Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
Mon, 10/29/2012 - 21:14
How I initially met her
Get blown out by two girls on the subway on the way home from work. Then this cute Peruvian girl from my job comes up to me, we start talking and she invites me to chill w/her friends somewhere in the East Village that evening.. I'm feeling sort of sick and not really on top of my game so I'm not down to chill with her.
More about this girl later because I ended up chilling with her a couple more times this month. I can't believe I was tripping balls over making shit w/her. Wow glad that I ended up being pretty disappointed w/her because I put her on a platter for no reason. Absolutely refuse to do such a thing anymore.
Text Exchange
Me: 10/05/2012 20:56:56 I hate nerdy goths who follow me home ;)
Her: 10/05/2012 23:19:36 Lol! Hush!!!
Me: 10/05/2012 23:21:38 What are you up to tonight. I'm headed into the city to meet my buddy.
Her: 10/05/2012 23:22:36 Going home.eating at Pommes Frites right now
Her: 10/05/2012 23:22:39 And then I'm going home
Me: 10/09/2012 17:03:34 Hey how you've been. I hate missing work - the day you come back is always crazy intense.
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 Where did u go?
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 And what craziness happened?
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 And are u on aim?
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 So many questions!!!
Me: 10/09/2012 17:35:57 Shhh I can't tell you beb..I'm
an international terrorist wanted in 48 countries. Had to skip work or else the Feds would have found me ;)
Her: 10/09/2012 18:10:51 Liar!!!!
Her: 10/09/2012 18:10:51 All lies!!!
Me: 10/09/2012 19:34:54 I wouldn't lie to you ;)
Me: 10/09/2012 19:34:55 What time do you usually leave work. I just got home from getting my haircut.
Her: 10/09/2012 19:51:35 I get out at 7 now
Me: 10/09/2012 20:57:49 there's this bank downtown that I've been dying to rob on Fridays...I need you to be my lookout
Her: 10/09/2012 21:19:23 Lol sure
Her: 10/09/2012 21:19:23 Lets hit that sh*t son!
Me: 10/09/2012 21:21:14 If I get caught im blaming you beb. I've never been caught before
Me: 10/09/2012 21:23:05 ;)
Me: 10/10/2012 22:03:00 Just getting home from class. How was your day darling
Her: 10/11/2012 00:10:40 Exhausted. Went to gym now going to bed
Her: 10/11/2012 00:10:40 Laters!
Me: 10/12/2012 13:30:06 Hey I just got invited on a double date with pacman and mrs. pacman. Might be awkward if I show up alone. Would you care to accompany me?
Her: 10/12/2012 14:55:11 Haha
Her: 10/12/2012 14:55:11 Can't mr and mrs pacman chill as friends. Why they gotta be awkward and go on a double date!
Me: 10/12/2012 15:24:42 lol mr. and mrs. pacman are married. We're just hanging out with them at the arcade after work ;)
Me: 10/12/2012 15:25:44 what time do you want to meet up
Her: 10/12/2012 15:27:21 7ish. My buddy is gonna be at some happy hour plce around 52nd street. I told him I'd go already. Wanna go there?
Me: 10/12/2012 15:52:46 Ok 7 works.There's this happy hour on 21st st. we should go there instead - drinks are free there.
Her: 10/12/2012 18:54:55 Sounds nice but I promised my friend I'd go to the other place
Her: 10/12/2012 18:54:55 Come through if u free
Me: 10/12/2012 19:59:15 Sorry beb I'm tired. Let's hang out after work sometime next week
Me: 10/15/2012 21:23:20 Just got home from school. how was your day
Her: 10/16/2012 15:39:30 It was chill. How's work going
Me: 10/16/2012 15:41:36 I'm about to throw my computer out the window
Her: 10/16/2012 15:42:23 Haha why
Me: 10/16/2012 15:44:38 It's running slower than the humongous kid who used to eat my lunch
Her: 10/16/2012 15:44:59 Call IT
Her: 10/16/2012 15:45:18 They switched out my hard drive cuz it was full
Me: 10/16/2012 15:54:55 Yea just gave our floor tech guy a call
Me: 10/16/2012 15:56:38 I'm gonna be busy cramming for school all week but what are you up to this Friday after work
Her: 10/16/2012 15:57:38 What ru in school for?
Her: 10/16/2012 15:57:38 My friend is planning some techno music show so I'm going after work to support
Me: 10/16/2012 15:59:14 Web development
Me: 10/16/2012 16:05:57 Lol the thought of you dancing is cracking me up
Her: 10/16/2012 16:10:49 Haha ok well u shud come out then and support my friend
Me: 10/16/2012 16:22:25 hmm have to admit I'm on the fence. I LOVE house, but techno is barely tolerable. You should send me a link
Her: 10/16/2012 20:52:52 I have no clue what the difference is
Me: 10/18/2012 20:40:22 Hey how are you - im just getting back from kicking ass on the soccer pitch
Her: 10/18/2012 23:16:35 Noway! How come u weren't at the XYZ (show put on by our company) show? I went at the last minute haha so good!
Me: 10/18/2012 23:17:53 XYZ show? I didn't hear about it...Who played?
Her: 10/18/2012 23:18:35 XYZ and some other folks
Me: 10/18/2012 23:22:00 where was it at
Her: 10/18/2012 23:37:48 Webster hall
Me: 10/20/2012 18:21:18 How did your friend's show go yesterday.
Me: 10/20/2012 18:21:54 I just got back from class beb. This shit is crazy intense!
Her: 10/20/2012 19:18:42 It's was lright. Weird techno music but I got down with it a bit
Her: 10/20/2012 19:18:42 U busy tonight. I just found out about this show at XYZ Grand. Wanna go?
Me: 10/20/2012 19:22:40 No im free. I heard about that one too - what time does it start
Her: 10/20/2012 19:24:43 10 but RSVP is closed now. U don't mind if we don't get in? I mean hopefully we do so I wanna give it a shot
Her: 10/20/2012 19:24:43 It's suppose to be free so that's pretty cool
Me: 10/20/2012 19:27:46 Lets try to talk our way in. If it doesn't work - we can always find something else nearby
Me: 10/20/2012 19:29:31 ets meet up there @930 so we actually have a chance of getting in
Her: 10/20/2012 19:32:15 Sounds good! I'm at my friends house in the city already
Her: 10/20/2012 19:32:15 So I can be there pretty quick. See u at 9:30
Me: 10/20/2012 19:33:03 Cool. I'll text you when I'm headed over
Her: 10/20/2012 21:12:01 Ok cool
Her: 10/20/2012 21:12:01 Hey did u leave yet
Me: 10/20/2012 21:12:18 Just left - I should be there in 30 bebe
Me: 10/20/2012 21:39:25 I'm here where you at
Her: 10/20/2012 21:44:38 Walking over
Her: 10/20/2012 21:44:38 B there in 2 mins. U online?
