Vince FRs weekly goals
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 10:46
Ok back home now....after the summit i am sick of being this weak ass no dating life chode fag lol . I made myself a list of general goals and beliefs i need to keep to this next month, before the month is over :
Entitlement issues. I know one of my main issues is I dont believe it can go down. I know that to solve this, i need to work on smaller successes and work my way up. weak willpower is my second issue. my entitlemrnt is always 1% less and they sense it. As you mw once said When you are not entitled in life, you are not entitled in game.
-- i am attached to the short term results. I need to aim for the greater good , for building my inner game, and character, boss daddy frame .i know when the growth is there, then the results will come soon after.
-- my standards for interaction should be is I fully expect them to have sex with me. Nothing less. As Todd said, the only good that can come from this interaction is i get laid else expect only that it will end in a bad way.
-- i need to be proactive about take care of shit quickly. Handle it and move on.
-- i need to develop that more focus i put my cellphone on airplane mode all day.
--, i need to put myself into challenging situations that scare me because that triggers the unsconscious learning. Comfort zone activites are bad for my aggressiveness im cultivating.
--I have to create those hardships for myself and overcome them because as is my life now i have it too easy and well within my comfort zone Once i handle this, the 6 7 sets will easier. Pushing myself will create that character.
Some notes from Tyler:
The habits you build now, the thought processes you build for yourself now, is what will lead yourself to success down the road.
Developing that pre frontal cortex is hard. One habit now is going to lead to another. Each habit thing you do has a purpose.
On being positive :
Why would you waist your that precious time, that you have, by complaining and getting down on yourself. What purpose does it serve other than that life is being waisted.
Weekly questionaire :
AM i pushing myself beyond my boundaries every day this week?
What am I scared of?
How can i create a challenge out of that for this. ? How will this affect my game.?
Are you cocommunicating from that alpha boss daddy frame.?
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For this first week:
Develop strong frame control / plowing / persitence. For example, as brad said when you say "come here" to a girl, and she gives you a "no" response, my typical action is to walk away. Instad i want to keep the frame, i am awesome/fun/sexual and tell her "hey, i said come here". This plowing being persistent is what makes my heart feel butterflies . Every set at least once in the set i narrate the present how she is supposed to feel and holding my frame for a solid 2 minutes in a set, for 3 sets a day. if I can do one of my boss daddy frames date planner then its a bonus. My success criteria is not whether i got her number but whether i was true to the frame.
Alrightity let roll.
.
Entitlement issues. I know one of my main issues is I dont believe it can go down. I know that to solve this, i need to work on smaller successes and work my way up. weak willpower is my second issue. my entitlemrnt is always 1% less and they sense it. As you mw once said When you are not entitled in life, you are not entitled in game.
-- i am attached to the short term results. I need to aim for the greater good , for building my inner game, and character, boss daddy frame .i know when the growth is there, then the results will come soon after.
-- my standards for interaction should be is I fully expect them to have sex with me. Nothing less. As Todd said, the only good that can come from this interaction is i get laid else expect only that it will end in a bad way.
-- i need to be proactive about take care of shit quickly. Handle it and move on.
-- i need to develop that more focus i put my cellphone on airplane mode all day.
--, i need to put myself into challenging situations that scare me because that triggers the unsconscious learning. Comfort zone activites are bad for my aggressiveness im cultivating.
--I have to create those hardships for myself and overcome them because as is my life now i have it too easy and well within my comfort zone Once i handle this, the 6 7 sets will easier. Pushing myself will create that character.
Some notes from Tyler:
The habits you build now, the thought processes you build for yourself now, is what will lead yourself to success down the road.
Developing that pre frontal cortex is hard. One habit now is going to lead to another. Each habit thing you do has a purpose.
On being positive :
Why would you waist your that precious time, that you have, by complaining and getting down on yourself. What purpose does it serve other than that life is being waisted.
Weekly questionaire :
AM i pushing myself beyond my boundaries every day this week?
What am I scared of?
How can i create a challenge out of that for this. ? How will this affect my game.?
Are you cocommunicating from that alpha boss daddy frame.?
--------------------------------
For this first week:
Develop strong frame control / plowing / persitence. For example, as brad said when you say "come here" to a girl, and she gives you a "no" response, my typical action is to walk away. Instad i want to keep the frame, i am awesome/fun/sexual and tell her "hey, i said come here". This plowing being persistent is what makes my heart feel butterflies . Every set at least once in the set i narrate the present how she is supposed to feel and holding my frame for a solid 2 minutes in a set, for 3 sets a day. if I can do one of my boss daddy frames date planner then its a bonus. My success criteria is not whether i got her number but whether i was true to the frame.
Alrightity let roll.
.
Wed, 08/29/2012 - 17:17
#1
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
Questionnaire :
Did i push myself out of comfort zone, did i push myself? Not really tonight although i did the sets for 2 hours, i neve went as hard as i did my first night in vegas. Therefore the success didn't come.
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? i did for the first set, where i was in my own reality.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? For two of the sets, the first one i wasn't loud enough
Did I revert to my old behaviors? No
Am i Focused or distracted? fairly focused
Did i develop my willpower? not really
Am I on track for a lay this week? at this rate yes
First set, see a 25 yr old at the bar by her self. I open with BR and give her shit for wearing a pokie dot dress. She asks me where i am from, i tell her the three spots where i am.. The rest of her questions i answer straigh forward, i wonder if i should have been playful or i am falling into her frame. At some point she tells me she is a not a long horn fan, I start telling her this conversation is over. Actually, Get out of the bar lol. However, I try to put my hand on her back and she immediately moves her back away. I do again later on, same thing. AT this point, i am pissed and know its not going down, i Walk away in stead I should have called her out on it.
Second set, again i get up in her grille and try to get into her space at first shes into it because its her birthday. But afterwards shes resisting my escalation. I bail. My wing later tells me i was trying to take just becuase i was saying something to her. I was just horny, no time to be value giving sometimes. Time is important.
Third set, i remember the two good things that came out from vegas are me setting that man to woman frame right away. I sometimes get up right into their grille and escalate on them, basically boner dick. Secondly, is that i dont really give a fuck what I am saying only that I Remember what matters more is the emotions that are being subcommunicated not that actually words. Blonde as she is leaving, i Grab her, get in her face and say "whoa, your leaving without saying goodbye" , EC on target. I grab her hand and walk her out. As were walking, i talk to her again and this time, i almost feel like she is shit testing me or maybe i appear to intersted or too attached to the outcome here. She says something like "you seem more interested in me than i am " or "i am gonna walk my friend to a cab, and i ll be back, if we met up again cool else " Maybe she sensed i was needy. I honestly was just horny. I know there is a lesson here, but i am too focused on executing what i did in vegas.
Questionnaire :
Did i push myself out of comfort zone, did i push myself? Not really tonight although i did the sets for 2 hours, i neve went as hard as i did my first night in vegas. Therefore the success didn't come.
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? i did for the first set, where i was in my own reality.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? For two of the sets, the first one i wasn't loud enough
Did I revert to my old behaviors? No
Am i Focused or distracted? fairly focused
Did i develop my willpower? not really
Am I on track for a lay this week? at this rate yes
First set, see a 25 yr old at the bar by her self. I open with BR and give her shit for wearing a pokie dot dress. She asks me where i am from, i tell her the three spots where i am.. The rest of her questions i answer straigh forward, i wonder if i should have been playful or i am falling into her frame. At some point she tells me she is a not a long horn fan, I start telling her this conversation is over. Actually, Get out of the bar lol. However, I try to put my hand on her back and she immediately moves her back away. I do again later on, same thing. AT this point, i am pissed and know its not going down, i Walk away in stead I should have called her out on it.
