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I was really just testing the

I was really just testing the waters with this chick and seeing whats up with her. She's VERY sexy. I haven't seen her in years. She's a really cool girl too.

What I was trying to project was a lot of authority. My problem is getting around the familiarity thing tho. We've got this "old high school pals" thing going on and you can probably see some of the undertones in the convo. I want to DESTROY that and change it to sexworthy. Anyone have any help?

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Pff. Fartknocker She totally

Pff. Fartknocker

She totally thinks you're a faggot

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She totally gave you a second

She totally gave you a second chance and you insisted on being gay lol

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Yeah this is textbook friend

Yeah this is textbook friend to friend stuff. Why not go for broke and at least throw something out there? 

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There's no need to go for

There's no need to go for broke. 

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Hahaha! That WAS pretty gay

Hahaha! That WAS pretty gay lol. I was wearing rainbow colored boxer briefs at the time too. Gawdammit.

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I'm way cooler than she is

I'm way cooler than she is though. and I give a pretty kickass strip dance too. I'm just trying to figure out how to communicate that over text. I'm texting other girls too, but this was the one I need a lil help on.

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There's a much more deep

There's a much more deep seated issue here. Why are you being such a klutz with this chick? The fact you're not displaying an edge with this chick at ALL is like.. gay. You've got an entire page of messaging with this chick that rooted in her mind that you're a fag and now you want help. 

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This isn't an issue of

This isn't an issue of telling you what to text next, it's an inner game/mentality problem. When your baseline is so fundamentally off-course, it's not the kind of situation where I can feed you texts. Understand? 

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Yeah, I appreciate that. I

Yeah, I appreciate that. I thrive on tough love lol.

I was friends with this chick back in highschool and we worked together as lifeguards for three years. Unfortunately back then I didn't realize I have a dick. So yeah, friend-zone CITY going into it. I'm really disappointed that I slipped back into that chodey frame so easily. I wasn't even aware of it happening during the convo.

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Infinity wrote: Yeah, I

Infinity wrote:
Yeah, I appreciate that. I thrive on tough love lol.

I was friends with this chick back in highschool and we worked together as lifeguards for three years. Unfortunately back then I didn't realize I have a dick. So yeah, friend-zone CITY going into it. I'm really disappointed that I slipped back into that chodey frame so easily. I wasn't even aware of it happening during the convo.

I feel you homie. it's the old limiting beliefs gettin in the way, i've been experiencing it lately and it fuckin sucks.

There is just something difficult about expressing a new persona/mindset to those that already have judgements placed on you. It is mainly ego based and not particulary real, but I think people are out there judging when they drastic change...fuck, I even find myself doin it to others (which is FUCKED UP)