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Resistance while pulling from dancefloor. Advice?

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So yesterday after making out with some cuties i approach some smoking hot girl and start dancing with her and shit. I touch her all over her body, inside panties and bite her neck etc. She bit my neck and grabbed my dick too at a point. I was really horny and wanted to pull her to the bathroom but she would always playfully kinda push me away with a smile on her face and i  was like backing off and then going in again and repeat a couple of times. I wasn't really even thinking of it as her shit testing me but rather kinda teasing me or something, she only made me hornier lol.  Everytime i went back in she got all over me again. Somehow she dissapeared while i approached some other girl i had made out with earlier so i lost her.

I'm thinking maybe i should have been a bit more physical dominant when i tried to pull or something. I've gone trough similar situations a few times...any advice?

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Girls are naturally good at

Girls are naturally good at the whole prizing game. How she was pushing you away with a little smile etc is how she was playing it. If you had been the one doing that to her, instead of the other way around, it would've been her saying, "he was only making me hornier."

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'k you've GOT to throw in

'k you've GOT to throw in some kind of pickup. Swear to gawd I think the reason why they call it pick up is because our ancestors knew you actually had to pick up the girl. But the knowledge has been lost.. until recently. 

Be smooth and cool. When you're in close to her pick her up and walk off with her a bit. Put her back down against a wall and own her little reaction with a calm little smirk on your face while you stick your hand down the front of her pants 

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Cool that sounds good. I

Cool that sounds good. I guess ill have to start lifting some more weights again, lol. ;)

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It's not as hard as it seems,

It's not as hard as it seems, it's just proper technique. In the 2010 21 Conference talk I talk about which exercise is mandatory for pickup lol. Hold on let me try to find a diagram of it.. 

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This is it:

This is it:

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http://www.bodybuilding.com/e

http://www.bodybuilding.com/exercises/detail/view/name/low-cable-crossover

His posture here is a bit off but that's the exercise. Have your chest popped out and in more of a "seated" standing stance with one leg in front of you bent and the other straight back. Like the posture from the first pic. This keeps the emphasis on the proper muscle group. You could do it the way shown here, but it would be incorporating a lot of arm strength and you don't want to do that as that'll lead to improper handling of the girl. 

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Manwhore

Manwhore wrote:
http://www.bodybuilding.com/exercises/detail/view/name/low-cable-crossover

His posture here is a bit off but that's the exercise. Have your chest popped out and in more of a "seated" standing stance with one leg in front of you bent and the other straight back. Like the posture from the first pic. This keeps the emphasis on the proper muscle group. You could do it the way shown here, but it would be incorporating a lot of arm strength and you don't want to do that as that'll lead to improper handling of the girl. 

Allright, so i actually tried picking them UP, lol. But not with the arms, i just grab their legs and wrap my legs arround me. Worked pretty well.