Second set, again i get up in her grille and try to get into her space at first shes into it because its her birthday. But afterwards shes resisting my escalation. I bail. My wing later tells me i was trying to take just becuase i was saying something to her. I was just horny, no time to be value giving sometimes. Time is important.
Third set, i remember the two good things that came out from vegas are me setting that man to woman frame right away. I sometimes get up right into their grille and escalate on them, basically boner dick. Secondly, is that i dont really give a fuck what I am saying only that I Remember what matters more is the emotions that are being subcommunicated not that actually words. Blonde as she is leaving, i Grab her, get in her face and say "whoa, your leaving without saying goodbye" , EC on target. I grab her hand and walk her out. As were walking, i talk to her again and this time, i almost feel like she is shit testing me or maybe i appear to intersted or too attached to the outcome here. She says something like "you seem more interested in me than i am " or "i am gonna walk my friend to a cab, and i ll be back, if we met up again cool else " Maybe she sensed i was needy. I honestly was just horny. I know there is a lesson here, but i am too focused on executing what i did in vegas.
Thu, 08/30/2012 - 02:44
#2
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
What is BR?
"I open her with BR"
Yeah dude I think the first thing on your list is the #1 thing Im dealing with right now. I think you said in another post, "its harder to convince yourself than it is to convince the girl"
Im starting to do meditation for 20min per day. In Tyler's recent video he says that this "simulates abundance" which is my biggest issue. That and doing a bunch of things outside of game that will make me feel proud of myself, like I am going down the right path. I just bought a mattress today for my new apartment. Granted it cost me some money but I spend more than a third of my day on my bed I think it should be "up to my standards"
Thats also something Tony Robbins talks about in "Awakening the Giant Within" which I just started. Here's some of the shit I thought was the most important out of what I've read so far:
"
19. Today, I’ve come to realize that all my past failure and frustration were actually laying the foundation for the understandings that have created the new level of living I now enjoy.
21. I decided I would never again to settle for less than I could be.
Concentration of power- Most people have no idea of the giant capacity we can immediately command when we focus all of our resources on mastering a single area of our lives. Controlled focus is like a laser beam that can cut through anything that seems to be stopping you. When we focus consistently on improvement in any area, we develop unique distinctions on how to make that area better.
3 Elementary principles of change
1: Raise your standards: write down what I will no longer accept in my life, what I will no longer tolerate, and all the things I aspire to become
2: Change my Limiting Beliefs: We must develop a sense of certainty that we can, and will meet the new standards before we actually do
3: Change your strategy: Once you commit to a higher standard, you simply WILL find a way.
35. The power of decision gives you the capacity to get past any excuse to change your life in an instant.
38. It’s not important to initially know how youre going to create a result. What’s important is to decide I will find a way, no matter what.
Ultimate success formula:
1) Decide what I want 2) Take action 3) Notice what’s working or not, 4) Change my approach until i acheive what I want
What is BR?
"I open her with BR"
Yeah dude I think the first thing on your list is the #1 thing Im dealing with right now. I think you said in another post, "its harder to convince yourself than it is to convince the girl"
Im starting to do meditation for 20min per day. In Tyler's recent video he says that this "simulates abundance" which is my biggest issue. That and doing a bunch of things outside of game that will make me feel proud of myself, like I am going down the right path. I just bought a mattress today for my new apartment. Granted it cost me some money but I spend more than a third of my day on my bed I think it should be "up to my standards"
Thats also something Tony Robbins talks about in "Awakening the Giant Within" which I just started. Here's some of the shit I thought was the most important out of what I've read so far:
"
19. Today, I’ve come to realize that all my past failure and frustration were actually laying the foundation for the understandings that have created the new level of living I now enjoy.
21. I decided I would never again to settle for less than I could be.
Concentration of power- Most people have no idea of the giant capacity we can immediately command when we focus all of our resources on mastering a single area of our lives. Controlled focus is like a laser beam that can cut through anything that seems to be stopping you. When we focus consistently on improvement in any area, we develop unique distinctions on how to make that area better.
3 Elementary principles of change
1: Raise your standards: write down what I will no longer accept in my life, what I will no longer tolerate, and all the things I aspire to become
2: Change my Limiting Beliefs: We must develop a sense of certainty that we can, and will meet the new standards before we actually do
3: Change your strategy: Once you commit to a higher standard, you simply WILL find a way.
35. The power of decision gives you the capacity to get past any excuse to change your life in an instant.
38. It’s not important to initially know how youre going to create a result. What’s important is to decide I will find a way, no matter what.
Ultimate success formula:
1) Decide what I want 2) Take action 3) Notice what’s working or not, 4) Change my approach until i acheive what I want
Thu, 08/30/2012 - 04:20
#3
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Alex123:
@Alex123:
What's crazy is when you haven't read or heard any of this shit... and then someone posts it and you read it and you're like, "Well, fuck... I'm doing ALL of that"
Like literally, those are just ALL of the natural thought proccesses I have developed lol...
The thing is it's NOT a reframe or something you "just tell yourself"... it's the truth... like you guys get that right?
Like my success is a 100% guareentie as long as I keep taking action. It's literally that simple. And it's NO DIFFERENT for you.
It's just fact. Might as well just fast forward to the ending- but alas, then we'd miss all the fun.
@Alex123:
What's crazy is when you haven't read or heard any of this shit... and then someone posts it and you read it and you're like, "Well, fuck... I'm doing ALL of that"
Like literally, those are just ALL of the natural thought proccesses I have developed lol...
The thing is it's NOT a reframe or something you "just tell yourself"... it's the truth... like you guys get that right?
Like my success is a 100% guareentie as long as I keep taking action. It's literally that simple. And it's NO DIFFERENT for you.
It's just fact. Might as well just fast forward to the ending- but alas, then we'd miss all the fun.
Fri, 08/31/2012 - 00:37
#4
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
^ Alex and Buddha, Tons of value in those posts. I appreciate it.
About tonight:
Basically what happened was that i was already in bed by 12. I end up getting up getting dressed and heading to meatpacking. Its 1 am, for the first hour, i am just feeling so out of state, and just push myself into awkward situations. I keep repeating t "do believe in myself or not". I eventually find my groove, i am dancing and starting to have fun and being social with everyone. I am loud again and opening girls and getting right up in their grille and. One set of indian girls pass by. I tell her i like girls with bangs. One set of middle eastern girls pass by and i ask her about the middle eastern palm hotel. Then an indian girl walking around, i open loud and dance with her for a bit. She later snubs me after i ask her what time her flight is tomorrow. I think at this point, my entitlemtn drops a bit and i am not going into sets, stopped opening all the sets and not getting physical right away.
I give myself credit for pushing myself for getting out and at least doing a bit of work. Even though it was.
Did i push myself out of comfort zone, did i push myself? like at 70%
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? Goal was frame control and plowing. I didn't plow. One set i asked multiple times.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my Interactions? I was loud
Did I revert to my old behaviors? No, like a different person more aggressie less bullshitting.
