found some of their inner game stuff to be awesome though. That's due to the fact that they recommend Tolle as well though I feel....
Now, I can just be myself and have fun. Meet chicks, meet new friends. Life's way better.
That's a normal part of the process dude. Easy for you to say while you're a bartender/in college/surrounded by women. Once you leave that lifestyle you'll wish you had a better understanding because believe me your lil pussy well you got going will dry up. And your game is not that good.
I was thinking that as well. I had a few friends who have just sort of left that whole lifestyle behind and I am curious to see how they do in terms of women and just socially in general. Mind you, they are all in LTR's now, starting their actual careers, no more schooling, etc. So, they might be at a different stage in life at this point as well.
I think the idea of highlighting the steps and including the details is a great idea, but in terms of trying to make it all flow naturally still seems iffy to me when you try to execute it exactly how it's taught. It might just be me overthinking the process. The videos are helpful from time to time for me as well but if I'm reading through the forums on the website, it's an absolute shit show in terms of understanding. Especially once people start commenting lol. In result, I just stopped checking in with RSD slowly over time.
Yeah, that's situational confidence. I have a friend that was slaying at work when he was in a supervisor/coach position. Everyone knew him, he was very skilled and everyone went to him for questions. So women just flocked to him. He would take girls out to the parking lot at lunch for bjs. In fact, the very first time I met him I walked in on him getting a bj in the gym bathroom at work. Basically accidently cock blocked him. lol. Once he lost that job though he was fucking done. He literally gets laid maybe once a year now if that. He got massive oneitis for the one girl who pursued him at his new job, so he ended up losing her after a short casual relationship, getting friend zoned and used by her until she moved away. He's super shy, never approaches or ties to escalate. A complete beta orbiter at this point. He just accepts this as the way life is.
The point is... anyone that's serious about getting good with women should be able to do cold approach, day and night game, social circle, and text/online game.
Personally I love RSD. Their free youtube videos are information overload that can easily lead to mental masturbation(without really explaining everything you need to know) and the forums are about as useful as puahate.com. Every beta chode loser with fucked up inner game issues and zero understanding at all or just plain warped misunderstanding of concepts is on there. There's no quality control at all. It's just noobs begging for help or reinforcing their own fucked up beliefs about themselves and/or women.
But RSD's paid products are generally really good. Especially Pimp by Julien and his new one TenGame. Great stuff. Flawless Natural by Tim was also epic and really shows you how to be fun and show your intent. TenGame describes the 'being' behind the actions and the most important macro concepts to focus on in your interactions (the big picture). While Pimp breaks down all the mirco concepts, the game mechanics from Open to Close. Of course you can't just copy and paste all of it. You can use some of their lines as training wheels but you have to apply the concepts to your own unqiue personality. Which is your most attractive attribute. Just being your true self (after you've removed the BS social conditioning and unlocked your true expressive self). This is all essential info imo.
Never done a bootcamp but we all know that game can't be learned in a weekend but it might be helpful for intermediates to improve on certain sticking points. So the bootcamps are basically useless to newbies besides maybe showing them what's possible and starting to push through some of their approach anxiety. But, most will go back to the way they were before the bootcamp a couple of weeks later. Jon's longer term one on one training is better at teaching how to actually permenantly change your behaviors, improve your communcation skills and unlock that natural masculine core.
I thought RSD hotseat is the best program they have. It helped a ton for me personally.
I think their bootcamps are very overrated (maybe with the exception of Ozzie's fear tech stuff).
However, overall there's a ton of good stuff to learn from RSD.
Most of the instructors seem to be very cool guys, but I think there's something wrong with overall culture of the RSD community. They put instructors on a crazy pedestal and see them as "higher".
Yes Hot Seat is a great product. Cheap as fuck. Helps intermediate and advanced dudes big time
Anyway I hope this chick wrote this dude back some fucked up shit make him cry a little inside. He certainly deserves it