Me: 10/20/2012 21:45:53 No lets talk our way in
Me: 10/20/2012 21:46:39 Call me when you're here
I get there, theres a massive line of at least a 1,000 people in line trying to get into this cramped ass swanky hotel lounge. i talk my way into vip and get her in as my guest. I kept telling her what to do, say and act, and she was a little scared about lying but i was like ADVENTURE and she got all excited.
We get in and she's full excited and has this look of WTF I can't believe I'm in VIP sipping liquor and mingling w/Myspace execs. Her buying temperature and state is super high. I should have kissed her early in the night to cement that i was there to get laid - anime eyes but i was a fuckin pussy not jumping in through this window. Needless to say i did escalate. It's funny i think its harder to escalate on a day 2 then it is when you're out a night because you're more invested. i'm not worried though my day 2 game is solid, its IGHT THO the nigga was a little rusty NAHMEAN (rubs thumb with nose). I'm not going to beat myself up - i was on 4 hours of sleep and fuckin hungry. i meant to take a nap but if i took a nap i would have overslept. I've done that before for a day 2 and TRUST me you aint recovering and waking up when you're so tired and amped on adrenaline.
Needless to say she won't let me escalate on her, as i start to become more emboldened throughout the night and stick to the agenda. I'm bouncing her around the club doing all sorts of shit to change the vibe, rhythm, pace of the interaction but its not going to happen. i dance around, have fun, its all good nah I'm saying. she's also pretty stifled from what i can see. While i kept escalating she had her firm rule "yo I'm not flirting with you, i'm not going to kiss you", i'm not doing this, I'm not doing that, i don't know you"
2 hours later we run into donald glover. she sort of loses her shit. i stay icy and even take a picture of them but i'm thinking to myself "wtf is wrong with this bitch". its ok she's a basic bitch. theres 2 types of bitches. basic bitch and bad bitch. you do the math next time you're out with a chick. i've done a lot of work on myself so i have very little time for basic bitches.
I got kinda pissed at this whole donald glover nonsense - i mean i know i an't compete but I just ditched her and start hitting on other girls although i was running on low fumes. I wish i hit on girls earlier in the night to be more of an asshole but the past is the past. Eventually party clears out - we got a bunch of free shit from the party it was cool. she was like a kid on christmas. i walk her to my chariot. i should have just driven her to brooklyn on some asshole shit. next time these bitches don't get a choice they just get roll with the kid when they just sit on the roller coaster and they can jump off the ride and PLUMMET to their death or just sit on the ride with their seatbelt on and get off when the ride ends.
So we head crosstown. I call up buddah, my phones low on battery. I tell my girl I'm hungry she's like not but she'll watch me eat. while we're walking there, i self-amusingly get these 3 group of australian girls to follow us a couple of blocks to sort of fuck w/her and join us at the diner. . Get some grub, I'm loud, obnoxious, and pure asshole and I tell her to write down all her questions and everything that she wants to know while i'm waiting for my food. she just sits there and looks at me all dumbfounded. i do a lot of push-pull here (give her the finger, but then call her baby), she replies don't call me baby, i tell her i call her all my friends baby. the whole time while i'm eating "i'm like yea so what do you want to know" and she's just sitting there all stifled. yo wtf is wrong w/you girl.
ok so i met this girl at 10 - its 2:30 and i'm done w/my food. i tell her i want to leave and I'm gonna hang w/my buddies, but she begged me several times to meet buddahgames. she was clearly intrigued w/me. So we walk a couple of blocks, meet up with buddah and his homeboy.
Buddah and his homeboy are having trouble getting into the club so we find these 2 meh sort of girls (like a 6 and a 7) and she vouches for me while i approach them so that they can help get buddah and his girls into the club.
Thing to note - really really subtle but crucial point. buddah and natural buddy were sort of flirting w/my girl but i honestly didn't give one iota because i was already trying to get her off my hands, knew she was already VERY invested in me and find another chick - but i honestly loved how buddah's homeboy was like "yo can you go up to a guy and get a cigarette for me". 5 mins later, buddah's buddy seemed all jittery because he really needed a cig, and my girl was like yo i want to get him a cigarette badly. i was like wow thats some next level shit. maybe I'm reading too into it but i was thinking to myself today like fuck thats " some fuckin bullshit considering she was complaining about people smoking earlier".. game respects game. can't hate.
I couldn't figure her out. like she's putting me into friend zone but won't let me go. I'm like "yo bitch wtf is your problem - fuckin go home dude."
buddah, the 2 girls I grabbed and his buddy can't get into our spot so i just head up with the girl. get in, i lie on a couch and want to fuckin sleep. i was up since 8am so i was BEYOND TIRED. this girl was so basic, she didn't want to check her bag into coat check because she was like "yo they're going to steal my headphones". I'm like fuckin relax you can have mine if you want. I eventually leave after meeting her roommate. Too tired at this point.
Her: 10/21/2012 01:09:46 Where u at so
Her: 10/21/2012 01:09:46 *Son
Me: 10/21/2012 01:09:54 I'm by the bar
Her: 10/21/2012 05:04:12 Hey did u get home safe?
Me: 10/21/2012 05:06:44 Ya
Her: 10/21/2012 05:09:13 Haha awesome. I just got home and opened the headphone box
Her: 10/21/2012 05:09:13 Jesus popped out and introduced the headphones
AFTER THE "DAY 2"
I'll put up a write up about us chilling again
Me: 10/22/2012 12:14:10 Hey lima bean ;)
Her: 10/22/2012 12:14:39 What up son
Me: 10/22/2012 12:15:14 how dare you call me son when you know I'm your daddy ;)
Her: 10/22/2012 12:15:29 Lol wtf
Me: 10/22/2012 12:15:59 Im just fuckin w/u
Her: 10/22/2012 12:16:19 Ugh I'm so bloated today. I baked cookies yesterday and ate a bunch while watching walking dead
Her: 10/22/2012 12:16:21 How's work going
Me: 10/22/2012 12:22:51 Busy. Mondays and Tuesdays are usually crazy
Her: 10/22/2012 16:28:06 Why those days?
