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How to deal with the haters Manwhore- and the almost cockblocked lay report

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+longer than I thought but any advice especially from manwhore would be dope!+

Fuck first off manwhore, your the man. You showed me that the game I have been pullin on chicks since I was in the 2nd grade is perfectly alright, which is dope. Im a big fucker 6ft4 240 and I love throwin chicks over my shoulders etc etc.Things flow alot better when your actually just being yourself. This week though man, i swear... its been rough. I dont need validation from anyone but close friends and family, but I would curious to get yours and others insight on this so i can get fuggin laid man! ;)

Firstly I gotta say i havent gotten a nut from a chick since late last August so unfortunately that mindset is just lurking around, possibly causing me to escalate sexually too fast, but fuck it; it is what it is. So my good friend brings this blond chick and his gf over to my pad, she had a funky face but killer body and fresh new tits! I love blonds though! so I'd give her a 6... Man her personality was just beat to shit, so I pretty much start pulling a little asshole game because honestly; I couldnt help it thats how she made me feel! There constantly just fuckin checkin there phones not in the moment, blondy wasnt makin eye contact, so I just start DRINKING(to make this chick fuckable) and teaching the two girls how to play a drinking game, and fuck they couldnt even spin a quarter on a table :/ Blondy is getting super tipsy just throwin um' back. I'm honestly getting super bored and we run out of alcohol, so there going to go on a beer run, I was like FUCK THAT im gonna chill at my pad with my buddys chick.


While we were playin the drinking games I'm still running asshole game but not being just a fucking dick, just kind of sarcastic because I was trying to get this chick to show she had any self esteem at all and could deal with a fuckin high value dude. Feisty confident chicks that can give me shit back, turn me on honestly. Shes not proving herself to me so I take advantage and say "well (her name) buy me a bunch of beer, cause I aint payin" or something along those lines and shes fucking bumming on me ha! callin me an asshole and im like I KNOW I AM haha, of course 15 minutes later she comes walking back up with two 6 packs. I should have made my buddy and his gf go, but fuck at that point I didnt even want to really pull the trigger on blondy. I did reward her once and changed the Pandora Channel for her to shitty country... of course


Its getting late and everyone is back at my pad and I'm like, fuck im horny and its getting late... time to escalate and see what happens! Blondy is sitting down being a blond, talking to the other two and I just go up to her and sit right on her lap. I just take over the conversation and I fucking engulf her with my massive frame and shes like; AH your fuckin heavy! blah blah and then settles down because she knows I aint leavin. There takin pictures of us, and im puttin her hands on my chest and havin her grab my pecs and rub my nipples hahhaha! I love this self amusement shit. I get up cause I get bored and am doing that fractionation thing by not giving her too much of the prize, and she gets up and I fucking just slap her ass to see what would happened... she fuckin liked it. They want me to find cards so I go and search for some cards. I should have asked her to follow me and just takin her upstairs, but I didn't; whatever just didn't feel right yet. I find them next to where they are sitting and blondy gets up and stands next to me kind of putting her hot white ass next to my dick, FUCK ITS ON! I grab her outside hip and pull it in and quickly give her inner thigh a squeeze and walk away back to the table 3/4 chubbed out in my swim trunks haha! My buddys chick is lookin at what shes missin ha!


So I sit down and I'm like blondy come here! pull her hand and shes sit her ass on my lap, pussy hovering right above my dick in her yoga pants with her friends just looking at me. Essentially cockblocking me by not knowing better and quietly leaving the fucking room! Im pretty much groping her, grabbing her ass and shes loving it, but not making any noise so we dont get caught by her friends about two feet away! I get up to grab a beer and she sits down next to me and we start playing a stupid drinking game, that they wanted to play but didn't know how too :/.... So after chillin I move closer to that chick and started escalating hard under the table but secretly. Im grabbin her above her knee and and under her ribs and shes fucking loving it. I back off then move to her inner thigh right above her pussy and start rubbing and she is trying very carefully not to make noise and cum right there. The other two are oblivious cause they're idiots.

