Girl sleeping around w/my friend-ignore?
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 08:04
I've got an old friend on my radar that goes back to high school, real punk hottie, all tatted up and such (one of my favs haha), who went with
me and a friend to a bar. We all got nicely buzzed, not too drunk, and I ended up fucking her in the back of the bar on the stairs. That was great but we ended up losing eachother for the rest of the night and I ended up later that night talking w/the buddy I went to the party with that he ended up fucking her too.
I don't mind, but for some reason I feel wierd about it, she hasn't said anything and I don't expect her too either, but it wasn't like she was some chick I'll never see again, we'll prob hang out more cuz we both have the time. Maybe I should'a seen it coming as I've heard her say she's done the same thing in the past, I guess I didn't expect to be in that situation with her though. How do you think I should handle it cuz I just don't want to be tooled you know? Especially considering she didn't want to hook-up the next day we hung out but wanted to cuddle and still mentioned some positive things about my buddy and hanging out w/him later in the week. We're just friends, so I don't own her pussy or anything lol, but it does seem as if I'm in an awkward situation.
me and a friend to a bar. We all got nicely buzzed, not too drunk, and I ended up fucking her in the back of the bar on the stairs. That was great but we ended up losing eachother for the rest of the night and I ended up later that night talking w/the buddy I went to the party with that he ended up fucking her too.
I don't mind, but for some reason I feel wierd about it, she hasn't said anything and I don't expect her too either, but it wasn't like she was some chick I'll never see again, we'll prob hang out more cuz we both have the time. Maybe I should'a seen it coming as I've heard her say she's done the same thing in the past, I guess I didn't expect to be in that situation with her though. How do you think I should handle it cuz I just don't want to be tooled you know? Especially considering she didn't want to hook-up the next day we hung out but wanted to cuddle and still mentioned some positive things about my buddy and hanging out w/him later in the week. We're just friends, so I don't own her pussy or anything lol, but it does seem as if I'm in an awkward situation.
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 18:48
#1
Re: Girl sleeping around w/my friend-ignore?
@D-down: of course you ignore but it seems like you may have actually developed a connection with her cause I don't think you would have made a thread about a chick if she wasn't on your mind and dont give a fuck
Be siked you found a chick who is real and likes to fuck. You ain't marrying it bro
Be siked you found a chick who is real and likes to fuck. You ain't marrying it bro
Sun, 06/10/2012 - 19:35
#2
Re: Girl sleeping around w/my friend-ignore?
@thedeepdirty:
Touche, I get what you're saying, but it has more to do with a chick hooking up w/my friends cuz their hot, like she's burning through them. Comes off kinda wierd in a way, but yea, it's not an issue otherwise
Touche, I get what you're saying, but it has more to do with a chick hooking up w/my friends cuz their hot, like she's burning through them. Comes off kinda wierd in a way, but yea, it's not an issue otherwise
Sun, 06/10/2012 - 22:41
#3
Re: Girl sleeping around w/my friend-ignore?
I had a slampiece thst was eyeing my boys a little under a year ago. She wanted to be my gf but i told her no. Didnt trust her nor did she deserve to be trusted. A couple close calls where she almost hooked up with my boys but she backed off because she felt bad or my boy respected me enough to not cross the boundary. I chewed her out good for even putting herself jn a comprising position. In retro, i shouldnt have given a fuck. She proved herself to be nondateable yet here i was clinging onto the fact that she was hot. But i needed to get burned kn order to learn that sex can be more casual. The only boundary i set for thst girl was my friends were off limit. Period. Anything in the abstract i could/she could handle. Point is shes probably not dateable and your friends are gonna hit it. Similar to your situation. Just dgaf and hit up other chicks. Enjoy it for what it is without any future expectations. You cant tame them, youre only setting yourself up for heartache. So my advice: accept thst shes probably gonna fuck your friends and just hit it on the sjde occassionally. If you arent there emotionally, judt tske precautionary measures to minimize your investment to her. Such as limit times you see her per week, minimize hanging out without sex involved, dont let her crash at your place, and be on the grind and hit other chicks up. Itll set the dynamics of a slampiece relationship so its strictly business. Other than that come to enjoy it, because everything comes to fade - so might as well have fun throughout it
Sun, 06/10/2012 - 23:58
#4
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@D-down:
K if this girl is burning through your friends (lmao!) then there is NO question you shouldn't even be giving this girl a second thought. Geezez christ dude. Girls like that I call them up at 3 in the morning when I get home from the club "Yo." "Hi.. I'm sleeping." "Get over here and suck my dick." "I'm tired!" "Get over here." *click* They come over and take domeshots then I pass out.
K if this girl is burning through your friends (lmao!) then there is NO question you shouldn't even be giving this girl a second thought. Geezez christ dude. Girls like that I call them up at 3 in the morning when I get home from the club "Yo." "Hi.. I'm sleeping." "Get over here and suck my dick." "I'm tired!" "Get over here." *click* They come over and take domeshots then I pass out.