Me: 10/22/2012 16:29:01 It's when everybody wants to know how the stuff from the previous week did
Me: 10/22/2012 16:30:08 I just finished giving a 2 hour training session - Fuckin love presenting.
Her: 10/22/2012 16:31:40 Haha nice
Me: 10/25/2012 12:13:31 How are you lima bean
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 Today is slow
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 I was just upstairs. Where do u sit so I can bother u
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 It'll be random. U won't know what hit u
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 Hey ru free tomorrow? My coworker is having a party at his place if u wanna join
Me: 10/25/2012 12:21:32 I was actually going to invite you to my co-workers party tonight. ADVENTURE
Her: 10/25/2012 12:22:15 LOL
Her: 10/25/2012 12:22:15 Werd son? Where at
Me: 10/25/2012 12:23:15 Second on second in the east village
Her: 10/25/2012 12:24:22 Ok I get out at 7
Me: 10/25/2012 12:24:48 The party is at like 9:30 -10
Me: 10/25/2012 12:25:18 It's going to be pretty epic
Her: 10/25/2012 12:32:46 Awe man. So late! Ill stay for a bit
Her: 10/25/2012 12:32:46 I gotta docs appt tomorrow morning
Me: 10/25/2012 12:33:33 No worries - I'm only planning on staying until 11
Her: 10/25/2012 12:36:12 Ru doing anything after work?. I don't wanna go home and then come bak out
Her: 10/25/2012 12:36:12 I needs to stay in the city til it starts
Me: 10/25/2012 12:37:49 I have to run an errand right after work. It's going to be a lot of fun besides you get to meet my crew.
Her: 10/25/2012 20:37:48 Alright I'll see what I can do
Me: 10/25/2012 21:32:19 On my way
Me: 10/25/2012 21:32:27 Call me when you get there
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 Ok on my way too
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 I'm right behind u
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 Jaaaaaaaaaay Kay!
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 Hahaha get it
Me: 10/25/2012 22:02:24 Nah - I'm around the corner
Her: 10/25/2012 22:08:56 Almost there. Two more stops
Me: 10/25/2012 22:26:53 what kind of train you taking
Her: 10/25/2012 22:28:07 Mad express
Her: 10/25/2012 22:29:06 Almost there. On the bus getting to 2nd and 3rd
Me: 10/25/2012 22:29:33 Ok bar is on 2nd av btw 1sr and 2nd st
Her: 10/25/2012 22:30:02 Name?
Me: 10/25/2012 22:30:41 The bar is called 2nd on 2nd
Her: 10/25/2012 22:31:13 Lol get out. Really? C u doin then
Her: 10/25/2012 22:31:18 *soon
Me: 10/25/2012 22:35:59 ok let me know when you're nearby
Her: 10/25/2012 22:47:15 I'm inside
Her: 10/25/2012 22:47:15 Where u at
Me: 10/26/2012 21:09:15 Hey buddy
Get blown out by two girls on the subway on the way home from work. Then this cute Peruvian girl from my job comes up to me, we start talking and she invites me to chill w/her friends somewhere in the East Village that evening.. I'm feeling sort of sick and not really on top of my game so I'm not down to chill with her.
More about this girl later because I ended up chilling with her a couple more times this month. I can't believe I was tripping balls over making shit w/her. Wow glad that I ended up being pretty disappointed w/her because I put her on a platter for no reason. Absolutely refuse to do such a thing anymore.
Text Exchange
Me: 10/05/2012 20:56:56 I hate nerdy goths who follow me home ;)
Her: 10/05/2012 23:19:36 Lol! Hush!!!
Me: 10/05/2012 23:21:38 What are you up to tonight. I'm headed into the city to meet my buddy.
Her: 10/05/2012 23:22:36 Going home.eating at Pommes Frites right now
Her: 10/05/2012 23:22:39 And then I'm going home
Me: 10/09/2012 17:03:34 Hey how you've been. I hate missing work - the day you come back is always crazy intense.
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 Where did u go?
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 And what craziness happened?
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 And are u on aim?
Her: 10/09/2012 17:28:18 So many questions!!!
Me: 10/09/2012 17:35:57 Shhh I can't tell you beb..I'm
an international terrorist wanted in 48 countries. Had to skip work or else the Feds would have found me ;)
Her: 10/09/2012 18:10:51 Liar!!!!
Her: 10/09/2012 18:10:51 All lies!!!
Me: 10/09/2012 19:34:54 I wouldn't lie to you ;)
Me: 10/09/2012 19:34:55 What time do you usually leave work. I just got home from getting my haircut.
Her: 10/09/2012 19:51:35 I get out at 7 now
Me: 10/09/2012 20:57:49 there's this bank downtown that I've been dying to rob on Fridays...I need you to be my lookout
Her: 10/09/2012 21:19:23 Lol sure
Her: 10/09/2012 21:19:23 Lets hit that sh*t son!
Me: 10/09/2012 21:21:14 If I get caught im blaming you beb. I've never been caught before
Me: 10/09/2012 21:23:05 ;)
Me: 10/10/2012 22:03:00 Just getting home from class. How was your day darling
Her: 10/11/2012 00:10:40 Exhausted. Went to gym now going to bed
Her: 10/11/2012 00:10:40 Laters!
Me: 10/12/2012 13:30:06 Hey I just got invited on a double date with pacman and mrs. pacman. Might be awkward if I show up alone. Would you care to accompany me?
Her: 10/12/2012 14:55:11 Haha
Her: 10/12/2012 14:55:11 Can't mr and mrs pacman chill as friends. Why they gotta be awkward and go on a double date!
Me: 10/12/2012 15:24:42 lol mr. and mrs. pacman are married. We're just hanging out with them at the arcade after work ;)
Me: 10/12/2012 15:25:44 what time do you want to meet up
Her: 10/12/2012 15:27:21 7ish. My buddy is gonna be at some happy hour plce around 52nd street. I told him I'd go already. Wanna go there?
Me: 10/12/2012 15:52:46 Ok 7 works.There's this happy hour on 21st st. we should go there instead - drinks are free there.
