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Italian Hottie, got super physical but couldnt break the resistance...

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Ok I met this super hot Italian girl in the gym. Then we just couldnt arrange the day 2, she went home then I completely forgot about her. Yesterday she texted me saying whether I am free for a drink this week or not. IT has been sorted and we met 4 days ago. We chat a bit, laughed got pyhsical but I didnt kiss her. Then she was smoking ( I was complaining about it) and she blew the last breath on my face. I grabbed her, moved my face very close to hers but didnt kiss her (sexual tension baby) she was like dont kiss me. Even while she was saying that her lips were touching mine. We went in grabbed another drink, chit chat abit. Meanwhile I did the same move a couple more times. She was saying dont kiss me (not with an angry resisting tone, just being playful and in a sort of shit test way to see my reaction). Then I kissed her she responded. She was constantly saying hug me but dont kiss me (apparently she just broke up with her boyfriend after 4 years so she needs to be hugged. Thats what I felt).

Then we left. As soon as we left she started kissing me with passion at the middle of the street (she did this in every couple of meters). I resisted she was like there is no one is here just kiss me!!! In fact in order to increase the tension whenever she wanted to kiss me I moved my head away so she was reaching me to kiss me. She told me that she wanted to go to the bus stop, I thought it was another shit test and I told her that we have another venue to go which is my favourite place (pub next to my flat lol) then I will take her to the bus stop. She started resisting in a playful way so I didnt care. She was like "I wanna go to the bus stop" constantly. I was like yeah yeah you will. I took her to the direction of the pub. She was still talking, I thought it was a shit test because she was coming with me. But at the end she suddenly turned left and walking to the bus stop (think about it like a circle, there are couple of ways to reach to the bus stop) I walked after her, tried to convince her, resistance got higher every minute. She told me that she just broke up with her boyfriend she is not in the mood tonight. I was like dont worry we are not gonna have sex, we are just gonna hug and kiss eachother where no one can interrupt us, nothing you dont want is gonna happen today!. I tried to convince her but it didnt work. During the whole date, I was teasing her with her body (she has an awesome model look body though lol). During this arguement/ me trying to convince her i was like let me compare your ass with my ex italian girl friend., she was like do it and i put my hand in her panty and grabbed her ass. I tried to reach her pussy but couldnt. At the end her resistance got higher and higher so I ended up taking her to the bus stop. Once her bus arrived she kissed me on the chick and left. After 20 min I texted her "get home safe babe.." no respond. At this point how should I behave in order to get her back? I am planning to give a break for about like a week to go out of this needy frame. Then I will text her smoothing like
' whadup mafia queen??' (she is from sicily so I was teasing her saying her father is probably a mafia, I am scared of her etc..).

Or

'The funniest thing just happened!! I saw a girl in the gym who looks exactly like you. Wanted to make fun with it and gave her a hug. On this sec I realised that she wasn't you. I didn't know that you have an Indian twin :))' (actually I saw someone in the gym today who looks exactly like her and couldnt actually be sure whether it was her or not. Later on I learnt that she was just a random lady from india. I believe this situation is pretty hilarious and an awesome reengage material"

Thoughts? Advices???
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reak the resistance...
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Re: reak the resistance...
@Manwhore:
yeahh I have read all of these articles and I am completely aware of my mistakes. However sometimes it just fuckin happens. At this point what is the best way to come back? I know that she was really attracted at one point so if I play clever, I might be able to reengage her...