college girl
Met this girl at the bar, and we were flirting pretty hard, but she was giving me tons of shit-test when I tried to makeout or physically escalate on her. She would touch my face/shoulder/chest though. After about 20-30mins, I led her downstairs into a photobooth, and pulled the curtain shut and she just turned into a freak. Fingerbanged her and was sucking on them titties, while she tried to call her friend that she lost. Had my cock out, and was about to fuck, but I was nervous due to the danger of being caught, or people seeing our lower body under the curtain lol. My indecisiveness blew it up, and as soon as she found out her friend location, her demanor totally change and she was set on meeting up with her. I made sure to get her number, and saved my name into her phone before she left.
Me: Get home safe - (name)
**Tried to give her a call that same night, at 4am, she picked up but hung up like 2 secs later
Me - 49 mins later: Rude
Me: !!!!
Me - 10 hrs 57 mins later: Hey SC, eating the most delicious crab legs in memory of you.
Girl - 1 hr 43 mins later: I don't even know what that means. I'm sorry, I blacked out and don't remember who you are
Me - 4 mins later: Great. I've always imagined my <3 life to be like 50 first dates
Me - 30 mins later: Really did like you:) we should hang out.. away from the wild bar scene. I enjoyed our energy together
Girl - 5 mins later: Can you send me a pic of you or something. Maybe that would help me remember
**Called her after this text and had a 6min convo with her. Wasn't really leading the phone convo, and she was the first to end it b/c she was on a boat party, but the banter was good.
Girl - 28 mins later: So are you gonna send that picture?
Me - 6 mins later: Send one first, and I'll decide if I want to send one back
**She sent a pic of her with caption "Looking like shit at a barge party!"
**I sent one back saying "Cute!! Before going out last night" sent her a pic of me from the night we met
Girl - 2 hrs 44 mins later: Going out tonigh?
Me - 11 mins later: Maybe. Bud wants to hit up (bar)
Girl - 34 mins later: Actually I think I'm just gonna go home tonight.
**Sent her two texts after this that was pretty needy. Something along the line like "Meet me for drinks at (blah blah)!! I'm not free the rest of the week" & "and wear something cute so we match <3"
Me - 23 hrs 58 mins later: Been working on my broomstick twirling skillz. Your knees are safe now
**callback humor, that she didn't get since she was blackout I guess
Girl - 1 min later: Um what?
Me - 34 mins later: Started w/ me matching you next to the broom. You pass: offically FUN size lol
Girl - 1 min later: Haha right
Me - 14 mins later: I don't normally fancy drunken partygirls.. this feels different
Girl - 1 min later: What's your usual type?
**Sent a pic of her face closed up lol with caption "Something something"
Girl - 23 mins later: Gross. Please delete that.
Me - 1 min later: Why? It reminds me of our steamy photobooth encounter.
Girl: Please tell me you're fucking with me. And that I didn't look that horrible at the bar
Me - 6 mins later: Beb, its a joke. I think you look adorable
Girl: Ha thanks. So what do you do anyway?
Me - 15 mins later: You have a cute nose lol
Me: School
Girl: What are you studying?
Me - 20 hrs 33 mins later: Hey boo, how was your essay?
Girl - 3 mins later: Did we talk about that the other night? I don't remember telling you about that
Me - 10 mins later: You sure forget a lot..
Me: A prime candidate for my childish pranks ;)
Girl: Ha well I prefaced our entire conversation with the fact that I was blackout
Me - 13 mins later: Still figuring how out how much beer was funneled in you to make you b/o lol
Girl: 0. About 7 vodka shots
Girl: 0. About 7 vodka shots
Me - 3 mins later: Tsk tsk so WILD
Me - 1 min later: actually vodka tonic sounds amazing right now.. soo done w/ hw *ugh
Girl: How old are you? 21?
Me - 1 min later: you would like that, cougar
Girl: No, actually I like older guys
Me - 3 mins later: Nah I'm 23. W/ asian genes = prolly 16
Girl: Oh too bad
Me - 3 mins later: I'm forever young lol
Me: What's your plans for tonite, pumpkin?
Girl: Smoking and watching workaholics
Me - 2 mins later: Come out to (bar) so I can beat your ass in beerpong
Girl: Haha sorry my plans are already in motion
**Sent her Christian Bale disapproval pic
Girl - 4 mins later: I'm high.
