wedding party

@buddhagames:

The only thing i regret was not getting my wallet before i left.... FUCK

10% Luck.

20% skill

15% concentrated power of will.

5% pleasure.

50% pain.

.......And a 100% reason to remember the name.

@buddhagames:

Lol the girl i hooked up with came in just as i was getting kicked out and goes, "what's going on?" and all the dudes were like, "he slapped her" Lmao the girl i hooked up with goes, "aww he thought she was me"

I was like escalating with this girl the night before by like playfully wrestling her

I was like throwing her to the floor and then straddling her. She was loving it and laughing and shit. I wouldnt have done this but i jade listened to a Manwhore video where he talks about doing that kind of ship to girls. It was amazing. Such hardcore escalation.

@buddhagames:

Best part was that i was 100% sober when i was doing this escalation stuff...

@buddhagames:
Buddha aka Mister steal ya girl

@Aequitas:


Lolol we put that nickname to a guy at my school, like he don't get with much girls but he is friends with them a lot and he would always be friends with the girls you hit on.

We named him (changing his actual name):

Jonathan 'Stealyogirl' Reyes

@Sick-Cunt:

Alright so now that I have some time, I wanted to throw up the actual field report.

So one thing that was kinda cool about this was that the girl I ended up hooking up with, has been friends with my sister for a long time and I remember like 4 years ago or some shit I went to my sister's graduation and this girl was at the dinner thing and I remember thinking, "Fuck man, she's hot" but like she didn't really talk to me or anything but I remember really wanting to hook up with her lol...

So anyway- skip ahead to this weekend. All the people start arriving and low and behold, this girl is there.

So I initially walk up to a group of girls, including her, and they are trying to figure out the location of this place that they all had to be at and I hear her say, "Does anyone know how to get to this place" and I didn't know but I went up to them and I'm like, "Do you guys have a gps on your phone?" and she looks at me and goes, "Do you know how to get there" and I'm like, "No.." and she goes, "Okay, so your useless to me" and I didn't even really flinch, didn't react to it.. I just gave her this weird look, kinda like I was just surprised that she would say that... mainly cause I was. But I just don't really acknowlledge it and I just repeat what I said earlier, "Do you have a gps?" and she just kinda blows me off... so that was shittest #1.

It's funny cause I'm sorta in this mentality where when she started giving me shit like that, my initial response in my head was, "Dude, she's totally into me... she's just being a little girl about it and doesn't know how to handle the fact that she's attracted to me" so I basically just took that attitude with me in terms of how I approached her the rest of the weekend.

So then later on in the night I get to the welcome party and everyone is there and after I change and stuff people are playing cornhole outside on the lawn so I head out there and immediately I like put my hands in the air and walk over and kinda just like super pumped and screaming, "CORNHOLEEE, HELL YEAH. I'm ON YOUR TEAM" and I like don't even wait for anyone to respond, I just pick up some sandbags and start throwing lmao.

So once again the girl gives me shit and she's like, "Ooo looks like somebody's excited" and this time I just completely ignored her, didn't even give her eye contact, didn't acknowlledge what she said at all.

So I'm playing now and I was getting warmed up so I wasn't doing very well at first and she gives me more shit and she's all, "You totally just went down a couple pegs in my book"... once again, I just ignore her. Don't acknowlledge it, don't even give her eye contact, don't even turn towards her at all, I just keep playing and talking with some of my friends and the other people there...

So for the next little wihle I just do my own thing and at some point, I give a speech (which I absolutely KILLLLED) I had countless people coming up to me afterwards and telling me how much they appreciated what I said and that they could tell it came from the heart and how beautiful it was etc. etc..

Anyway- head inside at one point and I see the girl again and I walk past her, don't really look at her and this time she goes, "Where have you been all night?!" and I don't respond at all and just keep walking past her without even looking at her and so right after she says that she goes, "Probably playing corn hole all day huh?" but in this like kinda sarcastic tone...

So this time (and this is where the interaction shifted and she just completely melted) I don't miss a fucking beat, it was so smooth what I did

As I was walking by her again, and this is like immediately after she said that... I grab a pineapple slice (it was cut so that it was shaped like long and flat) and as I walk by her I go, "Here, have some fucking pineapple and maybe you'll shut up" but i'm kinda laughing when I say it and she starts to crack up and actually before I say the shut up part she goes, "Oh so maybe I'll shut up now" and I shove the pineapple into her mouth so she can't talk...

lol then she like kinda mumbles, "Buddhagamessss!!!" cause she wants me to take it out of her mouth, but I just walk past her and ignore her again and head upstairs and don't see her again for a little while

Also, I didn't have a sip to drink the entire night

Anyway- later on in the night she keeps coming up and trying to talk to me and I can just tell she's into me. So I'm talking with her a bit and the dynamic has completely changed. She's not giving me anymore shit at all and just being a good little girl and laughing and like there were smores and she takes a marshmellow and like tries to put it on my finger and I slap it out of her hand and she starts to laugh and is like, "You're such a dick!!" and I grab her and put my arm around her and am laughing and I'm like, "Yeah, I"ll be nice to you"

Then later on my buddy and I are talking to her and I think my buddy was kinda trying to hit on her too but like it was very obvious she was into me more.