Am i Focused or distracted? fairly focused
Did i develop my willpower? Yes
Am I on track for a lay this week? Yes
^ Alex and Buddha, Tons of value in those posts. I appreciate it.
About tonight:
Basically what happened was that i was already in bed by 12. I end up getting up getting dressed and heading to meatpacking. Its 1 am, for the first hour, i am just feeling so out of state, and just push myself into awkward situations. I keep repeating t "do believe in myself or not". I eventually find my groove, i am dancing and starting to have fun and being social with everyone. I am loud again and opening girls and getting right up in their grille and. One set of indian girls pass by. I tell her i like girls with bangs. One set of middle eastern girls pass by and i ask her about the middle eastern palm hotel. Then an indian girl walking around, i open loud and dance with her for a bit. She later snubs me after i ask her what time her flight is tomorrow. I think at this point, my entitlemtn drops a bit and i am not going into sets, stopped opening all the sets and not getting physical right away.
I give myself credit for pushing myself for getting out and at least doing a bit of work. Even though it was.
Did i push myself out of comfort zone, did i push myself? like at 70%
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? Goal was frame control and plowing. I didn't plow. One set i asked multiple times.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my Interactions? I was loud
Did I revert to my old behaviors? No, like a different person more aggressie less bullshitting.
Am i Focused or distracted? fairly focused
Did i develop my willpower? Yes
Am I on track for a lay this week? Yes
Sun, 09/02/2012 - 01:07
#5
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
Did i push myself out of comfort zone, did i push myself? No
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? No
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my Interactions? I was loud for the firs t 1 hour, had a state crash and lost my mojo.
Did I revert to my old behaviors? Yes i am starting to a little bit.
Am i Focused or distracted? beginning to get distracted
Did i develop my willpower? No
Am I on track for a lay this week? No
thurs - overslept didn't go out.
fri - went to to LES, i was very social pretty much chatted up the entire club and had massive social proof. But i never took the next step in action. I didn't realize it til like 4 am when this 3 set of swedish girls, one stops me and gives me a major kiss on the cheek. and just stops attentively. what do i do, like a little smurf get all butterflies, face red and say kiss her back goodnight. What i should ahve done is keep the interaction going like saying "lets get food". Wouda shoulda coulda bs lol
i just know right now i am not taking the course of action, not doing the right thing. My willpower nad self dscipline just sucked big balls .fear i may be reverting to my own self for this i think i need to self punish myself a bit. This is not where i want to be right now.
the last two days i basically, overslept, didn't go out, watched porn. its clear to me as was apparent last week.. the longer i do inaction, the easier is it for me to revert to my old self. Tonight i must correct.
Did i push myself out of comfort zone, did i push myself? No
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? No
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my Interactions? I was loud for the firs t 1 hour, had a state crash and lost my mojo.
Did I revert to my old behaviors? Yes i am starting to a little bit.
Am i Focused or distracted? beginning to get distracted
Did i develop my willpower? No
Am I on track for a lay this week? No
thurs - overslept didn't go out.
fri - went to to LES, i was very social pretty much chatted up the entire club and had massive social proof. But i never took the next step in action. I didn't realize it til like 4 am when this 3 set of swedish girls, one stops me and gives me a major kiss on the cheek. and just stops attentively. what do i do, like a little smurf get all butterflies, face red and say kiss her back goodnight. What i should ahve done is keep the interaction going like saying "lets get food". Wouda shoulda coulda bs lol
i just know right now i am not taking the course of action, not doing the right thing. My willpower nad self dscipline just sucked big balls .fear i may be reverting to my own self for this i think i need to self punish myself a bit. This is not where i want to be right now.
the last two days i basically, overslept, didn't go out, watched porn. its clear to me as was apparent last week.. the longer i do inaction, the easier is it for me to revert to my old self. Tonight i must correct.
Sun, 09/02/2012 - 02:19
#6
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
Vince don't get despondent. Tonight is a new night, you're good to go. When you start thinking you're backtracking and losing traction on progress in life it starts eating at your OVERALL perspective of going for success and accomplishment. So don't do it.
You're FINE. You're making progress and will continue to do so.
Vince don't get despondent. Tonight is a new night, you're good to go. When you start thinking you're backtracking and losing traction on progress in life it starts eating at your OVERALL perspective of going for success and accomplishment. So don't do it.
You're FINE. You're making progress and will continue to do so.
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Tue, 09/04/2012 - 03:18
#7
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
questionarire:
willpower ? Yes I got up way early on sunday worked out, read tolle, and forced my self into daygame.
pushing myself in sets? No, i am very social but I didnt try to escalate make outs or force a frame. just my chill behavior.
focus-ed ? yes, i am basically mediating everyday now.
was i boss daddy/dominanting ? to this even though i didn't get laid, i have to enter yes , i pushed myself out of my reactive mindset , i took charge , i used the first venue didn't waist time and moved to the 2nd and plowed until i got into massive awesome state. I had a great action first vibe.
Did I revert to my old behaviors? no but no growth this week.
Am I on track for a lay this week? no, i fucked up last night . 'taking the right action at the right time'. i had the opportunity but didn't pull the trigger.. maybe its a positivity whereas i think too negative.
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reflecting on last week,i am being more proactive but it isn't enough.
i have to give myself credit for the first part of the night. I just had built so much momenetum and those affirmations and everything that i didn't waist time. I came into the first venue as a person who is taken charge of his destiny. via willpower. I was a boss. The rest of the night were muddled. Eventually i find a groove and get shit happening.
this is a classic example of my inability to think on my feet, my lack of self belief that i am enough/sex is going to happen, my not plowing at all ( its now my main goal for this week). Not playin to win.
i had this girl went down the escalators from the club, and were standing in front of the hotel at this point, all i had to say was "girl look the night is young, i want get that drink with you now instead, lets continue this, lets go back to my place or get a drink at your place". thats the type of aggressive thinking i currently dont have and its apparant i m not in the "play to win: mode. Even though i m awesome at talking to them. if i got that extra 30 minutes with her i could have laid her. My state was on freaking fire right then and there. but didnt take right action.
the goal of this week is simple;
GET aggressive period (going for the kill, playing to win ) /plowing ( say something to extend it) /escalating ( making sure she knows what i want ) /sticking to my reality thorough ( always believe you are enough til the end)
i want to get back into that vibe of last week. "GO, Go, go", no thinking just executingg, it happens this week.
develop that massive aggressiveness
stop going for the number, close the same day or none at all.
the victory comes from not the number, but sticking to your own expectations and standards in teh field such as enforcing my own reality rules. ANd from me believing 100% in myself.. having that iam enough convinction thoroughout from the pull to the close to the first minute. Like Julien said, be willing to burn these lukewarm ones now for the definite fucks down the road. Finding that in the long term thee success will come when ur reality and self belief are strong but u can't pinpoint when and exactly where it will happen.
extent the interaction, play to win, keep plowing keep the interaction goingg dont just walk off half way thru. until u've burned it. PLOWING AND PLOWING.
continue to develop that willpower muscle .
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p.s halfway thru the night i felt like i was enjoying the interaction more vs than trying to get the lay. maybe i need to get testoterone shots lol.
questionarire:
willpower ? Yes I got up way early on sunday worked out, read tolle, and forced my self into daygame.
pushing myself in sets? No, i am very social but I didnt try to escalate make outs or force a frame. just my chill behavior.
focus-ed ? yes, i am basically mediating everyday now.
was i boss daddy/dominanting ? to this even though i didn't get laid, i have to enter yes , i pushed myself out of my reactive mindset , i took charge , i used the first venue didn't waist time and moved to the 2nd and plowed until i got into massive awesome state. I had a great action first vibe.
