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Could not get SNL, how do I set up date effectively the next day?

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Had bad logistics and cockblock relatives with her. Tried my best to pull but couldn't. These are the texts we sent each other after departing.. Was just wondering what I should text her tomorrow or if I should call her to get a meetup going. Thanks

me@2:06AM: Hello sheena
her: Hiiiiiii
me: U go home already?
her: Is this spiiiiiiiiike
her: cuzzzzins taking me home
me: Yup
me: Fark.
me: I wuda taken care of you :/
me: More like abduct
me: Now it's a sad drive home
me: in my extra asian honda civic
her: Awwwww
her: Next time for sureee
me: You had dual indian conservativeness and a white sense of adventure
me: Not gonna find that for a while
me: where did u say u lived?
her: :)
her: Danville
her: Wait battery is dying!!!
her: I text u when iget home
her: :)
me: Im heading home, danville is on the way. I wanna see u tonight to say goodbye.
her: where do you live?!!
her: I don't wanna say goodbye forever :(
me: Near danville ;).
me: Address gimme
her: I'm in Santa Clara I can't drive home yet
her: Brb batt dying :(
her: Seeeee 1 percent
*Sends pic of phone
me: Text me where u are once you start charging ur phone
her: Kkkkkkkk
me: Ur gonna be in danville eventually?
her: Either that or tomorrow. May stay with my cousin and uncle
her: And aunt In Santa Clara
me: I gotta work on something so Ill be up. Text me if you head to danville
her: Okay!
her: What are you gonna work on ??! Haha poem for me
her: Knew it
me: If you come to danville I will :3
her: :)
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This is like pussy on a
This is like pussy on a platter status mang. She must think you're a good person or something, pfff. Be like "Free tonight? I'm going to be in your area" See what she says
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Re: This is like pussy on a
@Manwhore:

Lol thx bro. she texted me at 5am when she got home. I actually live 10 mins away from her. She had to get up for work at 6.

her@4:56AM Hi!
her: I actually just got home
her: Looks like you're asleep or something though.
her: Gnite!
me: Nope :)
her: Oh! Haha heyyy
her: Yeahh! But I'm going to bed soon. I drove back after I sobered up.
me: I'm in the area
me: Oh yeah?
me: Well....I AM like 10 mins away at a taco bell (this is a lie)
her: Why are you at taco bell lol??
her: I have work at 6 am. gotta get that beauty rest (i feel like this is a lie)
me: because tacos are delicious
me: Yeah its late for me too gonna head home
me: Gooood night. Fun meeting ya
her: Tacos are delicious
her: Gnite!!
her: Definitely!
me: (in a desperate attempt facepalm) wait
me: I wanna see u in Pjs
me: (realizing it's already 5:10AM) Lol kidding. Its so late. Bye. For reals

^ felt like that last part was kinda desperate.
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Re: This is like pussy on a
annnd then @ 7am

her: (6:42AM) [][] (some symbols my piece of shit phone can't read)
her: :)

her: (8:15AM) sorry had to work this morning and fell asleep as soon as i hit my bed last night
her: You're funny
me: Oh. So you really did have to work?
me: Mmmf. Still remembering you in that black dress.
her: Haha yeah I wasn't lying at all. i work at PAC 12 in San Fran, so I basically went home, changed intow work clothes and slept for 20 min and had to getu p
her: for work
her: Downside of going out on a Thurs! Lol
her: Haha why thanxxxxxxx
me: Pac 12..is that a sports company?
me: Did u use ur tennis playing skillzz to get hired lol
her: It's the conference that D1 college athletics play in.
her: Haha yeahhhh
me: Lol nice ;)
her: :)

Welp just gonna text her later in the day to meet up. Feel like that's enuf back and forth.
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Re: This is like pussy on a
Annd probably the final text for a while

me: Free tonight? I'm gonna be around.
her: I'm working until 6 and then I'm not sure my plans afterwards. I may head to the city again but this time with my girl friends, not my cousins haha
me: allllrighty. I'll just text u later to see what's up
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Re: This is like pussy on a
@spikespiegel:

Okay...

When I read this text convo, what I notice is that everything seems to be happening very quickly... For whatever reason I get this feeling like if this were happening in real life, you both would be talking SUPER SUPER FAST but getting nowhere.

SLOW. IT. DOWN.

And by this- I do NOT mean, slow down your escalation or like don't respond for a while... What I mean is just idk... I can't describe it- I bet manwhore can tell you, technically, why I'm getting this feeling.

But it's like... slow down, man.

Get her logistics.

Send her some solid texts that she can GRIP into and then get her doing the same (she will... you just gotta lead)

So yeah- send her some SOLID texts taht are playful/funny/rapport building.... like go for SOME rapport, then just get her logistics and from there- get a meet.

SLOW. IT. DOWN.

Get the fundamentals down.

Get a LITTLE rapport. Work logistics. Go for meet.

All while being playful//Boss

This needs to be cleaned up.

I don't mean to sound like a dick, there is just something about this convo that looks very.... "Immature?" fuck, I sound like a dick... idk what it is.

manwhore, do you understand anything of what I'm saying- I can't technically describe what I'm seeing here.
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Re: This is like pussy on a
@buddhagames:

I think what I'm trying to say is that the time is over for some quick, kamikazee shit and the next meetup you're going to get is going to be a legit D2...

So work the fundamentals and get a solid D2 out of this.
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Re: This is like pussy on a
@buddhagames:

i see what you're saying. too hyper, too eager, too much fluff and not a lot of oomph to the texts, yeah?

I'll try to tone it back and make it more solid.
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As for her plans
As for her plans tonight

me: (6:43pm) :p
her: Hey hey
me: So. Whatre ur plans for today
her: Sf plans got scrapped because I have to go to my uncle's house nearby to eat dinner. And that's it haha.
me: What kinda food is it
me: Imma be in San Fran btw
her: Awwww fun!
her: It's indian food lol

Thinkin imma go out to the city, go hit on some girls. Text her intermittently some state-pumping stuff while I'm out. Then start sexting later in the night. Go home (if i don't pull), call her up at like 2am to see what she's up to. She lives 10 minutes from my house. Thoughts?