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sent girl awesome pic to reengagr.. not sure how to handle this

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Me: Hey beb, sweet meeting you. Make it back to long island? -BG
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Girl: Guess ppl from Cali don't take subtle hints huh?

Prior to this response, I sent her an awesome piic message

Like idk.. this seems like a really INVITING rejection. She WANTS me to respond.
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It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great- Manwhore

"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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@buddhagames:
I always wonder with girls like this. On the one hand she's responding, but then, why would she respond if she wasnt bothered?... manwhoreeee?
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@kris:

She's responding because she DOES want me to respond... it's just a matter of what the proper style of response is.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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@buddhagames:
edited my post eyy? i know your secret ;)
bounce some ideas you have so far here man. I can see how they sounds etc, give you feedback.
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@kris:

Bleh, I'm braindead right now lmao.

Okay so the following is just going to be a stream of consciousness of the way I think and hopefully at some point I'll stumble on an aswer- An inside look at the mind of BG:


California stereotypes: Surfing, blond hair, chill, relaxed, sun, dumb, cool, beach, good weather

Playing off of subtle hints: "I don't even know what a "subtle hint" even means." "Nope, never been good with subtlty", "Too busy buryign my head in the california sand.. now where were we? Oh yeah- Stop being a brat and be cool"- too strong... too buthurt... "Too busy enjoying the sweet sweet california weather... How do 'subtle hints" tend to work in Long Island"- eh, doesn't roll off the tongue.. "California sand was in my ears, must not have caught the subtlety. How about you start over and tell me what your schedule looks like this week" -hmm.. better, but still not quite there...

Okay that's what I got.
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It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great- Manwhore

"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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ow to handle this
You're not from cali?? She must have you confused
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@buddhagames:

Maybe something a little more illogical, you don't seem like the BG we know and love right now :)

"duddddddde...yur text just TOTALLY made me buy a new surfboard."

Like, ill explain my reasoning - you're exaggerating what she's saying, helping her visualize your nonchalant attitude by kinda acting out the role of a typical cali stoned surfer dude. And it just shows that you don't give the slightest fuck about her shit test. Your texts seemed a bit approval seeking, dunno maybe we should throw it up to the Manwhore.

by the way DARK KNIGHT RISES is awesome :)
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@Gogo:
Ok that's a good text Gogo, BUT, it doesn't require a response. So you'd want to add something like that to prompt some investment from her. Something like "hmm bebe should I get flowers painted on it or strawberry shortcake??"
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@Manwhore:

Yup - that's the death of all good texts: when they don't require a response but just elicit a giggle.

Also, i've noticed MW profusely finds ways of tapping into a girl's psyche of sweet, sugary magical stuff lol, 'strawberry shortcake' and 'flowers'. I think it leaves so many possible conversational threads open having detail like that in a text.
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@Gogo:

Or they just respond, "strawberry shortcake and flowers are gay"- she's a longisland "guido" type girl... predictable response, heh.

lmao- in other news,, pulled again tonight (still no sex.. arggghh)
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Me: Duddeeee... yur text TOTALLY made me buy a new surfboard. Should I get flowers painted on it or strawberry shortcake??
Girl - 2 hrs 49 mins later: Short cake flowers are gay

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It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great- Manwhore

"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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@buddhagames:

hahaha

"So is your face'
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w to handle this
Lol

So is your FACE, but I still like it
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@Manwhore:

oh this is geting somewhere, she's cracking... slowly... but she's CRACKINGGGGG

"Hmmm so would that be a typical "Cali" witty retort... 20 hrs later... smh"
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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@buddhagames:
So is your face so let me give you a facelift with my cock...

maybe too much
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Dont hate on cali we have the best cheese. When we getting ice cream
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Re: w to handle this
@Manwhore:

Hey manwhore can you explain that last text a bit? Could "the cheese" part be replaced with anything awesome from Cali? And the second part is to see her level of investment? Like she's acting aloof but you ask her when your getting ice cream to see if she's down for an innocent meetup without investing anything yourself, like actually asking her to get ice cream. Also it obviously checks out her schedule

Is that the just of the text and main purpose of it?
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Sure, but we're just lucky enough to have something from cali that is also silly as fuck and will make her laugh. Yes the ice cream part is mostly correct. It's also a slightly petulant high-value douche way of sounding bossy
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Re: w to handle this
@Manwhore:

Sweet. Thanks. Yeah that's what I figured. Just anything silly. The douche way of saying it is cool. Cause usually chodes ask shit like "heyyy girl when are we hangin out :)" which falls flat on its face. But given the context and the way you write that grammatically incorrect and without a question mark is kinda of douche way. Like you dont even give a fuck but still interested enough to give her the opportunity I hang out with you... If she doesn't mess it up ;)