Stubborn Girl
've got this girl that I've made out with a few times in my social circle. That's invested in me, texts me, watching me when I'm talking with other girls she doesn't know, gets physical with me when she walks by, but I can't seem to make it happen to make it to close. Every time it starts to get cozy in like a public area she dips out after a little bit, but than like 15 minutes later shes back, same thing happens the whole time she and her friends are around until her and her whole sorority leaves together. She also resists my leading to isolation like every other time and flakes on meet ups over text. Whenever I do get isolation she's all over me. In my room, huge rager outside my window, she's down. Pulled her off the dance floor at formal, pinned against the wall and she's about it and than she dipped out. But after I withdraw interest a little, she's right back to doing this same invested, attracted but not totally cooked thing.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
edit: she's was at my house last night, most likely going to be here tonight too
Her: Hi two things 1. I won't be in class tomorrow because I have a mandatory meeting for my xxx trip and 2. You still owe me a milkshake
me: haha hey dancerbutt
me: 1. i will totally take meticulous notes in class and not play tony hawk in class if I go
Her: If you do then you're the best haha
Me: 2. If I take you for milkshakes can you handle yourself? No going hyper off the sugar rush Understand??! ;p If you can't handle it we'll do something else
Her: Haha I can't make any promises...
Me: lmao what are you doing wednesday afternoon
Her: That's one of my busy days so probably studying
Me: when are you not busy
Her: Good question..
note at formal: after we hooked up went heavy on the sexting from the mw article trying to get her to ditch her date, and figuring out logistically how I could make it happen, obviously wasn't able to do it
Me: hey beb whats up. I'm hanging at the house after playing ball with the boys earlier not sure what I'm doing later if you want to come chill
Her: Aw you would like that wouldn't you
Me: I hope you don't think youre gonna come over and try to take advantage of me xxx.
Her: Trust me I don't
Me: Sweet! I promised my mom Id be good anyway
Me: anyway do you like ice cream
Her: Yes I do why
Me: cool. I want ice cream, redbox, and to hang out with you tonight
Her: Oh doooo you
Me: lol yea I dooo
no response allegedly she smoked and fell asleep, i.e. I invited her over shittily
This week
froze out for a day than on Tuesday ...
Her: Class Today?
Me: yea
Her: Wow what a surprise
Her: Oh sorry about Sunday night I smoked and fell asleep on accident haha I was exhausted
Me: Don't even start with me xxx, you know I'm the most studious of students. ( waited an hour and half to respond like 10 minutes before our class) didn't acknowledge her excuse
Her: So I'm going to be a few minutes late. Oops
After class she calls me over for some bullshit, I meander over she's with two friends one linger chode and one of her sisters, her sister walks with us for a little and than leaves, my girl stays, linger chode lingers. I talk with her for a bit, acknowledge linger chode, than dismiss him. I stop to grab a drink, basically saying bye and linger chode poofs and she stays and we talk for like 10 more minutes, figure out her schedule for the week and she's busy all the wrong days, but she's coming over my house on thursday i.e. yesterday
one thing I noticed was she brought up the excuse text again in convo, asking if i got it, at a random ass part of the convo ...
Wednesday
Me: such a great day to stay inside and study!!!!
not
Her: I know and of course I'm stuck doing work
Me: yea same (sent a pic of me in shades, shirt off in the sun.
Her: You suck.
Me: =p
Her: Hate you.
Yesterday
Her: Hii. Any chance I could copy today's notes from you? I'm trying to get a 10 page paper done for tomorrow
note at formal: after we hooked up went heavy on the sexting from the mw article trying to get her to ditch her date, and figuring out logistically how I could make it happen, obviously wasn't able to do it
Me: hey beb whats up. I'm hanging at the house after playing ball with the boys earlier not sure what I'm doing later if you want to come chill
Her: Aw you would like that wouldn't you
Me: I hope you don't think youre gonna come over and try to take advantage of me xxx.
Her: Trust me I don't
Me: Sweet! I promised my mom Id be good anyway
Me: anyway do you like ice cream
Her: Yes I do why
Me: cool. I want ice cream, redbox, and to hang out with you tonight
Her: Oh doooo you
Me: lol yea I dooo
no response allegedly she smoked and fell asleep, i.e. I invited her over shittily
This week
froze out for a day than on Tuesday ...
Her: Class Today?
