Switched to friend, losing it in text

texting was cool but it kinda lacks depth and is getting repetitive. like 1. hi, 2. baby sitting joke, 3.lets meet. Also in the beginning you failed to lead and pick who wanted so bean gave you addy and you went with it.  when that dynamic was established you randomly began persuing bean which consequently began fucking up the vibe ie "this isnt how i saw this going."

brah you have to lead! otherwise someone else or the environment will set the rhythm.  you met with addy multiple time and made nothing happen shes obvioulsy down, no need to slow play it.... and chill with the physical technique bullshit. be certain and make shit happen ;)

Along comes Manwhore and says, "Shoulda whipped out the dick."

Also to clarify Addy is the hot one I'm going for. The first night I wound up on Bean because I didn't push (being a pussy). I switched to addy in text and when we were out Sun. I tried to make a move on bean because the three of us were alone in my apartment and it seemed like a threesome may have been in the cards. It still may have been but I don't know the right way to go about it.

I'm no expert on threesomes but you definitely had more than a shot at it. What I think went down was that you screwed up with Bean.

She gave Addy your number so that she could talk to you to and then you turned all your attention to Addy and left Bean out, she was trying to set it up in the bathroom or something (whatever she was doing there) you and Addy popped her balloon. Then she was probably in the bathroom. Decided she was pissed because she wasn't getting any attention and then you suddenly started getting sexual with her but she was already over it. Then after they left, girl talk ensued and it totally fucked you.

I wasn't there so I don't have your perspective. Is that about it? How much attention have you put into Bean?

I forgot what the guy's name was, but I was watching this comedian talking about setting up a threesome with a girl who was down and a girl who wasn't. He said he told the one girl, "ALRIGHT. Your job is to convince HER!"

Supervillain that sounds fucking dead on, I did switch hard to addy when we were out. I sent a few texts to bean beyond what I've shown here but not much. Honestly I don't know why I didn't go with the bathroom thing, probably nerves/ not wanting to fuck it up with addy.

I didn't consider the background girl chatter. That would explain why she was so down to meet right after but is being a pain in ass now.

Shit, live and learn. Any ideas on how to proceed? Should I be hitting up bean trying to get them both out again?

I see a difference in your texts from before and after the night you went out. You're gettin more wussified.

That's pretty good texting mang. I didn't read the first part it's too long I didn't have time, but the way you turned that around at the end was kinda stellar. Now what I would do is take one of the conversational threads, and turn it into a story from your life you share with her that sounds awesome in some way.. then tell her to come meet you. 

Ok Kid Lumps, I know you so I know how I can address this.. you were trying to figure out how to "play" it.. you weren't actually trying to just gauge what you were doing. What was the deal? How'd it go down like that? Did you like them both? Was it cuddly as fuck? Did you see a big 'ole threesome on the horizon?? A lot of of the ballsy stuff you guys see us do is simply us just being like.. "fuck it this is how I feel! I'm going to just say it." 

Why'd you kiss addy. Remember, there are no black and whites. 

Ah yeah, what the hell. You were ignoring bean? Lol

Heh, I'm not a smart man.

I'm trying to salvage this now and It feels like I'm flailing in the dark : /. I attempted to get bean talking.
 

5:20: You causing trouble??

Haha what!

Oh gawd just watch out for the po po

10 min: I'm gonna get a tat

Of a drunk six year old :P

That didn't go well. How bout addy:

5:20: You causing trouble??

Tons

Don't punch a dude in the face

Or six year olds ;)

ok!

You and bean should make a show!

Drunken heroes?

how are we heroes? Lol

You have powers... Making lesbians feel awkward

oh right... Those

THOSE!? They're people too ya know : /

I mean those powers

Suuuuure... Racist

Jk, you actually seem really nice :D

You're so confusing

Hmm I probably just made a good first impression. I'm normally a total bitch.

:) I didn't feel that at all

Perhaps a little quiet, and maybe people misinterpret that.

Haha I'm kidding

Oh... Bitch

2 min: :P

What you doin?

15 min: At a BBQ

Ugh, my bag of text tricks is dried up. I attempted to "get real" but... that was crap.

In the future, do not send two girls that are friends.. the same text. Wow 

What MW said haha. Rookie mistake. That's like mass texting ten girls and they can all see its a mass text on the recipients list lol. They're definitely talking and laughing about this.

Ahh.. ok I get it. Pretty clever young grasshopper 

So what was your plan afterwards then.. lol  

its pretty hard to say...

obviously bean ran felt a little uncomfortable after that whole bathroom  episode. Now her friend probably doesn't wanna start any drama by sleeping with you, even if she is attracted. This could be why she's acting coy over text. I would let it sit for a while. The ideal situation is you run into addy somewhere at a bar and you can game her properly.

Just go for Addy. 

Going for the both of them has been proven time and time again not to work. Switch it up. If you can fuck Addy good, she may even help you coordinate the threesome later. 

Edit: So option #1

A penny saved is worth two in the bush

Well let's be very clear here.. you are not losing this through text lol. You lost it in how you handled it in person. Texting is always secondary, especially in situations like this. 

@Manwhore Yeah definitely.

Thanks for all the help fellas. When I originally made this post I was only looking at addy's text going from great to super flakey and thinking wtf!? I wasn't thinking about the big picture and the effect bean had. Hopefully I can make something happen with addy. I'll update in a couple days.

Your text game was pretty darn good on the whole Kiddish. You got this man. Just think about how far you actually got. 90% of dudes don't have a clue how to get that far.

This is just an idea that popped into my head, totally untested, but I was thinking you could tell her she needs to come over because some of your friends left a bottle of girly wine at your house that she can have. You may end up having to buy some girly wine but screw it. It's cheap and If it gets her over...