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Mon, 06/11/2012 - 00:50
#5
Re: Girl sleeping around w/my friend-ignore?
@D-down:
Lol. You have no right to be angry mang.
Lol. You have no right to be angry mang.
Mon, 06/11/2012 - 02:26
#6
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@D-down:Ya she probably likes to get fucked, what is she your wife? Obviously not cause she's fuckin your friends. Just keep hitting it and wear a rubber. Ha
Wed, 06/13/2012 - 01:11
#7
Re: Girl sleeping around w/my friend-ignore?
@D-down:
Lol I just kind of went thru this same thing off and on for awhile, similar to Aequitas also. Sometimes you just get attached, and it blows. In my case, this girl is a borderline that says the wildest things to keep me involved long-term. Manwhore has basically been teaching me how to get control of my emotions and it's helped bundles. Like everyone else said, just make her a slam piece and keep it that way, don't get attached, don't talk lovey-dubby (nor let her talk that way with you if she does like my girl was) and don't invest in her at all. I'd actually recommend that from this point on, you don't see her unless she's coming over to your place.
There are some real crazies out there that will do and say crazy things to keep you around for awhile... I think when you're at an advanced level however, you can see right through them and you won't allow yourself to be affected by it. Welp, I'm on my journey there lol.
Lol I just kind of went thru this same thing off and on for awhile, similar to Aequitas also. Sometimes you just get attached, and it blows. In my case, this girl is a borderline that says the wildest things to keep me involved long-term. Manwhore has basically been teaching me how to get control of my emotions and it's helped bundles. Like everyone else said, just make her a slam piece and keep it that way, don't get attached, don't talk lovey-dubby (nor let her talk that way with you if she does like my girl was) and don't invest in her at all. I'd actually recommend that from this point on, you don't see her unless she's coming over to your place.
There are some real crazies out there that will do and say crazy things to keep you around for awhile... I think when you're at an advanced level however, you can see right through them and you won't allow yourself to be affected by it. Welp, I'm on my journey there lol.
Wed, 06/13/2012 - 05:19
#8
Re: Girl sleeping around w/my friend-ignore?
Edit: misread your post jeff.
Just cuz you like a chick doesnt justify shit. If shes no good shes no good. Period.
@jeff a couple heartbreaks will fix that. Managing emotions is key.
It depends who you ask to consider if this is advanced level. Game isnt learned linearly.
Some people probably cant close but got this area locked in, vice versa.
Just cuz you like a chick doesnt justify shit. If shes no good shes no good. Period.
@jeff a couple heartbreaks will fix that. Managing emotions is key.
It depends who you ask to consider if this is advanced level. Game isnt learned linearly.
Some people probably cant close but got this area locked in, vice versa.
Sat, 06/16/2012 - 05:25
#9
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@Manwhore:
I guess what I was asking was why it's disrespectful for a friend who's female to hook up with you and then a friend here and there and then keep it from you, sounds very obvious I guess, but why is it wrong. Are there certain boundaries not to be crossed etc? Why isn't it OK?
I guess what I was asking was why it's disrespectful for a friend who's female to hook up with you and then a friend here and there and then keep it from you, sounds very obvious I guess, but why is it wrong. Are there certain boundaries not to be crossed etc? Why isn't it OK?
Sat, 06/16/2012 - 05:47
#10
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@D-down:
It IS ok. She never asked for the fact that once she slept with you she'd be beholden to tell you everything she did including fucking someone else you knew. Got to recognize that as a chode outburst and let that go. It's not your business. If a girl wants to fuck you and 2 other dudes you know, that's her business, she didn't know she had to tell you all the details. Make sense? Got to let that go or things like this won't happen again.
A relationship won't happen with this girl. She's hogging for dick. Don't grasp for something that's clearly not there.
It IS ok. She never asked for the fact that once she slept with you she'd be beholden to tell you everything she did including fucking someone else you knew. Got to recognize that as a chode outburst and let that go. It's not your business. If a girl wants to fuck you and 2 other dudes you know, that's her business, she didn't know she had to tell you all the details. Make sense? Got to let that go or things like this won't happen again.
A relationship won't happen with this girl. She's hogging for dick. Don't grasp for something that's clearly not there.
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Sat, 06/16/2012 - 21:29
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@Manwhore:
You're right, I've got a lot of chode tendencies that need to be worked out, true that lol.
You're right, I've got a lot of chode tendencies that need to be worked out, true that lol.
Sun, 06/17/2012 - 08:25
#12
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@D-down: CORRECTION LOL "was in an awkward situation"
This happened during the summer btw, came over the next day and she didn't want to hook up, just cuddle and talk about what we've been up to. I guess my lack of game led me to not push things, she and the other dude lived closer together and were better friends anyways so I can't complain. My chodely behaviors led me to overthink it all.
This happened during the summer btw, came over the next day and she didn't want to hook up, just cuddle and talk about what we've been up to. I guess my lack of game led me to not push things, she and the other dude lived closer together and were better friends anyways so I can't complain. My chodely behaviors led me to overthink it all.