Her: 10/12/2012 18:54:55 Sounds nice but I promised my friend I'd go to the other place
Her: 10/12/2012 18:54:55 Come through if u free
Me: 10/12/2012 19:59:15 Sorry beb I'm tired. Let's hang out after work sometime next week
Me: 10/15/2012 21:23:20 Just got home from school. how was your day
Her: 10/16/2012 15:39:30 It was chill. How's work going
Me: 10/16/2012 15:41:36 I'm about to throw my computer out the window
Her: 10/16/2012 15:42:23 Haha why
Me: 10/16/2012 15:44:38 It's running slower than the humongous kid who used to eat my lunch
Her: 10/16/2012 15:44:59 Call IT
Her: 10/16/2012 15:45:18 They switched out my hard drive cuz it was full
Me: 10/16/2012 15:54:55 Yea just gave our floor tech guy a call
Me: 10/16/2012 15:56:38 I'm gonna be busy cramming for school all week but what are you up to this Friday after work
Her: 10/16/2012 15:57:38 What ru in school for?
Her: 10/16/2012 15:57:38 My friend is planning some techno music show so I'm going after work to support
Me: 10/16/2012 15:59:14 Web development
Me: 10/16/2012 16:05:57 Lol the thought of you dancing is cracking me up
Her: 10/16/2012 16:10:49 Haha ok well u shud come out then and support my friend
Me: 10/16/2012 16:22:25 hmm have to admit I'm on the fence. I LOVE house, but techno is barely tolerable. You should send me a link
Her: 10/16/2012 20:52:52 I have no clue what the difference is
Me: 10/18/2012 20:40:22 Hey how are you - im just getting back from kicking ass on the soccer pitch
Her: 10/18/2012 23:16:35 Noway! How come u weren't at the XYZ (show put on by our company) show? I went at the last minute haha so good!
Me: 10/18/2012 23:17:53 XYZ show? I didn't hear about it...Who played?
Her: 10/18/2012 23:18:35 XYZ and some other folks
Me: 10/18/2012 23:22:00 where was it at
Her: 10/18/2012 23:37:48 Webster hall
Me: 10/20/2012 18:21:18 How did your friend's show go yesterday.
Me: 10/20/2012 18:21:54 I just got back from class beb. This shit is crazy intense!
Her: 10/20/2012 19:18:42 It's was lright. Weird techno music but I got down with it a bit
Her: 10/20/2012 19:18:42 U busy tonight. I just found out about this show at XYZ Grand. Wanna go?
Me: 10/20/2012 19:22:40 No im free. I heard about that one too - what time does it start
Her: 10/20/2012 19:24:43 10 but RSVP is closed now. U don't mind if we don't get in? I mean hopefully we do so I wanna give it a shot
Her: 10/20/2012 19:24:43 It's suppose to be free so that's pretty cool
Me: 10/20/2012 19:27:46 Lets try to talk our way in. If it doesn't work - we can always find something else nearby
Me: 10/20/2012 19:29:31 ets meet up there @930 so we actually have a chance of getting in
Her: 10/20/2012 19:32:15 Sounds good! I'm at my friends house in the city already
Her: 10/20/2012 19:32:15 So I can be there pretty quick. See u at 9:30
Me: 10/20/2012 19:33:03 Cool. I'll text you when I'm headed over
Her: 10/20/2012 21:12:01 Ok cool
Her: 10/20/2012 21:12:01 Hey did u leave yet
Me: 10/20/2012 21:12:18 Just left - I should be there in 30 bebe
Me: 10/20/2012 21:39:25 I'm here where you at
Her: 10/20/2012 21:44:38 Walking over
Her: 10/20/2012 21:44:38 B there in 2 mins. U online?
Me: 10/20/2012 21:45:53 No lets talk our way in
Me: 10/20/2012 21:46:39 Call me when you're here
I get there, theres a massive line of at least a 1,000 people in line trying to get into this cramped ass swanky hotel lounge. i talk my way into vip and get her in as my guest. I kept telling her what to do, say and act, and she was a little scared about lying but i was like ADVENTURE and she got all excited.
We get in and she's full excited and has this look of WTF I can't believe I'm in VIP sipping liquor and mingling w/Myspace execs. Her buying temperature and state is super high. I should have kissed her early in the night to cement that i was there to get laid - anime eyes but i was a fuckin pussy not jumping in through this window. Needless to say i did escalate. It's funny i think its harder to escalate on a day 2 then it is when you're out a night because you're more invested. i'm not worried though my day 2 game is solid, its IGHT THO the nigga was a little rusty NAHMEAN (rubs thumb with nose). I'm not going to beat myself up - i was on 4 hours of sleep and fuckin hungry. i meant to take a nap but if i took a nap i would have overslept. I've done that before for a day 2 and TRUST me you aint recovering and waking up when you're so tired and amped on adrenaline.
Needless to say she won't let me escalate on her, as i start to become more emboldened throughout the night and stick to the agenda. I'm bouncing her around the club doing all sorts of shit to change the vibe, rhythm, pace of the interaction but its not going to happen. i dance around, have fun, its all good nah I'm saying. she's also pretty stifled from what i can see. While i kept escalating she had her firm rule "yo I'm not flirting with you, i'm not going to kiss you", i'm not doing this, I'm not doing that, i don't know you"
2 hours later we run into donald glover. she sort of loses her shit. i stay icy and even take a picture of them but i'm thinking to myself "wtf is wrong with this bitch". its ok she's a basic bitch. theres 2 types of bitches. basic bitch and bad bitch. you do the math next time you're out with a chick. i've done a lot of work on myself so i have very little time for basic bitches.
I got kinda pissed at this whole donald glover nonsense - i mean i know i an't compete but I just ditched her and start hitting on other girls although i was running on low fumes. I wish i hit on girls earlier in the night to be more of an asshole but the past is the past. Eventually party clears out - we got a bunch of free shit from the party it was cool. she was like a kid on christmas. i walk her to my chariot. i should have just driven her to brooklyn on some asshole shit. next time these bitches don't get a choice they just get roll with the kid when they just sit on the roller coaster and they can jump off the ride and PLUMMET to their death or just sit on the ride with their seatbelt on and get off when the ride ends.
So we head crosstown. I call up buddah, my phones low on battery. I tell my girl I'm hungry she's like not but she'll watch me eat. while we're walking there, i self-amusingly get these 3 group of australian girls to follow us a couple of blocks to sort of fuck w/her and join us at the diner. . Get some grub, I'm loud, obnoxious, and pure asshole and I tell her to write down all her questions and everything that she wants to know while i'm waiting for my food. she just sits there and looks at me all dumbfounded. i do a lot of push-pull here (give her the finger, but then call her baby), she replies don't call me baby, i tell her i call her all my friends baby. the whole time while i'm eating "i'm like yea so what do you want to know" and she's just sitting there all stifled. yo wtf is wrong w/you girl.
ok so i met this girl at 10 - its 2:30 and i'm done w/my food. i tell her i want to leave and I'm gonna hang w/my buddies, but she begged me several times to meet buddahgames. she was clearly intrigued w/me. So we walk a couple of blocks, meet up with buddah and his homeboy.