Did I revert to my old behaviors? no but no growth this week.
Am I on track for a lay this week? no, i fucked up last night . 'taking the right action at the right time'. i had the opportunity but didn't pull the trigger.. maybe its a positivity whereas i think too negative.
------
reflecting on last week,i am being more proactive but it isn't enough.
i have to give myself credit for the first part of the night. I just had built so much momenetum and those affirmations and everything that i didn't waist time. I came into the first venue as a person who is taken charge of his destiny. via willpower. I was a boss. The rest of the night were muddled. Eventually i find a groove and get shit happening.
this is a classic example of my inability to think on my feet, my lack of self belief that i am enough/sex is going to happen, my not plowing at all ( its now my main goal for this week). Not playin to win.
i had this girl went down the escalators from the club, and were standing in front of the hotel at this point, all i had to say was "girl look the night is young, i want get that drink with you now instead, lets continue this, lets go back to my place or get a drink at your place". thats the type of aggressive thinking i currently dont have and its apparant i m not in the "play to win: mode. Even though i m awesome at talking to them. if i got that extra 30 minutes with her i could have laid her. My state was on freaking fire right then and there. but didnt take right action.
the goal of this week is simple;
GET aggressive period (going for the kill, playing to win ) /plowing ( say something to extend it) /escalating ( making sure she knows what i want ) /sticking to my reality thorough ( always believe you are enough til the end)
i want to get back into that vibe of last week. "GO, Go, go", no thinking just executingg, it happens this week.
develop that massive aggressiveness
stop going for the number, close the same day or none at all.
the victory comes from not the number, but sticking to your own expectations and standards in teh field such as enforcing my own reality rules. ANd from me believing 100% in myself.. having that iam enough convinction thoroughout from the pull to the close to the first minute. Like Julien said, be willing to burn these lukewarm ones now for the definite fucks down the road. Finding that in the long term thee success will come when ur reality and self belief are strong but u can't pinpoint when and exactly where it will happen.
extent the interaction, play to win, keep plowing keep the interaction goingg dont just walk off half way thru. until u've burned it. PLOWING AND PLOWING.
continue to develop that willpower muscle .
-----------------------------------------
p.s halfway thru the night i felt like i was enjoying the interaction more vs than trying to get the lay. maybe i need to get testoterone shots lol.
Thu, 09/06/2012 - 16:39
#8
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince: Am i working on task goals? Yes
Am I communicating boss daddy? Not completely.
First interaction, local bar 10 pm. See a blonde older woman stunner sitting in the corner and i am basically cracking myself up with self amusing. I ask her we can get drinks at my pllace, she says "positivitly not", but there is a hesitation there. Was i creating attraction being self amusing?
Goto MP, met up with Alex. I See two stunners in the corner and I take a long breath and open these two stunners. I just keep chatting her up, spinning her around, putting my hands on her a§s. At this point, she just walks off with her friend. Dont know what happened lol
See this black chick i do the same as above, getting up close, hand on ass, and just leading the interaction. Shes down, but again i didn't find out logistics.
We goto Pianos, open this russian girl, shes really drunk and attracted but her boyfriend is standing like 20 seconds away. I was loud, horny, and getting physical right away.
Looking at my goals and what i did. I was on point;
- i was horny and basically just let it out.
- i was in my own reality and also being persistent as fuck. This has the side effect of me setting the frame, and "taking charge" of the interaction.
-why it didn't work out bc i wasn't loud enough, i wasn't boss enough. ( in setting the frame), i didn't go for the makeout. I didn't try to ask "what are you doing later?" I didn't try to lead her. These are the habits of success i was talking about.
Did i stay on goals? Yes
Did i push comfort zone / develop success habits? NO
Was I communicating boss daddy? No
Did I revert to my old behaviors? No.
Am i Focused? Yes
Did i develop my willpower? Not really going all the way
Am I communicating boss daddy? Not completely.
First interaction, local bar 10 pm. See a blonde older woman stunner sitting in the corner and i am basically cracking myself up with self amusing. I ask her we can get drinks at my pllace, she says "positivitly not", but there is a hesitation there. Was i creating attraction being self amusing?
Goto MP, met up with Alex. I See two stunners in the corner and I take a long breath and open these two stunners. I just keep chatting her up, spinning her around, putting my hands on her a§s. At this point, she just walks off with her friend. Dont know what happened lol
See this black chick i do the same as above, getting up close, hand on ass, and just leading the interaction. Shes down, but again i didn't find out logistics.
We goto Pianos, open this russian girl, shes really drunk and attracted but her boyfriend is standing like 20 seconds away. I was loud, horny, and getting physical right away.
Looking at my goals and what i did. I was on point;
- i was horny and basically just let it out.
- i was in my own reality and also being persistent as fuck. This has the side effect of me setting the frame, and "taking charge" of the interaction.
-why it didn't work out bc i wasn't loud enough, i wasn't boss enough. ( in setting the frame), i didn't go for the makeout. I didn't try to ask "what are you doing later?" I didn't try to lead her. These are the habits of success i was talking about.
Did i stay on goals? Yes
Did i push comfort zone / develop success habits? NO
Was I communicating boss daddy? No
Did I revert to my old behaviors? No.
Am i Focused? Yes
Did i develop my willpower? Not really going all the way
Sun, 09/09/2012 - 12:05
#9
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
LR.
LR.
Sun, 09/09/2012 - 13:39
#10
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
FUCK YEA. Spill it need to hear it
FUCK YEA. Spill it need to hear it
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Mon, 09/10/2012 - 20:08
#11
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
bably the hottest ass i ve ever had. she like 5 foot 9. blonde. and was wearing this super tight dress ..,black just the way i like it lol. were walking by 34th, see this girl walking alone, wing pushes me in , i open wih BR tonality. makeout finger her in the street as a cop car passes, and basically throw her into the cab.
last night was a lesson in positivity, and how i always think in the negative. i think its never going to happen, i give up at the slightest resistence she gives me. the two things i learned is that you can never predict when it will happen and with whom, and secondly that even whatever happekeplowing. side note: ( without my wing this would never happen)
the second lesson , is being utterly calm and cool in tthe pocket, yet dominant . last night, her objections - were dealt with calmy and without need. she was throwing them to see how i would react ( maybe i am over thinking it ?) . She tells me "i am not going up there to ur room". Me: Calm as fuck, and not reacting emotionally. my voice barely fluncates - "2 mins, gonna take a bathroom break" and i walk off fully expecting her to be led. we get inside the cab, she doesn't wt to go - she tells me "we have to go that way", me: as if I know what i am doing ..'yes that is where we are going". I bark orders at the cab drivers like know .