The two move to the lower level about 5 feet away and blondy starts freakin out SHES BEEN SETUP! ASD has kicked in, its all good though I'll wait it out. She rushes down to them; I grab one of her fuckin beer cause im a boss and I deserve it. I walk slowly down the stairs and am like yo lets keep playing that game. Go back up etc etc and start playin. My buddys stupid gf starts to be like, "She needs to work in the morning we gotta go!" I was like YOU Motherfucker! you want me to bang your friend but are cockblocking me at the same time.

We move upstairs and this was the sickest thing my buddy did all night hes like " SHow us your new tits!" Shes like Ok! and whips um out. There pretty nice, but have that fake look. Im right next to her lookin at um and I go and pinch her nipples HA!! She looks at my blank face and puts her shirt back on.

I take blondy to go dance, I mount her from behind and am just tickling her and am like OK shes ready to be plucked! The fruit has ripened :p I pick her up and start walking her up the stairs, fuck she was kinda heavy or maybe i was just drunk. Anyways were walking down the corridor her in my arms and shes looking backwards and can see her friends looking at her.... IT IS FUCKING OVER! BAM ASD, PUT ME DOWN! Throws her leg into one of the doors and I tried to ignore it but couldnt.... FUCK!!!!!!!!!!. Set her down she goes back to her friends. Parties over, she cant be a whore in front of her friends, no matter how good of friends they are. Im pissed my own friends cockblocked me but even after that blondy was down to kick it still, but buddys gf was like "NO she has to work in the morning." Whatever she knew I was havin a party a couple days later,today, and blondy was ADAMANT about coming.Got her number, Night is over for me... have fun trying to sleep with a massive hard on all night...

So thats the almost but cockblocked lay report, but then my buddy who was over comes over the next day and was like "dude! that chick was fucking pissed at you!!!" blah blah blah the car ride home blah blah blah. I was like ya because she was hating getting fingered under the table idiot, and he was like "NO that was fucked up!" You cant be such a fucking dickhead asshole etc etc. Im like dude thats how I role, its what came natural in that situation. He was like "I used to pull that shit and you will get fuckin over it"....coming from a guy who's been with like three chicks and is pussy whipped on a fat chick now. One of my closest friends, who used to get blacked-out at parties and grope chick is giving me advice on how I " Don't have game" how i needed to spit some game and be a nice guy.... ha fuckin bullshit. My rationalization about it is of course that blondy couldn't have gone in the car and been like " I love how he was fingering me under the table!!!..." Are you serious...

But you guys, fuck am I the fucked up one here for being myself and escalating like that? It kinda got into my head because last night these teases came over and I escalated but way less hard. In the beginning I was spitting verbal funny game and they were CRacking UP and loving it, and my other buddy after they left is like dude you aren't going to get laid like that etc etc etc. Even when we were half naked in my fucking jacuzzi :/ and that same buddy was watching from outside as I sat with his two chicks around my arms...So that's two close friends in a couple days who are hating on me! WHAT do you guys think? I don't think im the idiot here, these chicks are loving it but I just haven't got to pull yet. I'm being the high value guy that I actually am and need hot high value chicks or ones that will just suck my dick.

This feels natural to me, and if they don't put out that night honestly I DO NOT want to hang out with these ones in particular again because they're not hot or cool enough.

But fuck how can I pull easier, what should have done with blondy and the teases? Blondy especially. How often do you get rejected manwhore? cause even my text bitches aren't responding well! I just want to get laid!!! haha its been sooooo long..... I dont think a dude like myself should really be getting hated on by not even fine bitches. I think im not even going to BOTHER with under 7's..... cause I know I'd step my game up to be top notch with that shit and they'd probably actually have my caliber self esteem too. I would go to bars just solo but im only 20 so I have a couple more months before I can pluck the ones that actually want to be fucked and I think my kind of game would work perfect...
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Re: Hoe- and the almost cockblocked lay report
@thedeepdirty:
You did pretty decent with the one girl, but in a situation with a group of people you have to take over all of them and really set the tone and establish that you decide what's up. It's a subtle shift that's unconscious but basically by the end it's acknowledged that you will now bang blondie because.. well it's not even considered its an inalienable right at that point.

