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First tinder in a while, thought I had it! then last minute bail (a month later annnnnnddd i'm still hangin on)

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Me: Hi :)

Her: Whats up!

Me: Your bio says your interested in dogs but you didnt post one of yours!

Her: I have some pics on my insta!

Me: I dont have insta :( :(

Me: you better not be lying and have a cat!

Her: What!! your missing out

Her: I dont have a cat and never will have one

Me: thank god cats are nasty :/

Her: cat owners scare me

Me: me too they are loney and weird :(

Me: like a weird type of hipster

Her: lonely weird and psycho. who would ever think getting a cat is a good idea :( :(

Me: hahaha wow you REALLY dont like cats

Me: was your ex boyfrield a cat person?

Her: come on (name) you think id date a cat person!

Me: had to make sure it was a great judge of your character

Me: and your looking alight at the moment :)

Me: Hello are you still there alive and well

Her: hahaha yes im still here sorry sorry!!!

Her: i hate  checking tinder

Me: well whats your # this conversation was interesting but lacking continuity

Her: (number)

Me: Hi (name) this is (name) :)

Me: so i now know you dont like cats which is cool

Me: but do you believe in aliens

her: hmmmm idk about aliens hahaha

Me: well what are you unsure about

Me: its in the wiki leaks homie

her: wanna get abducted together

Me: umm yes of course

Me: I heard a huge invasion is happening tuesday...

Her: oh man ill be at work

Me: oh well im sure they will be around for a while

Me: when are you free to engae in extraterrrestrial activity?

Her: hopefully soon haha where are you from anyways

We talk about basic stuff for a bit

Me: where do you work?

Her: (shoe store) in (town)

Me: your such a girl you do it for the good deals on shoes dont you :P

Her: hahahahaha that may be part of it

Me: I knew it!

Me: (we talk about her town for a bit)

Me: so next question, are you a trump or hillary supporter? :P :P

Her: oh gosh hahaha

Her: whats your last name

Me: no comment? :o :0

Me: last name

Her: haha well i mean neither are good

Me: I agree but its fun to discuss for the sake of conversation

Me: did you just facebook stalk me or something :) :)

Her: haha no im doing homework i just needed to save your contact

Me: oh your in my phone as (name) Tinder :P :P

Her: rude

Me: :P :P you deserve better

Me: whats your last name (name)?

Her: (lastname)

Me: can you sound that out for me :P :/

Her: nope i cant

her: u gotta figure it out

Me:  I dont understand linear language its an alien thing :P

Her: hmmmmm guess youll have to work on it

Me: yeah Ive got a team of 15 elves over here researching the latin origions but they cant seem to figure it out :) :) :)

Her: oh no, well you got some elves

Me: oh well its okay

Me: i jsut bought my ski pass for the winter im so excited

Her: i try not leave my house in the winter I hate the cold

Me: how girly of you

Her: i get way too cold

Her: even rn is too cold for me

Her: i cant do it nope nope nope

Me: you need to drink some more hot chocolate :)

her: haha I love hot chocolate

Me: me too but i dont make it very often

Me: where is it good

Me: starbucks?

Her: starbucks has good hot chocolate, dunking hot chocolate is nasty, literally all water

Me: hmmm i coulda guessed that, dont think i ever had it at starbucks

Me: we should do that hot chocolate AND aliens

Her: hahaha whats up w you and aliens you werido

Her: hot chocolate and hide under blankets

Me: they interest me

Me: that does sound very fun

Me: when do you work this week? im only wednesday and sunday nights this week

Her: my only night off besides thanksgiving is tomorrow

Me I could do monday night, like 7 ish??

Her: that may work

Me: how about i text you tomorrow and we can decide

Her: yes that fine haha

Me: okay talk to you later :)

next day:

Me: Hi you still down for starbucks tonight :)

During this 5 hours period she adds me on snapchat and sends me two generic snapchats about her hair being a mess and her driving, but never sends a text back. I respond to one joking about her hair by drawing weird hair on my head. The evening is approaching so i text her 

Me: say something loser :)

Her: hi hi sorr

Me: oh no your so cold you can barely text :)

So i'm not completey sure what happened. This girl was very sexy looking so she def has some high value tendencies. She really seemed down to hangout with me twice (bolded texts above) but something is missing. I lost the excitability at the end and it did not seem like the idea of us hanging out was awesome enough yet, but I rolled with it because she agreed. Maybe she wanted me to leave her alone lol. That last text is bad and might be somewhat insulting. I don't understand  why she was snapchatting me, whether they were personal or not she knew they were being sent but never felt the need to actually text me.

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First of all, you need to

First of all, learn the difference between "your" and "you're".  It comes off as lazy/stupid.  

It seems like she was definitely interested, but you need to be going for meetups as soon as you see a window.  She actually gave you several...when she hit you with "I love hot chocolate"...that was your queue to set up a date.  Then again, after you say "I could do Monday night, like 7ish??" and she responds "that may work"...I would have taken this as a yes and been like "cool let's do Starbucks at 7".  Instead you went backwards and forced yourself to have to reinitiate.  A lot can happen on her end in a day so don't hesitate, especially in the world of Tinder where hot girls are bombarded with opportunities to forget you. 

