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Joined: 03/31/2012
Wauw this chick is giving me some serious shit, respond me with only one word etc.. With my awesome texting game, it didn't take long to fuck up

Just saw on her profile that she lives in a very small university town where i did my masters degree

Me: What are you doing in xx. I did my masters there
Her; Living

I checked her profile, she says "I am quite tall for a girl so you have to be taller than me..."

Me: And I know that girls who live in xxx are really tall, so do you... How tall are you? As an ex basketball player, you cannot beat me...
Her: What do you mean I can't beat you
Her: Girls in Egham aren't actually that tall (didn't see that message, I was reading her profile, she also says she hits the gym 3 times a week blah blah)
Me: You hit the gym 3 times a week, you are quite tall. Don't be so confident, I can still beat you in the gym. In any sports activity ps: I prefer basketball lol
Her: Bit full of it aren't you (I had to google it to understand what it means, learnt that it means you are bullshitting lol. Yeah English is not my first language)
Me: Nope, I am serious. I love hitting the gym as well. Have played basketball professionally till I was injured. Then I started windsurfing, became a pro in a year time. Cant do it in England so I constantly hit the gym to keep fit. It wasn't bullshit at all..

No response. I am really trying my best to learn texting. It is kind of difficult because everyone has some talents and some limitations. Most people are struggling to approach girls for instance, I usually don't have this problem. On the other hand for many people texting might be really easy, but I really struggle to lead to convos. Often times either I am too logical (boringggg) or I am too weird. Plus English is not my first language so I do struggle. However I am telling you I will learn it!!! No matter what it takes, no matter how many more hotties I burn I will fucking learn it. So please give some genuine advice here. How could I lead it better? Or How can I reengage with that much of a limited info

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Re: POF Hottie
You shouldnt be texting dude. There are language barriers here that are making you say really awkward things that you're not even realizing. Stick to the phone.
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Joined: 12/08/2012
Re: POF Hottie
@hkmt:

"Full of yourself" actually means being cocky, not bullshitting. That's why when you bragged even more she didn't respond...
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Joined: 05/27/2012
Re: POF Hottie
@Turtle:

yh OP - the learning curve for this one is major if you're foreign.

either keep it VERY simple or be like "I'm foreign. Texting is shit. I'm gonna call you"