Most fearful situation to approach.

lol why are you approaching couples at the mall?

LOL! Seriously 

ha! I used to beat myself up for not doing the "hard" approaches....

Like ok because I am not fucking the girls that I approached when they were with their boyfriend at the mall my game is lackluster...

Lol the ego is such a bastard sometimes..

I heard that idea a lot from Ozzie and I think Julien, I think the main thing was so just so you know that even if you do nothing bad will happen to you,

also I kind of recall Ozzie saying he makes out with a girl after interrupting a couple that's already making out, also Tyler saying they might not even be couples and that they could be brother and sister or so...

so I can see where that thought would come from and in retrespect it does seem kind of ridiculous but I can see some value to it

Group in the restaurant always freaks me out. During the daytime specifically

Why not ?

It's not about fucking the girl, it's about facing your fears. It's the habit to face it.

So you give up the "hard" approach ?

Why would you approach couples at the mall dude. If you tried to harass my chick I'd just hit you in the face. 

^^^shit like that happens ALL the time here. It's one thing if you approach them naturally and it ends up bing a brother sister or two friends, but if you go up to couples to practice dafaq

i saw julien while out. He was doing boot camp. I tried to get him to approach the girl I was with to no avail. Then with his student tried hand of goding the girl away later on. I tried to get them engaged but once they didn't get the hand they bounced. So that was pretty scary

Couple having sex. Try that one OP

I've only approached couples at the mall by accident. I've approached girls in front of their father, brother, mother, whatever. It's only worth it if you've got something going with the girl. Otherwise, NO. Lol 

Everything else is somewhat simplistic. The reason I don't approach "couples" is because it's SO MUCH stress on them. I decided long ago I would not be the cause of more pain in this world. I once took a girl home straight to my bed from a date she was on with another guy, but the dude just wigged out and I was like.. 'k fuck it she's sexxi I'm doing this. But she never talked to me again, ha! 

Other than that the only time I'll go for a "couple" is if I've already spent time with the chick. Then hell yeah I'll wade right into the middle of it I don't care if they're making out 

One of the biggest "mind-blown" moments I've had to-date in game, was pulling a girl literally right in front of her date. 

I had no clue the dude was even there, until he tried interrupting us like 4 minutes into the convo. I get like that though when I'm out, it's a blessing and a curse. I won't even notice the dudes. I see the girl, and just fuckin go for it, and literally I don't even see the dudes (it's not some re-frame I'm trying to make- I legit don't see them)

That being said- I had a girl stolen from me once. It was one of the shittiest things ever. I ended up pulling a different chick that same night, but yeah, we were in the bathroom line and she was straight stolen from me and that dude ended up having a 3some with her and his gf in the bathroom right in front of me. Never Again. 

But yeah, if a couple are actively on a date, and I realize it- I'm not gonna purposely fuck with that shit. Like manwhore said - it causes a lot of unnecessary pain. 

As for the "hardest" approaches.... idk.... I mean, I know when I first started out, I had to make a point to approach the hottest girls at every venue, no matter what. Like the ones that I would rationalize, or back away from. Like, for me, I don't really judge how "hard" an approach is from some external indicator, but rather how I feel inside.Like if I feel resistence//anxiety//fear I'll literally walk in the direction of that feeling. So a "hard" approach for me, I guess would just be the ones that make me "feel" the most, in one way or another

I just feel like thats some ego driven bullshit. Let the dude fail on the date if hes a fag, but don't AMOG him, your better than that.

Dude that sounds legendary. How'd that go down? Don't worry you can cry on my shoulder as you tell it. LOL 

Honestly, I forget man. I blocked it out.

That's why I want to do it, if your chick is cute I tell her straight away in front of you, just to express myself out there.

It's not some destroy the guy and feel good about it, I don't care about you however I care about putting myself out there in this intense situation

and let the chips fall where she may.

Otherwise I can live a standard life and doing this "weird" shit. But fuck this.

I go to the mall to buy some groceries.... and if I see a cutie I approach her that's it.

HAAAAAhahahaa that would be amazing. I note it.

Exactly right about the feeling inside, it's what I seek.

Totally get it, it's not about amogging, it's about talking to a female with pressure.

To let it sink that you go for what you want no matter what you feel.

HAAAAAAAahahahahaa

Understood. I kinda remember when it happened. Just crazy for a guy to whisk her off and fuck her with another girl. Did he just walk up to you in the line?

I forget. I think it was a little more involved//sneaky than that. I don't really remember knowing what was happening until it was too late. His girlfriend did most of the work..

Hey real people and situations never cause you pain or fear....it's your thoughts about them that do

That being said sometimes you gotta lay down the law because someone is undermining your purpose but it's still the truth