The Game has spoken to me...
Since pimps are the very top of the game heirarchy, I study them religiously.
In my sober, drug free and spiritually awakening state of mind, I have emotionally/mentally experienced what pimps feel and think and here is what makes them powerful:
- They think they are are best, most godly, most awesome, special, blessed individuals and put no man or woman as greater than them, yet have no problem learning from others and fixing weak points in their game.
- They come from an extreme buyers frame, where they know exactly what they want and expect from a woman, so when they talk to a woman they are automatically relating to them in such a way that emotionally triggers them to think behave in the ways a pimp expects them to think and behave, because what he thinks she should think and behave like is the only correct way as far as he is concerned. If she doesn’t buy into his frame, she’s the one missing out as far as he is concerned, because he is the best pimp in the universe. The way of thinking and behaving she should have is the only correct way in his eyes. He has sound reasoning, compelling arguments and emotionally relevant points for why his way is The Way. He’s not talking just to talk, he’s fully aware that he has to show why and how his way of thinking and behaving would provide value to the girl. To game newbs this would sound like he is qualifying himself but he’s actually just speaking his truth to the girl. If at anytime she wants to go, she’s free to do so because he knows that bitches come and go. He’s made as much money as he could from her and she’s evolved from his guidance and instruction (win/win). He also reserves the right to fire girls who aren’t a good fit for him or who bring more problems than money. He knows that while can get every girl, not every girl is worth having, so he spits his truth (game) at them in way that is relevant and emotionally compelling, presenting it in a way that is going to both persuade her to choose him and to act right. The way she acts (not only what she says mind you) during him spitting his game at her lets him know what kind of girl she is, what it’s going to take to have her and he makes the decision to accept her based on if she meets his criteria by what she does. If she doesn’t make the cut he wastes no more time and does the same with the next girl. The dirty little secret here is he knows there are women out there who will serve him well, so there’s no reason to settle for less. He might have to approach/campaign harder to find her, but he’s cool with that. He lives the game so it’s no work at all. He’s not desperate to land a girl.
- Absolutely zero reliance or attachment on external feedback. Pimps are so convinced of their own awesomeness, no matter what his current circumstances, that he doesn’t need anyone to tell him who he is. He gets high from BEING a pimp, doing the actions of a pimp and doesn’t give a fuck who likes it or doesn’t. Adversity is laughed at and disapproval is a complete joke, all these other people are beneath him, so their opinions mean shit. He doesn’t hide what he is, he stands on his own two feet and is completely “in his movie”.
- Are hyper empathetic to the wants and needs of others. They understand that in order to have what they want they must give the people they wish to influence what they want/need as well. They discern what the person/situation requires in order to get what they want out of it, and they deliver it in just the right way. This is all done NOT trying to get into other peoples “movies”, but as a part of their movie. They are the leading role and the star of the movie, as they play other people out of whatever they are after. They work out how to get what they want in all situations, and if they can’t get it from one specific source, they get it from another.
- They truly and utterly relish and enjoy what they do so much, and are so proud of what they do that playing the game in itself is the biggest reward and the money, power and sex are just TRAPPINGS. People mistakenly believe that pimps are all about the money and power. Those are just perks. They really enjoy and live to play the game, and the money, power and sex are just cute side effects and results next to the fun of the game and their greatness.
These are the 5 things that I was able to emotionally, mentally and spiritually discern as to why pimps are so powerful. Note that these 5 points are impossible to maintain and benefit from if you’re not a MAN first. You must become a man and you must know what your standards, boundaries and principles are before you can take on these pimpish characteristics. You must be rock solid to understand, hold and wield this kind of power or you’re going to fall victim to the holes in your character sooner or later. A girl WILL play you away from your power as a man if you’re not firmly rooted in it and try to do all this shit without being ready.
Dude what is this pimp shit you’re on
Are you approaching? Are you gaining feedback and self correcting? Are you getting laid? What do you do in your free time? Hobbies? College? Work?
I’m trying to wrap my head around why you keep trying to conceptualize thoughts around this “pimp” narrative you’re throwing around. I can see you’re operating from a space of negativity.
I get your points but there is some inner resent coming out towards the world and women. What girl or girls hurt you to go down this pimp n hoes soundtrack? I’m no mind-reader, its just what I’m seeing based off experience.
It's very far from what you said, but you asking this is a perfect segway into what I was about to post and WHY this particular
model of reality is beneficial for me.
Maybe a few weeks ago I was a little resentful, but not because of the pimp stuff. It's BECAUSE of the pimp stuff that I dropped the
resentment and I'll tell you why.
Resentment poisons your perception and thus makes you take on BETA, overreactive subcommunications, and on a very
real level destroys how you come across. I recommend everyone record themselves somehow in field and ask themselves how
the feel when they're coming across certain ways. I had no idea I was coming across terrifying. My face was full of hatred at certain points and it scares poeple. I thought I was fucking lately because of being too validating, it was really because I was killing comfort
because inner hatred was coming across.
For the sake of my results and respect for my time, I've decided to stop fucking around and strip my subcommunications of hatred
in real time. This is possible by laughing at myself when I start to drift back into the old programming. This is gaming yourself, something that the better you get at doing the more you'll be better at gaming others. Pimps do this. They don't allow their self
opinion or happiness to be tainted by anything.
Now, onto the "MACRO" level stuff...
I definitely needed a CHANGE of perspective, and an understanding of pimp mentality and pimp game was the recipie.
