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Hey fellas I really like the dialogue here and the quality of the posting, I'd like to inspire more guys to come and bring the level of participation up so we get more discussion, and to also dilute the forum more so when I go on one of my honey badger tirades it's not really noticed. ;b

I was thinking of adding a box, or thread row at the top that asked a daily question for discussion; deep interesting stuff like "Do you agree with David Deida's assessment of brunette women being of hot emotional temperament and sexuality, and blonds as being more cold/cool energy?"

I'd also have a spot for say, the newest and latest pickup-related youtube video and subsequent discussion.

What do you phaggots think???
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore:

Inch by inch, row by row, were gonna make this forum grow.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore:

Lmao, but in all seriousness, I think that idea is great for growing the forum but, for obvious reasons, it will take some of the focus away from action.

I think you could add in a similar type thing for action related questions.

Also - you could add in a whole section that has yo do with lifestyle design. I think this may be cool, specifically, for your forum because so much of what you believe in is teaching dudes to BE the sex worthy guy. So a section that goes beyond the standard game-related ways of doing this could be good. Obviously you dont want to turn it into another bb.com- but you could do it in a way that draws out the connection between the two.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Re: How to make this forum grow??
buddhagames;1289.8921;8 wrote:
@Manwhore:

Lmao, but in all seriousness, I think that idea is great for growing the forum but, for obvious reasons, it will take some of the focus away from action.

I think you could add in a similar type thing for action related questions.

Also - you could add in a whole section that has yo do with lifestyle design. I think this may be cool, specifically, for your forum because so much of what you believe in is teaching dudes to BE the sex worthy guy. So a section that goes beyond the standard game-related ways of doing this could be good. Obviously you dont want to turn it into another bb.com- but you could do it in a way that draws out the connection between the two.


I think Buddha hit the nail on the head, one of the main reasons I think it's been such a small solid core group of people is that you basically have to be taking action to be on this forum. You have to be texting girls etc. Most of these threads that are up contain frs or texting threads. I like that a lot, kjing is not really possible here like on rsdn.

I do think your ideas are good though on increasing getting people to come here.

one other thing: People fall in love of the snl route its the cool thing to do. The majority of people, I've noticed have no idea/don't believe in follow up game at all/don't work on it the same way as they do snl game.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore: Add different sections in order to organize the forum. Find a way to tie FRs to text sampling and concepts. So you get theory and the practical end. I agree with that, but as buddha alluded to, it runs the risk of a lot of mental masturbation. I dont find that an jssue with most guys here - they take action; its the new guys that would be drawn in that i feel are more prone to not taking action. Maybe a fail section for humor too. Gym, career, leadership, relationships. The whole nine.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore:

All we need is a rake and a hoe....


And a piece of fertile ground
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Re: How to make this forum grow??
Email more. Make use of your subscriber list, and have an incentive for people to participate. This place is insanely valuable for everybody on here, but it's not really articulated anywhere. People will generally not do anything unless they have a reason to do so. So give 'em one.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore
Like everybody I came here from Rsdn. The logical thing for manwhore would be to post at other forums and get that crowd here. VA forums, Style and other methods/companies. Although It would dilute the small cohesive vibe here which I really like.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore:
Dude if you want more exposure you need to post
more content on a variety of social media all with your brand name and link backs to this site. Of course it will take time but it's headed in the right direction now man.

Maybe think of what you could do weekly initially to bring people here for: vlogs, updates, anything really. The key is consistently.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@kris:

LOL

I talk with manwhore a good bit and the guy is ALL OVER other forums with linkbacks etc..

That's basically what he's doing 24/7... Fuckin HUSTLER to the max.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Re: How to make this forum grow??
Not everyone here is from RSDn there's guys from all over. My site's featured all over that's not the issue. I just want more participation and inspiration for you guys to spend time here.

Buddha you've been my biggest hoe so far and I appreciate that.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore:
Yeah dude I get that. I meant more social media marketing. I mean is your goal to increase traffic or increase the value of content?
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore:
IT will grow because of word of mouth. Best thing is each of us members tell others personally or maybe give them a business card. That is how i found out about this place. Its like so far everyone on here is connected to buddha lol Only kidding :) Only Luv
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhorei

It would be good if you mail out some business cards to everyone. I am sure a lot of us met other guys at PUA events and such.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Manwhore:


I like the daily/weekly discussion topic.

What about having a sticky thread where once a week its either you / Budda making a youtube vid about some topic , in-field footage or whatever you feel like?

Helps your youtube channel at the same time.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
kris;1289.8941;32 wrote:
@Manwhore:
Yeah dude I get that. I meant more social media marketing. I mean is your goal to increase traffic or increase the value of content?


i dont know about social media marketing. pickup is one of those things that isnt social media friendly at all. maybe twitter and reddit because its more discreet but definitely not fb.

p.s. throwing up random little infield snippets like he just did will have people booming.

I just did a search for "what to text a girl" (which is how i got started with this forum) and manwhore didn't show up on the first 5 pages. seo seo seo seo. no worries once im done with school in a couple of months ill gladly help mw out pro bono w/this kind of stuff from time to time w/the site.

and at the end of the day what i love about this forum is that its ACTION-based which will most likely lead to Manwhore to have a high conversion ratio in terms of people on the forum/that use him for one of his awesome products. That being said because it's Action based it's not going to be this great booming forum because the reality is most dudes on forums talk a lot of shit then you come find out they've only gone out 10 nights in a year or some shit.

sorry to think about the bottom line but it's what i went to school for ;)

P.S. Not to toot the dude's horn but i think his coaching is underrated.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
@Katalyst:
That particular keyword is somewhat weak, BUT, I did just have a great idea to target that one specifically. Maybe I'll make it a forum post. It only gets 2.9k hits a month I've targeted keyword phrases with a lot more volume.
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
I really dig distant light's journal from RSD, much different mindset than most community beliefs, I'm gonna be sticking around posting a bunch , but I'm slowly changing my beliefs / attitudes from hitting on the girls, to not trying , not hitting on them, being dominant manhandling, and presenting THEM the opportunity. I think your text style matches perfect with this because you're quick to present them the opportunity to hang and fuck. No time to waste right? Don't chase them, replace them. but perhaps this is not your same vision. I think if you keep giving the value you already do, the board will grow naturally in its own time much like you can't force a tree to grow faster but can only provide the nutrients for it to grow.

Adam
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Re: How to make this forum grow??
This also seems somewhat unrelated, but if put how many total posts each person has made under their name it gives them somewhat of an incentive to keep posting cuz people like that shit, and it will also distinguish where the advice is coming from
Adam