Day Game Advice

@buddhagames:

As of right now, me and my brother (Wonder on this forum) do almost exclusively daygame... I'd say in a situation like you're describing, in a bar, it won't be very different from night game, or however you'd normally act in a bar setting. If it's a bar, people are going to be in a social state already... which is probably the main thing that separates day from night game.

Daytime street game is somewhat of a different story. Running after people in the street (first thing I learned on bootcamp: always run! ... lol, actually you can't not run, since if you're walking you'll have to walk at an unnaturally fast pace in order to catch up to people) and things like that.

If you're ever in that kind of situation... which I imagine you would be, since everybody has things to do in the daytime (Shopping, going to the bank, whatever) ... then here are a few pointers...

* Get in front of people completely. Like, run up ahead of them and face them head on, so you're completely blocking their path. Get them to stop and give you their undivided attention. Some people advocate running up and walking alongside them... but first of all, this automatically snaps you into following their frame, going into their reality so to speak... and it can also make her uncomfortable (how long is this stranger going to walk next to me?) ... and in general simply stopping them will have much more POW! factor.
* Go direct. The first question they're gonna ask themselves is "who is this guy and what does he want?" ... don't fuck around and ask her where she bought that dress or whatever.
* It's an unusual situation for her, so sometimes preframing the situation can make it feel okay and acceptable to her. Like "Hey, I know this is a bit random... but blah blah" , "Don't panic! This is not a robbery! I just wanted to... blah blah" (classic Sasha)... and so on. You can usually tell by her spontaneous reaction to your being in front of her, what would be appropriate for the situation. Like if she's completely weirded out that some random dude just stopped her in the middle of the street... you can acknowledge that and call it out: "I'm not trying to be weird or anything, but..." or whatever.

In my experience, which admittedly isn't a lot compared to most people here, the difference between day and nightgame is that people have more shields up during the daytime. There's a bit higher of a barrier you need to push through in order to snap them into your reality. It is, however, easier to get their attention in the first place. Once you get over that initial hump though, it's the same thing.

Recently I've been with some other stuff... like not preframing at all "Hey. Who are you?" (which usually makes them hesitantly give up their name with facial expressions conveying confusion and caution). It can have a lot of impact, and even though they can feel the strong vibe you're projecting, the whole experience might be so out of their reality that they don't know how to react... so reactions vary.

In my experience, directly stating your intent, verbalizing it, works better. "Hey... I just saw you walking past... and I thought you're way too hot for your own good, so I just wanted to find out who you are..."

Reactions will vary... from defensiveness to hysterical laughter. The really confident girls will smile and express a heartfelt thank you. If you're incongruent, you'll get mostly weirded out reactions lol.

Hmm... in addition to that, I seem to get weaker or even bad responses from using the word "cute" so I tend to avoid that. In terms of general compliments, "you look amazing" works well. If it's authentic and you're congruent with it, the stronger your intent the stronger the reaction. "You have an amazing ass", "You're fucking sexy" etc. I very rarely feel inclined to use the word "beautiful" but when I do and it's authentic, it gets VERY good reactions.

But yeah, whatever. The general plan is to express whatever's on your mind, these are just some general observations.

I turned 18 this year, and like... my first experience of game at all was daygame, during Sasha's bootcamp. I was doing daygame before I had ever even been inside a nightclub. I was surprised at how easy it was in that kind of night time environment.

I don't know if this helps. Just typed out whatever came to mind basically. Good luck :)

@buddhagames:
Right that's basically night game not day game.

Below is a solid example of daygame from Sash. Notice he cuts her off and solidly gets her attention. You want to be BIGGER than the situation, you want to just NOT care. Be like "wow you're cute." And that's it. If she buzzes off cool, if she stands there and wants to talk, cool. Soak in her reaction and just be solid while maintaining your "I'm attracted to you and am awesome and tell me more about you" frame.


(by the way yes Sasha actually walks like that it's not some act. He has to buy new shoes once a month)

@Manwhore:

Interesting. Does this dude actually get laid a lot from his day game approaches?

@buddhagames:
Yes he gets laid off daygame for sure. I taught him some text game and showed him a bunch of physical/sexual escalation stuff to help out in those stages of the game. You can be amazing at what I call Stage 1, e.g. from the approach to getting her # but if you can't convert to a meetup (Stage 2) and then get her hot and bothered when you meet up (Stage 3) it's all for not. I don't think guys realize just HOW MUCH game is distinctly split into these 3 stages, and that these stages are SO independent of each other.

@Manwhore:

Yeah, I didn't see it as being specifically broken down in that way. But it's becoming clear to me, from my experience, that that's exactly how it breaks down.

And you gotta be able to do all three of them if you wanna get the fuck. That's just solid game. All three pieces coming together.

That takes a lot of time and experience to perfect. And it's funny cause each stage of it gets harder to learn because you have to have mastered the stage before it, in order just to get to a point where you CAN practice that next stage lmao.

Manwhore, in the hotseat 2 Julien showed some Tyler videos of night street game approaches where they try to stop the girl in different ways, they just kinda are walking around and open the girls when they are walking in the opposite way, start to follow them around, plow like crazy etc
Do you think Tyler's way is inferior

Try them and find out.