Girl: I'm high.
**2 days later; Sent her a pic of some black dude OD'd on watermelons w/ the captions "Me after doing deadlifts xo"
Girl - 2 days 23 hrs later: Haha sexy
**Called her and had a 3mins convo. Did a much better job leading, and had a solid fun vibe throughout. She said her mom was calling her and told me to wait, and responded by telling her I actually had to go, and I'll ttyl. Was calm, and funny the entire time
Girl - 9 mins later: Do you have snapchat
Me - 6 mins later: ? Idk what's that
Girl - 1 min later: Oh wow I thought for sure you'd have it. It's an app originally developed for the purpose of safe sexting, but my friends and I just send us ugly/funny pictures of each other
Me - 44 mins later: Sexting already? Tsk.. not until after date 8, missy
Girl: I'm not sexting you!
Girl: And I don't do that anyway
Me: ;) xoxo
Girl - 2 hrs 38 mins later: What are your plans for tonight?
Me - 19 mins later: (location). You?
Girl - 5 mins later: Same. We might start at west though
**Sent her a pic of my pitcher of alcohol
Girl - 47 mins later: Yeah...
Me - 1 hr 17 mins later: (bar)! Where u?
Me - 50 mins later: Wastedx
**Ended up calling her like 3 times after the bars closed. I left one VM saying "You're acting weird.. call me back". Was pretty much done w/ her after she didn't call back.
Girl - 9 hrs 21 mins later: Sorry I blacked out pretty much the entire night :/. I absolutely cannot imagine the impression you have of me. Drunk party girl. I'm actually getting my masters of accounting right now. (University) is the number one school in the country. I'm not a complete idiot, despite the things I may have said to you
**I ignored this text. She called me later in the night, around 9, prolly drunk. I answered and said "Hello?" twice and hung up on her. I could hear radio/tv in the background tho.
She seems like a sweet girl, when she's not wasted, plus she's pretty good-looking and has huge titties.
Never really went for an actual meet-up/date, but I pretty much put her on no contact after she pissed me off that night. I ended up fucking another girl I met that night, but was in a mopey state the entire night, after I realized meeting up w/ her was not going to happen.
It's been 3 days of no contact from both sides, you think I should hit her back up?
Or should I disregards and plow more wimmenz, and only hit her back up if she put in more effort to talk again?
Had to unpublish first thread, since I couldn't sensitize the OP.
and yea G-Money, I agree setting the boundaries would be a good idea.
One thing I've learned from this site and recent paintful experience is that if you ask for a certain kind of meetup in a certain way, try something different the next time. So far you've initiated/accepted wishy-washy meet ups at the local bar... Are there any kind of house parties you could invite her to? Or better yet a PRE PARTY at a certain location, ideally yours. Seems like once the party starts going she's MIA so I think it'd be best if you were with her at the start of those fun times. Just my 2c
One thing I've learned from this site and recent paintful experience is that if you ask for a certain kind of meetup in a certain way, try something different the next time. So far you've initiated/accepted wishy-washy meet ups at the local bar... Are there any kind of house parties you could invite her to? Or better yet a PRE PARTY at a certain location, ideally yours. Seems like once the party starts going she's MIA so I think it'd be best if you were with her at the start of those fun times. Just my 2c
Yea, something I've learned as well from reading one of MW blog.
Unfortunately, I didn't see it until after this whole text interaction.. don't think it would've matter anyways tho.
How do you guys think I should re-initiate?
usually after a long lay-off, I'll try to throw out a text that shows high-value, like with the picture on day 3 of this text convo.
I think after tuning out her long text, it would requires a different approach to rekindle the interaction.
Yo man she brought up sexting and you shut her down? HORRIBLE man! You can't do that, you've got to take that energy and guide it in the right direction.. not shut it down. You sent that response and she completely had to backtrack because you made her feel like a slut. When a girl offers something like that, you ENCOURAGE it ;)
Wow I just read the rest of the text convo.. you see how she backpedaled and went in completely the opposite direction? She went from seeing you as a potential fuck interest, to qualifying herself as a good girl. Serious screw-up mang
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"Sexting, already? Not unitl after date 8, missy"
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This is one of those texts that comes across as super smooth in your head but it actually accomplishes the exact opposite of what you want.
Fuck, ya'll right. It didn't seem like the right route to go, since it was our first contact in 2 days, and only after like 2-3 text exchange from us.
