Quick lesson in being assertive/dominant
I’m using a text script that gets girls out pretty effectively, and I’m having good success with it, but here is a quick reminder in leading/dominance.
I was taught before I knew about this script, to NEVER ask for a date or a number, to Tell them to give it to you. This strictly and obviously dominant approach to it works very well, but its a big numbers game. It’s works with all calibers of girls in terms of hotness. I almost never deviate from this. The most I’ll do that is even close to asking is SOMETIMES adding something at the end of the sentence which gives her a way out so she doesn’t feel pressured or like im
too pushy/needy. There are girls I miss using this style and the reasons are variable. I figured why not find/use a method that is both shorter and casts a wider net?
Now. I suspended my disbelief in order to use this new script and did what I considered a mortal sin. Ask. The “science” behind this script seems to be to maximize percentages of
compliance and eliminate anything that might lessen compliance. its short and effective.
The script is so good, you can usually use it without almost any improvisation on your part. Today was different though.
I got the number off Tinder using the script, and instead of going with my natural instinct which was to dominantly set a date and lead hard, I opened with the second half of the script meant for phone. No reply. The day is almost over and it makes no sense to go from high interest and quick replies to nothing. I am beginning to entertain those old, dark notions of bitches tryna play games with me. I stop myself. After a quick analysis of the problem, I read back the tinder convo and realized that the transition, in that particular context was some PUSSY ASS SHIT. Like really dog?
I was playing it too safe because I believed in the script. I KNEW the next step was to go for the kill. Instead I opted for that weak ass open, which in most contexts is a strong open which gains you a lot of compliance. In this instance, it looked like I was pussying
out waiting for her to make the moves. The impression of me in this woman’s mind is now that of a beta male. If I send another text it’s only going to bury me.
So what do I do? I call. I really didn’t want to. I felt it would look needy but at this point I had to fix my mistake with some kind of “bold” move. Fuck it.
I call and she picks up on the first ring, she pretends to not know who I am at first (testing for butthurt) and basically I am not at all phased because I’m very comfortable on the phone. Aside from her showing me like 10 red flags during conversation (fuck it, it’s tinder, but she was nice enough) I set up the date and it’s all good. Got it for Monday night at 10pm.
Had I not called, I would have probably not gotten the meet up. Ok there exists the possibitly she would’ve texted me back but I feel my judgment was spot on with this. From what I can see it didn’t hurt anything. My perception is she saw my texts and dubbed my shit.
Anyway, just a reminder to not do pussy shit. Even on text.
Dude why would you use a script? That's like.. witnessing existence through a keyhole. :\
Just trying to make it easier and to automate the process. To save time and get more meet ups with less effort. I can work more volume by using a short script and thus get more closes, I can then up my lay count. I fucked 4 new girls this week. The feeling of having a girl smile for days after you bang her is great, I’m out there improving people’s moods and lives with my sex. I made a girl squirt who never has before.
Basically, while I’m lying like crazy and using scripts to get compliance, I’m still making them very happy. I am a good person.
Aight for short-term even medium-term it can be okay, just make sure you're learning from all of it. Routine/scripted shit is not a good long-term strategy. It creates hardcore long-term emotional/mental dissonance. And for a dude like you I'm sure you can imagine the implications of that ;)
Honestly I have no idea what it would do to me long term. Are you saying even a text script is somehow harmful? I don’t use any scripts in person
No, probably not. Yeah it's the in-person routines 'n stuff that really create the cog dis. You'll probably be fine. I've never done it except for a few rare instances, like right here... http://manwhore.org/forum/content/bodybuilding.com-trolling-yields-results LOL. I did run scripted openers on pof and all the old school dating sites 'cuz I got sick of handcrafting them. Otherwise everything on the fly. Back during the Vegas Supercrew days I'd regularly have 4-5 buddies standing around waiting for me to write texts. I was Manwhore de Bergerac for real. I was fucking good. I still am, but I was then too.
So besides the humble brag, my point is that you don't need to run a text script. Even when I was running large numbers I always got involved with the conversation I was having with the girl. It set everything up too. So unless you're gleaning some super nuanced "result", like very sexually receptive women, I don't necessarily see the point. You can learn proper text game. And learn to create actual intimacy. Are you running some kind of dom style tinder profile or something? Are you getting access to a bunch of women's numbers texting them out of the blue?
Curious to know about this infinite