. In reality - even though it was like a ten minute pull - maybe it was luck but I worked all this week lol
i remember last monday, i had walked into a singles even basically owned it as if i have just 30 minutes to get a number and be out to the next place because my time is too value to spend my night there lol. that "take charge" attitude was ever-present last week. I value my time so importanty, that who i speak with, adn how i spend my time are done with precision welding of "ready to walk away" at the slightest mis-glance. the aggressive i have worked on all week - has finally come to use. last wed i was super physical with girls pickgin them up, gettin in their face, slapping their asses. . - if i hadnt this week, i wouldn't have fingered this girl in the middle of the street in front of the cop car . the tonality i worked on - being that loud, br tonality and saying things with utter conviction. Even though i only spoke two words to her, the fact that i did it with br in the beginnning and loudness really helped.
last night was a lesson in positivity, and how i always think in the negative. i think its never going to happen, i give up at the slightest resistence she gives me. the two things i learned is that you can never predict when it will happen and with whom, and secondly that even whatever happekeplowing. side note: ( without my wing this would never happen)
the second lesson , is being utterly calm and cool in tthe pocket, yet dominant . last night, her objections - were dealt with calmy and without need. she was throwing them to see how i would react ( maybe i am over thinking it ?) . She tells me "i am not going up there to ur room". Me: Calm as fuck, and not reacting emotionally. my voice barely fluncates - "2 mins, gonna take a bathroom break" and i walk off fully expecting her to be led. we get inside the cab, she doesn't wt to go - she tells me "we have to go that way", me: as if I know what i am doing ..'yes that is where we are going". I bark orders at the cab drivers like know .
. In reality - even though it was like a ten minute pull - maybe it was luck but I worked all this week lol
i remember last monday, i had walked into a singles even basically owned it as if i have just 30 minutes to get a number and be out to the next place because my time is too value to spend my night there lol. that "take charge" attitude was ever-present last week. I value my time so importanty, that who i speak with, adn how i spend my time are done with precision welding of "ready to walk away" at the slightest mis-glance. the aggressive i have worked on all week - has finally come to use. last wed i was super physical with girls pickgin them up, gettin in their face, slapping their asses. . - if i hadnt this week, i wouldn't have fingered this girl in the middle of the street in front of the cop car . the tonality i worked on - being that loud, br tonality and saying things with utter conviction. Even though i only spoke two words to her, the fact that i did it with br in the beginnning and loudness really helped.
Mon, 09/10/2012 - 19:55
#12
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
Edit: I edited this one to be more readable.
-- having to compete against guys who are much more aggressive than me, really i've had to push my own game better.
-- I have completely taken responsiblity and charge of . I am on my own and action and my own efforts is my only savior.
-> the CBT training, the visualization drills have more
The crazy wing-- i asked myself what separating me from him ?. what is the difference in value that i bring to the table.. . a. first of all this guy has better hair better looking, good looking . the answer is that i can only become more alpha , more dominant, more cool under pressure, more boss, more particular about treating myself high value. and communicating that confidence better than he can. and that is what i did.
--> just being loud and talking endlessly.= Confidence. --> " I am in charge". I scout the club quickly and see viable targets and then i am out. my time is important and i dont fuck around b.s.. last night table of 4 dudes 1 blonde, i ask her in front of her friends for the number, i couldn't be fucked --in the old days i would chat up eople partly because i was nervous and shit like that, but when u feel so high value you use your time effectively if ur chatting u chat with people that are useful for you. if your taking you talking to girls that u give them full atention and hard br so they know ur the boss. You are quick . I dont waist time of myself 'warming up" , trying to get into state, by taking to the grandmas. Indifference and cockiness at its finest.
--> , i woudlnt' open girls with normal openers. that would be giving them too much respect as if they were my equals. they are insignificant to me, so much so that i would open them with the worst whatever nonsense .
-->when i talk to people, its with an authority and br tonality. i dont waist time. . with ordinary boring conversations. I am loud as fuck, i subcommunicate that i didn't want to drop my value to their level by even treating them like a giving them normal conversation .e.g. girl as i just approached i tell her " i am batman", "this is my cape", "look girl, i only take girls i've fornicated with to the batcave"
--> i've drilled it into my head. to a not worry about whether what i am saying is going to get a postive reaction - but that and i trained myself because to be in my own reality. Last night i got so many harsh blow outs in teh beginning and i just plowed on. I'm immune now.
-- go go go execute.
--> Unless you set the frame, ONE will be provided for u. that one may not be the one u like lol the way i communicate from today to last week is completely different:
-- having to compete against guys who are much more aggressive than me, really i've had to push my own game better.
-- I have completely taken responsiblity and charge of . I am on my own and action and my own efforts is my only savior.
-> the CBT training, the visualization drills have more
The crazy wing-- i asked myself what separating me from him ?. what is the difference in value that i bring to the table.. . a. first of all this guy has better hair better looking, good looking . the answer is that i can only become more alpha , more dominant, more cool under pressure, more boss, more particular about treating myself high value. and communicating that confidence better than he can. and that is what i did.
--> just being loud and talking endlessly.= Confidence. --> " I am in charge". I scout the club quickly and see viable targets and then i am out. my time is important and i dont fuck around b.s.. last night table of 4 dudes 1 blonde, i ask her in front of her friends for the number, i couldn't be fucked --in the old days i would chat up eople partly because i was nervous and shit like that, but when u feel so high value you use your time effectively if ur chatting u chat with people that are useful for you. if your taking you talking to girls that u give them full atention and hard br so they know ur the boss. You are quick . I dont waist time of myself 'warming up" , trying to get into state, by taking to the grandmas. Indifference and cockiness at its finest.
--> , i woudlnt' open girls with normal openers. that would be giving them too much respect as if they were my equals. they are insignificant to me, so much so that i would open them with the worst whatever nonsense .
-->when i talk to people, its with an authority and br tonality. i dont waist time. . with ordinary boring conversations. I am loud as fuck, i subcommunicate that i didn't want to drop my value to their level by even treating them like a giving them normal conversation .e.g. girl as i just approached i tell her " i am batman", "this is my cape", "look girl, i only take girls i've fornicated with to the batcave"
--> i've drilled it into my head. to a not worry about whether what i am saying is going to get a postive reaction - but that and i trained myself because to be in my own reality. Last night i got so many harsh blow outs in teh beginning and i just plowed on. I'm immune now.
-- go go go execute.
--> Unless you set the frame, ONE will be provided for u. that one may not be the one u like lol the way i communicate from today to last week is completely different:
Mon, 09/10/2012 - 09:24
#13
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
Holy gawdamn shit.
Five star thread
Five star thread
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Tue, 09/11/2012 - 03:41
#14
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
Yea I read through this again and it's awesome. Jon and his baller coaching keeping vaginas wet since 1981.
Tue, 09/11/2012 - 04:58
#15
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Jeff:
1982
Please don't make me older.
1982
Please don't make me older.
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Fri, 09/14/2012 - 21:40
#16
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
T
Tuesday sept 12th
Last night Right now I feel like i've regressed a little bit. I feel alittle like i am self doubting myself -- i feel some sets its just not going to happen. I know you have told me numerous times that i am a good looking guy, but the reactions from the girls tonight makes me think that they are "selecting against me" or "or out of my league" lol like there were two interactions we had. Last night was supposed to be "make something happen" day because i was feeling it .Me and this wing, a tall black muscluar dude, both start talking to this one girl. I am being loud and dominating leading the conversation in the beginning. We move to another venue. He is a good friend, He gives me the signal to go and escalate on her and lets me dominante for a bit. We move to another venue, at this point i try to escalate to see where i am at with her. She is stiff resisting any type of physicality . At this point the black dude, starts leading her around the club and starts talking mor. She is giving the black dude more attention and puts her hand on her shoulder. At this point, i feel like a third wheel and i start to think she likes the black more and -- i bail. I felt like "she selected him" subtly by giving him more attention and putting her hand on his shoulder. Or maybe i overthink things in the field. I brush this off and i begin to work on more sets. I am standing next to this guy i just met in the bar who is wearing a suit. I stop a girl as she is walking by, and i grab her and start talking to her. she immediately turns to guy standing next to me and tells him 'he's cute", starting to give him more attention, while i stand there loooking bored and chatting with her two other friends for a bit. She is really interested and etc.
