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So this is an old girl I used I be close with, never did anything with her as I was too much of a puss.

So I hit her up not expecting/ caring for a response:

Me: I got some weird DM from you on twitter. Have you been compromised?
Her: What did it say ? I had one off someone the other day x
Me: Something like no you're famous, with a mad amount of typos considering it was only 4 words
Her: Yeah I had the same one yesterday off someone, changed my password now so hopefully back to normal
Me: Ho-ly crap. better not happen to me then. I always knew I'd eventually catch something off you pumkin
Her: Not in the way you would have liked to tho!

The way I saw it here I needed to show her some teeth after her trying to frame herself as the prize. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Me: Thats vile. Std's arent Pokemon badges hon, and I'm certain I never want one
Her: Didn't you get the weird Tasha badge tho ? (basically some girl I fucked in our social circle and she basically told everyone I was amazing and rallied her 5 times in one sesh. Yay for me)
Me: Ya, along with the hooker badge, vegetarian badge, hair pulling badge, and 'pretend you're raping me' badge (wtf right?) just wanna get my biting badge now
(this girl is kinky and into biting etc. hence why I said about the biting badge)
Her: I can't believe you haven't got that one already, as soon as you start collecting its one of the most important, it goes hand in hand with the hair pulling one!!
Me: I know. dunno where to go tho. You should help me get it
Her: maybe
Erm so yeah, this is a new scenario for me lol.any of you guys had experience with something similar? I feel the interaction is at a crucial point here guys
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Re: me: "we should have sex" girl: "maybe".... Lol
Hm do you think I can get the badge without actually doing the naughty part? I told my mom I'd be good. I'm trying so hard to be good
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Re: me: "we should have sex" girl: "maybe".... Lol
@Manwhore:
Sent. Does that text work cuz you're taking her amber light response and then almost baiting her/framing her as a the source of corruption? I worded that pretty awfully. But hopefully you will get the jist. I swear this whole game gets funnier the deeper you go down the rabbit hole. Literally anything is possible and anything goes
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Re: me: "we should have sex" girl: "maybe".... Lol
@kris:

post the replies, ya got me curious.
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This works because I sent this bish a text on the side, I said, "Bish if you know what's good fer you you respond to this text this guy sends you"
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Re: me: "we should have sex" girl: "maybe".... Lol
@Manwhore:

lol thanks brother. Appreciate that kind of commitment from a coach. would still love to know some of the dynamics going on here as i can sense it but just not put it into words in a succinct way.

she responded with:

Her: not without getting arrested I don't think
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Re: me: "we should have sex" girl: "maybe".... Lol
Well that's why I always say carry a box of donuts. So do you want to meet up for Saturday morning cartoons? They're doing reruns of power rangers
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@Manwhore:

her: I cant do saturdays, sundays are more my thing. Funny you should mention it though I was watching power rangers about an hour ago
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@kris:

I'm not saying that I steal Manwhore's texts and make them my own....

But I steal Manwhore's texts and make them my own

GEeezus he's good... like just the tone that's set in these texts is soo razor thin on point. It's like a knifes blade. Sounds silly bc it's such a simple text but that's the beauty. It's like a little flick, so slight but just damn... on point

Like even once you get to the point where you KNOW the exact vibe you need to be getting across, it takes some time and constant effort to hit it on the POINT and that's exactly what that cartoon text does... wow. Always learning and being humbled
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@buddhagames:

That's why I got a lot of time for manwhore. yeah, he helps us and coaches us more than other puas. But everything is so simplified that he does. i want simple game I dont want to make things harder and that's what he does AMAZINGLY. I honestly think it's cuz of his military background mixed with tolle. The military doesnt fuck around the point and neither does the present moment.

Its all about the constant and never-ending improvement, btw mate massive props on your progress. seems like only last month I was giving you some tips lol. Just goes to show that massive action gets you results
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The cartoons on Sundays are stinky, so we might have to do more grown-up stuff. Ice cream??
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@Manwhore:
Her: roast beef

Lol does she mean... Hurrrr roast beef
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Oh damn this is getting hot. "I love fresh roast beef."
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@Manwhore:
Lol

Her: I like rare roast beef but I don't really like ice cream
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I'm not sure I can compromise on this. We may have to rock paper scissors in person to see which we will do
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@Manwhore:
Her: BUT I DON'T WANT ICE CREAM

Damn this is some crazy frame battle lol
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@kris:
she might be drunk. just got these through:

her: (chicken emoticon) chicken
her: (cow emoticon) Steak
Her: (fish emoticon) feeesh
Her: (wine glass emoticon) (burger emoticon)

LOL
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Girl this is going to be the best roast beef flavored ice cream you've ever tasted. Trust
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@Manwhore:
her: sounds horrid, i'll pass on the whole thing

dude, whats going on here? building compliance? framing a date? this is beyond my knowledge. show me the light
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@kris:
I'm guessing a lot of the resistance from her is due to the fact she sees me as a sexual threat now, but testing the crap outta me cuz i used to be a fag. basically shes pissed that she didnt get to fuck me before. I could be totally wrong here and maybe i'm just being narcissistic lol
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You are being too difficult
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@Manwhore:

Don't read too much into it- the framing stuff isn't as like hardcore as you guys think it is...

