Had a crazy experience(for me) in my first time getting laid weeks into Manwhores Training!
Never thought my first lay would be in this kind of setting lol. It was a big risk for her and me, but that made it more fun. So it was a busy Saturday night in my student city and the main club here was packing quickly. People usually come and go but on Saturday it stacks, sometimes it gets so packed I can taste the air, nasty. What I like to do when I go out is to just talk to people, especially the girls, to carry momentum and keep the verbal flow going. If for too long I don't do anything I just spiral into negatively damn quickly and I end up in my head doing nothing. So I focus on the interactions, while having a goal in mind and practice, but most importantly enjoy and own every aspect of it. An important lesson John taught me is to own everything, whether it be leading, physical touch, even rejections, that helped me tremendously(Thanks man).
Squeezing through other students and occasional adults, a girl caught my eye and we both locked eye contact. It felt neutral..yet also welcoming. I had some butterflies in my stomach(still experiencing it lol) and my body started to kick into survival mode. Through the practice of the drills John gave me, however, I knew how to relax, loosen up, and keep going. Also, I now view the butterflies and nervousness as a good sign instead of a bad sign, reframing it in a positive way, Reminds me of another drill John taught me on turning negatives into positives. Funny how everything ties together ha. Since I'm all warmed up I just started talking about what I noticed about her and she was receptive to it and went along with the interaction! We were just flowing back and forth and I was totally in the zone, an awesome feeling. The drills really upped my banter game and most importantly, John helped me trust my self-expression. Our banter alongside the interaction created a connection between as I felt, so I decided to have fun with her in a dance at the club. My leading was on fire, I held back on going wild, something I love to do when I'm at clubs but I'm with a girl now so chillout lol, and let her dance and go all out. I twirled her around and maintained physical contact with her throughout. I had a feeling she wanted to grind and well I love that too so I twirled her and communicated with my hands what I wanted and she flowed with it, awesome. So some club grinding went down and honestly idk really know how to do this effectively, I was just improvising and feeling it alllll the way. Man club dancing is energetic but I felt my energy was dying off a bit and I needed a break, so I led her from the dance floor to the bar cause I wanted some shots, her as well so that makes two. I like to have mini games as well to keep it fun, so I used a coin toss to decide who pays. It landed on heads(my call) so she got us shots and we downed it, boy it was refreshing.
So I wanted to talk more with her but in a more quiet part of the club so we can hear each other better and have deeper conversations with more investment. That quiet part happens to be near a bathroom. Since we both were 'in sync', and she feels what I feel, I felt from her tonality and signals near the end of our interactions that she wanted some fun. Seeing that the bathroom was next to us, I thought fuck it, and led her into there. Now there wasn't a lot of space to work with so some creativity needed to be involved. Also the tension and emotions were sparking because we could get caught any moment, but we still went with it. So our makeout was pretty intense and there was no time to think so it was pure flow and in the zone. There was some sloppiness lol but I did my best to maintain the leader role. I signaled again with my hands and gave her a slight push on her shoulders to bring her down to blow me. Glad both of us smelled good because it covered the bathroom odor quite well lol. She went at it blowing me and I held her head and cuffed her hair so it's not all over the walls and toilet, she had pretty long hair. I then brought her back up, did a control push against the wall, unzipped her jeans, fumbled my condomed out a bit, a bit nervous but kept going with the flow. Slide it on and and slide it in. I'm pretty sure some people outside might start to suspect somethings happening in here but we in the zone so who cares lol. I was a bit conscious of this but I was enjoying the moment banging her. We were in weird positions because of the tight space we had to work with so it was quite interesting lol. Not the comfiest lay but an exciting one. Afterwards when I was hitting the no turning back point, I slide it out and she got the signal, bent down and took it in, and blew a bit more. How romantic lol. So we cleaned up and both exited the bathroom the same time and lots of people knew what happened lol. There were faces of disbelief, laughter, in awe, all of it. I felt a bit self-conscious but what the hell, I did what most people wouldn't dare to do. Funny enough her friends came shortly after and she disappeared with them. As we parted, we gave each other the 'thanks for the fun, it's between us' look.
Bruh something about the way you write, I just don't.. get it. Lol
Hahahah yes dude! What a hot-tastic way to lose your virginity lol! I remember my first bathroom fiasco ;) Good times. Great stuff in here as well about the leading, reframing, and owning everything you do.
Really like this post bro, it’s one of those I’m sure you will look back on as a “eye opener” moment. So many guys think “oh that shit doesn’t happen and if it does it’s with one of those “shady girls” lol.
Training opens your eyes to the fact that you have the ability to give a women the experience that 99% of guys are not capable of.
Keep opening, having fun, leading hard
Some of my guys recently have been experiencing ridiculous levels of sexual complicity. Either modern woman has figured out how to start raping us back (which I have recently started coming to believe), OR, something's afoot with these motherfuckers.