Me: yea
Her: Wow what a surprise
Her: Oh sorry about Sunday night I smoked and fell asleep on accident haha I was exhausted
Me: Don't even start with me xxx, you know I'm the most studious of students. ( waited an hour and half to respond like 10 minutes before our class) didn't acknowledge her excuse
Her: So I'm going to be a few minutes late. Oops
After class she calls me over for some bullshit, I meander over she's with two friends one linger chode and one of her sisters, her sister walks with us for a little and than leaves, my girl stays, linger chode lingers. I talk with her for a bit, acknowledge linger chode, than dismiss him. I stop to grab a drink, basically saying bye and linger chode poofs and she stays and we talk for like 10 more minutes, figure out her schedule for the week and she's busy all the wrong days, but she's coming over my house on thursday i.e. yesterday
one thing I noticed was she brought up the excuse text again in convo, asking if i got it, at a random ass part of the convo ...
Wednesday
Me: such a great day to stay inside and study!!!!
not
Her: I know and of course I'm stuck doing work
Me: yea same (sent a pic of me in shades, shirt off in the sun.
Her: You suck.
Me: =p
Her: Hate you.
Yesterday
Her: Hii. Any chance I could copy today's notes from you? I'm trying to get a 10 page paper done for tomorrow
Her: Hii. Any chance I could copy today's notes from you? I'm trying to get a 10 page paper done for tomorrow
Her: Hii. Any chance I could copy today's notes from you? I'm trying to get a 10 page paper done for tomorrow
Me: I just finished balling and was pretty set on drinking today in blah blah, just copy off dragon
Her: Ugh you suck haha
Me: sorry emoji...finish that paper!!!
Her: I'm trying!
Me: finish our paper dork?
your*
Her: Almost!!
Her:Guess what
Me: what
Her: I'm on my way to the dime =)
Me: thumbs up emoji
Me: whered ya go
Her:Inside
Me: have you left yet
Her: Just did
Me: we're ending this night together... let me know when they drop you off. I'll be by in 10. ( legitimately sent that too late, was hitting up this other girl that was still at my house and forgot to send this text)
Today
Me: oh noooose about last night I smoked and fell asleep on accident haha I was exhausted ;p
Her: Noooose? Haha
Me: Noooose an exaggerated no obvi....gotta keep up ms.girl
Her: Haha whateverr. I didn't smoke but I did fall asleep
Me: yea I passed out 5 min after I texted you
Me: Anyway what are you up to
Her: I'm in class until two what about you
Me: Class than a meeting. Swipe me in at 2?? I'm huuungry!!!
Her: Ugh you mooch
Me: kissy face emoji
Her(15 min later) : Idk if I can I have stuff to get done after class
Me: same but I can't write this essay on an empty stomach
Her: Go to the blah!
Me: the blah has the stinkiest food on campus obvi dra has the vitamins and minerals necessary for strong bones duuuh (15 min after we were supposed to meet)
Her: Sorryyy already got food at the blah
sent the patrick batesman glare her way
she sent me an emoji 2 seconds later
Yea she didn't make it to the party, but her best friend, definitely noticed me/comes in and interrupts the conversation while I'm locked in with a different girl that I was making moves on friday night. So I'm working on it.
pretty standard formal, Went to the city by the beach, nice hotel, singles for some guys, doubles for the rest of us younger guys, ballroom, food, good dj, pool, bar, everyone getting shitfaced
Or she may want to keep it very discreet about you two hooking up. You may have to pick her up over your shoulder and just make it happen in the later hours of a party. Whether it be in your car, a bathroom or your bedroom. Or even a random bedroom for that matter. Keep plowing bro.
The notes thing is irrelevant, if she really wanted good notes, she would ask one of her 2 friends that sit with her in class ones her sister in sorority that lives by her and linger chide its literally just away for her to initiate a convo because I think its just a way for her to initiate convo she's a pretty logical person... Like she texted me if I was going to class on tuesday last week and we don't sit near each other or anything, she just finds me after class to talk or whatever
I agree about the meetup, I think I went for it weakily there.
Completly on the same page about logistics. I've mismanaged them a couple times, in hindsight I made opportunities for myself but I didnt think of certain ways I could have isolated her that would have allowed for this to go down.
Like on thursday it was me her and her best friend in a hallway with my girl pressed up against me. I could have isolated her with something like hey friend me and xxx need to have a a serious conversation be right back or I'm kidnapping xxx for 5 minutes etc. Still gettimg used to being extremly discrete in a high trafficed area ie party house filled with people room right by the main bathroom all the girls use
I would relax off of her for a few days. Maybe a week. See if it draws her into you. Notice if she may be starting to seek your approval or starting conversations that are unnecessary. Also I would avoid taking notes for her as well. Let her know your not her little puppet. She may be teasing you for your notes believe it or not. Your coming across slightly needy in this meet up.
Or she may want to keep it very discreet about you two hooking up. You may have to pick her up over your shoulder and just make it happen in the later hours of a party. Whether it be in your car, a bathroom or your bedroom. Or even a random bedroom for that matter. Keep plowing bro.