It's interesting cause he was talking a lot and telling funny stories and at first I was like, "Damn, I gotta stop being a spectator or I'm gonna lose this shit" but then I just relaxed and was like, "Fuck that" and I did something I'd never really done before and basically dominated the interaction between the three of us without saying a fucking word... literally, I didn't talk at allbut i used body language to basically say what I wanted to say without saying it. Like as he was talking, I would subtley look at her and laugh in kind of a condesecnding way and like after a little while she would laugh and like hit me with her elbow and shit...

Eventually, it was just us two and like whenever he would come back to talk, she would like suggest things for him to go and do that didn't involve us.

So then, we're talking and she like flat out punches me in the arm and I'm like, "You ahve a shitty punch... that didn't even hurt" and like it really didn't so she starts like trying to prove that she can hurt me (which she can't) and is like punching me and stuff and then after her last punch I literally grab her and like throw her to the ground but like not hard... it was like I threw her to the ground but softened the landing by grabbing her. She was laughing and loving it and then she gets up and we start talking again and then at another point I do it again but this tiem I straddle her and give her hardcore eye contact and move in as if I'm about to kiss her but then pull away and pull her up and she's like laughing and stuff

So then I'm like, "Hey are you coming to the afterparty tomorrow" and shes like, "Ugh, I don't think I can, all the bridesmaids ahve to stay here tonight"... She totlaly misunderstood what I said and I think it's because she wanted to hang out with me more that night so she kinda just like heard what she wanted to hear.. and I'm like, 'Yeah I'm talking about tomorrow" and she's like, "oo yeahh I'll def. be there"

So anyway- don't hook up with her at all that night but then the next night we have the ceremony and it's amazing. I was crying a lot during it... man, I was just so fucking happy for my sister. It was really emotional.

Anyway- get to the reception party where there's dinner and tons of dancing and I literally just absolutely DOMINATE the dance floor... Like I was fucking KILLLLLLLLIIIIIINNNNGGGG it.

Like I had other girls literally being like, "Oohhh buddhagames" lmao... Everyone was like giving me highfives and shit and even the head guy of the band like went over to my mom and was like, "Is that your son?" and she goes, "Yeah" and the bang guy is like, "Wow, he def. brings the party"

Anyway- the whole time this girl is like always hovering around me but I'm just not really giving her much attention cuase I'm like just haivng so much fucking fun dancing.

Oh and so while I'm dancing, literally my pants just COMPLETELY RIP... like full on tear down the seam... But I just didn't give a fuck. I just kept dnacing and being SUPER SUPER social and like didn't even change. Haha it was like nobody even cared that I had this redic. rip down the back of my suit pants and obviously i didn't give a fuck either.

So then we get to the afterparty and at this point, like other girls are coming up to me and being like, "You and so and so should totally hook up" cause I'm pretty sure she had said something to them all about wanting to hook up with me

All the guys and girls there new eachother from school though and I guess this girl has a lot of history with one of the dudes there and her and him like go away to talk for a while and like when she comes back she comes up to me and is like, "I didn't do anything, I promise... we just have a lot of history and he like pretty much always ends up crying about us whenever we see each other" lmao, I dind't even really give a fuck she just like said this to me...

So then at some point I get naked and get in the jacuzzi with a few other people and everyone is trippin out cuase I'm fucking naked lmao. SO I get out and put on this bathrobe and don't like tie it or anything and I'm just like walking around naked with this bathrobe on. This girl comes out of nowhere and slaps me and I didn't really think about anything but as soon as she did it, I just slapped her back (but like not hard) but she overreacts and like falls to the floor and the dude who has a history with the girl I end up hooking up with like comes over and makes a HUGE deal out of it and like kciks me out of their place... in the middle of all of this, the girl comes over and is like, "What happened" and they're like, "He slapped her" and she goes, "Aww he thought she was me" and then is like, "Hey buddhagames, I'm gonna come with you" so she leaves with me and like we're talking and shit I turn to her while we're walking back to my room and start making out with her and then I'm like, "Shit I gotta go back" so I go back and get my shit and when I come out again she's standing there like, "Buddhagmes you have some seirous balls going back there" and I'm just like, "Yeah. I don't really give a fuck"

LMAO- all the dudes were mad drunk and like I guess they called the cops... But i just didn't care cause I was like, "Umm I didn't do shit" and obviously nothing comes of it. The cops are just like, "Yo you guys are just drunk, this is a waste of our time"

So I walk back with my girl and we're making out and we get to my room and walk in and she starts punching me again so I throw her down on the couch and straddle her and start making out with her and taking her clothes off and she's LOVING IT like fucking LOVING IT and so she's naked. My mom is in the other room with my godparents and I"m just going to town on this chick... eating her out like a fucking champ and everyone in the other room hears all of this but nobody comes in. I throw this chick up agains the wall and start choking her cause she's way into that shit and calling her a slut and she starts begging for me to let her suck my dick... so I throw her on her knees and she gives me head to finish me off.

