Quick Help on throwin the tool down on this youngin- she's outta her league here
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 05:54
KK..
So QUICK background: 5 minute street set. Met up for d2- had HARDCORE makeout/ass grabbing/pussy touching... didn't let me into room.. hit her up a couple nights and she was being fishy... hit her up tonight with a phone call... she answered... agreed on ice cream... bailed 10 minutes later...
Me: What's your plan tonight
Her: No idea, why?
Me: One sec. I'll call you in 10
(Confirm ice cream on phone)
Her: Could we postpone it to someting udring the day on like Thursday or something haha I'm sorry I have a huge sketch due tomorrow
Me: I'm working all week
Her: Oh cool where did you end up getting the job? And tomorrow night might work just cause I don't have class
Her: If that works for you
Me: I already have plans tmrw. That's why I called you tonight.
(Okay the following text is where shit gets real)
Her: Sorry I've been avoiding you, I got kind of freaked out when we made out and I barely knew you plus I was kind of drunk but if you'd like to go on a real date with no alcohol and not too late in the night that'd be much better
Basically I wanna throw the tool down on the fact that she's just being a little child. Clearly she's invested on some level... I mean if she wasn't... she would have just been like, "Fuck this guy"... but no... she wants ME... she's just scared of my dick...
So QUICK background: 5 minute street set. Met up for d2- had HARDCORE makeout/ass grabbing/pussy touching... didn't let me into room.. hit her up a couple nights and she was being fishy... hit her up tonight with a phone call... she answered... agreed on ice cream... bailed 10 minutes later...
Me: What's your plan tonight
Her: No idea, why?
Me: One sec. I'll call you in 10
(Confirm ice cream on phone)
Her: Could we postpone it to someting udring the day on like Thursday or something haha I'm sorry I have a huge sketch due tomorrow
Me: I'm working all week
Her: Oh cool where did you end up getting the job? And tomorrow night might work just cause I don't have class
Her: If that works for you
Me: I already have plans tmrw. That's why I called you tonight.
(Okay the following text is where shit gets real)
Her: Sorry I've been avoiding you, I got kind of freaked out when we made out and I barely knew you plus I was kind of drunk but if you'd like to go on a real date with no alcohol and not too late in the night that'd be much better
Basically I wanna throw the tool down on the fact that she's just being a little child. Clearly she's invested on some level... I mean if she wasn't... she would have just been like, "Fuck this guy"... but no... she wants ME... she's just scared of my dick...
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 06:05
#1
Re: also
@buddhagames:
Okay, so my ideas (The last one I think sounds really gay... but could potentially be like RETARDEDLY potent..)
"It's okay beb, you should go hang out with some kids your own age"
"lol, you're fun as shit and cute as a fucking button but you should really just forget about me and have fun with your friends"
"I don't remember making out... wait.. was that me?" (lol idk...)
"I'm not looking for anything serious, you have to realize that. You should prob just go find some kid your own age to play dressup with"
"Yeah, I've been really into you ever since that night but hearing this, you made me realize how different we are. You should just go find some boy your own age"
"I've been really into you ever since that night. But hearing you say this has really made me realize how different we are. I don't think I can see you again. Maybe the fun between us wasn't real. I can't do this"
"I've been really into you ever since that night. But hearing you say this has really made me realize how different we are. I don't think I can see you again. Maybe the fun between us wasn't real. I can't do this. You need to go find a boy your own age. I'm sorry"
LMFAO- I'm literally just throwing EVERYTHING out there... what do you guys think of any of this?
Okay, so my ideas (The last one I think sounds really gay... but could potentially be like RETARDEDLY potent..)
"It's okay beb, you should go hang out with some kids your own age"
"lol, you're fun as shit and cute as a fucking button but you should really just forget about me and have fun with your friends"
"I don't remember making out... wait.. was that me?" (lol idk...)
"I'm not looking for anything serious, you have to realize that. You should prob just go find some kid your own age to play dressup with"
"Yeah, I've been really into you ever since that night but hearing this, you made me realize how different we are. You should just go find some boy your own age"
"I've been really into you ever since that night. But hearing you say this has really made me realize how different we are. I don't think I can see you again. Maybe the fun between us wasn't real. I can't do this"
"I've been really into you ever since that night. But hearing you say this has really made me realize how different we are. I don't think I can see you again. Maybe the fun between us wasn't real. I can't do this. You need to go find a boy your own age. I'm sorry"
LMFAO- I'm literally just throwing EVERYTHING out there... what do you guys think of any of this?