Also, being more challenging/accusatory/sexual will get her more invested and less likely to just let things die out, which is what I think was the real issue here.  If she's sending you personal snapchats though...why do you think this is dead?  Lol just hit her back on Snapchat and forget the texting.  But send her messages, not pictures.  

On a side note...are you opening with "hi" regularly on Tinder?  I can't see that working with many good-looking women, not to mention how much value a creative first message can have in getting her invested and showing off your sense of humor.  

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Bruh I did go for the meet up

Bruh I did go for the meet up twice lol, was that not clear maybe? 

Yes I should have just snap chatted, the whole thing was just strange. I wasn't sure if they were personal snapchats, but she was taking the time to send them to me. My first fuck up was assuming she could be blowing me off when she probably needed more of an experience with me before she was ready to go out and wanted to Snapchat. 

Ummm sometimes I say hi its probably not too great!

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Yeah you took too long and

Yeah you took too long and you should have nailed it down rather than handle it the way you did. I feel like you were hesitating to pull the trigger the whole time. Remember with the hotties.. ruthless and shameless. 

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Too long really? I thought I

Too long really? I thought I was inviting her out immediately after the opportunity arose or at least in my own head I was! Needs to be more direct I guess.

Anybody have any other thoughts on the Snapchat thing? I never experienced that before, and felt insulted in a way but I'm thinking I just read it all wrong. 

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They should come up with a

They should come up with a new dating app called Tender. For all you sensitive folk

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wink

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hmmmmmm.... This girl

hmmmmmm.... This girl obviously enjoys me and invests in me in weird little way but I just can't seem to add any direction to the interaction. She is going through some tough times as you'll see below.

So this was the closest we got to meeting up. She's really hot and I didn't have the nuts to make things happen.

Me: hi where are u slow poke

Her: im cold

Me: im toasty

Her: emoji character of her in the snow

Me: sexy outfit

Me: I hope your not wearing mid calv socks rn

Her: im literally hundled under a blanket

Me: are u coming to get me snowflake

Me: or do I have to fly over in the spaceship

Me: fuck it im coming to you beb           <----at this point im seriously thinking she really just wants me to go to her house and fuck her and that is maybe why she didn't want to go anywhere that I mentioned on the phone. I try and call her again and no response.

Her: its so cold out

Me: im the warmest mofucka in town

Her: I just wanna lay in bed and watch a movie and be warm

Me: imma pull your lil bod close to me and keep you warm

Her: hahaha whatt

Me: are you one of those girls that teases over text to feel better about yourself

Her: what do u mean

Me: your being rude as fuck

Me: we made a plan on the phone and now your sitting around wrapped in blankets touching yourself

Me: its fine I didnt like your haircut anyways

THE NEXT MORNING:

Me: I'm sorry for being a dick last night

Me: I was a misunderstanding on my side

I don't text her for a week but we snapchat casually, then engage again:

Me: hows my third favorite brat doing?

Her: not good

Me: aww whys that

Her: I'm just miserable I had my first PT session today and she did weird stuff to my head and neck it hurt so bad I threw up and now ive been sore all day I basically slept the whole time

Me: ohh no you need some TLC girl

Her: some what

Me: (screen shot of urban dictionary "TLC"...first definiition is "ten inch long cock" lol second one is "tender love and care")

Me: The second one lol

Me: in simple terms you need a massage hun

Her: haha she did massage me!

Me: ( I try and facetime her because I want to get her more engaged and it seemed appropiate since we kinda sorta know each at this point...she declines)

Me: What are you wearing one of those dog cones on your neck haha!

Her: (send me a picture with a neck brace thing)

Her: :(

Me: get well soon pumpkin :)

Me: that is actually pretty common for neck mobalizations. My mom's a PT

Her: shoulda just gone to her

Me: I know right

Me: You got a massage from hell

Her: shes only 25

Me: brand new!

Me: dont worry (name) they all know what they are doing they go to school for 7 years now'

Her: shes my friends older bothers gf

Me: how did this all happen hun

Her: (explains she got into car accident been on some meds and what not...seems like some tough times)

Me: thats frustrating

Me: you prob have a few locked vertebrae

Me: do you smoke weed lol   <-- thought maybe she would be down

Her: no

Me: its hands down the best anti inflammatory out there <---- not trying to be a jackass...I actually read medical journals etc. but ti may have came off like an idiot

Her: haha not my thing

Me: lol yah im talking from a medical standpoint. There are topical creams and everything

Me: PT should fix yah up fine :)

Me: In no time we will be hiking everest with a pack of boxer dogs  <---we both have these dogs

A WEEK LATER:

Me: congrats

Her: on?

Me: I was making hot coco with marshmallows and I thought about you  <---- she talked about liking hot coco and some point

Me: yah your welcome. Im so sweet I may give you diabetes

Her: (send a picture of these hats with my name on it)  <--- see this is odd, I look at this as pretty big investment and her being in that cute/girly mindset yet I can't really get her to bite much

Me: oh SHIT! thats a cool hat pumpkin I want it!