Buddah and his homeboy are having trouble getting into the club so we find these 2 meh sort of girls (like a 6 and a 7) and she vouches for me while i approach them so that they can help get buddah and his girls into the club.
Thing to note - really really subtle but crucial point. buddah and natural buddy were sort of flirting w/my girl but i honestly didn't give one iota because i was already trying to get her off my hands, knew she was already VERY invested in me and find another chick - but i honestly loved how buddah's homeboy was like "yo can you go up to a guy and get a cigarette for me". 5 mins later, buddah's buddy seemed all jittery because he really needed a cig, and my girl was like yo i want to get him a cigarette badly. i was like wow thats some next level shit. maybe I'm reading too into it but i was thinking to myself today like fuck thats " some fuckin bullshit considering she was complaining about people smoking earlier".. game respects game. can't hate.
I couldn't figure her out. like she's putting me into friend zone but won't let me go. I'm like "yo bitch wtf is your problem - fuckin go home dude."
buddah, the 2 girls I grabbed and his buddy can't get into our spot so i just head up with the girl. get in, i lie on a couch and want to fuckin sleep. i was up since 8am so i was BEYOND TIRED. this girl was so basic, she didn't want to check her bag into coat check because she was like "yo they're going to steal my headphones". I'm like fuckin relax you can have mine if you want. I eventually leave after meeting her roommate. Too tired at this point.
Her: 10/21/2012 01:09:46 Where u at so
Her: 10/21/2012 01:09:46 *Son
Me: 10/21/2012 01:09:54 I'm by the bar
Her: 10/21/2012 05:04:12 Hey did u get home safe?
Me: 10/21/2012 05:06:44 Ya
Her: 10/21/2012 05:09:13 Haha awesome. I just got home and opened the headphone box
Her: 10/21/2012 05:09:13 Jesus popped out and introduced the headphones
AFTER THE "DAY 2"
I'll put up a write up about us chilling again
Me: 10/22/2012 12:14:10 Hey lima bean ;)
Her: 10/22/2012 12:14:39 What up son
Me: 10/22/2012 12:15:14 how dare you call me son when you know I'm your daddy ;)
Her: 10/22/2012 12:15:29 Lol wtf
Me: 10/22/2012 12:15:59 Im just fuckin w/u
Her: 10/22/2012 12:16:19 Ugh I'm so bloated today. I baked cookies yesterday and ate a bunch while watching walking dead
Her: 10/22/2012 12:16:21 How's work going
Me: 10/22/2012 12:22:51 Busy. Mondays and Tuesdays are usually crazy
Her: 10/22/2012 16:28:06 Why those days?
Me: 10/22/2012 16:29:01 It's when everybody wants to know how the stuff from the previous week did
Me: 10/22/2012 16:30:08 I just finished giving a 2 hour training session - Fuckin love presenting.
Her: 10/22/2012 16:31:40 Haha nice
Me: 10/25/2012 12:13:31 How are you lima bean
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 Today is slow
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 I was just upstairs. Where do u sit so I can bother u
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 It'll be random. U won't know what hit u
Her: 10/25/2012 12:20:46 Hey ru free tomorrow? My coworker is having a party at his place if u wanna join
Me: 10/25/2012 12:21:32 I was actually going to invite you to my co-workers party tonight. ADVENTURE
Her: 10/25/2012 12:22:15 LOL
Her: 10/25/2012 12:22:15 Werd son? Where at
Me: 10/25/2012 12:23:15 Second on second in the east village
Her: 10/25/2012 12:24:22 Ok I get out at 7
Me: 10/25/2012 12:24:48 The party is at like 9:30 -10
Me: 10/25/2012 12:25:18 It's going to be pretty epic
Her: 10/25/2012 12:32:46 Awe man. So late! Ill stay for a bit
Her: 10/25/2012 12:32:46 I gotta docs appt tomorrow morning
Me: 10/25/2012 12:33:33 No worries - I'm only planning on staying until 11
Her: 10/25/2012 12:36:12 Ru doing anything after work?. I don't wanna go home and then come bak out
Her: 10/25/2012 12:36:12 I needs to stay in the city til it starts
Me: 10/25/2012 12:37:49 I have to run an errand right after work. It's going to be a lot of fun besides you get to meet my crew.
Her: 10/25/2012 20:37:48 Alright I'll see what I can do
Me: 10/25/2012 21:32:19 On my way
Me: 10/25/2012 21:32:27 Call me when you get there
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 Ok on my way too
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 I'm right behind u
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 Jaaaaaaaaaay Kay!
Her: 10/25/2012 21:58:28 Hahaha get it
Me: 10/25/2012 22:02:24 Nah - I'm around the corner
Her: 10/25/2012 22:08:56 Almost there. Two more stops
Me: 10/25/2012 22:26:53 what kind of train you taking
Her: 10/25/2012 22:28:07 Mad express
Her: 10/25/2012 22:29:06 Almost there. On the bus getting to 2nd and 3rd
Me: 10/25/2012 22:29:33 Ok bar is on 2nd av btw 1sr and 2nd st
Her: 10/25/2012 22:30:02 Name?
Me: 10/25/2012 22:30:41 The bar is called 2nd on 2nd
Her: 10/25/2012 22:31:13 Lol get out. Really? C u doin then
Her: 10/25/2012 22:31:18 *soon
Me: 10/25/2012 22:35:59 ok let me know when you're nearby
Her: 10/25/2012 22:47:15 I'm inside
Her: 10/25/2012 22:47:15 Where u at
Me: 10/26/2012 21:09:15 Hey buddy
Wed, 10/31/2012 - 09:57
#1
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
As soon as you realized she saw you as a powerful person but didn't see her in a sexual sense, you should have insulted her and dropped her. You have to force that switch to flip in her head. That or just friend-zoned her and began to mack other ho's in front of her.