Wednesday sept 13th
Questionnaire :
Did i push myself out of comfort zone/fears, did i push myself? Not really
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? goals were to communicate man to a woman and be persistent as fuck for perosnal growth.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? i tried but it wasn't coming across as much.
Did I revert to my old behaviors/waist a day? Yes, i walked off after two hours, if i had the fire why did i acquiece to giving up so quickly where is the fight, i had to keep on going to the next bar, get food and keep goin,
Am i Focused or unfocused? did my morning routine.
Did i develop my willpower? Not really, giving up at 2 am is not willpower
Am I on track for a lay this week? not really, you had an awesome lesson you learned when you got schooled by the black guy that your laziness and lack of willpower to execute these tasks to success is causing other poeple to eat your lunch.
T
Tuesday sept 12th
Last night Right now I feel like i've regressed a little bit. I feel alittle like i am self doubting myself -- i feel some sets its just not going to happen. I know you have told me numerous times that i am a good looking guy, but the reactions from the girls tonight makes me think that they are "selecting against me" or "or out of my league" lol like there were two interactions we had. Last night was supposed to be "make something happen" day because i was feeling it .Me and this wing, a tall black muscluar dude, both start talking to this one girl. I am being loud and dominating leading the conversation in the beginning. We move to another venue. He is a good friend, He gives me the signal to go and escalate on her and lets me dominante for a bit. We move to another venue, at this point i try to escalate to see where i am at with her. She is stiff resisting any type of physicality . At this point the black dude, starts leading her around the club and starts talking mor. She is giving the black dude more attention and puts her hand on her shoulder. At this point, i feel like a third wheel and i start to think she likes the black more and -- i bail. I felt like "she selected him" subtly by giving him more attention and putting her hand on his shoulder. Or maybe i overthink things in the field. I brush this off and i begin to work on more sets. I am standing next to this guy i just met in the bar who is wearing a suit. I stop a girl as she is walking by, and i grab her and start talking to her. she immediately turns to guy standing next to me and tells him 'he's cute", starting to give him more attention, while i stand there loooking bored and chatting with her two other friends for a bit. She is really interested and etc.
Wednesday sept 13th
Questionnaire :
Did i push myself out of comfort zone/fears, did i push myself? Not really
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? goals were to communicate man to a woman and be persistent as fuck for perosnal growth.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? i tried but it wasn't coming across as much.
Did I revert to my old behaviors/waist a day? Yes, i walked off after two hours, if i had the fire why did i acquiece to giving up so quickly where is the fight, i had to keep on going to the next bar, get food and keep goin,
Am i Focused or unfocused? did my morning routine.
Did i develop my willpower? Not really, giving up at 2 am is not willpower
Am I on track for a lay this week? not really, you had an awesome lesson you learned when you got schooled by the black guy that your laziness and lack of willpower to execute these tasks to success is causing other poeple to eat your lunch.
Thu, 09/13/2012 - 16:25
#17
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
Success is not a straight shot linear progresssion.
Continue to take action and have trust in the process... The ups and downs will DESTROY you if you buy into them too much.
Success is not a straight shot linear progresssion.
Continue to take action and have trust in the process... The ups and downs will DESTROY you if you buy into them too much.
Thu, 09/13/2012 - 19:27
#18
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
buddhagames;1134.8612;8 wrote:
@Vince:
Success is not a straight shot linear progresssion.
Continue to take action and have trust in the process... The ups and downs will DESTROY you if you buy into them too much.
Thanks man. I think I needed that.
Sat, 09/15/2012 - 23:34
#19
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
each day this week - how hard i went at it was like 60-70%. when i go up with a 60% tonality, or something and she gets quiet after a while, i bail and repeat the process over the night.
there was slight willpower and game growth this week, maybe 1%.
had the willpower to get up every mornng this week and still to my schedule morning routines workout routines. 5 out of 5 days , of gym. first ever this year.
more entitlemtn this week. last week i was more aggressive but not persistent. This week less aggressive, more persistent, extending the interaction, not stopping at the number. trying to close.
-- in the middle of the field. i realized based on her body language, she is gonna flake and that made me take the action of trying to pull close her right now while shes in my presence. little did i know she caused more attraction bc she saw me be persistent , and she saw me trying to escalate.
Continue on the homeowkr of: my homework this week be will to work more on the persistence, leading, and frame control stuff. * i want myself to go hard make every set , louder, more obnxoius, more i dont give a fuck. Because I can not allow each day to be waisted.
-> i feel i need to do things more to create that attraction like leading her more, plowing her more, things that separate the , show her tha tyour an attractive guy and stuff like that. unless i show her that i am seperate from the "chodes" , I am part of the "alpha's"
--> paying more attention to her BL, how shes reacting to my touches etc.
thursday - i had gone to 230 5th at 10. warmed up on my own. picked up these two swediesh girls and took them to meatpacking. i brought them into my group of friends and i was instantly given massive social proof in front of them. The one talked to me a lot, however, i failed to take advantage of that bc I didnt ask her what ar eyou doing later tonight.
friday - i went to the meatpacking after taking a nap. i am stifled not taking charge, the girls are at gaslight initally are not giving me much attention , so i feel like i have my dick in my hands. still eventually i just keep on opening, and even these two girls i liked the one in the red. I talk to her for 10 minutes, get her number, try to bounce her and physically escalate her. Another thing happened was that the rest of the night i basically ran out of energy and it was me just walking arounf brass monkey like a zombie , then the streets til 4 am til my sleep head gave out.
i remind myself of the goals:
the goal of this persistence exercise was for personal growth to build character and develop that emotional muscle that stays cool in the pocket but keeps the interaction at this terms going on. This was about personal growth not about actually closing the girl. Last night, I was more focused on the closing.
Did i push myself out of comfort zone/fears, did i push myself? yes, i shaved my head exposing a scar that rocked my confidence in 20s and walked around for a day. I worked on persistence more
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? maybe at 25%, i began being more persistent.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? 50% , being louder, telling her what to do etc.
Did I revert to my old behaviors/waist a day? a little being too compliant, not going at it hard, coasting mor so.
Am i Focused or unfocused? did my morning routine every tday ths week.
Did i develop my willpower? yes
Am I on track for a lay this week? not really,
each day this week - how hard i went at it was like 60-70%. when i go up with a 60% tonality, or something and she gets quiet after a while, i bail and repeat the process over the night.
there was slight willpower and game growth this week, maybe 1%.
had the willpower to get up every mornng this week and still to my schedule morning routines workout routines. 5 out of 5 days , of gym. first ever this year.
more entitlemtn this week. last week i was more aggressive but not persistent. This week less aggressive, more persistent, extending the interaction, not stopping at the number. trying to close.
-- in the middle of the field. i realized based on her body language, she is gonna flake and that made me take the action of trying to pull close her right now while shes in my presence. little did i know she caused more attraction bc she saw me be persistent , and she saw me trying to escalate.
