Leaving Pussy on the Table
Holy shit,
I've just started realizing how much I do this.
I did last night with a super hot Asian girl. Grrrrrr.
I'm noticing so many new things over like the past month. I've gone from being completely clueless and not having much confidencein my understanding of social dynamics to being able to see a lot of opportunities and being able to guide conversations. Like, it's so weird to go from "durr durr durr I don't know how to hold a conversation durr durr durr" to "oh man, that girl probably wanted me to bang her, and I just didn't execute." It's a great transformation, but it's also frustrating as hell.
Also, with the drills, it's like I have all of these new toys that I'm having so much fun playing with. It's weird. There's a part of me that's still the old chode, afraid to approach and lead. And there's another part of me that's like, "Wait, is it really this easy? Have I been psyching myself out for my whole life over something that's relatively straightforward?" The toys that MW has given me are crazy powerful, and I almost have trouble believing they're real.
Time to step up my execution and stop leaving pussy on the table.
Unconscious incompetence > Conscious incompetence > Unconscious competence > Conscious Competence
would you say you're at the second stage?
(1) I think you got the order a little bit wrong, homie:
Unconscious incompetence > Conscious incompetence > Consciencious Competence > Unconscious Competence (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_stages_of_competence)
(2) But totally man. I'm flirting between the second and third, depending on the day. At this point, 30% of my improvement needs to come from fundamentals, and 70% of my improvement needs to come from believing in myself / getting out of my own way. In so many interactions, it was like, goddammit, the right answer was looking me in the face and I just miss it. I don't have trouble getting girls to want to sleep with me. I have trouble believing that girls would want to sleep with me and then pulling the trigger. You know the hot girl who doesn't believe she's hot? That's me, but with a mangina.
That's what I meant lol.
Dude! I can defintely relate with you at the moment.
I'm doing MW training as well, and like you said the drills are powerful. It's funny how effortless game can really be. For me, leaving the pussy on the table is due to LIMITING BELIEFS.
Tonight I was a local festival. Me and a buddy found these two girls and dragged them to the concert area. We both making out with our girls with thousands of people around us. Something I would NEVER feel comfortable doing before this. The thing is I was so excited about this mini flash of success I forgot to keep on pushing. We could have easily took these girls out to my car and potentially fucked them. I know I have the tools to do it, but at the time I was too doubtful to even attempt it.
Lol mwaha! Yes it's frustrating but it's also enlightening. You're well on your way ;)
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Dude! I can defintely relate with you at the moment.I'm doing MW training as well, and like you said the drills are powerful. It's funny how effortless game can really be. For me, leaving the pussy on the table is due to LIMITING BELIEFS.
Tonight I was a local festival. Me and a buddy found these two girls and dragged them to the concert area. We both making out with our girls with thousands of people around us. Something I would NEVER feel comfortable doing before this. The thing is I was so excited about this mini flash of success I forgot to keep on pushing. We could have easily took these girls out to my car and potentially fucked them. I know I have the tools to do it, but at the time I was too doubtful to even attempt it.
Wow, this girl ended up hitting me up and letting me know that she figured out we are 3rd cousins. Cool.
Really dude. You're a faggot if you fall for stuff like that. Should I change your username to "A Faggot's Meow"
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Oh fuck you manwhore! This is legit. This wasn't over text, she randomly saw me again called me out and told me. Freaky shit
Simple question.. did you verify.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
oh yes, her mom's maiden name is MY last name. She named one of my uncles!
We are like 3rd cousins something distant like that. shes sexy too :*(
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Dude Meow, if it bother's you so much that you made out with your third cousin, quit counting man.
Im not bothered, but probably wont hit her up again lol