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Went out tonight with buddy....got a little buzzed right before we went into the club. So I'm feeling fucking anxious but the alcohol chills me out a bit. Start off dancing a bit and get outta my head then do a few approaches...nothing is solid and I can tell its just not working. So we go upstairs and these two girls walk up. There both 7's...nothing special, but hey, this is albuquerque. So I say, "Girls, come talk to us." They oblige without hesitation. The blondie hugs me and the brunette does this weird rub up against me... she likes it. We all head downstairs...lose the girls. Come back, brunette is on the dance floor with a guy. I walk up, grab her, tell her Im stealing her....take her away from the guy...he just stands there like deurrr haha. I grind on her....then I pin her up against the wall and give her a quick makeout. OK, its fucking on right? After a lot of bullshit we go back to this dudes house to get her shit. Like we were walking there and I tell her we are talking my car but she keeps saying no...this is the theme of what will happen. "No, we are walking...." "No..do you even know where it is" The shit tests are unreal....but im acting cool. Finally she gets in my car when I dont say anything. We drive to the house.....No one is answering the door so I just climb over the wall and let us in presumably to get the shit and leave. The whole time me and this chick are grabbing each other etc. So I open the door and let her in thinking she will be back in a sec then I can fuck her. Come back, she is cuddling on a bed with some guy....WTF. I keep cool though, just say "vanessa, we are leaving. Grab your stuff." She pretends she is asleep...I just stand there tripping out a little. Like wtf do I do. I went so hard on this chick, just dominated her and now this. I mean Im pretty much a newb and this is why Im posting this to see your guys opinion. Anyway, eventually she gets up and come back to me. These other people are trying to get us to leave and the guy of the crew is telling me to let her go and put her down...I was carrying her around....and I just say its all good bro. My girl even says "were just going to talk...its ok." So we are making out in this guys house....so wierd. She kept saying over and over again I'm staying here...The plan was to stay here...just unrelenting. So I tell her Im going to fuck her in the bathroom. I take her over there but she wont let me close the door....Long story short...she tells me " I like the guy (in the bed)." At this point Im just like fuck it, she aint that hot and Im fucking pissed. Plus I have to wake up in 3.5 hours. Goddamnit! So I just fucking leave. I felt like I was going as hard as possible but she just pulled some tricky shit. Oh well...If i never said "girls come here" none of this would have happened. Opinions?
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Re: When this happens...
This is an amazing recap. I am amazed at how many places the ego came in and fueled "right action", yet also fueled completely reactive behavior that ended up fucking things up rather than continue it on to the desired end goal. Absolutely amazing to read this.

And interestingly enough, fucking her in the car after the club (at the first opportunity) would have been the most expedient and forthright manner to get the job done, and would have prevented the sprouting of doubts about you in her mind which fueled the rest of her erratic behavior.
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Re: When this happens...
@Manwhore:

...Her sister was in the car too. She was rubbing up against me as well throughout the night... never even thought about the idea of threesome and honestly have no clue how to pull that off. Should gone for it though. Where do you see my behavior being reactive? I battle that shit all time across all areas of my life and I know its worthless but I still do it....so it would be cool to hear your opinion.
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“Cleverness devoid of wisdom is extremely dangerous and destructive.
Enlightenment consciously chosen means to relinquish your attachment to past and future and to make the Now the main focus of your life.  Through allowing, you become what you are: vast, spacious. You become whole. You are not a fragment anymore, which is how the ego perceives itself. Your true nature emerges, which is one with the nature of God"
- Tollester