who is friends with their ex's

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Fri, 06/22/2012 - 22:37

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And im talking specifically about where youre the one who was more emotionally invested during the relationship. Like it hit you like a ton of bricks.

Just wondering because i cut them out completely in order to get over the hump, but ive been chatting with an ex for a while. ( its been 2 yrs roughly ) i genuinely enjoy her company and its chill that we can friends. Funny enough shes been trying to help with her cute friend. I'll let yall know when i got updates on that girl. Now my ex has a bf, but on some level i can kinda tell she flirts with the idea of hooking up with me again. Kindve a funny situation but hopefully she doesnt cockblock me.

Anyway my question is how many of you hang out with your ex's?

Fri, 06/22/2012 - 22:42

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@Aequitas:

Me

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Fri, 06/22/2012 - 23:06

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@buddhagames:

I actually make a point to do it because I used to be so fucking shitty at relationships (both girls and guys) like I would BLOW SHIT UP like a fucking atomic bomb. But that was a while ago... but that "chode" that guy who couldn't handle his shit, still lurks deep down somewhere so always gotta keep that in mind and be active about being the person you want to be.

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Fri, 06/22/2012 - 23:51

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@buddhagames - yea for sure dude. Im def always keeping a mental note since i dont want to regress. But ya, i mean i couldnt help it before. It was my only means of moving forward lol. I cringe in retro but i know its the best i couldve done at the time. Yea shes a cool chick. Funny enough i really couldnt see myself dating her at all now. Ask me two yrs ago and i thought she was perfect haha. I totally respect that tho man. Like thats where im trying to be at.