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 06:56
#2
Re: Quick Help on throwin the tool d
@buddhagames:
"Yeah, I've been really into you ever since that night but hearing this, you made me realize how different we are. You should prob just go find some boy your own age to play house with"
I didn't like the I'm not looking for anything serious thing because she might flake at just being causual/bootycall thing, since she already brought it up and I think you mentioned her being young.
But I definitely think your right about the calling her out and kind of making her feel like shit about blowing you off thing/projecting authority at her.
I'd send something like what you're thinking. Though at the same time, your way better than me at this. Knock it out of the park bro.
"Yeah, I've been really into you ever since that night but hearing this, you made me realize how different we are. You should prob just go find some boy your own age to play house with"
I didn't like the I'm not looking for anything serious thing because she might flake at just being causual/bootycall thing, since she already brought it up and I think you mentioned her being young.
But I definitely think your right about the calling her out and kind of making her feel like shit about blowing you off thing/projecting authority at her.
I'd send something like what you're thinking. Though at the same time, your way better than me at this. Knock it out of the park bro.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 06:59
#3
Re: Quick Help on throwin the tool d
@ItsMario:
lol, I just talk a lot of shit... I'm not that great ; )
lol, I just talk a lot of shit... I'm not that great ; )
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 07:14
#4
Re: Quick Help on throwin the tool d
@buddhagames:
I dont think im qualified right now to speak but I think youre last text has the most ZING
maybe even split up into two like this-
"I've been really into you ever since that night. But hearing you say this has really made me realize how different we are. I don't think I can see you again. Maybe the fun between us wasn't real...I can't do this.
"You need to go find a boy your own age. I'm sorry"
Im just remembering how MW thought the text I came up with "I guess you can't handle a 21 yr old boy. U saw me sipping that beer and peed yourself
threw the akwardness back on her (she actually texted me back after ignoring me)
like whichever text you think turns it around the best so emotionally shes like "whats he talking about I can handle a 23 yr old! Im smart and sexy and fun and i have all these attributes that a grown man would lovee!! im not a little kid!!!"
type shit
I dont think im qualified right now to speak but I think youre last text has the most ZING
maybe even split up into two like this-
"I've been really into you ever since that night. But hearing you say this has really made me realize how different we are. I don't think I can see you again. Maybe the fun between us wasn't real...I can't do this.
"You need to go find a boy your own age. I'm sorry"
Im just remembering how MW thought the text I came up with "I guess you can't handle a 21 yr old boy. U saw me sipping that beer and peed yourself
threw the akwardness back on her (she actually texted me back after ignoring me)
like whichever text you think turns it around the best so emotionally shes like "whats he talking about I can handle a 23 yr old! Im smart and sexy and fun and i have all these attributes that a grown man would lovee!! im not a little kid!!!"
type shit
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 07:21
#5
Re: Quick Help on throwin the tool d
@Alex123:
She's the one that needs to meet YOUR standards. But youve already got that vibe with the texts ouve suggested so not sure how to elaborate further
maybe even "its cool. I should probably hang out with girls who are more mature anyway, although it was fun"
She's the one that needs to meet YOUR standards. But youve already got that vibe with the texts ouve suggested so not sure how to elaborate further
maybe even "its cool. I should probably hang out with girls who are more mature anyway, although it was fun"
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 07:23
#6
a her league here
Girl - 5 mins later: I appreciate your friendship though. I'm feeling that's all we can be hun. I like that ur witty n funny! But I really can't play g
Girl: ames again right now, as much fun as they are. Stay In Touch :)
Me - 9 mins later: Thats so weird
Girl - 4 mins later: I have to cut it. I see k
Girl: ^oops. I meant I see myself liking you...but I don't want to get hurt again. I know you can understand that.
