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Girl: Hey, hope you got home ok. Sorry I freaked and ran away - yesterday was a long day!

Okay, I know this is only one text from her but I woke up and saw this. It's the club slut from last night. The set was fucking AMAZING and we were literally GOING TO FUCK... but I did some SLIGHTLY miscalibrated shit at the end and it scared her and she ran away... (this was literally when we were RIGHT OUTSIDE her door)

Not sure how I should respond... my instinctive response was to text her back something along the lines of (becuase I already told her during our interaction, literally, 'I'll treat you like a little girl if you behave like one'")

So yeah, thinking of texting her something like, "phss, I already told you once, beb, I don't play around with little girls"

How does that sound? Too harsh? That's just like what I REALLY REALLY feel like texting her.
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Re: club slut
@buddhagames:

Convey the same attitude but accept her apology. Like say it's cool but let her know you don't approve of her behavior
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@icewahine:

Hmm... maybe... but it's almostl ike I DONT accept her apology. Like she made a decision and it was the wrong one. She has to learn her lesson. I am meeting girls every night. I don't give a fuck about this girl.

You really think I should accept her apology? hmm.. I guess there's no reason to completely reject her... it's just, instinctually, I want nothing to do with her. Like she's hot but what she did was unnaceptable... I even called her and told her to come down and talk and she wouldn't.

Honestly- she's a fucking clown. She's a little girl tryna play with her dolls, in her big boy pants with grow men.. she's way outta her league. She needs to go back to playing dressup with her daddy.
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Re: club slut
@Manwhore:

Thanks- I've cooled down. Ignoring is def. the best option... just don't care at all about her, but at the same time, she is very hot so, if she REALLLY puts in the effort, I may fuck her at some point, but if i don't I don't give a shit.

Ignoring expresses all of this. Thanks.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Re: club slut
@buddhagames:

yea she was damn fine. next time you pull just RELAX. almost like access that meditative state we talked about when we walked to my apartment..... once you leave the club together w/the girl i get the vibe that you start to panic....
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Re: club slut
@Katalyst:

Yeah man, it just shows where my sticking point//true inexperience is

like my whole life I've a "social" guy but in terms of getting laid I've always done it like super drunk//blackout... so it's almost like I just have zero experience with actually handling shit after we leave the venue

But yeah- you're dead on man, I just panic.. but I'm getting better- like instead of saying we should go directly to her place, I was like, "let's go get some food, I'm hungry" and she was down

Then when we got the food I was like, "It's crowded in here... let's go back to your place to eat" and she was like, "Well, obviously.. I'm not going to eat it HERE"

hahaha I thought this was really funny- like she was TOO GOOD to eat her drunken slice of pizza at the restaurant... wtf?

This shit gets really funny when you're completely sober cause half the shit girls say (and dudes for that matter) just makes zero sense

lmao when we were leaving she just goes, "okay, I just need to call my friend a couple times so there are missed calls on her phone and I can say I tried to call her before I left"

Girls don't give a fuck about eachother.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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@Katalyst:lmao when we were leaving she just goes, "okay, I just need to call my friend a couple times so there are missed calls on her phone and I can say I tried to call her before I left" Girls don't give a fuck about each other.


that's pretty fuckin funny. When something like that happens you should just be like "YUP SHE REALLY WANTS MY COCK".

I haven't banged that many girls but damn if some girl i knew did that shit i would really start to make her work for it because once she's invested you are gooood to go. I actually need to bring that more into my game. Getting her to really invest and more push-pull shit.
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@Katalyst:

Interesting... yeah she was super invested- Not really sure what I did to get her to that point.

But yeah- when she said that there WAS a light that went off in my head like, "Yeah... this is clearly going down"... but I didn't think of it in terms of "investment'... it was sorta more like, "okay cool... just keep being man to woman.. keep doing what you've been doing and you got this"

I was def. running a lot of push with her though- but it was just like a lot of LITTLE pushes as opposed to any one, big push..

Just random stuff- like having her pay for the cab ride to artichoke pizza, having her buy her own pizza, having her buy her own drink... First time I went in for the makeout she pulls away and is like, "You have to buy me a drink first" and I was just like, "I don't even drink. If you want to prostitute yourself out, you can go find another guy"...

But then... like after we had chilled for an hour or so... we were upstairs and I bought her a drink upstairs, without her asking me to. and she was like "ZOMG"
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."