Chick from College
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 03:05
Hey Guys,
I'm in my second semester of cegep and I met this girl in my calculus class last semester and we didn't talk TOO much but we got on a name basis. I added her on FB, and just recently messaged her about her classes (I know that's pretty lame) this semester and said if she would like to study someday she should give me her number and we could figure something out. She gave me the number and so far I haven't texted her (it's been a few days) and I was just wondering if there's any way to turn the communication from school to more relaxed and sexual things.
I haven't seen her yet this semester and we've only spoken a bit, but she's pretty hot and thanks for the advice. I have a lot to work on, and I should be capitalizing on college bitches but so far I didn't get with any my first semester, any advice would be truely appreciated. I'll post the FB convo we had, which was pretty short and wasn't anything to be proud of but it got the job done.
Here's how I got her number:
Me: Hey you had QM right?
Her: Yes :P
Me: do you still have your book, unfortunately, I'm taking that class now :P
Her: Ohh.. poor you!! And I do still have the book but I need it this semester for my IM class :/
Me: yeah, I'm not very excited for it.. Who's your cal 2 teach btw? (I have gabriel indurskis or something, apparently he's crap)
Her: I'm not excited for IM either.. apparently it's the second part of IM.. also known for Methodology -.- I have the same cal teacher as you! I hope apparently is wrong!
Me: fair enough.. I had my first class with him, and towards the end he went in to things I didn't know about (using sin and cos with anti-derivatives) :S. whats your number, maybe we can get together sometime to study for math, or you can help me with QM :D
Her: Oh no, i am not ready for math yet, my brain is still rotten from summer.. I hope he dosnt give homework. And if you want but im not much help for math, you should know! As for QM, I simply hate it and never wanna see it again! XXX-XXX-XXX (her number)
I don't know her super well, and we've worked together when we had a class together last semester, so any help? :P
I'm in my second semester of cegep and I met this girl in my calculus class last semester and we didn't talk TOO much but we got on a name basis. I added her on FB, and just recently messaged her about her classes (I know that's pretty lame) this semester and said if she would like to study someday she should give me her number and we could figure something out. She gave me the number and so far I haven't texted her (it's been a few days) and I was just wondering if there's any way to turn the communication from school to more relaxed and sexual things.
I haven't seen her yet this semester and we've only spoken a bit, but she's pretty hot and thanks for the advice. I have a lot to work on, and I should be capitalizing on college bitches but so far I didn't get with any my first semester, any advice would be truely appreciated. I'll post the FB convo we had, which was pretty short and wasn't anything to be proud of but it got the job done.
Here's how I got her number:
Me: Hey you had QM right?
Her: Yes :P
Me: do you still have your book, unfortunately, I'm taking that class now :P
Her: Ohh.. poor you!! And I do still have the book but I need it this semester for my IM class :/
Me: yeah, I'm not very excited for it.. Who's your cal 2 teach btw? (I have gabriel indurskis or something, apparently he's crap)
Her: I'm not excited for IM either.. apparently it's the second part of IM.. also known for Methodology -.- I have the same cal teacher as you! I hope apparently is wrong!
Me: fair enough.. I had my first class with him, and towards the end he went in to things I didn't know about (using sin and cos with anti-derivatives) :S. whats your number, maybe we can get together sometime to study for math, or you can help me with QM :D
Her: Oh no, i am not ready for math yet, my brain is still rotten from summer.. I hope he dosnt give homework. And if you want but im not much help for math, you should know! As for QM, I simply hate it and never wanna see it again! XXX-XXX-XXX (her number)
I don't know her super well, and we've worked together when we had a class together last semester, so any help? :P
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 03:31
#1
Re: Chick from College
Look man don't take things sexual over text that's not the place to do it if you're this inexperienced with chicks. Just vibe with her about funny shit from school and then tell her to grab ice cream with you or something.
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Mon, 08/27/2012 - 03:48
#2
Re: Chick from College
@Manwhore:
Thanks for the reply man, Haven't been having much success with college girls and have been hoping to do better, any hints or tips haha.
Thanks for the reply man, Haven't been having much success with college girls and have been hoping to do better, any hints or tips haha.
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 03:51
#3
Re: Chick from College
@crackzaa:
It's easy as fuck to get laid mang, so if you're not there's a bigger lack of game going on. You need to raise your overall vibe to sexworthy, not just figure out the magic code over text. Make sense? Go to bars, go to college parties, flirt with bishes, kiss them grab numbers pull them into rooms.
It's easy as fuck to get laid mang, so if you're not there's a bigger lack of game going on. You need to raise your overall vibe to sexworthy, not just figure out the magic code over text. Make sense? Go to bars, go to college parties, flirt with bishes, kiss them grab numbers pull them into rooms.
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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 03:55
#4
Re: Chick from College
@Manwhore:
Thanks dude, I've generally always been more of an introverted person who just keeps to himself. Recently, I went shopping and upped the way I dressed quite a bit, and I usually take good care of myself physically (I'm an amateur boxer, but currently doing physiotherapy). Thing is, even though I'm not bad looking I've always sort of been a little shy and have had problems vibing with girls. Going to school has helped that, but I still haven't broken through that barrier yet, gonna start going out with a few friends of mine from college who go drinking every weekend and I figure that should help me a little.
My main problem is like you said, to chicks I'll be crackzaa, a dude who's a decent looking guy and is pretty funny, but besides that I have a hard time selling myself as a sexual being and often feel I need to get more of a guy-girl/man-women/boss-employee type of thing going on when speaking with chicks..