Me - 1 min later: ok this is one of those situations where a typical guy takes a big wtf. Just chill lil lady nothings happened yet youre ok. I will protect from the boogie monster lol
Girl - 15 mins later: :) aw you're SO sweet when you wanna be lol. My guard is up as you can see. No offense to you
Me - 14 mins later: Lol yes I can see. All good yer just a lil pipsqueak you dont scare me! ; b
Girl - 9 mins later: I'm an innocent angel ;)
Girl - 8 mins later: You're swell
Me - 17 mins later: Im just going to have to pluck your wings then
Girl - 57 mins later: ;) so what time are you coming over tonight dorkus?
Girl: ames again right now, as much fun as they are. Stay In Touch :)
Me - 9 mins later: Thats so weird
Girl - 4 mins later: I have to cut it. I see k
Girl: ^oops. I meant I see myself liking you...but I don't want to get hurt again. I know you can understand that.
Me - 1 min later: ok this is one of those situations where a typical guy takes a big wtf. Just chill lil lady nothings happened yet youre ok. I will protect from the boogie monster lol
Girl - 15 mins later: :) aw you're SO sweet when you wanna be lol. My guard is up as you can see. No offense to you
Me - 14 mins later: Lol yes I can see. All good yer just a lil pipsqueak you dont scare me! ; b
Girl - 9 mins later: I'm an innocent angel ;)
Girl - 8 mins later: You're swell
Me - 17 mins later: Im just going to have to pluck your wings then
Girl - 57 mins later: ;) so what time are you coming over tonight dorkus?
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 07:41
#7
Re: a her league here
@Manwhore:
hmm
I gotta think this over. I don't really know how to interpret your response.
haha I just wanna say one thing that's funny- The second I saw manwhore's response, I had this instinctual response where I got, "Angry"... Thought that was interesting.
But hold on guys, I'ma figure this out and come up with something to send.
hmm
I gotta think this over. I don't really know how to interpret your response.
haha I just wanna say one thing that's funny- The second I saw manwhore's response, I had this instinctual response where I got, "Angry"... Thought that was interesting.
But hold on guys, I'ma figure this out and come up with something to send.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 07:56
#8
tta her league here
@buddhagames:
Angry reading her texts she sent me, right?
Angry reading her texts she sent me, right?
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 07:57
#9
Re: a her league here
@buddhagames:
I think it's because, for whatever reason, I WANT to just fucking destroy her for that response and seeing manwhore's text convo just made it painfully clear that I can't do that becuase it wouldn't be the best course of action.
But I'ma rant here for a sec... seriously though, like jesus fucking christ. This is the kind of bullshit I'm getting from like every fucking girl in my life. Like why the FUCK are these girls so fucking scared of me. It's fucking DUMB AS FUCK and it's pissing me off so fucking much. FUCKKK...
Like they get super into me and then they want to fucking take like 10 years to get to know me... like I'm sick and fucking tired of being the "boyfriend" guy... I just want to fuck girls for fucks sake. It's so enfuriating. Like I just want to fucking punch something. Like literally EVERY FUCKING GIRL... FUCK.
I don't want to touch your dick but I want you around me and I want to be with you... let's just be gay friends that cuddle and you can give me all the positive emotions that I want out of life because I can't give them to myself and you clearly have enough to spare and don't mind giving them to me.
FUCK YOU- I just want to show these girls that I'm not all positive mr. awesome... like I want to show them that I'm a fucking asshole... I'm tired of giving all this fucking crap to these girls and getting nothing in return. It's fucking bullshit.
Like Im SICK AND FUCKING TIRED OF BEING MR. FUCKING POSITIVE ALL THE FUCKING TIME.
FUCK THIS.
I think it's because, for whatever reason, I WANT to just fucking destroy her for that response and seeing manwhore's text convo just made it painfully clear that I can't do that becuase it wouldn't be the best course of action.
But I'ma rant here for a sec... seriously though, like jesus fucking christ. This is the kind of bullshit I'm getting from like every fucking girl in my life. Like why the FUCK are these girls so fucking scared of me. It's fucking DUMB AS FUCK and it's pissing me off so fucking much. FUCKKK...
Like they get super into me and then they want to fucking take like 10 years to get to know me... like I'm sick and fucking tired of being the "boyfriend" guy... I just want to fuck girls for fucks sake. It's so enfuriating. Like I just want to fucking punch something. Like literally EVERY FUCKING GIRL... FUCK.