Continue on the homeowkr of: my homework this week be will to work more on the persistence, leading, and frame control stuff. * i want myself to go hard make every set , louder, more obnxoius, more i dont give a fuck. Because I can not allow each day to be waisted.
-> i feel i need to do things more to create that attraction like leading her more, plowing her more, things that separate the , show her tha tyour an attractive guy and stuff like that. unless i show her that i am seperate from the "chodes" , I am part of the "alpha's"
--> paying more attention to her BL, how shes reacting to my touches etc.
thursday - i had gone to 230 5th at 10. warmed up on my own. picked up these two swediesh girls and took them to meatpacking. i brought them into my group of friends and i was instantly given massive social proof in front of them. The one talked to me a lot, however, i failed to take advantage of that bc I didnt ask her what ar eyou doing later tonight.
friday - i went to the meatpacking after taking a nap. i am stifled not taking charge, the girls are at gaslight initally are not giving me much attention , so i feel like i have my dick in my hands. still eventually i just keep on opening, and even these two girls i liked the one in the red. I talk to her for 10 minutes, get her number, try to bounce her and physically escalate her. Another thing happened was that the rest of the night i basically ran out of energy and it was me just walking arounf brass monkey like a zombie , then the streets til 4 am til my sleep head gave out.
i remind myself of the goals:
the goal of this persistence exercise was for personal growth to build character and develop that emotional muscle that stays cool in the pocket but keeps the interaction at this terms going on. This was about personal growth not about actually closing the girl. Last night, I was more focused on the closing.
Did i push myself out of comfort zone/fears, did i push myself? yes, i shaved my head exposing a scar that rocked my confidence in 20s and walked around for a day. I worked on persistence more
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? maybe at 25%, i began being more persistent.
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? 50% , being louder, telling her what to do etc.
Did I revert to my old behaviors/waist a day? a little being too compliant, not going at it hard, coasting mor so.
Am i Focused or unfocused? did my morning routine every tday ths week.
Did i develop my willpower? yes
Am I on track for a lay this week? not really,
Fri, 09/21/2012 - 18:56
#20
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
There will be four things that need to be worked on:
- the perpetual negative self talk going on in my head. If i see a girl turn her back, my head goes "oh she doesn't like me", or "oh she thinks my wing is more attractive". Like Tolle said, observe the ego and detach from it. Never question my value.
-along with the self talk is my lack of self belief. I sometimes don't continue the conversations bc i think its not going anywhere. I dont lead, instead i take a back seat. Lack of taking ownership of the interaction and the night is a clear sign of my lack of belief i am a leader and that is a continuing sticking point i am addressing this week.
- accept yourself because but become completely so srong in your own self will and self trust, that whatever you say it just comes across like its gold. I may be weird or maybe not, but i am going to be me to the core. Self will, self trust. We did that 2 days in a row.
--------------------------------------
- NExt week will be : Persistence and forcing the interaction. This week just correct these "mental things".
Questionnaire :
Did i push myself out of comfort zone/fears, did i push myself?
not really, pretty stagnant last two days. I didn't feel any "fear" was dealt with.
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? Not really
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? Yes i feel like i ve turned to a new level of dominance and confidence in my interactions in terms of just the way i talk to them. This is unlike anything i've done in the past, it just feels so confident like Raj, or other poeple i've met its very similar to that.
Did I revert to my old behaviors/waist a day? I believe
Am i Focused or unfocused? my mind is starting to be used up by other end of the year goals right now. Like finances and work stuff. Its getting harder and hard to be soley focused on pua.
Did i develop my willpower? Not really.
Am I on track for a lay this week? I dont see it unless i get super aggressive and plow on each set.
There will be four things that need to be worked on:
- the perpetual negative self talk going on in my head. If i see a girl turn her back, my head goes "oh she doesn't like me", or "oh she thinks my wing is more attractive". Like Tolle said, observe the ego and detach from it. Never question my value.
-along with the self talk is my lack of self belief. I sometimes don't continue the conversations bc i think its not going anywhere. I dont lead, instead i take a back seat. Lack of taking ownership of the interaction and the night is a clear sign of my lack of belief i am a leader and that is a continuing sticking point i am addressing this week.
- accept yourself because but become completely so srong in your own self will and self trust, that whatever you say it just comes across like its gold. I may be weird or maybe not, but i am going to be me to the core. Self will, self trust. We did that 2 days in a row.
--------------------------------------
- NExt week will be : Persistence and forcing the interaction. This week just correct these "mental things".
Questionnaire :
Did i push myself out of comfort zone/fears, did i push myself?
not really, pretty stagnant last two days. I didn't feel any "fear" was dealt with.
iDid i stay on working on the goal assignment? Not really
Was I being dominanting and being the boss in all my
Interactions? Yes i feel like i ve turned to a new level of dominance and confidence in my interactions in terms of just the way i talk to them. This is unlike anything i've done in the past, it just feels so confident like Raj, or other poeple i've met its very similar to that.
Did I revert to my old behaviors/waist a day? I believe
Am i Focused or unfocused? my mind is starting to be used up by other end of the year goals right now. Like finances and work stuff. Its getting harder and hard to be soley focused on pua.
Did i develop my willpower? Not really.
Am I on track for a lay this week? I dont see it unless i get super aggressive and plow on each set.
Sat, 09/22/2012 - 23:11
#21
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
It doesn't matter if a girl likes you or not, all that matters is if you handle it right. You CAN'T get in your own way with silly stuff like that. As Hoobie once said "The world is against me, I'm not going to be against myself too."
It doesn't matter if a girl likes you or not, all that matters is if you handle it right. You CAN'T get in your own way with silly stuff like that. As Hoobie once said "The world is against me, I'm not going to be against myself too."
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Sun, 09/30/2012 - 22:59
#22
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
R Was so mentality out of it., was supposed to met my wing at 10, didn't get out by 1 am. At first i feel like i am just gonna skip teh night, but i eventually get myself to gether.
This week - its a more fleshed out voice that is loud but now has assurity and more conviction behind it. It is more consistent.
I didn't Jons drill of "date planner" with this one chick in bar 13. PHysical touch revels she was into it..
Continued a new habit this week, i always try to close the same day. I either extend the interaction, getting the number to met them up later in the night ( to fuck) but most have flaked.
Example: BLind girl from UP, told her, "we dont have to sleep together tonight, but lets just go for a walk and get food. I will make sure you get home for safe"
Last night, yes i did my tolle drills in field got present comfortable in the field.
My game now looks like: BR tonality /EC create attraction -> then try to get an instandate with her quickly and try to close her.
A problem i keep havingn is that i bail a set too hearly. Most times i just take a number and i just tell her to met me at 4 a,m,
Tall girl at theñ i stop her, get right up into her grille face, and i start talking to her. I feel confident maybe because i have the hat on. Then, at this point i try to lead her to get drinks but her friends are at the bar where i lead her to. Instead of me sticking around, i just bail off. I give up too easilly.
Italian girl, shes super attracted, horny, and get to fuck in front of brass monkey i literally stop her in the street. What happens next. I should have extended her, but she had friends waiting for her, i thought there is no way this is going to pull. INstead about 20 minute later i see her friends alone with out her. I realized then, i should have not given up so easily i should have just said lets get a bite to eat. I was getting attraction quickly. Maybe good height and dress. I shouldn't have gotten her number and walked away. Also, it kinda lessened that aggressiveness the rest of the night i kinda just relaxed. I realized then no numbers just close same night is crucial.
i am communicating like a boss to every girl i talk to. This is what has changed. From the first to the last, they all get the loud voice, the leading etc.
