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I've been working on actually approach and face to face game ever since I started.. and haven't really payed attention to texts much.. hope I can get some advice/help



 Girl hit me up on POF..



I'm really attracted to her.. In my eyes she's a solid 8-9







Chit chatted for a bit on pof, we related on the fact that we both go the gym.. then got her number...



I told her I was going to crash for the night, and that I'm not on pof often.. so shoot me a text (left my number)



Phone texts begin:



Her: Hey Americanzombie... it's Tiffany from pof (:          (she left this text on my phone afer I told her I was going to crash, I was actually tired so I went to bed and didn't text her back)



Her: Hey do have instagram??







(Next day)



Me: good mornin:) my instagram is xxxxx



her: good morning! got to sleep in a little today, took the day off. Followed you on instagram. accept me



Me: Lucky you. Accepted you. I'm at work right now so if I don't get back right away. that's why.   (It's actually really hard for me to text during work)



her: Okay no problem!





(evening)



Me: Hey cutie



her: helllllo



me: how was your day off?  (probably shouldn't have asked such a logical question..)



her: Good got a lot of stuff done ! Now in bed gotta be up early for work tomorrow



me: Cool, I'll be right over



her: Crazy!



Me: Was going to be a gentleman n tuck you in and kiss you goodnight



her: You barley even know me! Lol you'd be a creeper coming to my house !



me: I'm teasing.. but hypothetically you'd be the creeper for letting a stranger into your house ;)



her:I wouldn't have even let you in! I'm the one calling you crazy & tell you you'd be a creeper so hypothetically you can't say that! Hah



me: If this scenario actually played out. you'd give in to me & wouldn't resist using me like your personal teddy bear to sleep with & i'd put up with it cuz ur cute



her:you just keep going don't you! Lol



me: ;) I'll let you get your beauty sleep. g'nght



(end)





I feel the interaction could've been a lot of better... part of me didn't even want to text her tonight.. since I know texting should be used as a means to an end...



but I probably won't be able to actually meet up with this girl for another week since im going to be pretty busy these next few days.. so I wanted to lock myself in her head at least..





Should I leave it at that till I can actually meet up with her? 



Constructive Criticism is welcome... i'm sure I fucked up in some areas.... and newbies or those with no success.. please don't feel the need to add your 2 cents.

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Telling a girl she would be a

Telling a girl she would be a creeper for letting a stranger into her house is basically shooting yourself in the foot. Now she's going to hesitate before letting you in her house because YOU created that expectation. Durr 

Watch what you say, don't trigger asd mang. That's bad news 

As far as going forward, just hit her up in a couple days, maybe a day or so prior to a day you'd actually be able to meet up, and shoot her a random text and see what she's up to, then invite her out to something. 

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Thank you sir.  I guess I was

Thank you sir. 

I guess I was trying to throw the "creeper tag" back at her instead of it staying with me or being super reactive to being called a creeper.

In retrospect I see what you're saying about triggering ASD (didn't even cross my mind)

I started reading a lot of your articles lately after discovering you from RSD..

Your text game is ridiculous... (in a bad ass way)

Trying to see the matrix as you see it. gnarly.

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You never want to throw a

You never want to throw a creeper tag back at a girl, or other "insults". Instead blow it up, take it to ridiculous extremes. That's how you handle shit tests like that. "Yeah girl I like to heat up a tv dinner and sit outside your bedroom window while I eat it." That kind of thing 

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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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Damn, you're too good at

Damn, you're too good at this.

I was at work when I read that and almost spit my water out... Too funny!