Girl too interested?
Sat, 09/15/2012 - 04:52
Hey Guys,
This is going to be a little bit of a weird post but I just started my second semester of college and I haven't really done well with women in the past. This summer I was working all the time and didn't have much of a social life but as I started getting back in to school mode I've been becoming more social and as a result of that have been talking to many girls. I've noticed how much more easier it is and also, how before I was looking too much to please as opposed to recently where one girl talked to me who would string me along, and I just basically told her she wasn't worth my time.
I've been embracing my inner asshole quite a bit and stopped being a "nice guy". In conversations I'm talking more for my pleasure and fun as opposed to looking for something, and anyways basically there is this girl who I saw around a bit last semester who I thought was decent/fuckable and I struck a conversation up with her sometime last week. Now this is somewhat new for me, but I asked her about calculus (Strong game lol) and she lit up like a motherfucking christmas tree. The girl stopped paying attention to all the other people in the group and we talked for a good twenty minutes.
The next time we had class together she sat next to me and now pretty much no matter what I say, she has a nervous smile on her face and laughs at everything. Basically this girl REALLY wants my dick, which I am not used to and it actually is putting her value down in my eyes, I feel as though If i invited her over I would be able to smash without issue. But for some reason I'm putting it off, like SHE wants it, and it's so transparent It's a little bothersome.
Anyways, I was just wondering about your guys opinion about chicks who are super obvious and you don't have to GAME or even really put much effort in to. I've also been talking to another girl who has a boyfriend but we see each other a lot, and I think I like her lol. Shit's fucked up, she's mentioned how "she fucking loves my personality" and in passing we've talked a lot about sex, porn and random shit. She was even randomly like "Oh here's a battery from my vibrator, that I used up in like 4 days a month ago". I was seriously like WTF. haha
This is going to be a little bit of a weird post but I just started my second semester of college and I haven't really done well with women in the past. This summer I was working all the time and didn't have much of a social life but as I started getting back in to school mode I've been becoming more social and as a result of that have been talking to many girls. I've noticed how much more easier it is and also, how before I was looking too much to please as opposed to recently where one girl talked to me who would string me along, and I just basically told her she wasn't worth my time.
I've been embracing my inner asshole quite a bit and stopped being a "nice guy". In conversations I'm talking more for my pleasure and fun as opposed to looking for something, and anyways basically there is this girl who I saw around a bit last semester who I thought was decent/fuckable and I struck a conversation up with her sometime last week. Now this is somewhat new for me, but I asked her about calculus (Strong game lol) and she lit up like a motherfucking christmas tree. The girl stopped paying attention to all the other people in the group and we talked for a good twenty minutes.
The next time we had class together she sat next to me and now pretty much no matter what I say, she has a nervous smile on her face and laughs at everything. Basically this girl REALLY wants my dick, which I am not used to and it actually is putting her value down in my eyes, I feel as though If i invited her over I would be able to smash without issue. But for some reason I'm putting it off, like SHE wants it, and it's so transparent It's a little bothersome.
Anyways, I was just wondering about your guys opinion about chicks who are super obvious and you don't have to GAME or even really put much effort in to. I've also been talking to another girl who has a boyfriend but we see each other a lot, and I think I like her lol. Shit's fucked up, she's mentioned how "she fucking loves my personality" and in passing we've talked a lot about sex, porn and random shit. She was even randomly like "Oh here's a battery from my vibrator, that I used up in like 4 days a month ago". I was seriously like WTF. haha
Sat, 09/15/2012 - 11:21
#1
Re: Girl too interested?
Generally you just want to get them alone, there's a multitude of ways of doing this, and pull the trigger. The inner game "problem" going on here is she's put a lot of expectation on you and you feel pressured to fulfill.. something. Whatever it is it's somewhat irrational and not something you should be caring about. Get her over and rail. Always a good time when a girl super invests in you and you prematurely ejaculate.
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Sat, 09/15/2012 - 20:04
#2
Re: Girl too interested?
@Manwhore:
Thanks man, but I guess my mindspace has been a little fucked before this. The first thing that popped in my head when this girl reacted positively almost instantly was that she was a girl who in high school had no attention and sort of always wanted some as opposed to me being a bad-ass motherfucking pimp daddy whom she wants the dick.
I had been setting out to do it but then I always rationalize at the last second on why I shouldn't ask her over, maybe I really am afraid of success lol. Anyhow, I'll wait until my next class with her (never got her number, and don't really feel like asking her over facebook) and see if she wants to come chill.
