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So last night, I'm at a party and see an acquaintance with 2 girls. I give him a nod as we walk by and as I'm walking the 3rd wheel girl basically asks me to stay with her because she's 3rd wheel feeling awkward. I'm slow to turn and give her attention actually walk past and think about it and loudly say I don't even know you. She says her name or something. And I slowly open my arms and cut the space as she latches on to me, say something else and than immediately make out really quickly. She starts smiling as I pull away. I guess I was the center of attention while this was going on because right after this her friend gets mad or something and physically pulls her friend away, literally as they start to argue right in front of me and the other guy. The other girl that was initially with the guy physically drags the girl away, while my girl is latched onto me. What was up with that(according to the acquaintance he was about yo pull)and how do I not blow this guy out in the future?

It was pretty amusing last night, but if it was my boy and the girls hotter, I would like to know what just went down to fix it in the future.

 

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Ok I think

Ok I think it's really obvious what happened. The real question is what should you have done different?? It's obvious and very real, you and I have discussed this many times before. 

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This girl was cooked.  I

This girl was cooked.  I should have isolated her somewhere and pulled her titties out.  Her friend noticed this and was like hell nahh, not today and dragged her away.

Also when I saw the attempt to cockblock, I should have projected some "I can't believe I'm hearing this shit" type of shit and make the friend less comfortable in her attempts to cockblock so I could than make me and her friend dissapear for some luvin'

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Yeah you put her too much on

Yeah you put her too much on display and didn't have any self-control to think ahead. Her friend didn't appreciate this you need to be a bit more discrete and not parade her friend's promiscuity around like that. It lowers their value 

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I'm confused.  This happened

I'm confused.  This happened really fast within a minute probably.  The reason I went to make out with her was to test the waters to see if their was anything that I could pull out of that situation rather than give a girl a friend to talk to for whatever amount of time. I didn't linger making out or anything, I went in and once I noticed her reaction, I pulled back.  Also the four of us were basically isolated in the back yard by ourselves.

Usually if my friend is in with a chick and I enter to talk with the third wheel, I assume comfort to whatever level my friends at or just below, as quickly as possible.  The aqquaintance was cuddled up with his chick, with his girl facing him, with my girl on the outside standing looking away.  So my thought process was oh this girl (cockblock girl) will see her friend found another cool guy, so now we can go off to wherever.

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Yo how'd you know that? About

Yo how'd you know that? About assuming the same level of "sexual comfort" as your wing has? 

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Ok I see, so it happened

Ok I see, so it happened really quickly and you didn't linger.. that's very good. So what were they arguing about? Why didn't you go after them? The set definitely wasn't over..

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I didn't really understand

I didn't really understand it.  The only part that I remember them arguing about was them arguing over my girl holding onto me and than the other girl "won" the argument when my girl said fine I let go of him.  Than she was immediately dragged away like around the corner into the front or something.  The acquaintance kid walked up to me and I started talking to him for maybe a minute just trying to figure out the situation and never saw them again.

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Manwhore wrote: Yo how'd you

Manwhore wrote:
Yo how'd you know that? About assuming the same level of "sexual comfort" as your wing has? 

tbh I think you might of had a video years ago that I watched maybe in 2010 or something that mentioned "assuming the same level of "sexual comfort" as your wing.

I've been doing it at least since fall of 2010.

I think one random party my freshman year, I saw a situation with  a couple making out and a 3rd wheel and I just immediately went up talked for a second and started hooking up with her. 

Than Halloweekend of that year me and my friend were talking to these two girls at a party and I remembered that and started orchestrating a similar situation with my friend.   I would escalate than motion for my wing to escalate on his girl (in a way that both girls didn't notice) and than escalate further as I noticed my girl notice what my friend and her friend were doing.  I  "piggy backed" the interaction with my wing the whole night, didn't have the experience to close the deal though.  

After that it's just been kinda internalized that if I see that situation going down, I just hop right in.

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Yeah you needed to come to

Yeah you needed to come to her rescue. Lesson learned, next time you'll spot it sooner and handle it

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Oh right no shit then. That's

Oh right no shit then. That's why I was so shocked when you said that lol. I haven't ever heard anyone talk about that besides me. Very fucking powerful 

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Word. Matching the

Word. Matching the temperature of the interaction.