Many Texting Questions. Discussion welcomed!

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So I kinda wanted to start this thread because I have been dealing with having to manage my texting, setting up day 2's, re-initializing.  I just have alot of questions and believe Im failing in a lot of stupid ways, because of very simple procedures that I am just so confused about.  These are all technical questions that has been bugging me and my buddies for a while.  A little background, Im pretty decent on day2's usually always get the makeout and chicks really dig me but there has been issues with meeting up again or moving forward if it didnt get to sex on that first date.  Most of this involves texting, but the main essence of it has to do more with communicating and moving foward while keeping the girl excited..  



1) If you set a date with a girl say on a Thursday night and your date is on a Tuesday or Wednseday the following week, do you text her in the meantime to stay fresh in her head or wait till the day of the date?

 I find that girls are just prone to flaking so always have a back up girl just in case, but I can easily get the day2 if its the next day or something.  I usually go for the actual day that I send the text but sometimes I already have a day 2 that day alread.  In this forum's opinion, is it good to text in the meantime or maybe give a shout out day before the meet up or does that come across as needy? 



2)  Say a girl flakes after a day2,  should you reschedule on the spot or tell her that you will just reschedule at another time and then hit her up in a day or two?

I usually do the later as it is less needy and shows you got other shit to do.  However my question is also mainly, how to re-initiate that actual text?  How do you start a conversation up again once a date was already planned and then canceled.  Do you just start talking about some bullshit or actually ask her out again on initial text.  Whats the best way to go about this?



3)  Say you had a day2 but didn't lead to sex and was a relativley good day 2, how do you lead this foward?  How would you text her, call her, communicate with her to keep things exciting?  

Thing is you don't want to bring her out again because you don't want to spend money, more preferebly bring to your house or hers to watch a movie or play a board game.  How do you re-initiate that you would like to meet her up in a scenario like that?  How do you keep it fresh and exciting for her to see you as some of these girls have so many other options in their social circles?



4) How to get a day2 if the girl says she cant do the day mentioned but will let you know when she is free?  

Do you ask her another possible date?  Do you wait a couple of days before texting her?  Is there a certain frequency of time that you wait before initiating this text again.  Is there a certain frequency that you will ask the chick out or text her in general?  Very confused here :(



5) How to text a retard who responds with one word answers and is like giving bitchy responses?  

Like shes not really getting into the convo and sees herself above you etc. Usually straight up asking them out will turn into an excuse or a no from the girl, because obviously she hasn't opened up yet to you. Now I usually just ignore chicks like this or pass them on but sometimes they're really hot and I wanna stick it it them so how do you turn the conversation into a direction where she is investing a little bit more and is more interested excited in seeing and talking to you?  How do you get these types of girls to invest.  

6)   Say a girl went out with you, had a good time, hooked up, sexual tension, didn't lead to sex, but after some communication she just doesn't ever respond any more, how do you re-initialize this situation?

I am not really sure why this shit happens but kinda been pissing me off that a girl would be into you, you talk for a bit and then she dissappears, lol, no response nothing.  Could most likley be another guy, so don't mind throwing away, but is there a way to get this into stride again?

7)  How to just keep the vibe exciting in general?  WHAT THE HELL DO YOU DO LOL?
 

A discussion on this would be nice.  Ill try to come up with more questions later. Feel free to post your own ideas and questions as well.    I think this would really help out alot of people and I really think that this has been a huge problem for me not getting it in as often as I would like to.  With cold approach and online gaming its been hard for me to have these chicks stay interested when they are not actually out with me.