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Thu, 11/01/2012 - 13:22
#2
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
You're calling her buddy and she's calling you son and shit lol. She's funny I like this girl. Yea next time Mack on other girls. You are friend zoned. It's not a big deal. Next time pull out the inner caveman. Words/texting aren't really going to get a coworker to go for you. She sees you too much, it puts you in friend status. You got to wait until you're both out and show her who's boss daddy. You should have been touching her the moment you got into VIP. Grab her hand and pull her all the way to the VIP section. Randomly wrapping your arm around her shoulder and pulling her in. I swear the more you do this throughout the night, the more they begin to melt. But sometimes girls are stubborn. Maybe you're not striking when you should be. I make that mistake all the time. If you're wondering whether you should have made a move or not, the answer is always yes lol. Its better to be rejected than to not try and post a long ass forum thread. You're obviously emotionally invested in this girl. She's messing with your style, son.
Oh and get over the whole kissing thing. That wouldn't have made a difference. Kissing is kissing, girls do it all the time. The question to ask yourself is why isn't she seeing you in a sexual sense? Any idea? Are you ugly? Do you smell? Does she only like Asian dudes with micro cock? You simply might not be her type. No point in getting all wound up when it could be as simple as that. But that's why you got to get physical early and often. It reveals all the answers.
Oh and get over the whole kissing thing. That wouldn't have made a difference. Kissing is kissing, girls do it all the time. The question to ask yourself is why isn't she seeing you in a sexual sense? Any idea? Are you ugly? Do you smell? Does she only like Asian dudes with micro cock? You simply might not be her type. No point in getting all wound up when it could be as simple as that. But that's why you got to get physical early and often. It reveals all the answers.
Thu, 11/01/2012 - 14:23
#3
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
@Katalyst:
Yeah I forgot to post part 2 of the FR up (i ended up inviting her again)
My co-worker is having her bday tonight at some bar. I decide to invite the Peruvian girl out. http://manwhore.org/forum/content/text-exchange-wlatina-co-worker
I consciously decided to invite her out because my co-worker has some hot friends and I knew shit could pan out for the better with another girl there.
So she has her bday at this karaoke bar. I get there a little bit late from approaching girls while I'm walking towards the bar, and my homegirl from work is like "Katalyst so glad you're here - help me start up the party". Thing is her boyfriend's friends are kinda meh and party killers - the room is half full of like Israeli dudes who are playing it too cool for school. I crack a couple of jokes about my friend pestering me to do karaoke because I'm the only black dude and for the most party just really bring the party.
Eventually the Latina co-worker chick shows up around 10:30 , a couple of minutes later I start busting out songs - everybody starts to get more into the party vibe. I absolutely steal the show and do about 5 songs - pretty much to the point where one of the Israeli dudes eventually gets all jealous and "mistakenly" cuts off the karaoke system when I'm singing Prince - Kiss (which is my last song). Fuckin hater asswipe - but i'm not about to start some drama. It's not that serious.
While I was there, I looked around and mann I was by far the coolest motherfuckin guy there. Came there - everybody wanted to start singing after I sang - it was that kind of ordeal. It was pretty good. It just felt good to let go and release some positive energy.
Chill with the Latina girl and just manhandle her the whole time for my self-amusement while she keeps acting like a prude. Lift her up slam her on the couch during the party in front of everybody, hold her down, spank her playfully, sit on her. I also tell her to shut the fuck up a lot playfully and we play-fight a lot. A part of me wasn't joking. While I'm at the party a bunch of the girls there (i've hit on 1 or 2 of them before) want to know about the chick that I brought to the party and keep asking me if we're bf and gf. fuck no.
After the party we all head outside and she wants to join my co-workers friends and I. I'm like "yo take your ass home - don't you have a docs appt EARLY tomorrow morning." she's like yea i can stay for a little bit. I object and tell her i'll walk her to the train station, but she's insistent she rolls so I just roll with it. I try to playfully put her into trash cans and dumpsters and the like while we walk to the next bar.
We get to the next bar and I immediately approach this French chick standing in front of this table full of guys. Do some pretty aggressive PUSH on her and she ends up hitting me in the chest but she absolutely fucking loves it at the same time - it's awesome.
Roll back to my co-worker and her friends. She's like "i thought you weren't going to come - so glad you made it". She keeps talking me up to all her friends and shit. Little Latina chick just keeps following me as I pretty much ignore her. I start dancing a bit out of boredom, a way to self-amuse, she follows me and dances as well. I do all types of silly stuff, I'm giving the French girl the middle finger from across the bar as well while dancing with the Latina girl.
Eventually i chill out and relax. I can see things going down between me and one of my co-workers friends or the French girl so I decide to over-escalate on the Peruvian girl to get rid of her. I talk to her for a bit and ask her to get to know me. She's still fuckin stifled. I'm like ok. I start groping her and she smacks me and nearly punches me square in the nose as well as screaming at me. I kinda laugh it off on some psycho shit. She goes "god you're so touchy-feely, you're kind of desperate". This kinda hits me HARD internally because damn she's right - I am desperate - but I stay ICY. I go "look i'm so so so so sorry, thing is I'm on E pills at the moment". She seems kind of disgusted by this and goes "yo i thought you said you don't do drugs". I'm like "I lied to you - it's just that sometimes I need the upper - i'm so depressed right now, life is so hard". She leaves 5 mins after this.
YES!. Got rid of her. O god - it's going to be an uphill climb to repair things w/her. Any other chick I wouldn't care but I work w/her.. Whatever deal w/the awkwardness, deal with the drama.
Yeah I forgot to post part 2 of the FR up (i ended up inviting her again)
My co-worker is having her bday tonight at some bar. I decide to invite the Peruvian girl out. http://manwhore.org/forum/content/text-exchange-wlatina-co-worker
I consciously decided to invite her out because my co-worker has some hot friends and I knew shit could pan out for the better with another girl there.
So she has her bday at this karaoke bar. I get there a little bit late from approaching girls while I'm walking towards the bar, and my homegirl from work is like "Katalyst so glad you're here - help me start up the party". Thing is her boyfriend's friends are kinda meh and party killers - the room is half full of like Israeli dudes who are playing it too cool for school. I crack a couple of jokes about my friend pestering me to do karaoke because I'm the only black dude and for the most party just really bring the party.
Eventually the Latina co-worker chick shows up around 10:30 , a couple of minutes later I start busting out songs - everybody starts to get more into the party vibe. I absolutely steal the show and do about 5 songs - pretty much to the point where one of the Israeli dudes eventually gets all jealous and "mistakenly" cuts off the karaoke system when I'm singing Prince - Kiss (which is my last song). Fuckin hater asswipe - but i'm not about to start some drama. It's not that serious.
While I was there, I looked around and mann I was by far the coolest motherfuckin guy there. Came there - everybody wanted to start singing after I sang - it was that kind of ordeal. It was pretty good. It just felt good to let go and release some positive energy.
