party host game

You don't even have to be THAT social and outgoing because your already considered a nice guy for having people over.

Another thing I noticed:

You and your boys have to already be raging/playing pong/drinking when others (especially chicks) show up. This is when they want to join the fun. It is extremely boring and bad game when girls show up and they get a sense that you and your boys are waiting for THEM to get the party started.

I just like to tease chicks and then isolate them.

Thanks Cholo, really great insight on the topic at hand 

lol. build momentum, have everything in EXCESS, and always shoot for bigger. also, tie that into being exclusive once you have momentum and you've established that you throw sick ragers. You don't want everyone and anyone at your pad, you want everyone who is anyone at your pad. 

Lol

Good point brah! this is definitely something I've been striving for. I don't invite anyone that is going to be problem, or bring the vibe down. 

Also, the dick/pussy ratio is KEY. You and your boys should not be fighting for pussy

Right. I mean that sorta inevitably does happen from time to time tho. Being exclusive goes hand in hand with not getting tooled for your pad too. You give value, but that doesn' t mean people can take advantage of you. I mean yea ratios are obvious lol. That's why you build your momentum up so you have a baseline for what your party will always be. On the chance you have an "off night" and no one shows up besides the usual suspects. I'd invest in quality speakers that slap hard. You really need to set up the crib so it's party ready.

E.g. black lights, beer bongs, multi-story beerbongs,  bongs, cards, dice, bp table, kegs, inflatable bp table if you have a pool and it's hot, minibar. All basic essentials. Like I had this chick take a kegstand in law school lol. Always be pushing the "ridiculousness" so there is a certain expectation built around attending your parties. For example we always had booze in excess amounts and were known for drinking retarded amounts of alcohol so chicks always knew they were probably raging hard if they cruised through

How often would you guys host a party?

Last week i had a party and a pre party. Heading out to a club with about 15 girls and boys tonight and nobody wants to host a pre party so i might host it. But yeah not sure if i wanna be that guy with alotta parties, is this good or bad?

Dude of course you want to be known for hosting parties. Sheesh. What could possibly go wrong with that? 

Lol. Idk? I have parties in the apartment basement though so it's not really "my place". However, i work at the clubs on thursday and then we have after parties with all our colleagues and our supervisor gives us infinite amounts of booze lol. It gets pretty wild. I told our supervisor that i'd host the after parties as long as he would clean up the place before going home which he agreed to.

That's a fucking GOOD deal, dude! 

Oh gawd - honestly man, you DONT wannna be the guy who hosts the party. 

Flashback: I was hosting a relatively small party - I knew it'd be decent size but def. nothin out of control. Started out awesome - just like you described. I invited a few different girls I was working on and they all showed up, and were all over me..

Ended up being "the party of the year"- which is real cool if you're NOT the one hosting it. Cops busted in, there were about 100 people all rushin to get out. My gate broke down, one dude was hammered as fuck, tried climbin out the top of my parents chimney, which ended up breaking (it wasn't a brick chimney).

I had nowhere to go, so I'm just sitting there with fucktons of alcohol, a destroyed house,  cops in my backyard, about 3-4 patrol cars parked outside so all my neighbors are comin outside to see wtf is goin on at lil' ol' potted's house, and the craziest part about it all was that I was literally ELEVEN days from turning 18 - ended up havin to do mad community service, and got suspended from school. 

HERES WHAT TO DO INSTEAD: Just be the dude who is invited to every party, and HOST PREGAMES. That's the move dude. It's mad intimate, and your shit won't be the party-spot, and you'll prob be mad cooler. 

That's actually a great call potted. Yeah I hosted a bunch of parties in college and of course its great and a ton of fun and girls are always like, you live here!!?? OMG!! Lol. We would throw the absolute best parties, consistently getting 100 plus people packed in the downstairs of this tiny two story house. But I did get a minor in possession once cuz the cops came basically EVERYtime and I got my MacBook pro stolen once. It's definitely a much chiller rroute to host pregame and kick backs. Maybe on the very rare ocassion throw a party just to keep your rep up, but other than that just be the life of the party somewhere where you don't care what gets fucked up :).

Agree with potted and Grizz. A hybrid model is the best. Throw some parties and attend some parties. Host pregames and attend them. I personally like throwing events that are social in nature but not necessarily parties. A few that come to mind are brunches with bottomless booze. A super bowl party. Last year I threw a "Steaksgiving" where everyone brought sides and my roommates and I grilled up some steaks. It's different and a lot of,fun.

I've always lived in big nice houses and hosted a lot of parties.  As the guy who hosts you make getting laid almost effortless... in fact effortless.  Whenever I make it my job to make sure everyone is having a good time, basically being the life of the party and developing bonds with people indiscriminately - I always find I'm the one getting pulled to a bedroom by girls.  If you just go around lifting everyone's state and making people feel good, I don't know what it is exactly but girls get extremely attracted to you and jump at the first moment they can get you alone.  I think it's just actively applying a lot of natural human leadership skills - developing strong bonds by making sure everyone is at ease, a lot of positive dominance and leveling the playing the field, etc.  A big part is definitely being fun loving and dispelling negativity.

Yeah when I'm hosting a party or helping out someone who is I'm hawkeye checking everybody out. I'll be having a great time but if someone's fucking up I'm on it. Some dude tried to get all "alpha" with the boombox at a party I threw, literally trying to bully his way into controlling the music playlist I shut that fucker down stat. Some dude also tried to rape a girl in my downstairs bathroom I obviously put a stop to that as well. Potted I think the fact you were 17 probably has a lot to do with how you did or didn't handle that party LOL. 

hm, yea that is true.  It was college, their was a bunch of randoms, and I definitely was not handling my shit that way.  I change my mind. 

A couple girls I knew threw a "lingerie" party at their place in college. Think I was a sophomore at the time. I show up in my shiny black pants and a bow tie with a nice Argentinian tango hat on and no shirt. I'm prepped and ready to go. The problem is that new people were starting to show up fully dressed and it was obviously "diluting" the party plus the girls that were there in lingerie were starting to feel self-conscious. So I'm like.. fuck this. I march outside and stand on the porch as people walk up (looking quite dashing in my bowtie) and start telling them to take their clothes off. They look at me incredulously. Shocked even.. and I don't give a FUCK. I tell them they either take off their pants, or their shirt. Girls in dresses are SOL, they're in their bra and panties. I ended up having a huge pile of clothing next to me on the porch (yeah I wouldn't even let them take their clothes inside with them LOL), and a bunch of naked people inside the house. Fucking sweet! Oh and yeah I hooked up with a San Diego Chargers cheerleader that night. 

Yeah haha i'm always kinda cautious about the place. If someone starts acting like a retard i will put an end to that.

I will also get all the booze that's left. Last week i got like a box with 3 litre cheap vodka, and about 40 beers LOL.