Also, I mentioned a second girl who had been seeing somebody and just started officially dating him now lol. she's super direct and talked to me about a multitude of things like porn, fucking, her vibrator,ect. She also mentioned "Fucking loving my personality" and how we are alike, I'm hoping this doesn't become a "best friends" thing. I really like her a lot, personality wise and I'd date a girl like this. Is there any way to ensure I'm not friend zoned? We're pretty straight forward with each other and I was thinking of just being like "You know, we're going to fuck one day" but I'm not sure that will play out super well.
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Thanks man, but I guess my mindspace has been a little fucked before this. The first thing that popped in my head when this girl reacted positively almost instantly was that she was a girl who in high school had no attention and sort of always wanted some as opposed to me being a bad-ass motherfucking pimp daddy whom she wants the dick.
I had been setting out to do it but then I always rationalize at the last second on why I shouldn't ask her over, maybe I really am afraid of success lol. Anyhow, I'll wait until my next class with her (never got her number, and don't really feel like asking her over facebook) and see if she wants to come chill.
Also, I mentioned a second girl who had been seeing somebody and just started officially dating him now lol. she's super direct and talked to me about a multitude of things like porn, fucking, her vibrator,ect. She also mentioned "Fucking loving my personality" and how we are alike, I'm hoping this doesn't become a "best friends" thing. I really like her a lot, personality wise and I'd date a girl like this. Is there any way to ensure I'm not friend zoned? We're pretty straight forward with each other and I was thinking of just being like "You know, we're going to fuck one day" but I'm not sure that will play out super well.
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Sat, 09/15/2012 - 20:05
#3
Re: Girl too interested?
double post.
Tue, 09/18/2012 - 23:35
#4
Re: Girl too interested?
@crackzaa:
sort of an update of sorts, the first girl just sent me a facebook message stating "Hey Crackzaa, Just wanted to warn you that I'm going to drop out of calculus this semester, Sorry :(". Which is pretty funny, what does that have to do with me? Anyways, I told her that's up to her and sent her another message basically asking if she was free this weekend. That wasn't super great but I won't be seeing her as often anymore, so I figured I'd see if we can meet up and smash. I'm awaiting on a reply from this.
For the second girl who has a BF, her a mutual friend of ours was talking to me and asking "So crackzaa... you fuck girl number two yet?". I said no, stating she had a BF, although I would like to and the girls response that I shouldn't have an issue doing it. I'm assuming this is more of her friend thinking she's a slut as opposed to the girl straight up stating she wants to fuk. So now, for this second girl, We chill like two times, sometimes more a week at school and everything is fucking chill, how could I turn this sexual? We already speak about fucking, porn, dicks, masturbation and pretty much anything we really want to. I call her a slut, she calls me an asshole and she's a pretty chill girl lol.
Also, the other day this second girl asked me about something in our french class, and then that segwayed into a conversation on FB for a little bit, which I think she may have just wanted to talk to me. I'm trying not to get friendzoned here, as she's already mentioned she "Fucking loves my personality" and was the one who asked me to add her on FB.
sort of an update of sorts, the first girl just sent me a facebook message stating "Hey Crackzaa, Just wanted to warn you that I'm going to drop out of calculus this semester, Sorry :(". Which is pretty funny, what does that have to do with me? Anyways, I told her that's up to her and sent her another message basically asking if she was free this weekend. That wasn't super great but I won't be seeing her as often anymore, so I figured I'd see if we can meet up and smash. I'm awaiting on a reply from this.
For the second girl who has a BF, her a mutual friend of ours was talking to me and asking "So crackzaa... you fuck girl number two yet?". I said no, stating she had a BF, although I would like to and the girls response that I shouldn't have an issue doing it. I'm assuming this is more of her friend thinking she's a slut as opposed to the girl straight up stating she wants to fuk. So now, for this second girl, We chill like two times, sometimes more a week at school and everything is fucking chill, how could I turn this sexual? We already speak about fucking, porn, dicks, masturbation and pretty much anything we really want to. I call her a slut, she calls me an asshole and she's a pretty chill girl lol.
Also, the other day this second girl asked me about something in our french class, and then that segwayed into a conversation on FB for a little bit, which I think she may have just wanted to talk to me. I'm trying not to get friendzoned here, as she's already mentioned she "Fucking loves my personality" and was the one who asked me to add her on FB.