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What do you do when a girl takes forever to get back to you

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Joined: 06/12/2012

So I was chatting with this girl on POF and it went well. I don't like to chat endlessly so I sent her my number and asked her to shoot me a text and we'll chat offline.

It took over 2 weeks for her to text me her number! Here is her text:

Her: Hey Nick, it's Stacy from POF. Sorry for the late delay, hope all is well

Meanwhile I noticed she was signing into POF all the time so its not like she was away or busy.

Should I just be cool and respond back like I remember her or act like I forgot about her?

I was thinking of saying:  "Stacy....which Stacy?

What do you think?

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Joined: 06/04/2012
Just carry on like it's



Just carry on like it's nothing.

Acting this aloof just seems try hard. it's overgaming and overthinking.

If a regular dude with abundance got a text from a girl he would just be like, "Oh cool. Let's see where this goes..."

Quit searching for tactics. You're putting too much thought into this.

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Joined: 01/18/2012
^ Dat right dere Be cool with

^ Dat right dere

Be cool with it don't put it back in her face that's the farthest thing from seduction. 

Just vibe and use some callback humor from the pof convo 

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Thanks G-money and Manwhore. 

Thanks G-money and Manwhore.  I still have much to learn.

I hastily sent that stupid text and did not get a reply back. So I texter her later that day aknowledging that I remembered her and she replied right back.

Lets see if I can salvage this one...