It's all there and done on purpose but it isn't some like secret world of crazy intricate shit. He was just makin a joke and tryna make somethin work
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Send that.
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@buddhagames:

Cheers for the advice. I think that's one thing about game that I need to chill a bit on. I'm constantly thinking "how can I learn from this"

@manwhore: I hope you mean the youre being difficult text you put up, cuz I sent that one
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@kris:

No, it's important to always be learning. But when you're trying to learn, don't make shit more complicated than it has to be.

Break it down into the simplest way to digest it and then build from there.

Take the smallest, most digestible chunk of information you can and completely learn that and let the rest of it sorta just simmer in your head without thinking about it.

Wanting to always be learning is great but there's no need to make things more technical/complicated than they need to be... just makes it harder to learn.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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@buddhagames:

All of that being said- if you go back 50 or so pages on this forum and read some of my posts, I'm sure you'll see some funny ass shit.

I def. know what it's like to take a VERY technical approach to the game. I've had periods where I broke everything down and got super super technical about it, only to reconstruct it and go back to being normal.

For example, there was a time when I was super into the whole "Frame" stuff with texting... broke it down and would get super technical.. we're talking like entire page-long breakdowns of what I thought Manwhore was doing (you can read that shit- it's prob way back in the beginnings of this forum)...

So yeah... was I making it way more intense than it needed to be? Yes.

Was it necessary for me to do that? Yes.

So do your thing and even though I'm an asshole, I do get what you're doing and it's probably necessary... so break this shit down the way you need to- but def. do keep in mind that eventually you won't need to as much.
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@buddhagames:

dude you might think you're a dick. but you are not. Don't worry no vaginas here... I think.

No response from this girl. It's funny, I really don't care. i used to care when a girl didn't text me. But now i think I've matured that healthy ecosystem of self esteem and abundance in life that I literally feel emotionally detached from any outcome. Similar I suppose to how you first learn to put some space between you and your emotions a la Tolle.

Still, doesn't mean we get complacent, and just let chicks go when shit hits the fans tho, does it fellas? Walk the path baby ;b

Oh snap she just liked some of my shit on facebook...

I just had a thought, the girl should almost be a spectator in the interaction. Spectating how amazing this dude is in front of them and how they want to find out more so they can join in... There's probably a more succinct way of saying that.

Flow of consciousness /end
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Dookie. Read what's going on. You sent that, no response, then she likes something on your Facebook. What happened in this interaction.
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@Manwhore:

I'll have a go.

I'd say that that interaction put me on her radar and that perhaps the last text was setting a boundary and calling her out on her behaviour. Also their is a seed for a date, almost like the interaction was setting the foundations for something more.

Not sure what else their is, i feel there is something. But I cant quite put my finger on it.
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@Manwhore:
Interested to know if my breakdown on the interaction etc was on point, or if I missed anything fella?
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Sure it was setting a boundary for sure, but it was also some very powerful framing going on. In a super high-value way you're calling her out on her behavior while clearly inviting her to soften up a bit and be "cool". And in so doing you're setting yourself up for better future behavior from her. With this particular girl it was super hard to accept, you're dealing with a real "winner" here, but she was still attracted, so she went the roundabout way of responding to you by liking something on your Facebook. She's probably been thinking about you all day. The only issue here is, she's got such an ego it's going to be hard for her to navigate her own bullshit, and for you as well.
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@Manwhore:

dam, once again. Mind blown.

It's funny cuz last night I was watching mad men. Don draper calls out his wife for her behaviour, I re-watched this particular scene like 3 times.

His wife is acting up in front of his boss and he calls her out when they're alone in such a chilled manner. she retorts with 'why don't you bounce me off the walls then'. Drapers response? "you know, some times I feel like I'm living with a child" super chilled tonality and not aggressive at all. Needless to say it made my brain ping.

You offer so much value on here duude, I literally dunno how it hasn't exploded and gotten really popular yet.

What would you say is the best way of plowing along with a girl like this? I almost feel like it's best to leave it a couple days like I have.almost like a timeout from me hehe, but then I'm not sure what the next step would be.

God dam, I really wanna become more aware of framing and high value behaviourisms like these. Gotta love this shit, I dunno how anyone could not.
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@Manwhore

So I let this girl sit on ice since that last solid text. havent contacted her at all, and today i get this random text from her:

her: have you seen deadmau5 on instagram he really likes cats.

manwhore... it worked ;b
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K so the work is done. Now just go standard meetup text game and you'll get the lay she's ready and she knows you're daddy.
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