Me: if you buy me that hat it will be the key to my heart

Me: and ill buy you chipotle

 

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aw man that was pretty bad at

aw man that was pretty bad at the end

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I think this is a pretty good

I think this is a pretty good convo mang. Even the blitz you tried I thought was pretty well crafted and carried out. 

I think her overall response here is mostly due to the fact she really is going through a tough time. If it were me I'd go that route, maybe add in some teasing as well, but show her that hanging with you leaves her better off than just treating you like a random dude on Tinder. Instead your idea of a massage was a bit too heavy-handed simply because every dude is trying to give her a massage, lol. 

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Manwhore wrote:I think this

Manwhore wrote:
I think this is a pretty good convo mang. Even the blitz you tried I thought was pretty well crafted and carried out. 

I think her overall response here is mostly due to the fact she really is going through a tough time. If it were me I'd go that route, maybe add in some teasing as well, but show her that hanging with you leaves her better off than just treating you like a random dude on Tinder. Instead your idea of a massage was a bit too heavy-handed simply because every dude is trying to give her a massage, lol. 

What route would you go exactly?

I'm assuming I should keep it on the softer side (while still teasing) but keep the emotions positive because negativity is not going to bait her at this point in time.

I started to realize that I wasn't handling her logistics well enough, I was inviting her ice skating and shit and she might not be physically well enough to do that.

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Thought this might help...

Let me tell you a story MEOW, when I was a virgin (about 3 years ago), I met this girl that I was into. She was a fitness model that also worked part-time at GNC. We hit it off just right, got her number and we would exchange texts back and forth for about a year.

I tried several times to get her out- “hey want to catch a movie?” Her: “can’t out of town”

 “Want to go out for a bite to eat?” Her: “busty with errands” (her breast are amazing BTW)

 “Want to grab a coffee?” Her: (I Don’t even remember what she turned me down with, but I think she was going through a tough time)

 Btw I don’t like coffee

About a year of texting back and forth (I knew not to come off needy but I always kept trying with this girl) I hit her up on my birthday about 2 years back:

Hey you in town?

Her: yes why?

*Conversation ensues*

Me: *Finally* “So drinks later?”

Her: HELL YEAH!

We meet up at her house, she drives us, we both have a good time and we head back to her house, she walks me to my car and

 I end up getting the most epic BJ in the backseat of my car, it was heavenly. All 30 minutes of it…

MEOW good things will happen to those who persist. Only question you gotta ask yourself right now is how bad do you want to do HEAVENLY things with this girl?

 

Whatever you decide, I’m rooting for you MEOW

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catchingmeta4ssincebirth

catchingmeta4ssincebirth wrote:
Let me tell you a story MEOW, when I was a virgin (about 3 years ago), I met this girl that I was into. She was a fitness model that also worked part-time at GNC. We hit it off just right, got her number and we would exchange texts back and forth for about a year.

I tried several times to get her out- “hey want to catch a movie?” Her: “can’t out of town”

 “Want to go out for a bite to eat?” Her: “busty with errands” (her breast are amazing BTW)

 “Want to grab a coffee?” Her: (I Don’t even remember what she turned me down with, but I think she was going through a tough time)

 Btw I don’t like coffee

About a year of texting back and forth (I knew not to come off needy but I always kept trying with this girl) I hit her up on my birthday about 2 years back:

Hey you in town?

Her: yes why?

*Conversation ensues*

Me: *Finally* “So drinks later?”

Her: HELL YEAH!

We meet up at her house, she drives us, we both have a good time and we head back to her house, she walks me to my car and

 I end up getting the most epic BJ in the backseat of my car, it was heavenly. All 30 minutes of it…

MEOW good things will happen to those who persist. Only question you gotta ask yourself right now is how bad do you want to do HEAVENLY things with this girl?

 

Whatever you decide, I’m rooting for you MEOW

Fuck yeah dude that's awesome!! My first tinder lay was similar, I invited her out soooo many times and she finally realized that it was worth it because it takes balls to stay in the game that long.

This girl is a pain in ass but ever since we talked on the phone ohhh GAWD she's so sexy. I'm confident that if I could just get her out I'd blow her away in person. Actually, I know the shoe store she works at...I may just pop in. Does anybody think this is a bad idea?

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^Dude, you can pull some mad

^Dude, you can pull some mad shit with that idea. I've done it.

Bring one of your hottie hot hotties to go "shoe shopping", inform her of the girl you're trying to get with, watch the magic happen.

Huehuuueheue. Srsly, its fun.

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She's on Vaca and sends

She's on Vaca and sends me:

Her: (picture of extraterrestrial highway) <--- We talked about aliens like 5 weeks ago lol

Her: Ur highway

Me: lol my home! try not to get abducted im not there to save yah :P

Sooo this is the new vibe. I think this is what you were talking about Manwhore, I'm going to playfully frame our interaction in a way that she romantically needs me. Something is obviously up with this girl, she's engaging ME while shes on freakin vacation yet I can't hold a steady convo.

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Her: Hahaha ok no promises

Her: Hahaha ok no promises tho

She reads the message immediately and responds 4 hours later lol

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