Being a guardian

Since its anti bullying day, I thought I'd share some thoughts. A very important lesson that has been central to my self development, especially my work with MH, is that the true alpha lion doesn't need to roar. He knows his own strength, he's calm, he doesn't throw his weight around or need to prove anything. His strength is assumed, its a fact. It's always the beta lions that try to prove something, the alpha lies back and lets them put on their show. I've worked to ground myself in that type of strength, with strength comes power and responsibility. It influences others strongly. I don't mind putting people in their place when the situation warrants it but I don't use it to assert dominance over those that are weaker than me for any type of petty gain. I try to watch out for people like that, to set a good example. I know what it's like to have lower self esteem, to feel powerless. I know that there are people who prey on the weak, I think its the ultimate in cowardice. Violence is almost never required to stop a bully in their tracks, there are many ways to do that. A nod, a look, a calculated diversion, a joke, the right words, as long as it is your own design coming from a place of strength and power is usually enough to energetically disrupt whatever darkness is manifesting itself. I like to consider myself a guardian who ultimately wants the best for people, to see the best in people. This mindset has led me to a pretty awesome life of abundance, I wish that for everyone too.