I don't want to touch your dick but I want you around me and I want to be with you... let's just be gay friends that cuddle and you can give me all the positive emotions that I want out of life because I can't give them to myself and you clearly have enough to spare and don't mind giving them to me.
FUCK YOU- I just want to show these girls that I'm not all positive mr. awesome... like I want to show them that I'm a fucking asshole... I'm tired of giving all this fucking crap to these girls and getting nothing in return. It's fucking bullshit.
Like Im SICK AND FUCKING TIRED OF BEING MR. FUCKING POSITIVE ALL THE FUCKING TIME.
FUCK THIS.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 08:08
#10
Re: a her league here
Ya. We've come to the conclusion that their emotions are completely invalid and they pretty much are asking to be emotionally manipulated. I mean.. they ARE. The guys that they THINK they want.. they want to be their playthings, they want to obsess over text messages from Brad Pitt with all their girlfriends. Just own them. They'll thank you
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 08:12
#11
Re: a her league here
@Manwhore:
Yeah, fuck being mr. white knight....
I've converted. I'm coming to the darkside.
I don't give a fuck.
Yeah, fuck being mr. white knight....
I've converted. I'm coming to the darkside.
I don't give a fuck.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 08:16
#12
Re: a her league here
@buddhagames:
That being said- are any of the texts I came up with effective for this situation?
Or should I model something more along the lines of what you had in the convo you posted?
That being said- are any of the texts I came up with effective for this situation?
Or should I model something more along the lines of what you had in the convo you posted?
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 08:40
#13
tta her league here
@buddhagames:
Ya you were being way too reactive to that frame
Ya you were being way too reactive to that frame
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 09:14
#14
Re: tta her league here
@Manwhore:
Me: "Eh, chill out, lol you're being weird"
Better?
Me: "Eh, chill out, lol you're being weird"
Better?
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 09:32
#15
her league here
@buddhagames:
That might work. Got a bit more emotional content then I'd use myself tho. Maybe enough for her to latch onto, like it actually validates her frame enough for her to keep on with it.
That might work. Got a bit more emotional content then I'd use myself tho. Maybe enough for her to latch onto, like it actually validates her frame enough for her to keep on with it.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 12:54
#16
Re: her league here
@Manwhore:
Any updates with this one? What happened last night?
Picture a girl said that in real life. Say your girlfriend. You would realize she is having emotional constipation and throwing out a shit test. The proper response is a lol followed by a dafaq? Followed by comforting her a bit. Show her that her frame is actually retarded but you understand where she is coming from and you'll make everything alright.
Manwhores example here does that. First text shows her that her frame is stupid and the second one comforts her and appeals to her emotions. She was scared of manwhores massive angry cock and he is like don't worry it doesn't bite. And watch how she changed after his first two texts.
So again. Appeal to her on her emotional level. She feels like a slut and is being a dumb girl. So your empathy but also show how wrong she is. Cause like obviously she should feel that way. Any socially conditioned young girl would.
Any updates with this one? What happened last night?
Picture a girl said that in real life. Say your girlfriend. You would realize she is having emotional constipation and throwing out a shit test. The proper response is a lol followed by a dafaq? Followed by comforting her a bit. Show her that her frame is actually retarded but you understand where she is coming from and you'll make everything alright.
Manwhores example here does that. First text shows her that her frame is stupid and the second one comforts her and appeals to her emotions. She was scared of manwhores massive angry cock and he is like don't worry it doesn't bite. And watch how she changed after his first two texts.
So again. Appeal to her on her emotional level. She feels like a slut and is being a dumb girl. So your empathy but also show how wrong she is. Cause like obviously she should feel that way. Any socially conditioned young girl would.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 13:16
#17
Re: her league here
@icewahine:
Maybe saying she is scared of the cawk isn't the most accurate.. But she wants to get fucked from the big man protecting the little girly frame not the half drunk slut gettin raped behind a dumpster. Cater to that
Maybe saying she is scared of the cawk isn't the most accurate.. But she wants to get fucked from the big man protecting the little girly frame not the half drunk slut gettin raped behind a dumpster. Cater to that
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 16:26
#18
Re: her league here
@icewahine:
Haven't responded yet. I just don't know what to say.