Self NOte; Chicks are attracted to the alpha communication like loud, the boss, etc, leading, getting physically.
My wing sam is ridicously high energy/positive. Good shit.
I want to basically drop so much fat right now that i use my horniness and 1 drink as my fuel.
R Was so mentality out of it., was supposed to met my wing at 10, didn't get out by 1 am. At first i feel like i am just gonna skip teh night, but i eventually get myself to gether.
This week - its a more fleshed out voice that is loud but now has assurity and more conviction behind it. It is more consistent.
I didn't Jons drill of "date planner" with this one chick in bar 13. PHysical touch revels she was into it..
Continued a new habit this week, i always try to close the same day. I either extend the interaction, getting the number to met them up later in the night ( to fuck) but most have flaked.
Example: BLind girl from UP, told her, "we dont have to sleep together tonight, but lets just go for a walk and get food. I will make sure you get home for safe"
Last night, yes i did my tolle drills in field got present comfortable in the field.
My game now looks like: BR tonality /EC create attraction -> then try to get an instandate with her quickly and try to close her.
A problem i keep havingn is that i bail a set too hearly. Most times i just take a number and i just tell her to met me at 4 a,m,
Tall girl at theñ i stop her, get right up into her grille face, and i start talking to her. I feel confident maybe because i have the hat on. Then, at this point i try to lead her to get drinks but her friends are at the bar where i lead her to. Instead of me sticking around, i just bail off. I give up too easilly.
Italian girl, shes super attracted, horny, and get to fuck in front of brass monkey i literally stop her in the street. What happens next. I should have extended her, but she had friends waiting for her, i thought there is no way this is going to pull. INstead about 20 minute later i see her friends alone with out her. I realized then, i should have not given up so easily i should have just said lets get a bite to eat. I was getting attraction quickly. Maybe good height and dress. I shouldn't have gotten her number and walked away. Also, it kinda lessened that aggressiveness the rest of the night i kinda just relaxed. I realized then no numbers just close same night is crucial.
i am communicating like a boss to every girl i talk to. This is what has changed. From the first to the last, they all get the loud voice, the leading etc.
Self NOte; Chicks are attracted to the alpha communication like loud, the boss, etc, leading, getting physically.
My wing sam is ridicously high energy/positive. Good shit.
I want to basically drop so much fat right now that i use my horniness and 1 drink as my fuel.
Sun, 10/07/2012 - 00:21
#23
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
This is good progress mang, but you need to stop dipping out of set early like that. You can get laid, I met you, you're there. Make it happen. Stick with these ho's. We've got some solid stuff to go over our next session. More mind fucks ;)
This is good progress mang, but you need to stop dipping out of set early like that. You can get laid, I met you, you're there. Make it happen. Stick with these ho's. We've got some solid stuff to go over our next session. More mind fucks ;)
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Sun, 10/07/2012 - 23:05
#24
Re: Vince FRs weekly goals
@Vince:
Octber 7 2012
- proud of myself for taking initiative. I knew something was off so i investigated libido chemistry, and implemented a few things to effect t levels. I felt the difference.
-first girl, i literally jump in front of her, and tell her she looks like she came from teh 1950s. We start vibing about how her she has a new yorker accent, but then she's like i have to goto the bathroom. I can't hang out right now bc i have a bday party i dont see her again.
- 2nd girl, a set of three girls i literally stand in front of them loud as if i am in my public speaking course and telling them about mexican burritos and totally owing my stupidity it works because i say it with conviction. I tell them my birthday is in 1 month, how do you know each other. It is the most "boss" moment of the night, i ask my target we should met up tomorrow. "I have family plans", i say ok but you drive, come monday, shes like "i have a boyfriend", at this point i just smile and i just smile and i am reminded to not react and tell her about my basketball skills( so unrelated lol). I walk away never see her again.
- third set, my wing opens these two pair of girls and i go in on the left, and i am litterally like in 6-10 inches of her face, and were talking about does she like maine or boston. What she does for a living etc. Shes here with friends. At this point, i realize shes investing quite a bit. She §says she has to leave ( ps. My friend tells me stop talking about logical things) ( P.ss in my head i am thinking did she not like something i said lol) ..anyway on the to her friends she gives me a kiss on teh cheek. I didn't escalate didn't makeout or get her number because she seemed very neutral about it.
the last interaction was with this doctor in training girl i literally stop her with my wing "you seem like a nice jewish girl", and were talking about some bullshit like how i have 3 doctors in teh family, how are her hours etc. I tell her i want to met her after her friends for an afterhours drink at my place. At first i try to lead her, but she doesn't follow. I try to hug her, she is somewhat receptive and even when i said lets go to place for a drink i could have sworn her head swayed in agreement a bit. She didn't say no thats for sure. She breaks the interaction saying she has to go back to her friends. I guess i could have tried to extend the interaction and tried to continue to vibe with her ( aka talk about many different topics at a short length) type deal. Maybe it was part self -doubt in this and the previous, maybe it was me not being persistent enough. Definetly going to make it a point this week to mainly : extent the interactions try to get isolation, try to persist etc
Octber 7 2012
- proud of myself for taking initiative. I knew something was off so i investigated libido chemistry, and implemented a few things to effect t levels. I felt the difference.
-first girl, i literally jump in front of her, and tell her she looks like she came from teh 1950s. We start vibing about how her she has a new yorker accent, but then she's like i have to goto the bathroom. I can't hang out right now bc i have a bday party i dont see her again.
- 2nd girl, a set of three girls i literally stand in front of them loud as if i am in my public speaking course and telling them about mexican burritos and totally owing my stupidity it works because i say it with conviction. I tell them my birthday is in 1 month, how do you know each other. It is the most "boss" moment of the night, i ask my target we should met up tomorrow. "I have family plans", i say ok but you drive, come monday, shes like "i have a boyfriend", at this point i just smile and i just smile and i am reminded to not react and tell her about my basketball skills( so unrelated lol). I walk away never see her again.
- third set, my wing opens these two pair of girls and i go in on the left, and i am litterally like in 6-10 inches of her face, and were talking about does she like maine or boston. What she does for a living etc. Shes here with friends. At this point, i realize shes investing quite a bit. She §says she has to leave ( ps. My friend tells me stop talking about logical things) ( P.ss in my head i am thinking did she not like something i said lol) ..anyway on the to her friends she gives me a kiss on teh cheek. I didn't escalate didn't makeout or get her number because she seemed very neutral about it.
the last interaction was with this doctor in training girl i literally stop her with my wing "you seem like a nice jewish girl", and were talking about some bullshit like how i have 3 doctors in teh family, how are her hours etc. I tell her i want to met her after her friends for an afterhours drink at my place. At first i try to lead her, but she doesn't follow. I try to hug her, she is somewhat receptive and even when i said lets go to place for a drink i could have sworn her head swayed in agreement a bit. She didn't say no thats for sure. She breaks the interaction saying she has to go back to her friends. I guess i could have tried to extend the interaction and tried to continue to vibe with her ( aka talk about many different topics at a short length) type deal. Maybe it was part self -doubt in this and the previous, maybe it was me not being persistent enough. Definetly going to make it a point this week to mainly : extent the interactions try to get isolation, try to persist etc