RATHER than be outcome attached to getting every girl, I needed to find out WHAT I WANTED IN GIRLS besides sex and besides looks. I'm not looking to lock anything down, as my personal philopsophy at this time is to NOT try to lock anything down unless it's trying to lock me down first, and I'm only going to entertain that if they completley conform to MY standards and expectations, which I will absolutely NOT bend on. One of these being that I am only down for a relationship in which I can still see other girls, because I love women. She can do what she likes as well, but I expect her to continue behaving with me as she
was this whole time, or I'm going to walk. If I'm gonna make her #1 she has to make me #1 as well. No being mad, no weird texts,
just at the first sign of trouble "Hey, if you're not happy and want to go elsewhere thats better for you, go. Best of luck". We'll see
how real the whole treating me well and conforming to my standards and principles was from her. I am always testing her. Not to attract, but to see the truth.
But what does the girl get out of it? Why should she conform to me and make apparent such "sacrifices" for me? I am currently getting this ROCK SOLID STRAIGHT in my head by writing it down, all honest, all true, all absolutely real, because the foundation must be right. ALSO, currently in the process of getting down pat in my mind what kinds of girls I WANT IN MY LIFE, rather than just going balls out for the hottest one or the one who I project stupid things onto to prove something to my ego, or just out of pure lust. Pure lust isn't a reason to go all out to get a girl. No reason is a reason to go all out. My time is too valuable, I have to
really see what they're about and see if I even want to spend any of that valuable time with them at all! Period!
So really, what I needed, was to lose the hatred and to learn how to blend screening with calibrated "attraction game" seamlessly. More than that, I needed to become a man, which makes all of this even possible in the first place.
As far as what I do in the game? I approach, I am getting interesting results both online and offline with this mentality and new
understanding. I am much more empathetic to the women because I'm genuinely screening and seeing what they got. I mean empathetic as in paying attention to what they say and do and working out who they are as individuals, rather than spouting some shit off in my head I learned online.
Offline, I am hustling, no school yet, money first, I already have a degree. I enjoy working out, music, art and I left the drugs alone, as I was getting too into the coke, I want my mind to stay SHARP If I'm to game like this and live my life this way. I started being more into my hobbies again again and I started finding the humor in life again.
This way of doing things, to me, makes the most sense. It's the most sensible and the way to get RESPECT from women, by RESPECTING yourself by only allowing yourself to DEAL WITH RESPECT, standing tall on your standards and boundaries and
not straying from your shit. Having your way, running the show. This is what game means to me. Thats who I am fundamentaly
and I refuse to let modern society rob me of this.
Right after I finish slaying "Father Julien" I'm going to kick your fucking dumb ass too. Or maybe it'll be twice
Dude with all due respect I just got done fucking two hot ass 8’s with this mentality. This shit is working fine for me and actually it fits me like a glove. First threesome of my life just by respecting the game and playing accordingly.
FUCK “father” Julien. He’s not my father. Nobody is. Dude if you want me off the forum I understand I have no issue.
So where's your post about this threesome with two hot ass 8s? Think a better course of action would've been to post a lay report about that vs your new above everybody mentality....not saying anything, you're the one who is assuming
Hey relax, I don’t think I’m better than anyone but yet I am better than most I run across in real life, but im sure someday soon I’ll come across someone or many people who can wipe the floor with me. So what. I get better everyday. Always improving.
DUDE, I WISH I could offer value to the forum in the form of a lay report but there’s nothing to say, I don’t even THINK I’m terms of small little details like I used to, over analyzing etc.
Here are some cliff notes to take away from it though:
These two girls were hot, and as hot girls they spilled the beans on their sexual debauchery relatively fast because I was fun, loose and non judgmental. This made me a “secret society member” and thus they were BEGGING ME to come home with them at the end of the night!
Dont stay stuck to one set, make freinds with everyone. Being open and social makes people think you’re a high value man.
Always give girls INSTRUCTIONS to follow. If girls have their arms crossed, tell them to uncross them, this gives you influence with them. Lead. Tell them to pass you things, do this, do that, get them in the HABIT of doing things that you tell them to do.
Take over their reality, and don’t react emotionally or even acknowledge when they withdraw IOIs or ignore you. Just be in your movie. Bitches is out to get fucked.
Always looks like you have other options. Don’t be thristy.
Dude, all I did was walk to a table where two girls were sitting and talk. While I was talking I screened for sexual openness, dtfness, was polite and cool and just lead with nothing but regular, pleasant, non judgmental convo. The vibe was like “oh he’s an insider, he knows the deal”. I knew exactly when and where to put a DHV story, where and when to go away and talk to someone else, when to interfere when others crept up etc.
So NO, I don’t think I’m better than anyone. I remain humble yet I also think I’m the shit, because that’s what the game demands.
Well that was a miraculous turn around.
This is taking a Tolle...
Big lesson is that sometimes, you're just too fucking good for a lot of these bitches. Why waste your time trying to put your precious
dick in something that is going to be subpar, incompatible, disrespectful or takes more than it gives? Fuck that lol.
What MESSAGE does that send to your unconscious mind? That she's more important than you. She isn't. She already thinks
she's more important than you, so don't buy into that frame whether it's actively set by her or passively set by society in general. Let her think it if she wants, but you know what the truth is and your actions will solidify that within yourself whether SHE believes it
A great man named David X said that YOU are the most important person in the relationship.
Too bad i'm the greatest person in the world, Superb.
Too bad i'm the greatest person in the world, Superb.
As you should be.