I would listen to this man and pick her up and walk off with her.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I have no idea what is going on in stat right now =( did you do this weeks hw?
I could either do this homework with her tonight, she's better than me at this class and we've talked about how I always hand my shit in late but now your in my head about this notes thing or I'm about to just go freezeout until thursday for texting her...
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Short Story:
Difficult chick goes hot and cold and I ended up ignoring the fuck out of her for a while...
Made out a couple times over the past year at different parties. Last time was up in my room in isolation and got walked in on and she freaked and bounced.
Sat my fat ass on the couch and ate ice cream and watched netflix. Said that I also went to the gym for my new years resolution for a week than I stopped because new years resolutions are ghey.
Possible text: Something about my taxi finding service deserving me some ice cream specificaly cookie dough ice cream.
No one here on this forum would be proud of sitting their "fat ass" down on the coach to watch netflix and eat ice cream.
You need to get your ass in the gym no wonder you're not pursuing these girls and/or doing more shit. You're stagnant
I'm also not sure how congruent it is to act like a bad ass through text. But I would just text her something like, "No problem. I learned how to give out rides from the best.. Oprah"
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yea man I've already on it been back in the gym,intramural bball coming upp
Was all cluttered mwntally last semester when I stopped hitting it up
no response but a happy birthday post so low investment text to get her talking for later...
If quizzes are quizzical… what are tests?
or
“A survey stated that 99% of all homos check their messages with their thumbs. Don’t try to change now you HOMO!”
Yeah go for the testicle one. Even if she doesn't respond you can shoot her that birthday text later on you're sending the other girl
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Her: Very funny. Happy birthday
exactly like that... pretty ice cold response and like 30 min later. Low investment on her part.
You're so cold. My birthday candles won't even light now. Thanks a lot
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Wait hold on that, that's rewarding bad behavior fuck lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
You're so cold. My birthday candles won't even light now. You're the reason it's cold in winter
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
You're so cold. My birthday candles won't even light now. Thanks a lot
You're so cold. My birthday candles won't even light now. You're the reason it's cold in winter
What's the difference between these too?
I'm thinking the top one gives her too much credit and appeal to her ego with the birthday cake part and the thanks a lot; therefore rewarding her and the bottom one keeps the insulting tone at the end making it a bit more negative. Kind of like push game...
Trying to analyze textgame "nerd glasses" activate!
After 40ish minutes
Her: Ouch that was harsh
After 40ish minutesHer: Ouch that was harsh
youre walking into an important lesson here. There are at least a couple of ways it can go down. You can be unphazed, unreactive and owning it like a boss, proving that you're a man who says and does what he wants. This is likely to cause her to become more attracted. On the other hand, you can backpedal, apologize and supplicate like a pussy, she'll pick up on that and more likely lose attraction.
Btw. It wasn't that harsh, best to assume she's testing you and that she'll get over it
You: poor baby. Daddy spanked you too hard?
or...
try some oldschool cocky funny
You: You love me.
This girl could be a sociopath.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yea I definitely see this as a shit test from her. She's very testy in general. Haven't texted back yet.
Thinking about sending the 2nd of Infinity's
edit: Lmao what makes you say she's a sociopath
Her lack of empathy and "normal" response to emotional projections. Watching you talk to girls, playing with you and escalating, then unexpectedly dipping out. These are all signs.
Sociopathy is somewhat common, you know some already.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Hmm. Weird. Aren't sociopath's not able to feel emotions and such. I mean I've seen her really nervous about different things and back when I was talking with her earlier, she constantly was worrying about or stressed about one thing or another.
No they just lack empathy to other people's situations but they can actually be very anxious people. That's actually another issue entirely as that's emotional maturity/seasoning and in fact sociopaths many times never develop this because it's mostly founded off interacting with other people. And they lack the tools to do this lol
I'm not saying this girl is a sociopath, but those are clear signs. Heard any crazy stories about this girl from her sisters or friends?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
She's actually the opposite. I never really hear any crazy stories about her from her sisters or friends. She's almost all ways pretty calm and kind of level. At parties and such she's never really crazy or anything, just pretty low key.
She's actually the opposite. I never really hear any crazy stories about her from her sisters or friends. She's almost all ways pretty calm and kind of level. At parties and such she's never really crazy or anything, just pretty low key.
youre still describing a sociopath. They're actually normal on a surface level.
yea I know. This is pretty hilarious, would love to tell tell this girl "yea I was talking about you with some guys online. They think you're a sociopath" Lmao
Lol yeah but then you'd be on her radar in not the good way.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Hahaha yea not trying to do that at all
Hahaha yea not trying to do that at all