Buddha probably has some insights here as he's obviously pulled girls in front of other guys and established some dominance to do it.
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- and the almost cockblocked lay report
Ya man that's some good insight I should have just claimed and it and been like come here and just taken her off. My entitlement was there just wasn't sexual enough
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@thedeepdirty:
No man, reread response. Sexuality wasn't the issue

I'll try to think of some lay reports where this gets brought out.
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@thedeepdirty: Manwhore means
@thedeepdirty:

Manwhore means that you need to show that you are bringing the party, not joining theirs. Show that you are the highest value person there.
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@Sick-Cunt: ya man i tried for sure, I think thats why blondy thought i was such an asshole, one of the first things I said to her was if those new tits made all her insecurities disappear and filled that void in her heart. Ha. But i was actually curious. And ya manwhore an example always helps and makes learning new concepts easier thats for sure
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@thedeepdirty:

Read my jersey girl lay report. I did exactly what manhole is describing here . will go into more detail later but yeah its nothing t o do with sexuality or entitlement. Its just understanding who the people in the group are and one by one making them like you . I didn't make out with her until like the very end of
the Night... Like just befriend everyone and then do subtle things to your girl that aren't obvious but that others can see... Like a hand on the kneecap if you're sitting down. Over time this creates the idea that your going to duck her
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@thedeepdirty:
Like manwhore calls it establishing dominance but looking back on the times I've done this sorta thing its less of dominance for me and more just like creating a situation and being subtle but consistent.

But understanding the dynamic of the group is important so you know whose alpha,beta, gossipy , influential etc...
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Ya Buddha I think I need to develope more rapport with these chicks and get them each siked on me first so like an hour or two of just being a super dope guy, then slowly escalate. But I rly didn't want to with blondie cause she's kinda an idiot who happened to be decent looking but I honestly don't want to be friends.
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@thedeepdirty:
Subtly make moves that set the tone that you two are gonna hook up. No PDA, thats just fools mate. Get her friend on board with it. You shouldve used the opportunity of when your buds gf to get a feel for both her and her friend. Depending on what type of girl your buds gf is will dictate exactly HOW you let her know youre interested in her friend. Like if she knows the deal, you can be like im down. If shes conservative you tailor it as youre interested. Either way you should be working on getting the friend on your side. Same for figuring out what type of girl blondy is. Once you realized that its on you were eager. Lol. Let it breath and have fun in the process. Nowadays if i know its on i just kick it with my girl. Enjoy the dance which will eventually lead to sex. Also lead man. Like make some shit up like lets shot gun a beer outside or smoke or any excuse you can find to iso without raising too much suspicion from the friend. Thats assuming shes not on your side lol. Like ppl know whats up and will assume youre hooking up anyway lol. Sometimes i forget this or will have entitlement issues cuz the girls sometimes are pretty fucking hot so ill doubt myself. Luckily i chill with cool dudes who will remind me by suggesting shit for me like " hey dude you two should watch anchorman in your room she loves that movie ".
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Ya man I think I realized I just kinda blew it, didn't read the situation right. I needed to separate her, which would have been easy, but I didn't. Live and learn. On to the next one.
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@thedeepdirty:

Okay, also- if you're dealing with competition IN the interaction, a cool way to blow the other dude out while being super subtle about it and not even saying a word, is just to use eye contact and body language to establish dominance.

Like whenever the dude says something, even remotely dumb... make eye contacct with the girl and kinda smile//half laugh... if you do this kind of shit enough, within the interaction, it will actually create a "bond" between you and her and she'll feel like you guys are on your own wavelength sorta and it's cool cause it's like creating that idea in her head that you get her and that she gets you and it's all on this sorta non-verbal level that is really powerful.

And nobody else will even know what's going on.
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@buddhagames:
Good insight dude, there wasn't really any competition though it seemed. This dude is whipped on his chick , they've been dating for like a year.
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Re: cked lay report
@buddhagames:

Yeah, buddha's right here - you don't want to blatantly tool the dude, you'll look reactive as if he's threat or something.

Just lay back, chill and eye code your girl like her friend would at the club if they're freaked out by a dude, just to establish the 'me and you' frame.

Keeping strong eye contact with her is a must too; don't even pay attention to the dude or his stories - look absorbed in the girl and she'll know what's up.
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@Gogo:

Yeah, it's just another, slightly more subtle way of doing things. I think that at times, it's totally cool to just completely and openly tool the guy... It's just that if you're dealing with her friends, or people who generally know eachother... this way is much more subtle and nobody can really pin anything on you and it accomplishes the same thing.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."