Just a few words about intimacy
I have been making massive leaps in this department and I thought I'd share my experience.
Bottom line, you should be persuing intimacy with everyone you meet. Manwhore has been saying this for a while, and once it clicks for you the magic really starts to happen.
When you take the time to REALLY get to know someone you find that these amazing opportunities start popping up everywhere. The problem is, most people are really scared to get personal and passionate with others. As social leaders it is OUR job to engage deeply with others, you only get back what you give.
Take your time when you speak to others, as Jabronovich often said, if you remain present in the body while listening to others they will find you to be extremely charming. They won't even know why, but you become someone that they can feel comfortable around. The amazingness starts happening when they start passionately speaking about their life, and then they start mentioning how cool YOU are and how they want to invite you out to this dinner, this vacation house, introduce you to this friend, etc.
This stuff even applies to social media. I've started to send out some pretty funny mass snapchats, such as "see a chug send a chug" when I'm partying. Lots of people will reply with rather generic stuff too, THEN I personally start engaging with them via social media. It is CRAZY how interested people become in your life. I go through my snapchat, instagram, etc. and I take the time to actually see what people are up to and comment. People LOVE this. I used to be on social media purely for personal attention, now it's become a social playground.
Intimacy with life is key. It makes me very happy. Being that intimate guy really opens up so many doorways. You can bang multiple women without being a "player" because people understand that you are genuinely a sweet person. I'm sure most of you pimps already know this :)
Much Love
Good stuff!
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Awesome definitely needed to be reminded about this. I don't know why i've become "cold" and need time to be able to get intimate. And most pick up people aren't talking about this either.
Dude it really appears to come from anchoring yourself on good vibes, just fake it till you make it. I started to discover all of this when I was feeling out of state so I tried to have fun talking to EVERYONE. When you feel an interaction going stagnant or stuck on superficiality just FUCK ALL THAT SHIT and get awesome.
I am a friendly social funny guy always spreading good vibes but i easily get bored of people, and often i don't really care about them on an intimate level. Maybe im misunderstanding what you mean by intimacy?
I mean anyone who hangs with me will have a good time, and i am definitely the kind of guy that is good to people: anything from daily silly jokes and nice gestures, or saving you from drowning, or offering help in any other way. On the other hand it's rare for me to meet a person and think that i really like this person.
Look them in the eyes and probe them with questions until they start speaking with passion about something and go from there. The goal is they say something that you can relate to and you're like OH SHIT ME TOO I FUCK WITH THAT. If you don't have anything in common have them start teaching you shit that they are knowledgable about, and you start teaching them shit back.
Look them in the eyes and probe them with questions until they start speaking with passion about something and go from there. The goal is they say something that you can relate to and you're like OH SHIT ME TOO I FUCK WITH THAT. If you don't have anything in common have them start teaching you shit that they are knowledgable about, and you start teaching them shit back.
What can YOU bring to the table, don't expect peeps to entertain you.
That was enlightening 
Thanks Bledzy! Glad you enjoyed