text!!
Jon, Here's a situation with a girl. Tell me what you think.
Text:
Me: You have my number now but you are only allowed to call me once per day:). My full name:......
A7: Are you so busy everyday?
Me: I was teasing you. You're such a cute dork, A7!!!
A7: (O_o)
Couple days later. I called her up. Asking logistic. Her phone is messed up so text cont.
Me: You're such a tease. I'll see you on Tuesday. We can talk/study.
At the same time as i was sending the previous
A7: Sorry my phone has some problem, What did you say? Can you text me? Cause some words I cannot understand. You didn't answer me, Where are you from? China? Korea? Japan? :p
Me: I'm from.....I've been here for 10 years.
A7: But ur pronounciation is like u born in US. Good! I have been here 1 year, so sometimes I can't understand what you say, please patient:)
Me: Depend on how you behave. You know the test I studied for? I just found out the grade.
A7: Test? Chemistry?
Me: I got 100 on it. Bang. By the way, thank you for sitting at my table when there're 5 other empty around me :)
A7: Awesome :) This is the fate, haha
Me: Haha, next I'll bring you a dozen flower. You jump with joys. We have sweet talks and kiss under the moon..
A7: but my boyfriend will unhappy :p
Me: I'm seeing someone as well. Doesn't mean we can't have a connection. Not like we're married. I'm sure we feel attractive to each other. That's good enough for me having fun with you. Life's too short
A7: Yep, I'm very glad to be ur friend :) :) :).
Ugh, I'm confused what to do here. Does she want to get fucked or am I in friend zone?? I'm pretty sure my message was super clear. I want to fuck her. Let me know. I'll act accordingly. .
First of all I would never draw attention to the fact that a girl gave you an "approach invitation" or in any way made herself socially vulnerable. NOT GOOD.
I don't know where this "jumps with joys and we have sweet talks and kiss under the moon" came from. Are you trying to be a poet? You don't want to get romantic over text in a "serious" way until you guys have met up and hooked up. Otherwise you need to make it very clear that you're just messing around with the romancy stuff.
As far as going forward from here.. just keep doing what you're doing and invite her out to somewhere. Make it casual, don't make it seem like a date. Then just escalate on her in person.
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Some solid points. I'll implement them into my brain. Yah, I wasn't serious when I said those romatic things. I'll make it clearer next time or none at all. Thanks, man.