How would you guys have set it up?
Just texted her "wassup?"
and she sent a quick reply saying "studying for the CPA exam :\"
help??
Very lazy text game:
Me: "Sounds lameee. At home?"
Her: "It is lame. Yes."
Me: "invite me over"
Her: "Haha I still have another 2 hours of lectures to get through, sorry"
Me: "Stuck dt... I'll come raid your weed stash"
Her: "Haha it's actually out as of Saturday night, and I'm not buying more until I pass the CPA exams"
Me: "Fuck. You're just asking for angry sex now"
Her: "But I'm a virgin"
is it time to break out the dick pic?
It's time to meet some more girls and text them. Send her pictures of some awesome shit you're doing maybe once a week and play it by ear. I would consider this one a goner.
Me: "Irrelevant. I'm out of the sacrificing virgins biz"
Her: "Hahaha interesting response. That was a joke. Still not having angry -or any type- of sex with you"
Her: "Did you actually believe that I was a virgin?"
Me: "Wtvr"
Her: "Given that I have zero recollection of our entire encounter, are you really surprised that I'm not willing?"
It's time to meet some more girls and text them. Send her pictures of some awesome shit you're doing maybe once a week and play it by ear. I would consider this one a goner.
Lol, yea.
I'm just tossing shit out there at this point. Maybe could've set up a date instead, since I had leverage before today, but I'm still bitter about the other night.
Yo man she brought up sexting and you shut her down? HORRIBLE man! You can't do that, you've got to take that energy and guide it in the right direction.. not shut it down. You sent that response and she completely had to backtrack because you made her feel like a slut. When a girl offers something like that, you ENCOURAGE it ;)Wow I just read the rest of the text convo.. you see how she backpedaled and went in completely the opposite direction? She went from seeing you as a potential fuck interest, to qualifying herself as a good girl. Serious screw-up mang
Can you give me an ex. of how to this without sounding creepy?
maybe.. "I actually use tumblr to sext" or "you should use tumblr to sext me, beb.. I have an android :b" ?
Me: Wassup?
Girl: Studying for the CPA exam :/
Me - 10 mins later: Sounds lameee. At home?
Girl - 6 mins later: It is lame. Yes.
Me - 7 mins later: Invite me over
Girl - 10 mins later: Haha I still have another 2 hours of lectures to get through, sorry
Me - 28 mins later: Stuck dt.. I'll come raid your weed stash
Girl - 4 mins later: Haha it's actually out as of Saturday night, and I'm not buying more until I pass the CPA exam
Me - 13 mins later: Fuck. You're just asking for angry sex now
Girl - 3 mins later: But I'm a virgin
Me - 11 mins later: Irrelevant. I'm out of the sacrificing virgins biz
Girl - 1 min later: Hahaha interesting response. That was a joke. Still not having angry - or any type - of sex with you
Girl - 1 min later: Did you actually believe that I was a virgin?
Me - 1 min later: Wtvr
Girl: Given that I have zero recollection of our entire encounter, are you really surprised that I'm not willing?
Me - 6 mins later: I wish I didn't either
Girl: Ouch
Me - 4 mins later: With what we were doing? Lol
Girl - 2 mins later: Idk what we were doing
Me - 11 mins later: Why did you keep talking to me if you didn't remember?
Girl - 21 mins later: Your texts make me laugh
Girl - 11 mins later: Why are you still talking to me?
Me - 13 mins later: I'm not a fucking penpal
**Stack text. Sent her pic of me with caption "Send one back!". She sent a pic of her, then I sent her a dime pic of myself with caption "Hawt! Send one back!" trying to get her to give me sum tit pics
Girl - 15 mins later: Do you just have that stored on your phone? Hahah
Me - 1 min later: Hurry beb, my bedtime is in 5
Girl: Haha I don't send pics like that
Me: ? I've already seen you naked, lovebugx
Girl: I know that's not true
Me: Its not a big deal to me
Girl: That I won't send you a naked pic?
Me - 5 mins later: Bodies lol
Girl: Well then no need to see mine :)
Me: Fine wtvr
Girl: Sorryyyy
Me - 35 mins later: What's ur schedule look like this week?
Girl - 2 mins later: CPA studying
Girl - 2 mins later: And puppy proof my apt
Me - 4 mins later: Feels like this isn't going anywhere.. cya