Haven't responded yet. I just don't know what to say.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 16:32
#19
Re: her league here
@buddhagames:
Like this whole situation is making me angry cause I have no fucking clue what to say. Like I don't know how to respond and it's fucking with me. I think it's because this situation is literally like EXACTLY WHERE I would normally fuck up.
I would normally go into some comfort/rapport shit and I'm sitting here trying to come up with some kind of text that is like COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than anything I would normally do and it's not fuckin easy... I don't even know when my texts are emotional or not. I am just fuckin CLUELESS in this situation.
Do I just respondd with the exact same message manwhore sent, "That's so weird" and see where it goes from there?
I didn't want to use his EXACT text, cause i wanted to come up with something of my own... but I mean, if it works...
Like this whole situation is making me angry cause I have no fucking clue what to say. Like I don't know how to respond and it's fucking with me. I think it's because this situation is literally like EXACTLY WHERE I would normally fuck up.
I would normally go into some comfort/rapport shit and I'm sitting here trying to come up with some kind of text that is like COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than anything I would normally do and it's not fuckin easy... I don't even know when my texts are emotional or not. I am just fuckin CLUELESS in this situation.
Do I just respondd with the exact same message manwhore sent, "That's so weird" and see where it goes from there?
I didn't want to use his EXACT text, cause i wanted to come up with something of my own... but I mean, if it works...
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 16:42
#20
Re: her league here
@buddhagames:
Manwhore told me NOT to do any more comfort/rapport... I need to be "distant" and "Boss"....
lmao- I don't even know what "distant" and "boss" looks like in text...
Manwhore told me NOT to do any more comfort/rapport... I need to be "distant" and "Boss"....
lmao- I don't even know what "distant" and "boss" looks like in text...
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 16:56
#21
Re: her league here
@buddhagames:
Okay, fuck it- I just sent her, "That's so weird"
Honestly, I don't even wanna deal with this girl anymore... at this point, it's simply about practicing this shit and it's making me so angry cause I am so fucking lost when it comes to being "distant" and "boss"... like that's not how I am used to being... in fact it's the exact OPPOSITE of everything I know how to be...
So it's like, yeah... it's pretty enfuriating to think that my natural personality isn't going to get me laid. And then on top of that just having NO CLUE how to do the other thing, which WILL get me laid... like I have zero fucking clue.
Okay, fuck it- I just sent her, "That's so weird"
Honestly, I don't even wanna deal with this girl anymore... at this point, it's simply about practicing this shit and it's making me so angry cause I am so fucking lost when it comes to being "distant" and "boss"... like that's not how I am used to being... in fact it's the exact OPPOSITE of everything I know how to be...
So it's like, yeah... it's pretty enfuriating to think that my natural personality isn't going to get me laid. And then on top of that just having NO CLUE how to do the other thing, which WILL get me laid... like I have zero fucking clue.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 18:42
#22
Re: her league here
@buddhagames:
I feel the exact same way dude.
I hate not being able to handle a situation in the way *I would* and have it work. But i guess as we just *do what works*, that will eventually become the way that we handle them, the way that IS natural for us
I feel the exact same way dude.
I hate not being able to handle a situation in the way *I would* and have it work. But i guess as we just *do what works*, that will eventually become the way that we handle them, the way that IS natural for us
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 20:41
#23
Re: her league here
@Alex123:
mmm i like Julien's video on this - "don't trust in your faculties", just shut the fuck up, listen to the pros and swallow your pride. Eventually this higher frequency of thinking will become natural to you - you'll shape your own personality around the fundamentals.
mmm i like Julien's video on this - "don't trust in your faculties", just shut the fuck up, listen to the pros and swallow your pride. Eventually this higher frequency of thinking will become natural to you - you'll shape your own personality around the fundamentals.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 20:49
#24
Re: her league here
@Gogo:
I agree. I was on an ego trip for a bit there. Meditated 3 times yesterday, went for a super INTENSE workout this morning, then meditated again today
Back down to earth.
Carry on
I agree. I was on an ego trip for a bit there. Meditated 3 times yesterday, went for a super INTENSE workout this morning, then meditated again today
Back down to earth.
Carry on
Sat, 09/21/2013 - 11:03
#25
ballgames,
how did you
ballgames,
how did you overcome these issues? what happened to this situation?