Chill with the Latina girl and just manhandle her the whole time for my self-amusement while she keeps acting like a prude. Lift her up slam her on the couch during the party in front of everybody, hold her down, spank her playfully, sit on her. I also tell her to shut the fuck up a lot playfully and we play-fight a lot. A part of me wasn't joking. While I'm at the party a bunch of the girls there (i've hit on 1 or 2 of them before) want to know about the chick that I brought to the party and keep asking me if we're bf and gf. fuck no.
After the party we all head outside and she wants to join my co-workers friends and I. I'm like "yo take your ass home - don't you have a docs appt EARLY tomorrow morning." she's like yea i can stay for a little bit. I object and tell her i'll walk her to the train station, but she's insistent she rolls so I just roll with it. I try to playfully put her into trash cans and dumpsters and the like while we walk to the next bar.
We get to the next bar and I immediately approach this French chick standing in front of this table full of guys. Do some pretty aggressive PUSH on her and she ends up hitting me in the chest but she absolutely fucking loves it at the same time - it's awesome.
Roll back to my co-worker and her friends. She's like "i thought you weren't going to come - so glad you made it". She keeps talking me up to all her friends and shit. Little Latina chick just keeps following me as I pretty much ignore her. I start dancing a bit out of boredom, a way to self-amuse, she follows me and dances as well. I do all types of silly stuff, I'm giving the French girl the middle finger from across the bar as well while dancing with the Latina girl.
Eventually i chill out and relax. I can see things going down between me and one of my co-workers friends or the French girl so I decide to over-escalate on the Peruvian girl to get rid of her. I talk to her for a bit and ask her to get to know me. She's still fuckin stifled. I'm like ok. I start groping her and she smacks me and nearly punches me square in the nose as well as screaming at me. I kinda laugh it off on some psycho shit. She goes "god you're so touchy-feely, you're kind of desperate". This kinda hits me HARD internally because damn she's right - I am desperate - but I stay ICY. I go "look i'm so so so so sorry, thing is I'm on E pills at the moment". She seems kind of disgusted by this and goes "yo i thought you said you don't do drugs". I'm like "I lied to you - it's just that sometimes I need the upper - i'm so depressed right now, life is so hard". She leaves 5 mins after this.
YES!. Got rid of her. O god - it's going to be an uphill climb to repair things w/her. Any other chick I wouldn't care but I work w/her.. Whatever deal w/the awkwardness, deal with the drama.
Thu, 11/01/2012 - 14:31
#4
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
Manwhore;1459.9632;5 wrote:
As soon as you realized she saw you as a powerful person but didn't see her in a sexual sense, you should have insulted her and dropped her. You have to force that switch to flip in her head. That or just friend-zoned her and began to mack other ho's in front of her.
Ya I made that switch after the Day 2. Funny enough i ran into her ass again last night randomly - she's cute but not cute enough to be sweating like that for sure. I actually invited her out again solely to pawn her. Ended up pulling a much hotter girl the same night as a result of good game + social proof from hanging with her which was my sole intention.
Jeff;1459.9638;147 wrote:
You're calling her buddy and she's calling you son and shit lol. She's funny I like this girl. Yea next time Mack on other girls. You are friend zoned. It's not a big deal. Next time pull out the inner caveman. Words/texting aren't really going to get a coworker to go for you. She sees you too much, it puts you in friend status. You got to wait until you're both out and show her who's boss daddy. You should have been touching her the moment you got into VIP. Grab her hand and pull her all the way to the VIP section. Randomly wrapping your arm around her shoulder and pulling her in. I swear the more you do this throughout the night, the more they begin to melt. But sometimes girls are stubborn. Maybe you're not striking when you should be. I make that mistake all the time. If you're wondering whether you should have made a move or not, the answer is always yes lol. Its better to be rejected than to not try and post a long ass forum thread. You're obviously emotionally invested in this girl. She's messing with your style, son.
Oh and get over the whole kissing thing. That wouldn't have made a difference. Kissing is kissing, girls do it all the time. The question to ask yourself is why isn't she seeing you in a sexual sense? Any idea? Are you ugly? Do you smell? Does she only like Asian dudes with micro cock? You simply might not be her type. No point in getting all wound up when it could be as simple as that. But that's why you got to get physical early and often. It reveals all the answers.
Yea - if you read my long ass part 2 - you'll see how I ended up playing the situation. There really was only a slight window for me to escalate on her when we met (as i saw she had anime eyes when we rolled in). I did physically escalate on her and she kept saying we're co-workers, we're co-workers so thats probably why she didn't want to see me in a sexual sense.
Long story short, I think I was emotionally invested because I was on a long ass dry spell seeing no sort of "results" so I was full of self-doubt and finding the game to be absolutely rough.
Yea the kissing thing was my sticking point - now over it for sure.
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 09:36
#5
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
Yo mang. You're pimp status. No need to make excuses to girls. "Why haven't you left yet." Looking them square in the eye. I understand you gave the "pills" line as a joke and you didn't even care that she didn't understand (pimp), BUT.. girls be dumb. Tell her to go.
Awesome.
How are you going to see her next. Work? Text? What's the deal. She's a coworker she can't be thinking/saying you do drugs.
Awesome.
How are you going to see her next. Work? Text? What's the deal. She's a coworker she can't be thinking/saying you do drugs.
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Sat, 11/03/2012 - 09:41
#6
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
You're done. You've graduated. We can keep up a weekly or bi-weekly "communion" to stay accountable and more importantly keep that brotherly immersion going, but now it's a matter of just taking your path to wherever it leads.
You eat what you kill. You've done it. Assume the shell. You are boss. You need no feedback from a girl. Her words mean nothing. They are simply a searching mechanism. Prying little hands at your masculine armor. Only to find there are no openings. You are God.
You eat what you kill. You've done it. Assume the shell. You are boss. You need no feedback from a girl. Her words mean nothing. They are simply a searching mechanism. Prying little hands at your masculine armor. Only to find there are no openings. You are God.
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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Mon, 11/05/2012 - 03:38
#7
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
I could care less at the moment what people again but yea long-term for sure it's not a good look although everyone knows me to be super straight-edge.
I'll probably run into her randomly at work. Idk how to deal with awkward situations. Any insight you have on this would be helpful because i envision more awkward situations w/co-workers in the upcoming months.
I'll probably run into her randomly at work. Idk how to deal with awkward situations. Any insight you have on this would be helpful because i envision more awkward situations w/co-workers in the upcoming months.