Thanks dude, I've generally always been more of an introverted person who just keeps to himself. Recently, I went shopping and upped the way I dressed quite a bit, and I usually take good care of myself physically (I'm an amateur boxer, but currently doing physiotherapy). Thing is, even though I'm not bad looking I've always sort of been a little shy and have had problems vibing with girls. Going to school has helped that, but I still haven't broken through that barrier yet, gonna start going out with a few friends of mine from college who go drinking every weekend and I figure that should help me a little.
My main problem is like you said, to chicks I'll be crackzaa, a dude who's a decent looking guy and is pretty funny, but besides that I have a hard time selling myself as a sexual being and often feel I need to get more of a guy-girl/man-women/boss-employee type of thing going on when speaking with chicks..
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 04:39
#5
Re: Chick from College
@crackzaa: this might be a stretch given how short the convo, but imma go ahead and say shes down. Put in some work durong the day like manwhore said, then figure out if she parties. If she does, invite her out to some parties and do work.
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 04:50
#6
Re: Chick from College
@Aequitas:
I've spoken to her multiple times and honestly she's pretty fucking hot. A few times I beta'd the fuck out and walked by her, and didn't say hi, or she would say hi, I would reciprocate and then do my thing. She's actually a super nice girl and I've never really gotten a negative vibe from her. She'll say hi if she passes me, and the few times I've approached her I was able to talk to her, besides the one time she was actually doing homework that needed to be done. The only thing is she hangs out with a bunch of french people at school, whom I don't really know so her whole group of friends is completely different. So I wouldn't exactly walk up to her and start chatting when she was around her friends.
I'm pretty sure she parties, pretty much all chicks in cegep do, but the social aspect of having completely different friends seems to suck. I will update this when I do speak to her and see if she's down, but is it ever okay to be direct with a girl like this? Like I understand how sometimes if you put too much pressure on the interaction or plan you guys may potentially make by showing all your cards, but would it be bad to mention in passing how I didn't really message her to study, and that it was because I find she's cute? Or is it better to beat around the bush.
As you can see I'm very analytical and overanalyze everything, hard to get out of my head sometimes.
I've spoken to her multiple times and honestly she's pretty fucking hot. A few times I beta'd the fuck out and walked by her, and didn't say hi, or she would say hi, I would reciprocate and then do my thing. She's actually a super nice girl and I've never really gotten a negative vibe from her. She'll say hi if she passes me, and the few times I've approached her I was able to talk to her, besides the one time she was actually doing homework that needed to be done. The only thing is she hangs out with a bunch of french people at school, whom I don't really know so her whole group of friends is completely different. So I wouldn't exactly walk up to her and start chatting when she was around her friends.
I'm pretty sure she parties, pretty much all chicks in cegep do, but the social aspect of having completely different friends seems to suck. I will update this when I do speak to her and see if she's down, but is it ever okay to be direct with a girl like this? Like I understand how sometimes if you put too much pressure on the interaction or plan you guys may potentially make by showing all your cards, but would it be bad to mention in passing how I didn't really message her to study, and that it was because I find she's cute? Or is it better to beat around the bush.
As you can see I'm very analytical and overanalyze everything, hard to get out of my head sometimes.
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 05:16
#7
Re: Chick from College
@crackzaa:
You've got confidence issues mang. You need to restructure in your brain how you process women and how you see yourself in interactions with them. Everything in this post is screaming "I'm scared of women and have no natural rapport or place with them". Your desire to go direct is just so you can be like "Hi I fucking suck and am putting myself at your mercy. Please don't embarrass me or cause me pain." That's not inspirational to women, pal. That's not going to make them want to be like.. hot damn I want to snail trail on this guy's face
You've got confidence issues mang. You need to restructure in your brain how you process women and how you see yourself in interactions with them. Everything in this post is screaming "I'm scared of women and have no natural rapport or place with them". Your desire to go direct is just so you can be like "Hi I fucking suck and am putting myself at your mercy. Please don't embarrass me or cause me pain." That's not inspirational to women, pal. That's not going to make them want to be like.. hot damn I want to snail trail on this guy's face
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 05:33
#8
Re: Chick from College
@Manwhore:
That is suprisingly accurate, I haven't been good with them, and whilst I feel I am getting more comfortable I seem to make that my excuse to not out myself and put things on the line. It's funny but whenever I fuck up, I try to rationalize that it wasn't my issue, it was hers and I did such and such right as opposed to fixing it. Whenever things with a chick doesn't go well or takes too long (usually) I'll be super direct and then when it doesn't work out (which it never does) I'll chalk it up to her stupidity and how I was the one who put the effort in. I mentioned in the other thread, but how much is your skype coaching?
I feel I need to become more balanced in other areas of my life besides my training (which has been sidetracked) and I haven't had much of a social life.
Edit: is there any way you feel I can work on rewiring myself or realizing that I have something to offer and not taking the easy way out by going about speaking to them in a wrong manner and then blaming other factors?
That is suprisingly accurate, I haven't been good with them, and whilst I feel I am getting more comfortable I seem to make that my excuse to not out myself and put things on the line. It's funny but whenever I fuck up, I try to rationalize that it wasn't my issue, it was hers and I did such and such right as opposed to fixing it. Whenever things with a chick doesn't go well or takes too long (usually) I'll be super direct and then when it doesn't work out (which it never does) I'll chalk it up to her stupidity and how I was the one who put the effort in. I mentioned in the other thread, but how much is your skype coaching?
I feel I need to become more balanced in other areas of my life besides my training (which has been sidetracked) and I haven't had much of a social life.
Edit: is there any way you feel I can work on rewiring myself or realizing that I have something to offer and not taking the easy way out by going about speaking to them in a wrong manner and then blaming other factors?