Interesting situation i m not sure how to handle right
Hello guys...long time no see.
So i m hustling hard at my new workplace and also working at my degree in Computer Science.In the spare time i m working on babes as much as i can...mainly daygame and social sites.
This girl i know for some months...we went on 2 dates but did not smash.She a nerd and pretty cool but she hangs in there with that pun pun because logistics were not on my side when it was time to pull home for some reason...bad luck/me not pushing hard enough maybe(meh..gonna give her the 3-4 strikes rule)...but i know she is into me even if she does not show it when we chat online.I like those girls more...anyway.
She went on a long trip this summer for like a month so i just kept vibing via chat.
1)Lesson number #1:If you talk much ...you have more chances to fuck shit up with girls on chat:))ha.
So we were talking about shit and i made a stupid joke about how i m not a bad person, but with bitchy girls that might try to hustle me for a expensive date/drinks i m gonna rain down on her and blast her for the gold digging behaviour.
This opened the door for some shitty demon inside her and she tells me how she does not like people who take revenge on people who did bad to them...bla bla bla...
HER: its part of who you are.Somebody pisses you off...you do nasty things to them.I dont like that,it tells a lot about you.But lets say that almost everybody is like this so..anyway...goodnight.
I did not responded for 2 day to this.What do you think?
The way you describe it it hardly sounds like you were telling a joke lol. But ya, you don’t really want to let a reaction like that sit, especially not for 2 days. It doesn’t help her disassociate that image of being a shitty person from you.
You went on two dates with this girl and couldn’t get logistics right? What happened there?
Ok.I will come back with the texts.
As for the dates,first time i could not make it work early enough and we went out kinda late and she told me she has to go to work tomorrow...its too late bla bla.I let it slide.And the second time when i had it all planned up,her fucking roommate called her in the middle of the date and told her she forgot her fucking key and cant get in the house.Tried to push it to my place quick...no was no.Bummer.
There are surely some way to come around with this situation but i wanted a second oppinion.Either i come at her with the "just a stupid joke,girl...sorry if i was a bit off" or try to logically argue with her and shit...which seems like too much work and it might seem like i m defensive
There's no reason to logically argue here. I can argue with chicks sometimes and I usually come to find out that its ego and I'm trying to be "right". It's not a big deal. I would just throw it under the bridge and send something like that followed by memes :p
1)Lesson number #1:If you talk much ...you have more chances to fuck shit up with girls on chat:))ha.
No. This is not the lesson. This is you attempting to rationalize your conversational inadequacies so you don't have to make any more effort. It's just laziness. You remember what forum you're on. You heard the guys on this forum talk? C'mon man that's almost doltish.
Secondly, guys buy girls drinks all the time and take them places. This girl has had plenty of guys buy her drinks. It does you no good to bring up perceived "bad female behavior" out of nowhere it just shows your lack of experience. You don't take girls you care about and want to spend time with on dates? See in her mind there's no difference, so all you're doing is demonstrating stinginess.
Essentially you need to clarify your points better, then move on.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I have acknowledged my fuck up and made a date for today with her.
I think the fact that this girl does not give me too much "slack" makes me quite "over-gamey".I see this situation as a good challange for me tho.She is with me when i take control of the moment with her .She responds to hands-on interaction basically.But if i dont make shit happen,she wont do nothing about it...which might make me somehow butthurt and my ego takes her as a hard-case bitch.But I DO like her as a person.I hope i described it good enough.
So how'd you handle it? By "overgamey" do you mean she makes you feel like you have to work for it? Or are you always having to try thinking around potential sore points with her?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I think its a bit of both cases.I mean,her being icy and not cutting me any slack verbally gives me the feeling that i better be on my best macking if i wanna roll with this chick.Which is a good challenge to take.
But the date went quite adorable...cuz we banged :))ha .We meet near my place and in the last moment i said to myself:Oh fuck this wussy shit...all in baby.Gived her a hug(btw:she got her shoulder fucked up in kitesurfing and she wore a arm-band...handicapted sex :checked) but decided not to kiss her,dunno why but wanted to let it in the air.Then talked a bit ...after which i told her:OK,lets go get you some tea. She goes:Where? Then i said:oh,just right here,while looking in her eyes unphased.
At my place make tea,take her to my room.Talked shit and played with my remote-controled lighting.Pinned her to the window and made out with her a bit then she stops me and asks for the tea.Swept her and throwed her on the bed.Drinked the tea.I was all chill no plans in my head...just act what i felt in the moment.Then she finishes the tea and get back at it with her...getting all hot and heavy.Then i got the big surprise(no,she did not have a dick).She had a sexy top and panties under all that nerdy clothing :X i think i m in love.Safe to say.it was the first time in a while that i got a second hard one so quickly after i nutted.I was ready to take her home but my sore dick sayd NO...go again bitch...this chick is gonna get it.She gonna learn today
Kudos for the feedback guys :X You rock
Nice! :D
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Sweeeettt!!
dude its SO nice when you find a girl who you fucking mesh with and your dick likes her too. Thats the real dealio
SHE GON’ LEARN TODAY!