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Uh yeah. So like the title says I met chick on saturday, had solid 30 min convo. Light kiss at the end...Situation might be kinda weird cause her boyfriend was in the bar (thot I shud add that). She was really into it, doing things for me. Following my lead without resistance.

I completely forgot to text her later, and it's been three days since Saturday so I just assumed the interaction was done with. But this morning she sends me text

11:14AM "Spike, you were by far the most interesting guy in the Marina this weekend. Hope you're having a great week! - Megan"

Of course I'm retarded and don't even look at my phone until 2PM, but I respond

2:19PM "Hah. I'm honestly not that interesting though. You were probably just making positive assumptions. But I appreciate it!"
2:28PM "How hav u been?"

It's been 2 hours and no response. Kinda weird. But I'll just bet it on that she's busy or something. For her to send such a text in the morning 3 days after we met, it probably means she's down to meet up at least.

It's not a big deal what happens either way. Would be cool to fuck this chick tho. Just want short advice on how to set up date/how to go on date/pitfalls/how to pull. Cause I KNOW i'm gonna screw something up if there is a date.
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
That was the most retarded way to respond to a compliment, EVER.

What the fuck is up with that. Do you wake up and eat a can of worms? Geezez on a donkey..

Let's see if she responds I want to see how this goes...

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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
@Manwhore:

yeah pretty terrible. Probably not terrible enuf to ruin the whole interaction but we'll see. If it's the case, lesson learned!
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
@spikespiegel:

Remember when I posted about always recognizing your own value... THIS is why.

On some level, you don't recognize how fucking awesome you are and in this text it came out.

It's okay, man- just, at the very least, keep in the back of your mind the knowlledge that you seriously are really fuckin cool. Hell, I fucking LOVE goin out with you dude. You're super fun and you work hard and you have a seriously awesome sense of humor- like wayyyy more refined than mine lmao...
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
@buddhagames:

yeah starting to notice like...these girls actually like me as much as a stripper pretends to like a client.

anyway she didn't respond. I'm kinda "what the shit, did i fuck it up that easily...weird."

Shud I send another text or just keep waiting for a response?
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
buddhagames;1054.7672;8 wrote:
@spikespiegel:

You're super fun and you work hard and you have a seriously awesome sense of humor- like wayyyy more refined than mine lmao...


Yeah thanks a lot dude. I have opened sets by pretending to start a self-help rsd video blog and introducing myself as "owen, aka tyler. From real social dynamics," so I'm aware I do some funny shit some times :).
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
Spike why do you have such low self esteem.
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
@Manwhore:
crippling shyness and strict asian upbringing.
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
@spikespiegel:

The first one is a symptom.
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It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great- Manwhore

"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
Also excommunicated from social circle first year of high school. Became depressed because of long term social isolation. Few friends in college.

Probably my only friend in college committed suicide.

TMI by now lol, but I am a pretty hard case. I don't think I'll ever fully get over Low self-esteem.
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
^that made me sad

I am also fucked in the head from childhood but I've already made MASSIVE progress from where I was. Still miles to go but a lot better than where I was
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
K anywayyy off the sob story. She responded finally lol.

her: Well, the bar was set low in the Marina that night so it wasn't that hard. Lol.
her: I've been well...Super busy bc I moved on Friday & everything is in boxes
her: and still had to make a couple of trips up north to my old place. Made my final trip today...Feels fantastic to be finished. You?

I'll prob just improvise from here or whatever. If it doesn't work out I don't really care. If you have any suggestions I'll follow it, but I'm heading out to the city now. Be back later.
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
That was a trick question. I don't care

There's no excuse for low shitty behavior. Soldier up

These are choices you make and executing the program makes you a success NOW. Doesn't matter what happened in the past.
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
Well I'm going to go rob Baskin' Robbins in a couple days you available as a getaway driver? I'll let you have a scoop
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
Didn't think I'd do it, DID YOU GUYS!!

Mixin' our two favorite things together. The child of ice cream and robbing banks. A perfect hybrid.. all of it's strengths.. none of it's weaknesses.
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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
@Manwhore:

yo man- we were on for 7, yeah?
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
Ya.. I emailed you too. Wth
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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
Manwhore;1054.7683;5 wrote:
Didn't think I'd do it, DID YOU GUYS!!

Mixin' our two favorite things together. The child of ice cream and robbing banks. A perfect hybrid.. all of it's strengths.. none of it's weaknesses.



It CANNOT NOT work. Like impossible for it to fail
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
She's being REAL slow to respond. Like once an hour. I'm sorta responding in kind but she's being way too standoffish and impersonal. Kind pissing me off cause she was massively into me when I met her.

me: Havent seen u in ur red pants in a while. So sad.
her: I can't wear them everyday, people would get sick of seeing them! Plus, they aren't the best choice for working out...
me: Well, I'm not implying that ur santa claus and shud always wear red pants. Just on special occasions.
me: For example when you meet the coolest asian guy ever.
me: Not counting jackie chan. He's too cool.
her: I already met the coolest Asian guy ever, his name is Harry & he's my Asian brother... our friend Bruce is pretty cool as well. You could be the 3rd coolest maybe

^ rolled my eyes reading this

me: Woah #3. For reals? High up on the totem pole. We might as well just have kids already.
her: Okay, #3 might be pushing it but I do know that positions 1&2 are filled. We probably shouldn't have kids. Actually, we definitely shouldn't have kids already
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Re: Chick I met in bar on Saturday.
@spikespiegel:

LOL @ "She's taking too long to respond" and having it only be "One response an hour"...

DUDE

That asian girl from matrix didn't hit me up for DAYS in between each text and then last night asked me if I wanted to get drinks... don't trip on it.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."