Manwhore;1459.9674;5 wrote:
Yo mang. You're pimp status. No need to make excuses to girls. "Why haven't you left yet." Looking them square in the eye. I understand you gave the "pills" line as a joke and you didn't even care that she didn't understand (pimp), BUT.. girls be dumb. Tell her to go.
Awesome.
How are you going to see her next. Work? Text? What's the deal. She's a coworker she can't be thinking/saying you do drugs.
Mon, 11/05/2012 - 03:44
#8
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
Flattering words mann.
Fuck you've pimped me out.
Ya I have to admit I still want to pimp like a motherfucker. I want true abundance where it really becomes an afterthought and some epic struggle every night - been in this game long enough and stressed enough/spent the time and money on pimping to want that for myself.
Honestly though, I really need to put some work into my text game with some guidance from you because it kinda bothers me a bit and it's still way easier for me to pull a girl home the same night than to get a Day 2 at the moment and I wouldn't mind being a two-way threat (day/night game).
Fuck you've pimped me out.
Ya I have to admit I still want to pimp like a motherfucker. I want true abundance where it really becomes an afterthought and some epic struggle every night - been in this game long enough and stressed enough/spent the time and money on pimping to want that for myself.
Honestly though, I really need to put some work into my text game with some guidance from you because it kinda bothers me a bit and it's still way easier for me to pull a girl home the same night than to get a Day 2 at the moment and I wouldn't mind being a two-way threat (day/night game).
Manwhore;1459.9675;5 wrote:
You're done. You've graduated. We can keep up a weekly or bi-weekly "communion" to stay accountable and more importantly keep that brotherly immersion going, but now it's a matter of just taking your path to wherever it leads.
You eat what you kill. You've done it. Assume the shell. You are boss. You need no feedback from a girl. Her words mean nothing. They are simply a searching mechanism. Prying little hands at your masculine armor. Only to find there are no openings. You are God.
Tue, 11/06/2012 - 02:20
#9
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
Well the issue I have with this whole thing is you gave the "pills" line as an "easy way out". E.g. something she could accept, even though it made you look ilke shit, rather than the fact she pissed you off and you wanted her gone and so you told her so.
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Tue, 11/06/2012 - 06:01
#10
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
@Manwhore:
Yeah setting firm boundaries with chicks is something I struggle with. I'm TOO empathetic at times and in this case I didn't want to supply the girl with negative emotions although they were clearly needed. This is an aspect of the game that I just really have to come to accept is needed for a lot of chicks for them to understand you are the BOSS. You got to put them in their place and just be cold and harsh when necessary for YOUR benefit. It will come.
Yeah setting firm boundaries with chicks is something I struggle with. I'm TOO empathetic at times and in this case I didn't want to supply the girl with negative emotions although they were clearly needed. This is an aspect of the game that I just really have to come to accept is needed for a lot of chicks for them to understand you are the BOSS. You got to put them in their place and just be cold and harsh when necessary for YOUR benefit. It will come.
Tue, 11/06/2012 - 07:32
#11
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
We haven't drilled on this?
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Tue, 11/06/2012 - 15:25
#12
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
Yo Jon so for this particular case, what would you tell her? "You're being a prude, go home." I understand that it's important to be able to drop a girl at a moments notice, but I am simply wondering what verbage you would throw out.
Tue, 11/06/2012 - 23:44
#13
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
No I would not make the context of her dismissal sexual in any way.
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Wed, 11/07/2012 - 01:03
#14
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
agree with Jeff - what would you say to her exactly.
I did tell her that me and my friends wanted to chill together so she should go home but she was absolutely insistent on hanging with my friends. Any other girl I would have caused a scene but given she's a co-worker that could have some rather damning circumstances.
P.S. I actually randomly ran into her today on the way out of the elevator and gave her the most positive hello and asked her how she was doing and made small talk with her about nonsense. All good. case settled.
The show will continue.
I'm "lucky" in the sense that I have a reputation w/my co-workers and bosses around the office as being some care-free, fun, quirky, talkative, stuck up, friendly, smart yet silly dude that loves flirting w/strangers and speaks his mind - so even if she was to bad-mouth me with this and that - i could just be honest about the whole situation and people really wouldn't care.
I'll probably never get promoted as a result but I ain't in this corporate shit for the long haul.
I did tell her that me and my friends wanted to chill together so she should go home but she was absolutely insistent on hanging with my friends. Any other girl I would have caused a scene but given she's a co-worker that could have some rather damning circumstances.
P.S. I actually randomly ran into her today on the way out of the elevator and gave her the most positive hello and asked her how she was doing and made small talk with her about nonsense. All good. case settled.
The show will continue.
I'm "lucky" in the sense that I have a reputation w/my co-workers and bosses around the office as being some care-free, fun, quirky, talkative, stuck up, friendly, smart yet silly dude that loves flirting w/strangers and speaks his mind - so even if she was to bad-mouth me with this and that - i could just be honest about the whole situation and people really wouldn't care.
I'll probably never get promoted as a result but I ain't in this corporate shit for the long haul.
Jeff;1459.9766;147 wrote:
Yo Jon so for this particular case, what would you tell her? "You're being a prude, go home." I understand that it's important to be able to drop a girl at a moments notice, but I am simply wondering what verbage you would throw out.
Wed, 11/07/2012 - 03:40
#15
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
So instead of just telling her to go, you told her you did drugs? Why is that better.
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Wed, 11/07/2012 - 03:45
#16
Re: Text exchange w/Latina co-worker
It's really simple. Really really simple. You guys are simply afraid of tense situations and I'm not. Lol
Especially with the fact that having this girl around was keeping you from running game on her friend and the peruvian? Geezez christ man. You cut her throat if you have to.
You're starting to act kind of weird. I don't want you around my friends it's awkward. Go home.
Go away. You're starting to spout verbal diarrhea out of your mouth. It's disgusting. Go home and sleep it off. You're not needed anymore
Don't be afraid to be the boss. You can always recover later. She will respect you even if she's angry.
Especially with the fact that having this girl around was keeping you from running game on her friend and the peruvian? Geezez christ man. You cut her throat if you have to.
You're starting to act kind of weird. I don't want you around my friends it's awkward. Go home.
Go away. You're starting to spout verbal diarrhea out of your mouth. It's disgusting. Go home and sleep it off. You're not needed anymore
Don't be afraid to be the boss. You can always recover later. She will respect you even if she's angry.
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