Vet Girl- Went South all the sudden
Thu, 09/27/2012 - 17:28
Hey guys,
I’ve been lazy posting on this forum and I need to supplement the reading on this forum with actual feedback for actual situations that I’m in. So, I’m going to make it a point to post on here for at least 3 numbers I get a week. It doesn’t matter if they are good or bad. I need put myself in the discussion, instead of just reading them
Anways, here’s a girl I met on the street and walked and talked with her for a bit. Got her number, however she said was saying, “Don’t mean to blow you off, but I’m really busy since its my intern year”. So, it was prob a forecast of things to come. Here’s how the text dialogue went.
Me: Hope you have enough time to eat all the food you bought. That happens to me, but its usually a bout of laziness. You probably make a mean…meatloaf?
Her: Haha not the best meatloaf maker.
Me: Im actually a judge in food network’s indian meatloaf competition. Actually, I can see u having a more varied taste in food. U probably like Japanese food.
Her: Seriously you are a judge? I didn’t know there was such a thing as Indian meatloaf.
Her: I life all kinds of food.
Me: No, I was joking. But maybe that’s my million dollar/rupee idea. The contest would probably stink up a kitchen for months, but the food would taste awesome.
Her: I dunno, something about a combo of Indian and meatloaf just sounds wrong
Me: I totally agree. Wat do u usually do with ur time away from intern heaven? I tried to play tennis today, but ended walking to 3 courts w no luck. Should’ve power walked to least get some exercise, lol.
Her: I sleep. Hah. Drink sometimes. My life is pretty mundane right now, not gonna lie.
Me: I was expecting skydiving, base jumping, destination cooking :(, but I understand that u work a ton. My like is probably more like yours, except I play a sport once or twice a week. I actually just signed up for dodgeball, to satisfy my inner 10 yr old.
Her: Nice!! Played yet? That sounds awesome. As do all of those “hobbies” you listed.
Me: Havent started yet. I think it starts in two weeks. I definitely wouldn’t do base jumping, unless there are a thousand pillows at the bottom.
Next Day:
Me: Hey, saw on the news that this beautiful vet apparently got way too drunk started operating on a live squirrel. Wow, beb you have some hardcore nights, lol.
Her: Hmm musta been my doppelganger.
Me: Haha, u have a sense of humor, very sexy. Also, it seems like you have at one point in your life been addicted to how I met your mother.
Her:??
Me: Its a tv show. Its where I first heard the term doppleganger and I gues mistakenly thought everyone got the term. O well…
Her: Love the show just didn’t know that’s where most people get the term
Then I tried to get a sense of her schedule
Me: Well, u obviously got the word from the wrong place. Do u have work or have to handle cases on the weekend?
No response for rest of day. Next Day…
Me: Ahh, love Monday mornings, where I get to sit in s meeting where I can zone out for 2 hours.
No response. Next day… I was sick of not getting anything( my patience still needs work), so shot this to her and 2 other girls.
Me: Tonite I wanna go down on u and make you extremely happy. Then come back up slowly and fuck you real good. Yours truly, gas prices.
Her: Ok you need to stop texting me.
Que paso?
Should I have just tried to get a meetup earlier. Or maybe wait later in the day when she could’ve texted and was not busy with work?
Also, was my buyer/seller frame fine? Its something I’ve been trying to pay attention to more.
I’ve been lazy posting on this forum and I need to supplement the reading on this forum with actual feedback for actual situations that I’m in. So, I’m going to make it a point to post on here for at least 3 numbers I get a week. It doesn’t matter if they are good or bad. I need put myself in the discussion, instead of just reading them
Anways, here’s a girl I met on the street and walked and talked with her for a bit. Got her number, however she said was saying, “Don’t mean to blow you off, but I’m really busy since its my intern year”. So, it was prob a forecast of things to come. Here’s how the text dialogue went.
Me: Hope you have enough time to eat all the food you bought. That happens to me, but its usually a bout of laziness. You probably make a mean…meatloaf?
Her: Haha not the best meatloaf maker.
Me: Im actually a judge in food network’s indian meatloaf competition. Actually, I can see u having a more varied taste in food. U probably like Japanese food.
Her: Seriously you are a judge? I didn’t know there was such a thing as Indian meatloaf.
Her: I life all kinds of food.
Me: No, I was joking. But maybe that’s my million dollar/rupee idea. The contest would probably stink up a kitchen for months, but the food would taste awesome.
Her: I dunno, something about a combo of Indian and meatloaf just sounds wrong
Me: I totally agree. Wat do u usually do with ur time away from intern heaven? I tried to play tennis today, but ended walking to 3 courts w no luck. Should’ve power walked to least get some exercise, lol.
Her: I sleep. Hah. Drink sometimes. My life is pretty mundane right now, not gonna lie.
Me: I was expecting skydiving, base jumping, destination cooking :(, but I understand that u work a ton. My like is probably more like yours, except I play a sport once or twice a week. I actually just signed up for dodgeball, to satisfy my inner 10 yr old.
Her: Nice!! Played yet? That sounds awesome. As do all of those “hobbies” you listed.
Me: Havent started yet. I think it starts in two weeks. I definitely wouldn’t do base jumping, unless there are a thousand pillows at the bottom.
Next Day:
Me: Hey, saw on the news that this beautiful vet apparently got way too drunk started operating on a live squirrel. Wow, beb you have some hardcore nights, lol.
Her: Hmm musta been my doppelganger.
Me: Haha, u have a sense of humor, very sexy. Also, it seems like you have at one point in your life been addicted to how I met your mother.
Her:??
Me: Its a tv show. Its where I first heard the term doppleganger and I gues mistakenly thought everyone got the term. O well…
Her: Love the show just didn’t know that’s where most people get the term
Then I tried to get a sense of her schedule
Me: Well, u obviously got the word from the wrong place. Do u have work or have to handle cases on the weekend?
No response for rest of day. Next Day…
Me: Ahh, love Monday mornings, where I get to sit in s meeting where I can zone out for 2 hours.
No response. Next day… I was sick of not getting anything( my patience still needs work), so shot this to her and 2 other girls.
Me: Tonite I wanna go down on u and make you extremely happy. Then come back up slowly and fuck you real good. Yours truly, gas prices.
Her: Ok you need to stop texting me.
Que paso?
Should I have just tried to get a meetup earlier. Or maybe wait later in the day when she could’ve texted and was not busy with work?
Also, was my buyer/seller frame fine? Its something I’ve been trying to pay attention to more.
Fri, 09/28/2012 - 03:54
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Re: Vet Girl- Went South all the sudden
@WanderingSoul:
Sure she was giving herself an "out" when she told you that in the beginning, BUT, she gave you tons of attention for a long time and you just didn't do anything with it. So it started to dwindle. You also were trying too hard to make the conversation about her rather than taking some of your conversational threads (which actually some of them were pretty good) and just going off on your own and letting her spectate. Instead you said awkward things like, What do you do with your time away from interning? and your meandering talk about what kind of food she liked and then calling her sexy for whatever reason. This just isn't "man to woman". Read some of the text convos on here.
Sure she was giving herself an "out" when she told you that in the beginning, BUT, she gave you tons of attention for a long time and you just didn't do anything with it. So it started to dwindle. You also were trying too hard to make the conversation about her rather than taking some of your conversational threads (which actually some of them were pretty good) and just going off on your own and letting her spectate. Instead you said awkward things like, What do you do with your time away from interning? and your meandering talk about what kind of food she liked and then calling her sexy for whatever reason. This just isn't "man to woman". Read some of the text convos on here.
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