It was a crazy as fuck night. Didn't see any of the dudes the next day. Woke up with this chick like wrapped around me and she's telling me how she lives in new york and how we have to ahng out and stuff... Might do it...

But what's weird is that even though I've wanted to fuck this girl for YEARS... I just don't really think I'm gonna chill with her again lmao...

@buddhagames:

Oh, also, something else.

I'm getting better at reading people and situations. Like before I knew that this girl and one of the guys had a long history together. The very first day, I made a mental note that there was something between them, simply because I saw them interacting for like 10 seconds and in my head I was like, "Okay, if there is any competition here, it's going to be that guy"...

I actually, initially thought they might be dating, that was my initial assesment but it didn't sway me at all.. because a lot of my game this weekend wasn't like super aggressive type stuff, it was more like just successfull passing shit tests until it got to the point where she was gaming me. Like the more shit tests I passed, the more the interaction switched from her giving me shit tests, to her trying to get my attention.

@buddhagames:
TL;DR

;p

Too bad man, you'd learn some stuff from reading a super detailed lay report.

This one was particularly good because I waided through a TON of shit to get the end result.

@buddhagames:

Guess you really did steal his girl lmao.

@Aequitas:

Yeah man, he had bought her at a garage sale a couple years ago.

Possession is 9/10 of the law

this was a solid read

i loled when you got naked and went into the hot tub. i find it weird when people find it weird that im naked or half-naked. what do i care if someone sees my junk or me in my mankini? being naked is awesome especially when in water and/or public but so many people laugh because they cant handle the awkwardness or think its outright crazy.. i dont get it

@icewahine:


Super solid. The most noteworthy parts to me are the pineapple (super smooth), Not giving a shit about the guy that third wheel guy, and your physicality w her throughout this whole thing seems spot on.

Lol id like to know what kind of dance moves you were busting out that ripped your pants that bad

@Alex123:

My guess is that buddha was 'party rockin' and got to shufflin ;)

Yeah, enduring the shit tests, using subtle push/pull, ruthless physicality and becoming the social context is what did it for you man. Oh, and being super amped coz your sis was getting married probs

@buddhagames:

fine. you convinced me... reading now.

@buddhagames:

I was getting SUPER low and then coming back up and then dropping to the floor .

That's what she said

@buddhagames:

this be dat buddha: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AD8H5fPxqns

Hi,i also have a wedding party sep 9,2013,i select the dress first brand 

Oh FUCK

This was back in the dizzzay

This is before I even knew what I was doing. Damn

Clearly I know what you mean by "you didn't know what you were doing" but looking back at these early mw posts, what the biggest differences internally and externally. The 80/20 rule of your dick

1. I do less now, than a year ago

2. I'm screening for chemistry

3. I'm MUCH MUCH MUCH more emotionally stable

3. I don't care as much about pickup or girls NEARLY as much

4. I don't try NEARLY as much

5. I have a job with a ton of responsibility, that is challenging and engaging

6.  I have healthier habits

But yeah, I can't really describe it now - I'm just not really gaming. I don't need to. Girls are sorta just attracted to me. Some aren't, and some are. I think a lot of guys get hung up on this game because they want EVERY girl to like them. But that's just not gonna happen. 

Some girls like me, some girls don't . I refuse to chase. I have standards. I have respect - I don't tolerate disrespect. I'm willing to walk away. I realize how stupid all of this is lol

Honestly - I don't mean to shit on anything we're all doing here, but I guess part of it is also that I started to see the hampster wheel and decided to step off. 

Hahaha "i realize how stupid all this is" literal lol over here.

Yeah I hear you, obviously your not shitting on this. But at a certain point it is silly. I knew that before I even got into the community and why I still think the majority of rsders are goofs.

But that's exactly what I was wondering about. Good to hear. A year and a bit ago your knees were shaking because you tried to talk to someone without a poison in your system and didn't have your gay friends around. LOL.

Seriously though, HUGE applause.

Its gettin' hottt in ere, so take off all your clothes
I am gettin so hott, I'm gonna take my clothes off. I likeyour style buddha, we'd have a sick party man, I get down like a muthafucka in these clubs nig'

haha damn, I forgot about that. 

Yeah... it's been quite a year 

; )

A year is so fucking short too.

and haha yeah you even forgot about that shit..

I just helped a real close friend beat her serious-ass-fucking-physically-debilitating-emotional-disorder. It took her less 5 months from telling me to go from barely being able to leave the house or hold a decent relationship to fucking professional all star, value giving friend, beautifully radiant woman.

Extreme example but that babe doesnt even REMEMBER the horrible shit she went through not 5 months ago nor the pain along the road to super stardom. Thats why success stories like yours and hers are so fucking awesome.

Yeah a year is super short. And ive made a TON of progress in this one year but honestly im already looking forward and you guys have to realize that im basically just going to get exponentially better for a little bit. This next year is going to be a ride.

Cause im still sooo new to all this and have a ton or deep layered "knots" as I like to call them, that need to be addressed. I still have way too much ego and my relationship with women involves far too much control and power issues. I also am just beginning to understand my own value and love for myself on a deep level. Like that level where you see a girl and the first thing that crosses your mind ISNT game... cause you know you dont even need it.